If you're planning to have kids, read this 👇
1. Kids will overwhelm your wife
No mom is ready for the workload of kids. Whether she’s a feminist or not she’ll start acting like one. The kids will be used against you as leverage.
This will be your first test.
2. Sleep
Men are lacking a “3rd place”:
1. Home
2. Work
3. ???
Historically, 3rd places are:
- Guilds
- Fraternities
- Pubs
- Social clubs
- Church
Without a 3rd place, men can’t dialogue with aligned peers
No 3rd place + no dialogue = men moving slowly & not solving their problems
You job as a father when raising sons is to give them FRAME.
Stop needlessly disciplining them, needlessly punishing them. Stop being overtly worried about their mOrALiTy. Stop trying to make them a compliant citizen and slave.
Start listening to them about the games they are
@meghaverma_art
I’m getting married next week
We’ve been together 10 years have 3 kids together
Kids all walk out first then her
Might actually cry ngl
A good use of
#bitcoin
donations would be to pay 2 years salary for any police offer who sticks their neck out and gets fired.
That would be a hell of an incentive to compel righteous action.
We are proud of yet another Officer bravely standing for his Oath to uphold the Charter of Rights and Freedoms. Canada is a better place with officers like this on the streets. Thank you!
#charterofrightsandfreedoms
The highest tier of women are powerhouse housewives who are the facilitators of social culture between family and community.
Unfortunately, women think it’s some lonely female CEO who drinks too much wine.
Competitive anxiety is a great liar.
Men are lacking a “3rd place”:
1. Home
2. Work
3. ???
Historically, 3rd places are:
- Guilds
- Fraternities
- Pubs
- Social clubs
- Church
Without a 3rd place, men can’t dialogue with aligned peers
No 3rd place + no dialogue = men moving slowly and not solving their problems
You need to teach your sons FRAME
Training obedience over confidence is a bad idea when a father. Morality is genetic: your kid either has it or they don't.
But if you don't want a complete loser or not, you need to teach him to be territorial: to defend what's his.
With the
Second home birth down.
2 hour labour. Midwives were incredible as usual. Back to our normal routine by the afternoon.
Couldn't pay me to have children at a hospital.
@Cernovich
Means you have a digestion/putrefaction problem in your gut excessively drawing on immune capacity, so there is not free capacity to deal with bacteria in the epidermis
Extremely low quality food, seed oils etc
@uberboyo
Hahaha
Best video I've seen in a long time, enjoyed the shit out of that
Flashbacks to the internet of the beforetimes, deep rabbit holes, 3am
"No, this isn't right."
Most modern kids acting out is actually dopamine depletion, and punishing/modifying this behaviour is functionally wrong.
Low dopamine is a state of distress: high irritability, aggressiveness, and inability to get enjoyment from normal activities.
This is the PARENTS fault for
I’ve seen too many Christian fathers lose their children to the woke mind virus. Even Elon lost a child.
Isn't servant leadership all that's needed for good parenting?
NO.
As a father you must recognize that children adopt the value system of the TERRITORY they are a part of
Meta Thread: Alcohol and Addiction
I despise drinking. I think less of anyone who drinks.
Pathetic behaviour. Literally intentionally acting to lose.
Here's how you beat it (like I did):
The Female Frame
To understand why relationships can become high friction, why society is becoming a police state, and why women can betray you like no other, you need to learn the female frame.
I lost my naivete around property rights when my business was shut down during the lockdowns. I thought some things were sacred in the West.
Now as they unleash the power of individual financial sanctions, we will see the full power of cancel culture.
Paper laws mean nothing.
12. Buy everything that makes mom's life easier
Hire housecleaners, get air fryers, laundry folder, etc. Mom is overburdened because there's no village. Use earning to afford every luxury to make her life easier. It's unnatural how much falls on the modern mom with no help.
@aCarnivoreDiet
We are so adapted for fructose it is dealt exclusively by the portal vein and feeds directly into the liver so it doesn’t have to touch the blood stream. It’s then hyper converted to glycogen for massive energy.
Truly a nutritional marvel!
I can’t stand modern “drop your ego” advice
Guys used to have massive painted portraits of themselves above the fireplace
But you need to “drop your ego” to haves a good life
It’s just feminine frame programming to keep men from their masculine instincts
How to make your kids taller and stronger than other kids:
At 10 months with our first kid, my wife and I got violently ill. We couldn’t get off the toilet or leave our bedroom without puking for a week. It was something going around at the time. After it passed, my wife’s milk
7. Don't bother feeding kids until they are hungry
Want an overweight kid? Force feed them when they aren't hungry. You'll end up resorting to hyperpalatable foods.
Instead, just let them tell you when they are hungry and feed them.
"Sit at the table until done!" is stupid.
Meta Thread: Fixed Action Patterns and Free Will
Think you're in control?
What if you're not?
What if you're just a messy ball of Fixed Action Patterns you delude into think are "you"?
Meta Thread: The Female Frame
To understand why relationships can become high friction, why society is becoming a police state, and why women can betray you like no other, you need to learn the female frame.
Female attraction is strongest for men who exhibit PROTECTION characteristics.
This results in actual obsessive desire.
Put simply: women are most attracted to men who are THREATENING to other men.
Men like this can instigate or deter. This makes women feel safe. This is deep
@jordanbpeterson
@theJagmeetSingh
This makes perfect sense if you understand he’s about to lift restrictions but needed to do it under the guise it had nothing to do with the truckers, so as to discourage such form of compelling policy in the future.
3. Every cry is solvable
I eventually realized crying was an evolved signal for help.
Often I had to dig for the cause. Some causes:
- Temp of the room
- Itchy polyester clothing and sheets
- Mom making milk with intolerances from diet
Cries were 100% valid in hindsight.
13. Let your kids climb on shit
Seriously, kids are designed to CLIMB. If you want dainty kids with no physicality, make your house a place where they can't do anything. If you feed them lots of meat and let them climb, they'll be lean and strong.
4. Moms milk carries any intolerances from diet
Excessive burping and gas are signs mom is eating something that baby doesn't tolerate. Could be nefarious things like soymeal fed eggs, quinoa, various plants. Only with my heavy nutrition knowledge was I able to figure it out.
8. Don't mash up plants and bullshit
Vegetables are garbage nutrition. There's a reason kids hate broccoli. If you aren't feeding them junk, they'll crave meats, bread, honey, dairy, fruit. Pastured bacon is superior to green mush.
Just figure out what they like. Easy.
The modern Tournament Male:
- builds an internet business
- doesn't pedestalize women
- is building a family culture free from fiat
- can see everything is propaganda
- won't sacrifice his children to corporations
- is training to become physically dangerous
Are you?
You have a moral obligation as a man to source quality food for your family. This is the new "hunting." You don't physically kill the animal anymore, but it should be a major priority to ensure what you're bringing home is high quality.
Becoming Peat-Pilled
Ray Peat is the greatest nutritionist in my opinion, understanding the evil of modern poison food the best, while still able to enjoy modern foods without needless restriction
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1. The burden of kids will bring out cultural feminist conditioning in your partner
Kids alter the reality of a woman dramatically, with no cultural support for them to do it properly. They quickly get overwhelmed and use the burden as leverage.
This will be your first test.
You can save the "this is bullshit" replies. You have no idea how affected you are by experimental modern theories. Show me a single ancestral tribe who follows this conventional bullshit.
There are none.
Follow the evolutionary design and it's easy.
10. Boomer grandparents are pretty useless
You may be luckier than me, but for the most part boomergparents aren't around. The burden falls squarely on mom. The "it takes a village" sisterhood is largely a joke.
Make sure to guilt grandparents quickly for being selfish boomers.
Let me tell you about the unnatural "Pair Territory" in the West.
In nature, when observing Robin species, you will see what's known as the Pair Territory: one male and one female living in a geographic territory, all alone. This ensures that they have a long pair-bond.
The
6. Modern child rearing strategies come from 60s behaviouralists
Crying it out, scheduled meals and bed-times, etc are all engineering strategies from behaviouralists like BF Skinner. Children are evolved to fall asleep by circadian rhythm and to eat when they're hungry. Simple.
@ItIsHoeMath
Their attraction to violence is because this is how you protect territory, which is the most important drive even before provisioning food and resources
Meta Thread: Tournament Male Characteristics
Tournament males are the best at surviving and thriving in history. They are the reason female hypergamy exists in the first place.
Here's
#12
key characteristics they have vs other men 👇
**Today was the worst day ever**
Everyone in my house was sick. Except me.
And my eldest kid injured her foot and can't walk.
These days reveal the flaws of the broken "pair territory."
...The biggest cause of STRESS for modern parents.
And NO ONE is aware of it.
🧵
You are the culmination of your surviving ancestors. The features of the face you see in the mirror were shared by those who came before you.
Your duty is to carry these genetics forward in time, protecting and increasing your genetic privilege as much as possible.
5. Sleep deprivation will cause delirious fighting
Unless you have a clear framework to approach interactions/arguments with, fights spiral out of control due to sleep deprivation. Reason is barely working, just two very frayed people pouring out emotion.
Sleep is priority.
@tishray
Modern culture is really just the absence of culture.
Culture historically raises our children. Without culture our kids are just steeped in chaos; their outcomes random.
Big mistake I made when first raising kids was not understanding the danger of my wife performatively attacking my authority in front of the kids and showing that no hierarchical structure rules the house.
"If mom can undermine his authority... then so can we."
The territorial male vs the female pedestalizer
There are biologically 2 mating strategies for males in the animal kingdom:
1. Prioritize the territory
2. Prioritize the female
The prioritization of the territory usually involves male vs male tournaments to prove dominance and
11. Your work will suffer if you don't get control
It takes a strong male frame to navigate the mess of the modern parenting environment. Feminist mothers, absentee grandparents, silly child rearing ideas will all overburden you away from your mission of making money.
9. Kids will be used as leverage
You need to wise up to the female frame quickly. You need to understand how female instincts rule their behaviour under stress. If you don't, you'll become overburdened with taking care of the children.
You must handle guilting with authority.
2. Sleep deprivation is devastating
If you haven't mastered your sleep routine prior to kids, prepare for it to get a whole lot worse. I was a light sleeper, and I was destroyed from being woken up numerous times throughout the night by a needy baby.
Sleep environment is key.
Wives submit to the territorial council, not the husband
There is this idea that “husbands should lead wives.” I don’t believe that's possible, nor what we ever observe -- at least in a practical sense.
I have seen endless attempts by men to lead their wives. Thoughtfully,
The story of MetaTrav 👇
I've been incensed with ancestral living since Mark Sisson's "Primal Blueprint."
That book caused me to quit my job as a stock broker and start a niche fitness studio.
When he brought out his later book, "The Primal Connection" exploring the extended
Everything that is wrong with your family is YOUR fault
The focus on punishment, discipline and mOrAliTy misses the mark if you’re not actively improving your own Theory of Mind.
What is Theory of Mind?
Children go through a developmental process where they gain the mental
Women don’t change by explaining things to them
Men make this error of trying to explain things to their partner to get them to change.
Did doctors explain the intricacies of covid v4ccines to get them to decide to take it? No? How did they convince them then? If explanation
@DejaRu22
I wrote a thread on how this process works, you might find it interesting.
This science is called "Human Ethology", and it's the coolest shit I've ever learned:
Meta Thread: Fixed Action Patterns and Free Will
Think you're in control?
What if you're not?
What if you're just a messy ball of Fixed Action Patterns you delude into think are "you"?
@cwt_news
I believe the whole pandemic was escalated to unlock this power by one nation. Will be followed now by other nations as the precedent is set.
If you do all these things properly, having kids is a breeze.
Get this wrong, kids will destroy your momentum, destabilize your relationship, reduce your earning potential, and make you put on a ton of weight.
14. Potty training can be easy
If you wait about 3-6 months after you *think* you need to potty train, they have the competence to do it naturally. We just waited until it became easy.
Everyone's in such a panic about this shit. It's so much easier if you remove deadlines.
Being vulnerable with your wife is opening her up to the stresses you're experiencing in the territory.
Doing so will make her neurotic.
Keeping things to yourself is how you protect her.
Being vulnerable is a psyop and leads to future conflict.
META THREAD: Copycat Game Theory
The state of male dignity is embarrassing. Men take psychological beatings without any redress.
Becoming a copycat is a way of enforcing your frame to ensure no one ever takes your dignity.
Disregard this concept at your own peril.
Defeating alcohol for good
Alcohol is a demon I slayed 4 years ago after heavy abuse since I was a bartender at 19. The battle to defeat the beast forced me to learn in the deepest way why I behaved in the way I did.
There's lots of accounts that glorify boozing on here. I
I’ve never seen a happy relationship except when the woman respects and desires her man.
Without desire she will try to dominate and lead the family. Her chosen method will be verbal shit-tests.
This will make your life miserable.
You won't be able to overcome this because
The early sexualization of children is dangerous because of dopamine 👇
One of the key functions of the dopamine system is to be on the look out for unexpected “surprise.”
Experiencing a “surprise” like finding a fruit tree in the wild if you were an ancestral tribesman, is
The primary method of controlling men is through guilt.
Most men are governed by honor and are deeply apologetic when told they've harmed others.
Manipulating guilt is the primary way women and culture control the modern man.
Stop feeling guilty.
You've done nothing wrong.
People think doing hard things means getting in an ice bath
What it means to me is bearing the consequences of your frame:
- Let a girl go because she doesn't meet your standards
- Quit a job because you think you're worth more
- Defiance when shamed
This stuff is hard