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When you have an invisible disability, people are often surprised what you CAN’T do.
When you have a visible disability, people are often surprised what you CAN do.
Having a positive attitude does not make a disabled person less disabled.
Regular exercise and a healthy diet does not make a disabled person less disabled.
Succeeding in life does not make a disabled person less disabled.
12% of people in the US have a mobility-related disability.
Not “less than 1%.”
12%. Literally millions of people.
That is more than 1 in 10 people that need mobility-related accessibility, such as ramps and zero-entry design, and countless others that would benefit from it.
“Feel-good” stories disabled people are tired of seeing:
The business that pats themselves on the back for hiring disabled employees.
Non-disabled people excited about a wheelchair user forcing themselves to uncomfortably stand or walk at a wedding.
Pity proposals to prom.
“It’s accessible once you get up the stairs” is not accessible.
“It’s accessible if you have someone to help you” is not accessible.
“It’s accessible if you can leave behind your mobility aid” is not accessible.
Gus or his dad probably won’t see the ableist comments circling the internet. But you know who will?
Fellow disabled people.
Parents of kids with disabilities.
Decent human beings.
They call our needs “special” to make them sound unreasonable and extravagant.
They call our needs “special” so they can find an excuse not to accommodate for them.
Things you should never be ashamed of: your cosplay, your body, your fandoms.
Thing you should absolutely be ashamed of: attending a convention during a pandemic.
Outdated disability tropes:
A disabled character only concerned with a cure.
A disabled character whose only defining quality is their disability.
A disabled character constantly unhappy due to their disability.
A disabled character being played by an able-bodied actor.
Opposers to wheelchair-accessible dungeons in D&D: “Dungeons aren’t supposed to have ramps! This isn’t realistic at all!”
Also opposers to wheelchair-accessible dungeons in D&D: “My character is an undead wizard warlord who can literally cast magic and FLY.”
Do not use the holiday season as an excuse to get sloppy about pandemic safety.
I don’t know about you, but I would rather lay low for one year than have my poor decisions be the reason that it is someone else’s final holiday.
Non-disabled person: “The world does not need to adapt to “cater” to disabled people.”
Translation: “The world currently “caters” to ME, and I don’t care if anyone else has their needs met.”
Disabled people belong at the beach.
Disabled people belong at the gym.
Disabled people belong at the concert.
Disabled people belong in historical places.
In ALL the places. Disabled people belong. 🩷
Using a mobility aid is not giving up.
Requesting an accommodation is not giving up.
Asking for help is not giving up.
Accepting your disability is not giving up.
Doing anything that helps make life easier and better is not giving up.
When discussing the impact of an epidemic, a message of, “Take extra precaution around those more susceptible to illness, as this may be very dangerous for them,” is a whole lot better than, “Don’t worry! It’s ONLY the elderly and those with other illnesses who may die!”
Wearing a mask is not a “loss of freedom.”
However, being forced to stay inside for over 8 months straight because some people refuse to care about others certainly is.
All homeless shelters should be accessible.
All women’s shelters should be accessible.
All storm shelters should be accessible.
Safety should always be accessible to everyone.
Offering remote work is accessibility.
Having the ability to complete a degree online is accessibility.
Having ways for disabled people to achieve their goals, as opposed to being held back by arbitrary requirements, is accessibility.
Please stop calling us “brave” for simply existing in public spaces.
It implies we don’t belong there in the first place.
Signed,
Disabled people everywhere
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Things disabled people shouldn’t have to feel grateful for:
-being able to use the bathroom in public
-being treated with dignity and respect
-having equal access and rights
-their mobility equipment
-an outing without an awkward encounter
The truth is that anyone can become disabled at ANY time.
Please consider this when you’re shoving us into corners, denying us the same access, talking down to us, & not bothering to provide accommodations.
Because, in the blink of an eye, this could become YOUR reality too.
Disabled people are business owners.
Disabled people are spouses.
Disabled people are teachers.
Disabled people are parents.
Disabled people are people.
A video of a disabled person forcing themselves to walk across a stage at graduation or uncomfortably stand out of their wheelchair for a few seconds to dance at a wedding is not inspirational.
It tells disabled people that we are only worthy if we can accomplish such “feats.”
I often think about how able-bodied individuals think we are putting ourselves down when we refer to ourselves as “disabled.”
And I think that alone says quite enough about how society views those with disabilities.
There should be more than one accessible room in an entire hotel.
There should be photos of accessible rooms and bathrooms on the hotel website.
There should be actual disabled people consulted when designing accessible hotel rooms.
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Feel-good stories about people with disabilities get shared significantly more than stories about their real life struggles.
It’s more comfortable for non-disabled people to tell themselves we’re doing just fine, instead of acknowledging how badly the system is failing us.
If a child asks for the wheelchair-user Barbie, and you’re on the fence about getting it…get them the wheelchair-user Barbie! 🩷👩🦽🩷
You’re not taking it away from a child with a disability. You’re creating demand for such representation so that companies continue making them.
Choosing to use a mobility aid or assistive device is not “giving up.”
Making such a choice is saying, “This device will help make things easier, make moving less painful or tiring, and allow me to live my life to the fullest.“
To me, that sounds like pushing forward. 💚
The pandemic showed us just how many jobs could have been made easily accessible/work-from-home at any time.
The fact that accommodations disabled people had been requesting for years became immediately available as soon as able-bodied people needed them will always amaze me.
Disabled people speaking up or requesting access are often referred to as angry or bitter by able-bodied individuals, when no such negative emotions are conveyed.
It’s almost like these non-disabled people are projecting how THEY would feel when faced with the same issues…
The “accessible entrance” of a public place should be the MAIN entrance.
Not the sketchy side door.
Not the back of the building behind the stinky dumpsters.
Disabled people are human beings, not inconvenient pieces of furniture.
Please stop trying to hide us.
Visible disabilities: “Don’t assume I CAN’T do it based on what you see on the outside.”
Invisible disabilities: “Don’t assume I CAN do it based on what you see on the outside.”
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