King of pre-Roman Britain (~9-40 AD). AKA Cynfelyn (Welsh), Kymbelinus (Latin), or Cymbeline (English). 🍂 Heartstopper Fan & Gay Academic 🍂 18+ Only 🏳️🌈
A bit more about me {for the few following}:
1. Early-40s, non-white, gay, cis-gender male academic who lives in the US South with his husband & 2 dogs & works at a predominantly white research university 👨🔬
2. Born & raised in the South & went to Catholic schools K-12th grade 😇
@natsinctrl
Totally legitimate POV. I assume some guys genuinely enjoy it, but I also think *lots* don’t (but do it to please their partner or b/c they think they’re *supposed* to enjoy it). 🤷🏾♂️
@AshaRangappa_
And, it’s contrary to available evidence- Indians & Filipinos are the second most reliably Democratic racial/ethnic voting block, right after African Americans. My father, a S Asian surgeon, who used to vote R for tax breaks stopped in 2016, too!
@steves_beebs
…I’m queer…& non-white…& live in the South…& this makes less sense to me than before. E.g., take a look at what’s happened under a Dem. governor in KY vs. under a GOP gov. in TN…maaaaany more examples like this. This isn’t some sort of exculpatory evidence.
Even if it *weren't* the case that his casting was authentic to the comics, I'd still support him (this is *art* and artistic re-interpretation/re-invention happens!). But *especially* given canon Wiccan, MCU "fans" who have a problem with Joe Locke being "too queer" can STFU.
@gabheartstopper
Actually, this is likely the S3 episode that I will rewatch most frequently. I’ll soon write more, but I’ve never seen my own experience in a psych hospital as a gay teen portrayed so carefully/authentically on screen. Consequently, that episode both shatters & heals me. 💔❤️🩹
@billyscoven
This is the best of what comics can be- a refuge for the vulnerable, empowering young people who are oppressed & often invisible. These stories & characters are so important- they are a lifeline for queer youth & we ought to be so grateful for that!
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
To see some portion of my teenage mental health (MH) struggles as a nerdy closeted gay boy reflected on screen, & portrayed with such care & talent by Joe Locke, is truly a gift. 🩷 I so hope it will help today’s queer youth address their own internalized stigma & MH issues! 🏳️🌈
joe locke as charlie spring: heartstopper s3 initial review round-up 🍂
"locke is expertly understated and nuanced in his portrayal of charlie's concealed pain, with oseman's animated illustrations helping to convey his inner tension. [...] thankfully, the series also gives us
@Ioverspring
1. I think some people, esp. when they’re adolescents, have a tough time knowing how to deal with friends who have mental health issues- depression, anxiety, EDs, etc. They think that being happy is a choice & can’t understand why anyone wouldn’t choose that for themselves…
@Blitheringmikey
Honey, I’m gonna need a Hermite polynomial before I extend these boys any STEM credits…the quadratic formula? After 7th grade? I am *unimpressed* 😒😂
@jersey__bounce
Not all Ivy-educated, either; tech/finance-bros can make a ton of disposable income whether gay or not. Some of this is personal priorities, too. I’m a tenured prof. in STEM; I make a comfortable lower-mid-6-figure income but don’t do the club scene 🤷🏾♂️
Some ppl have claimed Charlie “weighs down” Nick in
#Heartstopper
& it reminded me of some of my friends when I was a suicidal teen. It’s hard seeing value in someone beyond their ability to be happy in the moment when you’re 16, I suppose. More detailed thoughts below 👇🏾
@Ioverspring
1. I think some people, esp. when they’re adolescents, have a tough time knowing how to deal with friends who have mental health issues- depression, anxiety, EDs, etc. They think that being happy is a choice & can’t understand why anyone wouldn’t choose that for themselves…
@ethicalbiracial
Theater should be engaged with and enjoyed! As long as the players/production aren’t disrupted from their act, authentic Shakespeare is raucous, gut-wrenching, & deeply human. It isn’t *meant* to be silently observed!
@charlestonsprng
I don’t understand what these people want- there are other “gritty” shows if that’s what they prefer- but this story/book/show tries to give young queer people a vision of hope & happiness, even when circumstances are difficult- why isn’t that just a genuinely *good* thing? 🙄
@NetflixUK
Very cute, but as far as color & composition go, Joe’s was actually the best; second place belonged to Corinna for sheer beauty (great color/texture combinations). 😌
@steves_beebs
…I’m queer…& non-white…& live in the South…& this makes less sense to me than before. E.g., take a look at what’s happened under a Dem. governor in KY vs. under a GOP gov. in TN…maaaaany more examples like this. This isn’t some sort of exculpatory evidence.
@KaiaHeartstopp
But this is how we hold ourselves together sometimes, staying strong for the people we love, even if it’s unhealthy & soul-crushing 💔 Charlie, my boy, you are so much a reflection of my 16-year-old self that it physically hurts to watch. 🍂😔
@zegsconnor
Seriously- do they think it's a *documentary*?! It's *fiction*, & it's *comforting* to my inner nerdy, depressed gay boy, and that's worth *celebrating*!! Yeesh.
@Ioverspring
2. And what ends up happening is that they actually *resent* the depressed/anxious/ill individual for not relieving themselves of that burden. This happened with several of my close friends when I was 16 & suicidal…
@TheLifeOfRayge
More than that, if they vote that way, they’re actively *malignant* (i.e., destructive/toxic to their own community). I don’t have time for self-loathing people who reflect their hatred outward & inflict their internal suffering on others 😒
@flyin_private
Sexual gratification isn't *all* about the orgasm (and *other* types of gratification may not be about the orgasm *at all*). You have no idea the pleasure I might derive, as a bottom, just from satisfying my top...that may have little/nothing to do with whether I climax.🤷♂️
@Ioverspring
3. But what they miss is that, if we’re offered support & a way out, those very same despairing individuals can end up thriving & giving so much more than many others back to the people around them…
@flyin_casual
Oh, you are *unbearably* cute. Not only will I ask you again slowly, but I’ll set up private office hours *just for you*, so I can ask you in three different languages, too 😉❤️
@AlastairMcA30
A true *triumph* of epidemiology (zur Hausen establishing HPV as the causal agent), vaccinology (rapid development of a multivalent vaccine), & public health (education of & distribution to the highest risk target populations)- a clear example of science at its best! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@babeychicago
@Jmcoly69
Agree- you can ruin a young guy’s career like this- images are one thing, but if schools/employers can find the pics linked to his info, it could be devastating. Can you redact that stuff?
@thomasduke98
Definitely a love letter to my suicidal teenage self, when I felt alone & hopeless because I was a nerdy gay boy in a Catholic high school (& ended up in a psych hospital for 3 weeks after an attempt)- watching Charlie’s struggles will be both unsettling & uplifting ❤️🩹
@dailyjlocke
I’m both thrilled & scared to see Joe’s performance; I know he’ll be phenomenally good but also that Charlie’s arc will dredge up painful memories (my suicide attempt & psych hospitalization as a teenager)💔. I’m glad Joe &
#Heartstopper
tackle MH struggles head on, though! 🩷
@MikeDelMoro
Calm down, hottie- fashion norms can’t dictate the science (the autumnal equinox isn’t for a few more weeks yet) or your recreational activities- enjoy the beach *all you want*! 😘
@robonline11
If *you* represent the measure of central tendency for the attractiveness distribution among Geordie lads, maybe I need to move to your neck of the woods! 😉 I.e., you’re super cute (& yes, I’m a stats nerd 🤓).
@Ioverspring
Did we not know this? Joe is the responsible, mature older brother (the dependable one who’s been an old soul since forever), & Kit is the carefree, creative & popular younger brother. In my family, I was more like Joe & my *older* brother was like Kit, but that’s atypical! 😉
@sleepyspr1ng
THIS. 👏🏾 As a middle-aged gay man, I sooooo wish I had had this graphic novel/show when I was younger, but I’ve been regularly *stunned* by the thin skin and harsh/vitriolic policing of opinions in this fandom. It’s made me feel really excluded.
@JDabknee
I mean, I do, of course...but how would you determine that? Certainly you can determine that I *do* give you attention...but not sure how you'd ascertain my motive. Perhaps I'm *compelled* to give you attention (against my better judgment)?
@theotricality
People need to be careful about their feeling of *ownership* over actors because they feel affinity for a *role*- celebrate their work & what they accomplish, but realize they’re only *human*! Whether they wish to wear the mantle of role model is a *choice*, not an obligation.
@royalnarlie
Once I finish watching S3 this weekend, I’ll write my thoughts about each episode & how they intersect with my own experiences (or not). Susan will have pride of place for Ep. 4. She so reminds me of Jane- a psych nurse I came to know well when I was 16 (stay tuned for more!).
@PatMannUSA
I initially read his tweet as saying you were *already in* an “alpha male only” gym…because you were clearly the alpha. 🤷🏾♂️ Looking fit, stud 👍🏾😉
@mattxiv
@ChristnNitemare
Also, singing about this in TN as “heaven on earth”?! We’re 47th in elementary education outcomes,
#1
in rural hospital closures, & in the top 5 for overdose deaths, maternal mortality, cardiovascular disease, etc. etc. What a load of absolute 💩🙄
Some ppl have claimed Charlie “weighs down” Nick in
#Heartstopper
& it reminded me of some of my friends when I was a suicidal teen. It’s hard seeing value in someone beyond their ability to be happy in the moment when you’re 16, I suppose. More detailed thoughts below 👇🏾
@lloydgreyof
Total respect for a fellow neurobio nerd 🤓 My undergrad honors thesis was on immune mediation of certain infectious disease-associated dementias. Your “work,” though, is a bit more…engaging 😉
@PopCrave
Hoo boy- as a brown gay man & academic, born & raised & still living/working in the South- whose scientific work includes evaluation of queer & trans health policies- this person is conflating a *bunch* of issues. Both-sidesism of this sort is intellectually lazy & *dangerous*.🙄
@lavenderdnp
It’s a feature on some (but not all) older UK homes; it’s a period detail (see the front door at 10 Downing Street)…it means the Springs live in a fairly nice older home with some older architectural features.
@c7efairy
Sexual attraction or romantic/personal compatibility? Sexual & romantic attraction can both wax/wane & shift over time for many people- that’s natural. Be patient with yourself.
@samueljenkinson
A little longer is OK with me, but there’s a limit…also, I wouldn’t want one as thick as a beer can. I mean, if you have a giant member, Congrats! Doesn’t mean I think I deserve a torn anus or ruptured intestinal wall just to help you orgasm…
@levgarrity
Thank you for this! In the US, the suicide hotline is simply 988. I think seeing Charlie’s story will be difficult for me, too (I’ve had my own history of hospitalization for suicidality/depression), but I’m so excited to see Joe/
#Heartstopper
tackle these issues!
@lhodesscholar
This is terrifying! How do ppl come up with this stuff?! Yeesh. I wouldn’t have even been *that* clever, but would’ve just accurately answered “no” (which applies to *both*)!
@lionheart_amy
As Stephen Jay Gould said (of genius): “I am, somehow, less interested in the weight & convolutions of Einstein’s brain than in the near certainty that people of equal talent have lived & died in cotton fields & sweatshops.”
@flyin_private
You don't owe anyone here a mask; be you, & use this space in a way that brings you happiness or relief, even if that means sharing more somber thoughts when you need to. There are still *many* people here who will be happy to be sounding boards, through both good & bad.
@BiPanicBiLove
I realize their job is often to promote the show in whichever way they think will maximize the audience/be a crowd pleaser, but I agree that it’s a massive missed opportunity- likely on the largest conventional platform Kit will have (it’s the *Tonight Show*). 😞
@JoeOrgana
You should do as you wish; but just know that if you post a thirst trap & I see it, you'll be a recurring player in all of my super gay fantasies 😉 You look, at once, both incredibly kind & incredibly virile. Such a f***ing turn-on. 🔥
@DavidThackeray1
Thank you so much for your work, helping to make the show as amazing as it is. What a gift to see these topics treated with such care & grace- for queer youth, for those of us who *wish* we'd had this when we were queer youth, and, really, for *everyone*! 🍂💗🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
@ryanmmichaels
What a lovely tribute- that’s my Chinese Zodiac sign! 😘 But, my actual fave, just for sheer genetic genius & novelty, is the box jellyfish 🪼 {it’s technically immortal}
@goldennels0n
Not every fantastic story needs to capture *every* aspect of the relationships in the plot. Yes, sex/sexuality is part of the story at the heart of Heartstopper, but it's not the *only* part (&, Alice spends time fleshing out other aspects of the relationship)- which is fine!
@bunstopper
He's gonna be perfectly fine! Even *I* can do 1 pull-up per day (or 5-10), & I'm a 43-year-old who was never in as fantastic shape as Kit is (at 20). For guys, our upper bodies tend to be stronger, anyhow, & he's been working out for a long time. Nothin' to worry about!
@narrysIove
It's really sweet that so many of you are worried about Kit this way, but I promise you, he'll be perfectly fine! This is not overly strenuous for a young guy who's in fantastic shape like he is. I wrote a bit about this elsewhere:
@bunstopper
He's gonna be perfectly fine! Even *I* can do 1 pull-up per day (or 5-10), & I'm a 43-year-old who was never in as fantastic shape as Kit is (at 20). For guys, our upper bodies tend to be stronger, anyhow, & he's been working out for a long time. Nothin' to worry about!
@flyin_private
Try your best to disengage with these kinds of posts, dear boy- they aren’t good for your mental health, & sadly, I don’t think bigots can be reasoned with. 😔
@lucyfarnik
Excellent summary of the key study design flaws & limitations/barriers to inference. This may be a case where a *well-conducted* observational cohort study is less biased!
@jersey__bounce
I have no deep knowledge of public restrooms to share, though the light fixtures look a bit garish (they were going for industrial, but they landed as more post-modern, with a bit too much chrome). On an unrelated note, you look delectable 🫦
@BublieeBubbles
Is that what it means to be "bottom-coded"? I'm a vers. bottom, but I hedge with caveats/conditional statements, not emojis. I also typically don't type out laughter. Maybe just me?
@ThePeterPaige
Character matters, and students never forget the teachers who made a difference in their lives- who were really there for them. What an amazing guy; so excited to elect him our next VP!
#HarrisWalz2024
💙
@theotricality
Whether it's "incredible" or merely *impressive* as a feat of strength (he's a very strong young guy, after all), it's also more genuine to an original Elizabethan era Shakespeare production where the crowd was often verbally (not just emotionally) engaged with the players!
@SebastianCroft
@NetflixUK
Yeah, but...there must be reasons: 1. bubblegum flavor. Also, he's clearly mid-grasp (can you grasp with your lips?). Him "completely" missing would imply the straw landing somewhere besides his mouth (or mouth parts)...right?
Undecided about what? It's democracy or not. That's it. That's the fucking question. Y'all need to stop pretending it's a difficult decision, because it's not. Either you support American democracy — or authoritarian fascism and dictatorship. 😳👇
@cuntynicknelson
What?! Good grief- why is there always some attack against Kit- it’s never enough with these people. He’s a young actor doing his best to portray a fictional character (& he’s done it amazingly well!); people need to lay off.