Men must know how birth affects their partners. Know about the vaginal tears , know about the possible complications , know about what happens during recovery after birth .We can't center everything around men's sexual desires especially when it comes to child birth.
Faux is pronounced “foe”
Faux is pronounced “foe”
Faux is pronounced “foe”
Faux is pronounced “foe”
Faux is pronounced “foe”
Faux is pronounced “foe”
Faux is pronounced “foe”
Faux is pronounced “foe”
Faux is pronounced “foe”
Faux is pronounced “foe”
True, at my father's funeral his uncle stood up and said he didn't know that he was married with kids. The guy used to visit and we would all go to his house when dad was alive. Black families are ugly when a man dies. They are vile
@Tshi_Nakanyane
We need to get to a point were men understand the impact of their actions. If you want a baby you must understand the end to end process. We can't put that on the shoulders of women forever and worry about men's sexual attraction every single time. What about the woman?
Farm Attack - 15/12/2019
Attackers entered the farm of the Nicholson’s & spray painted "Kill the Boer" on the farm manager’s bakkie & then set it alight. Attack took place on a farm in Buffelspoort, North West province of South Africa.
#FarmAttacks
#FarmMurders
#SouthAfrica
This year rrabo gifted me with a house for my birthday.
My husband is absolutely amazing, i still feel like im dreaming.
I really am raising children with an amazing human being.
Sometimes you don't see how much you have grown on your journey because you expect your growth to look like the next person's growth. That leads to you doubting your own journey at times. Focus on your gift and where it is leading you. You are unique embrace it.
You guys saying alcohol ban must be extended, will Bheki Cele employ all those people working at alcohol manufactures or will they be adding on to the unemployment numbers . All those engineers, cleaners, lab technicians, where will they go?
@Village_boy7
I think we sometimes don't give grace to graduates. Not knowing ports as a grad doesn't make anyone bad , it just means they might not have done networking. Knowing the definition of words also doesn't make anyone exceptional. Grads need a platform to learn and understand things
my latest lesson : do not tekateka in your requests ,believe that your ancestors will pull through with what you need.Believe in what you have been working on because there is life in your words.
Nothing is worse than apartheid. Not Zuma, not his scandals, not ANC corruption, absolutely nothing is worse than apartheid . People died and no one was punished for that ugly period.Some people still don't know were their family members are buried. Stop talking nonsense
South Africans drink and drive a lot and we pretend we don't know why the death toll on the roads is so high. Drove back to Jhb in the am's and we had to keep ducking drunk drivers.
I don't understand what needs to happen for us to stop drinking and driving.
The mother of the boys that groped my 11yo wanted everyone to relax, turns out those boys groped many other girls and none of them reported. You see this sort of behavior starts when men are young thinking they can go about touching other children's chests and laughing it off
Do not walk into spirituality ka desperation because you will find yourself o thwasa o sa romiwa ke ope. People will turn your desperation into a stokvel session. Please don't do it.
May Dr Sindi rest knowing that she knocked her dreams out of the park. She lived her life and helped many people. She was selfless and kind.
A robale ka Kagiso
Being spiritually gifted doesn't mean you have the answers to everything.
You ask for guidance on everything you touch
You ask for wisdom on everything you do
You struggle with self doubt because you're still human.
Moer go thata
Because he knew that he will not need education to get ahead, that only applies to black people. How many of us have worked with matriculants that head up departments? You will be qualified and more experienced but racism let's them get ahead
There's an amazing gynecologist at Olivedale Hospital. Her name is Dr Mulaudzi. If anyone needs a black gynae check her out.Her offices are at the medical center at Olivedale hospital.
I hear what you're trying to say but we can't be treating grown men like kids forever. Do they not attend birthing classes with their partners , do they not watch natural birth videos like the rest of us when preparing for a baby's delivery?
How do they think babies are delivered
Personal opinion, I think couples (more so the men) need some form of counselling following this experience.
This simply comes from hearing stories of how men find it difficult to find their partners sexually attractive for months following this experience.
I know everyone says finish the year on a high but the only thing I'm focused on now is finishing the year off in one piece.a girl is crawling to the finish line .
@NomaguguSamke
This makes zero sense because we all had sex education at school. If anyone doesn't want children they don't have unprotected coitus with anyone. Stop making it seem like men don't know what the results of their actions will be.
You cannot ask for your guides to show up for you then you get sloppy when you have to execute in order to achieve what you need. They will open doors but you still have to do the work. You still have to pull your weight to walk through those doors.
Today I broke down because of happiness.
Things are aligning and the major things that I have been asking for are being delivered back to back.
The elders are showing off and I don't think i was ready for this beautiful feeling.
Ke leboga Modimo le badimo
Badimo ba gago ba ka se tsamae ba go latlha. Ba phela ba go tshegeditse le ha wena o sa bone. Ba teng go go lwela dintwa tse o sa di boneng. Ba teng go go bulela dikgoro tse di tswetsweng.
Kopa gore o kgone go tlhaloganya puo ya bone gore o diragatse jaaka ba bua.
I wonder if the president realizes that you can't have a one sided accountability parade. If they can hardly hold each other accountable for corruption during pandemic why did they think behavioral adjustments would be easy for everyone else?
No one will do your work for you when it comes to your own healing. Certain things are there for you to discover and understand, if you are going to leave your healing to others you will not understand what works for you and what doesn't.
Someone once said ask your guides to speak in a way that you will understand so that you can act on what is being said. That changed my life because I would go back and say thank you for the message but i don't understand it. Please give clarify this and they did.
The hardest thing about healing is identifying your toxic traits finding their root cause and working on them.True healing is facing yourself and working on your dark side too,the side that you have hidden but struggle to control.
Bring that side to the light and face it
Spiritual gifts aren't meant to be curses that tie you down with struggle and pain .They are a symbol of love because you're entrusted with something bigger than yourself. Its entirely up to you to discover your rhythm with your guides and maintain that loving relationship
@NthabiWabi
Most men want children just to burden their partners and not to be present fathers . It's more about working the partner to the bone and having free time because everything must be the woman's job.
I never thought I'd be burying my mom so soon but that woman did the best she could with what she had and i am here as a result of that. Everything I've achieved is because she kept telling me to keep going forward no matter how impossible it seemed. I will love my mother forever
The fact that i have a husband that really goes out of his way to give me what he believes i deserve as his wife is the reason why im a happy overwhelmed mess today.
Rrabo keeps his words and man idlozi is also showing up through him in ways that i can't even explain.
Discovering that your guides are there to listen and work with you instead of being used to force you to do things you are not ready for because people are greedy. Listen to them closely, don't rush into anything and talk to them, they are more understanding than you think.
@melvanwykct
Cover letters are annoying. You should be able to make a decision from what's on the cv. It's borderline expecting a person to beg for a job , I find them degrading.
People must stop asking healers if they are really traditional healers because they don't look like traditional healers. It's really boring.
Ke mang a rileng dingaka di nna maswe le leswe?
Protect your gift.
You were chosen for a reason.
Understand what your gift is before you started doing things that were not given to you.
Seek out that rare skill that comes with your gift and guard it for it is sacred.
Ubonge okukhulu
Ubonge okuncani
Ucele ukukhanya nempilo.
Some of us have to be grateful that we are able to put food on our tables when many people are losing their jobs. Your money might be less now,that small sacrifice as uncomfortable as it is for you, you can still eat.
@WheelsnToys
It's never just banter, most time it even borders on harassment and we're expected to stand aside and laugh because boys will be boys ?
Go nyewe
@KhanyaMsika
I'm sorry but as a young person living under the current conditions in South Africa we cannot continue acting like there isn't a problem. The current government is failing at doing executing their core mandate which is governing, we are paying dearly for it.
Ke 'mila o mosesane
O hakang mawatla
Le khoro e patisane
E kenwa ka matla
Nonyana di na le matlo
Di dula monateng
Ha ho moo hlooho ya Jesu
E ka samelwang teng
Ba reng ba mo sala morao
Ba itele pele
Ba se ke ba tshaba molao
O thapisang 'mele
Someone mentioned a lady who makes everything from scratch and how amazing she is today, after a meeting . I also added my 2 cents about how she is a game changer. People then googled her and a whole discussion ensued. You are doing amazing and keep being amazing
@_Onezwa
People come for people's lives forgetting that there is a whole squad of elders ready to stand up for their child.
Please sneeze the knees to disease ha o ithuta boloi ka ngwana motho o mongwe.
@Lesufi
Get emergency services call centers fully functional first . What is a panic button supposed to achieve if the call center staff is not well trained to assist professionally in matters that require tact?
Fix the basics first before adding cosmetics.
I registered for this post grad when I was still ephehlweni early this year and I said I will see to finish.
It was hard but I wrote my last exam today.
I still have fees to pay but I am done.
Im so proud of myself for not quitting.
I had to adjust to dlozi work, corp and studies
Abaphathi bakho will never take anything away without replacing it with more than what they took.
What they replace it with might not be measurable in monetary terms at times so sit back and look at how far you have come, what has been provided after the losses and give thanks.