@Bilalelmasrii
@Macbluff100s
@FightHaven
Does having a black name make you black?🫣I was using your first name because it was right there but I was more so talking about your appearance. I don’t see why anyone would call you the n word as an insult.
@Son_ImSleep
definitely wouldn’t want my son to intervene, in the same breath it would be disheartening to hear there were people physically able to help my daughter but instead watched her get assaulted. The scenario sucks on both ends.
@RealFamilyCrete
When I was 16 a guy bumrushed into an apartment building and chased me up several flights of stairs because I didn’t give him my number-NYC
@mmckoyis
@nolimitkha
while i’m not here to discredit anyone’s experience, I can vouch that there are tons of black men who love *short* black hair that are loud about it. For instance:
@mytweetsarepri1
@abike1999
there’s a lot of things in life that are easy but don’t pay off in the long run. Taking some time to learn your natural hair pays off plentiful. Braids and wigs are fine. It’s just that it seems that wigs are the only thing people wear now. Eventually it becomes neglect.
My dad is literally my best friend. Always there for me and supportive in every endeavor I explore. I can’t even casually mention that I want or need something without him surprising me with it in the mail within a day or two!
@_Dannii___
@theStoicBaddie
two different climates, two different cultures, different music x dance styles.
Like i’m not getting the need for a comparison.
This sounds like an issue on the school’s account because if the kid is clearly making an effort to show up as soon as he can and y’all KNOW the arrangement is out of his control why is the school not accommodating him for what he’s missing in those first couple hours?
@humble_kiki
I agree with you sis. I think it takes work on both sides though. Most of us have to have confidence to wear our hair like this and then everything else will follow suit. You don’t wait for acceptance you pave the way for it.
@Bilalelmasrii
@Macbluff100s
@FightHaven
i’m not here to dispute that but I will say they’re creative asl cause I’ve never in my life heard anything like that before 😂. Be well Bilal!
@asiangalore1
@smoke_nd_pearlz
literally, your best bet is being with a man with strict self control, discipline, respect and morals.
And even this man is likely to cheat 😂
@BurgundyCarpet
@abike1999
while i agree, this is the exception to the rule. I just wish more girls would proudly wear out their hair. That way acceptance overall (amongst ourselves) would sky rocket.
@XxxxVon
@TheShinydwarf
literally. Plus we choose who we have sex with, if this were true there’d be tons more bw who have sex with wm. You actually see the inverse dynamic a lot without even looking for it. I hope they know it’s okay to like white women, but to just leave us out of it🙂
what do you losers get out acting like this? Black men and black women who post stuff like this need saving imo. No normal person talks down on their race for likes
high body counts (imo) indicate a lot about a person regardless of the gender. can’t be with a promiscuous man because the qualities I value don’t overlap. so yes they matter (to me).
@bubblegumgut
@MyHandsRatedE
likeeeee, I thought I was bugging. I had a man attack me and I constantly stressed how big he was so people could understand how scary it was 😂like what
@kenai8koda
@_WhatsGoodG
exactly, there’s no offense in finding someone attractive. Any actions taken as a result of finding that person attractive is disrespectful though!
@humble_kiki
Ok so what does point one mean? Should we sit around and wait for 100% of black men to sit there and say we love your hair to finally wear it out? There will never be acceptance all around no matter what the discussion is. All you can do is be yourself so it eventually becomes-
@48234Mook
@itsajgates
this doesn’t prove your point tho my love. You just showed who files most. Your argument was also about causation. We can conclude with all the statistics we both posted that men cheat more in marriages which leads to women filing for divorce and being the -
My dad is the sweetest. I have the worst menstrual cramps/ symptoms ever so, last night he warmed up a blanket and socks for me in the middle of the night 🥹. The blanket and socks came with kisses too. I have the best dad ever!
southern men love to be men.. like absolutely lead and be the head of things. I realized that’s a very antiquated way of thinking but I am quite fine with it.
@NaturalBadAssss
she is on her knees so bad, like you just got disrespected. STAND UP. Like you’re gonna let someone talk to you like that because they can rap!??
@humble_kiki
It does matter but it’s not the only thing that matters. Ultimately if our end goal is self acceptance of our natural hair and wearing it out then we just have to wear it out. It’s not going to be easy, never said that. but like I said it’s to pave the way.
@mmckoyis
@nolimitkha
I can find plenty more examples in my dms and messages but the point i’m trying to make is that the men who hate on it shouldn’t matter. Black men are telling you it’s not all black men. And for the bm that hate it, they weren’t for us anyways. Let’s love ourselves loudly. 🥰
@doublev4nus
@Proseccoriqo
it definitely is both sides. Nobody is innocent in this fight. If the goal is respect and unity then all parties will have to acknowledge their wrong doings.
@48234Mook
@itsajgates
we can assume the lack of commitment to be infidelity and use the other statistic to support that men cheat which leads to number one cause of divorce.
@_50kgold
It’s a light in a woman’s eyes when she knows she has the right man/husband. That makes her feel safe, vulnerable, and comfortable. That light allows her to create my peace at home, give him the he needs to be productive as well. Losing that light would kill me.
I can’t express how dirty, predatory, and low down that sh*t going twitch down is. Any woman that partakes in that sh*t needs to be castrated. Money is never that serious, I hate you whores!
I hate this caliber of men on here😂
the same way that woman doesn’t represent me is the same way I’d assume people like Kay Flock doesn’t represent him. Like they need to catch a grip and just admit they have a disdain for bw and keep it pushing.
@DickinBaus212
@BLC_USF
@Son_ImSleep
See, you thought you had me there. Lusting other women is purely physical and sexual. Admiring someone’s character qualities is another discussion. I’d rather you just say *that’s just how it is* than to try to equate lusting in a relationship to other normal things.