Depression doesn’t always look like sleeping your day away, crying & sad. A lot of ppl are functionally depressed.. so even when they’re out smiling, kicking it & having fun they’re fighting a private battle.
When I love, I love hard. Rather it be friend or significant. I give my all in my friendships & relationships. So yes, my feelings get hurt easy when I feel like ppl dont got me, the way I got them!
Moving in with your bf/gf... will either make or break y’all. It’ll really show you if y’all compatible or not. You notice every little thing they do, that you like/don’t like. Etc! It’s a true test.
I'm finally at a place where I dont give af about how somebody is feeling when it comes to my mental. If I dont wanna talk or answer my phone... I wont! The entitlement now days is so crazy. Learn to respect space and solitude.
Say what y’all want. But Bow Wow paved the way & opened the doors for a lot ppl in his era. He took Chris Brown & B2K on their 1st arena tour ever!!!! Saying he don’t belong on the millennium reunion tour, is a reach! Period 🤷🏽♀️
I actually cry when I think about how good God has been to me!! I’m so glad his Grace and mercies are new everyday becuz I surely don’t deserve them… but yet & still he keeps me! Protects me and provides. Smh.
As mush as I wanna go outside.. I truly believe opening the state back up in 2 weeks is a terrible idea! Smh. They haven’t even did anything different since we shut down.
I'm done with unhealthy relationships altogether, platonic & romantic. Be here and be intentional or leave me alone. I'm fed up with so much... I'm choosing peace and if that means exiting ppl out. I will.
I’m not perfect. I have a lot to work on & be better with.. but I legit do everything with good intentions. And I mean well... b/c I have a good heart!
I want a love where no matter how long we're together.. you give me butterflies when I see you, we're best friends, we love each other unconditionally, compromise & communicate. I wanna spend our time creating memories, having fun & loving each other.
Being mean, rude, having a attitude problem, not caring about things you should, hurting ppl, etc… are not things to brag about or think is “cool”… FYI! Work on that.
This 14 year old girl was missing from Akron for 6 months, family had no clue where she was. They did a sex trafficking bust here & she was one of the girls recovered. They snatched her from a bus stop & drove her here.
I’m not sure when it became “cool” to act like you don’t care about somebody, and you really do. That’s really lame. I have no problem expressing how I feel about somebody & idc who likes it or doesn’t.
I’m not takin on anybody’s stress or problems this year. Last year I caught myself tryin to be strong for others around me & help them thru, but I neglected myself. This year is about ME! Falling in love w/ myself again..mentally, physically and emotionally.
Not finna beat you. I like when a mf can’t get enough of me... you gotta sweat me or ima think you ion like me fareal lol reassurance is a big thing for me. And I’m far from insecure. But words of affirmation & physical touch my love languages
My misery does not love company. When I’m off, I dont like being around ppl. Becuz I dont like transferring that energy to others. I rather be in solitude.
Functional depression is real... it doesn’t always mean sleeping all day, etc! People seem to be okay around others.. but when they’re alone they’re really battling so hard with their thoughts. Don’t ever underestimate someone’s mental.
If we break up, you’re breaking up with my friends & family too. I’m not letting my ex linger around....making me uncomfortable at my own family events n shit! That’s always been weird to me that ppl like to stay around their ex’s families.
Ppl have to stop being offended by others growth & solitude. Just because somebody is being distant, doesn’t mean there’s an issue. They simply just want to be left alone & that is okay! We don’t owe anybody explanations for how we deal w/ stuff in our lives
I got tired of living how I was, I realized a lot of what I was going thru was a result of my bad decisions. I stopped drinking, started going bac to church, praying more, working out, etc. and God started moving in my life like never before.
If you fuck somebody over, you don’t get the fuckin luxury of being mad at how they react!!!! When you make grown ppl decisions , you have to take what comes with it. I’m not holding no hands at this big ass age of ours.
I respect ppl who actually admit that they're in no place to date.. instead leading ppl on & hurting their feelings. If you're choosing you, fine, just let ppl know that.
We outgrow people in life and that’s okay. Biggest mistake we make is trying to hold on to things that have ran their course! Take it for what it is/was and move on.
I’m only going to express myself to you so many times about how I feel, after that I’m going to just let it be what it is. I hate when I say how I feel & a person acts as tho they don’t care.
Y’all have to stop dating broke ppl 😂😂 i just got into a slight disagreement in roosters wit a nigga because I overheard him arguing wit his girl over a bill. l politely sent her over a drink! Tighten up pal.
November WILL be filled w/ blessings & abundance in every area of my life! I’m thankin God right now in advance for the doors he’s goin to open, and the ones he’s goin to close! I need a breakthrough & even tho I cant see it. I’m believing it’s done 🙏🏾✨🤍
Before you vent to your friends, make sure they have the mental capacity for it first! Nobody wants to hear about your issues EVERYDAY. It becomes overwhelming, even when it has nothing to do with you.
People truly need to understand that just becuz you are involved with someone, they are NOT required to fund your life. And the fact ppl have that mindset is insane. Stop asking ppl for shit you can’t even afford.
When I love, I love hard. That’s why I don’t like when I start caring about somebody. I would truly be cappin if I said it’s easy for me to just walk away from something I care about. I be in shambles, I have detachment issues. And I own it. 🤷🏽♀️
Can’t stress how important it is to know your persons love language.. people be trying to love others the way they wanna be loved. And that’s where the disconnect will always comes!
I'm a communicator, I like to talk to things out and come to a understanding. Sweeping shit under the rug or just deflecting not my thing. Tell me how you feel and I will fucking fix it.
If I talk to you on social media, I’m going to speak when I see you. Y’all mad weird for having full convo on here, then see somebody and just look at them.
I wish twitter had a close friends option cause I’d be off the hook on here... it’s so much I be wanting to say. But don’t out of respect for certain things! 😭
Anybody who truly loves you & cares about you, is going to give you what want/need and more. You won’t ever have to beg or feel like you’re asking for too much. Stop letting ppl give you the bare minimum.
Not everybody gets the same version of me. One might say I’m nice & sweet.. then another may say I’m mean & rude. However, I act accordingly. How I handle you, depends on several different things.
Some times it’s best to just leave ppl where they are, cuz you allow them back in your life & they remind you of why y’all stopped being coo in the first place.. never fails.
How can we get Chrisean , blue face and stewing off social media for good? Cause I’ve had enough of their theatrics. They’re bothering us at this point
The more time you spend alone, the more you learn about yourself. And after some serious thinking, I've realized I have no gray area. I'm black or white. I care a lot or I don't care at all.