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@JacquetheCount
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So, the past matters?😅.
I highly recommend going through someone's tweets before settling down with them💀.
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As I once told my brother and mother. "Do not take your personal convictions, and try to preach them as the word or commandment of God". No scripture condemns drinking alcohol. They all condemn habitual drunkenness, same way the bible condemns gluttony. Be careful!.
Tell me, why are you drinking alcohol as a Christian and justifying it by saying you are not drinking it in excess?.
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"Your wife will decide where you all will live.". Maybe if I had no balls, and she was paying for said house. You married niggas disgust me.
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According to the nimrods on this app, I am supposed to listen to this clown just because he is married.
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The production level on the 'Adedamola' album is elite. The art of creative production, seems to be an extinct art form in the Afrobeats scene. Few folks are getting it right.
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One gets them paid. The other denies them the chance of ever getting paid. Elementary school arithmetic for real.
They celebrate divorce but wail over failed engagements.
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Your foremothers were virgins, feminine, contented, didn't do stupid shit & blame hormones, and above all knew when to keep quiet. Which of the above do you have to offer? Bunch of hoes asking for a privilege women of value enjoyed.
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And you lot wonder why we have more whores in the modern society than in any period in history. What do you expect when these are the clowns raising children? . Sorry excuses for men.
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"If she wants you, she can have you"🤡.
You people should come and check on me, I’m not breathing fine I’m serious. What I sent. What he said.
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If your leadership is based on the size of your bank account, you are not a husband but a slave master. Marital leadership, is your wife following you not because she's poor, but because she actually looks up to you. Money is too fickle to be the foundation of your masculinity.
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@Mareeyah_ And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. God talks about discipline and control. Not abstinence.
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The fact that you don't see that what you just stated is a clear evidence of inferiority, astounds me. The white man still colonizes you from the background, but you aren't inferior. Can you hear yourself? . Think about what you just typed.
We're not an inferior race. It is not our fault that we do not have steady light till this day. Our politicians are to be blamed. You don't know what's going on in the background. Up until today, we are still indirectly colonized by the white men. I wish you could understand. .
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The outrage is all about women protecting the structures upon which their egos are built. These broads still want the attention and possibly incentives, that comes with a man pursuing them, even when they know they aren't interested in said man. It's all self-preservation.
When I meet a lady who catches my eye, I don't ask for her number. Instead, I give her mine and tell her to text me. May sound funny and It's not about being proud or forming “alpha male”, it's just about respecting my time. If she's really interested, she'll reach out….
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Everyday we read from "broke dudes" fucking rich men's wife for free. Nevertheless, Nigerian men believe money is all they need. You all are never beating the allegations.
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@Uns1gn3d_Hyp3 Person wey foolish😂. "Women have a higher IQ than. ". Then suppose slap the people wey talk that thing😂😂.
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These are riff-raff you lot are dating. Uncouth, badly behaved cretins who you shouldn't even be touching with a 10-foot pole, much less committing to. Godspeed to you men.
Read something Toni Tones wrote recently about how a good partner makes you a better person, and my favorite example is that there’s a way a kind partner speaks to you and no matter how sharp-tongued you used to be, you unconsciously find yourself becoming kinder too.
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No woman is beating me on any games I am proficient at. I will beat you like a thief caught in computer village. We don't let women win over here. If you can defeat me, do it by being better.
Men that try to win you in IMessage games deserve a place in hell tournaments.
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I should learn how to manage my finances from a fella who puts "babe allowance", on his budget. What a joke!.
Let me show you how I’ll spend £2000 if that’s my monthly salary. Rent: £600 (shared apartment).Utility-Gas/electric/water-£100.Phone /internet: £50.Transportation: £150.Food: £200.Black Tax& Benevolence : £200.Shopping/Babe allowance/Socials: £300.Emergency fund: £100.Savings :.
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You think the same demographic whose preferred way of greeting one another is cusswords, folks who could go for decades calling themselves "chairman" without knowing each other's names, would care if you called them "males"?. You are either delusional or severely lunk-headed.
I’m going to start saying ‘males’ instead of men, so you guys can see how annoying it sounds when you say ‘females’ instead of women.
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You sound stupid. Deciding not to marry a sick person, is totally different from your committed partner of many years falling sick. Surely you should know the difference. You didn't go through medical school just to sound idiotic.
This stuff about not wanting to date anyone with a health condition is silly. Yes it’s your choice but it’s silly. You can be the perfect picture of health and from nowhere, boom, Cancer. Is your partner justified to leave then because they didn’t signup for that ?.
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The fact that you can't cognize that you asking if he is Aaron Pierre makes his approach valid, shows just how retarded you are. You just agreed that if he is a man of perceivable value, you will text him. Then again you can't see it. You are a thickheaded nimrod.
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To be fair, Katara-Zuko would have hit harder than Katara-Aang. The show never showed the romantic side to their relationship. It was always the brother-friend dynamic between them. With Zuko(even Jet), there was always this tension between them. A better pairing if you ask me.
every single time katara thought she would lose aang forever: a thread 🧵—
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Brothers don't kill and betray one another, abi wetin you dey even yarn for mouth sef? Wives don't kill husbands and vice versa?. Some of us have friends that would gladly go to hell and back for us. The fact that you don't have that doesn't make it a myth.
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When you see sex as something being done to you, that is the sort of mentality you walk around with. They haven't met dudes who just don't give a fuck. So long as they orgasm, the lady can hustle hers with fear and trembling.
the way babes flex their ability to fake moans or leg shakes will forever be funny. who is losing?😭.
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Which is why the whole "prize" discussion makes me laugh. Men show off their women to the world. Women hide their men from the prying eyes of world(other women). Make of that whatever you will.
You’ll hardly see a Man post contents like this and not show the Girl’s face . Why do Women hide the face of the Man sometimes when they make these type of videos ?. Even Women fear their fellow Women ? 🤔
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Thick thighs and ass. Not fat stomach and skin flaps on your back. I asked for Regina Hall, not Jabba the Hutt.
They want thick girls but can't lift us up😩.
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Just finished the Book of Proverbs for the umpteenth time. Call him whatever you like, Solomon knew his onions. Christian or not, that book contains every precept and tenet you will ever need to navigate life.
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Not my business. However, just here to remind you folks that if this was an average married woman, not a pastor's wife, telling a one-sided story of how she fell for a guy but nothing happened, we will call cap. So, I hereby call CAP!.
Listen to how she overcame the relationship with a work husband before it ruined her marriage.
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With the standards AA women have for relationships & marriages, you would think the average AA female has an healthy one. Highest number single mothers. And not just that, but with multiple men. Least marriageable demographic of women across the board. Insufferable imbeciles.
I hope this teaches you internet people one thing, it’s never about you.
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Ancient societies understood the assignment when they kept women under "lock and key". You can't allow a creature whose actions are never its fault to run amok. The modern man suffers from cognitive dissonance.
When a prostitute wants to be a prostitute, they will always find a reason. They will claim it is because men are paying them. (Men are the enablers). Then they will claim because economy is bad (Bad economy is the enabler).
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Classic gynocentric psyop. They always find a way of attaching some benefit(that their own family don't enjoy) or doom to women. "Women bring you luck". "If you sleep with a married woman, you will run mad". Classic "mystical female power" nonsense.
There’s always something detrimental tagged to Men sleeping with people’s wives. sometimes people make it spiritual. Something Women on the other hand do for a living. All these control mechanisms gats stop. 🙏🏻.
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So, apparently getting your partner supplements necessary for her health is not romantic, buying her flowers is. X is not a real place😂.
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I have nothing to say to her. It's one thing to make a mistake and commit to a whøre, it's another to go around asking what to do, when she shows you she's a whøre. Making a second mistake where you should have learnt from the first, is foolishness. That bloke is a fool.
Lol, what are the odds that a man who isn’t romantically interested in you would send you a money bouquet?. You people are too dishonest on this app.
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Women have the unique ability to hold two opposing views at the same time, with it making perfect sense to them. There is a reason "Cognitive Dissonance" as a character flaw, is found mostly in women. In a woman's mind, all she needs to do is disconnect and rationalize.
Someone must have sold it to Women that fornication is no longer a Sin. Coz why do they take church activities seriously. Yet, fornicate with their whole heart?. You fit just knack babe finish now make she join online service afterwards🤦🏽♂️. I think you people are sick. I swear!.
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Look at dudes laughing in the comments. How do you lot find this funny & endearing?. Make it make sense.
Person wife go just wake for midnight. Tell me 5 things you like about me. Leyin omo meji notori Olohun 😂.
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Nice guys never finish. They get stuck in a never ending loop of the race, used till they can run no more, then they collapse on the track like an asthmatic patient drawing his last breath.
Nice guys finish last. Always. No exceptions.
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@leowatts08 People that are daft😂. You have sex with a guy and pay him, but it's you that has the power😂😂. Modern broads are retarded bro.
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As a rule of thumb, you should avoid broads like this. Their heads are so far up their imaginary man's ass, they can't tell reality from the fictional nonsense they consume. They are the female equivalent of male porn addicts. Steer clear.
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I think you are the one who should be banned. That is top-tier usage right there.
my petition to ban parents from WhatsApp sticker usage. i told my mother i have hot, sizzling gist for her. this was her response:
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One day you lot will learn sex, love and all that pertains to these, have little to nothing to do with money. Women who attach financial incentives to these, are creatures dying from hunger, or worse are greedy pests.
Flying from UK to Nigeria to see a married man who gives you N11,000 is insane.
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@Lab_vocate @NgozoSanca Exactly what I expected. Drop a verse to make your point. But no. Man just ran out of the scope of the discussion.
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Single mothers and knowing who a real man is, but somehow couldn't find that real man to impregnate her and take care of the kid. I keep telling you lads. Women are great comedians😂.
@maniprinta You still a boy that's why you talking like this.
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I have only sent this woman pictures once in the last month, and she sends me pictures/videos everyday. When she wants you, she wants you. It ain't rocket science. Go where you are wanted.
'Send me your pictures'. You literally saw me yesterday???.
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As a rule of thumb, I avoid women who do not show "workings". If you want me, you had better come with that high energy and put in the work. Some of us aren't starved, or lack the options. Single life is fun. You need to show me allowing you into my life has benefits.
*Talking for months* Lmao. You show a man you're not ready to be his but want the benefits that come with being his. That is witchcraft. If a woman likes you, she'd be asking for a relationship so quick you'd not know how to respond. He dodged a bullet. YOU.
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I would not have heard the other nonsense. I would have exited at "hyphenation of surname". Call me ancient or archaic, but no woman is living under my roof and bearing a name that isn't my surname. What do you think this is? Feminism central?. Nonsense!.
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This is cool. So long as he is free to say "No" if you want to keep the baby and he doesn't. None of that "he abandoned me and the child. He is a deadbeat" nonsense.
Don’t let any man on this earth ever gaslight you into keeping a pregnancy you don’t want. Foetus deletus always👍🏻.
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Dude, you need serious help. You are benching iron plates because of people who lie to themselves that being fat is "thick"?. With most Nigerian women being fat or fat adjacent, this shouldn't be your motivation.
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They are cursed with bad eating habits. They are either eating nonsense, eating at the wrong time, or eating nonsense at the wrong time.
Whoever cursed Nigerian girls with pot belly? 🤦🏽♂️😪.
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What on earth is this clit sucking? Since when did being successful confer intelligence and wisdom?.Nigerians and their ardent worship of mammon. You shouldn't be this foolish bruv.
You fool???. I don’t really blame you, I blame your mum cos if she had put in more effort to raise you right, you wouldn’t be on twitter calling someone who’s accomplished way more than you can ever do, in less years, a fool. Grow some sense bro, it’s not too late.
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'Cause it's an asinine discussion that should not be entertained. Archetypal Gen Z woke nonsense, spewed in a bid to be contrarian to common sense. The primary driving force behind any parent's zeal to take care of their child's needs, is the love they have for them. Finito.
A child can feel taken care of but not loved . Parental love is much more deeper than just providing with necessities. But of course, we are not ready to have that conversation.
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Do you lot now understand why 2 beautiful women with the same body types are almost never besties? Or why they gas up that fat elephant in their friend group? . It's 4D chess fellas.
Dear men, if you ask a woman out and she says no please for the love of God, don't go for her friend.
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Nigerian women are mostly just hungry otters, looking for the next zoo tourist who will feed them with treats. It is almost never a symbiotic interaction, so use your wisdom.
One thing i’ve gotten from the quotes is that Women don’t care about being with who they like, they just want to be with who gives them. Doesn’t matter if you’re an abuser, or not their spec, just give them money/gift and you’re the right man for them.
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It's the way of a fool to not comprehend the behavioral trends of the wise.
Sometimes, let’s be clear…. The only reason you can’t show off is because you have made illegitimate wealth. Has nothing to do with you being a ‘private’ person.
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So, only bad news and experiences are allowed? . You lot are witches. Difference is, you don't fly and dance around the fire at wee hours of the night. Plus, who knows? You just might do those as well. What an imbecile!.
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You lost the plot when you assumed someone tweeting shit online, automatically translates to not having a job, or doing something meaningful with his life. Some folks just love to tweet shit. Ain't that deep my guy.
Fam, at some stage point do you guys actually think of getting jobs? and doing something meaningful with your life?.
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I don't care if you go through a billion more things than these. Don't transfer aggression you never transferred to your parents to me. Period pain and hormones aren't an excuse to be a shitty human. Drop this nonsense talk.
These and many more are what women go through while on their period. It’s high time y’all give this topic a rest.
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'Cause you men fall for their gimmicks, and allow them the latitude to perform their theatrics. I know how to play the game. She moves far, I maintain my position and not budge. When she's ready, she will be back. After a couple of times, she knows that shit doesn't fly here.
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These dumbos think life is Nikita, or some femme fatale action movie. Imagine pulling up to an abuser's domain with more women. The comedic scenes where he beats you imbeciles up, and still dunks on you dumb fuckers by pleading "self-defense" in court. You lot don't think😂.
If you’re interested in joining a group of vigilante women that pull up on abusive men in Lagos text me.
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Thinking I need you to open up to know you are a whore, is top comedic stuff. Same way a top CIA agent knows he is being tailed, is the same way I sniff out your whorish ass. Play the "changed" script all you want, the day I find out is the day I drop you like a hot potato.
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I pity men who fall for the gynocentric manipulation and psyop of the society as regards fat women. You see how women drop hippo-sized men? Divorce!. Keep tolerating that Teletubby you call a girlfriend. Don't throw her away. Continue. "PCOS" and "Hormonal imbalance" my ass.
My friend is receiving threats from her husband’s family bc she served him divorce papers. The main issue is that the guy is overweight: he needs help with many daily tasks, the kitchen is always trashed and he can’t clean after himself- my friend can’t take it anymore.
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This particular one said at least 50% of families have female breadwinners, 'cause she knows 3 women who sit in her mum's shop, to talk about how they are the providers im their families. I never considered that level of stupidity possible.
- 500 million naira is small money.- 23% of wives being breadwinners makes them the majority. This is what you get in an education system where people pay for special centres for exams instead of reading their books.
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Nigga might as well put on his scrubs with his stethoscope around his neck. 'Cause what in the O&G MB exam is this?😂.
Before you marry that man please ask him what he knows about the following . -Pcos.- fibroids.- preeclampsia.- ovarian cancer.- cervical cancer.- endometriosis .- adenomyosis.- molar pregnancy .- ectopic pregnancy .- gestational diabetes.- hypertension in pregnancy .- who is.
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"If I wanted him back, I will.". But went out of her way to dress the way he likes. E sha ma wo arindin. A knock on your head in the middle of a cemetery would wake the dead.
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"If she thinks she's a 10, then she's a 10". When you hear clodpoles making such asinine assertions you can't help but laugh. They think they "deserve" just because they exist. Then fast forward a decade, you hear a 3 say she settled for less. Said less being a "5".
The only way most will marry rich men is if they're willing to share him and become second, third and fourth wives. This will take us back to the era of polygamy. The same polygamy some people swear is for "loser" men and women 👀.
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This has always been my problem with the eternal victimhood of Africans. Every major World power today were once under the tyrannical grip of an even greater power. That's the way of the world. The strong eats the weak. Africans would rather cry than fight.
The English do not get enough credit for conquering over half of the world, with everyone embarrassingly making a claim to victimhood. That is dominance. You were defeated. Move on. This is 2024. The English themselves were conquered by the Danish and the Danes ruled England for.
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Good thing I consider them all indecent dressing. There is a deliberate agenda to make female's wear the least covering clothing possible. For instance, I need someone to explain to me why female footballers have shorter shorts than men. It's all an agenda.
When a babe posts herself bra and tights, you say "there's nothing wrong, it's gym wear.". When she posts bikini at the poolside, you say "is she supposed to wear iro and buba to swim?". So when exactly are we supposed to sit down and agree on indecent dressing?.
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If she withdraws sex, you withdraw your monogamous commitment to her. Simple. Women withdraw sex when they know you can't get it anywhere else. When she knows you have options? She keeps serving herself on a plate. Hungry or not, you must eat. Why? She knows.
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You all are just vexing. She's a "rental". After the ceremony when the groom and bride retire to their private suite, where do you think groomsmen get their "relaxation" from? . THE RENTALS. We all serve a purpose. She's serving hers. Allow.
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Modern women and their half-witted theories. Say you are right, and Nigerian men do not like women. This written buffoonery you call a tweet, suggests that women are naturally likeable creatures. To be liked, one has to be likeable. Your 0.00001 MHz brain didn't process that.
Whilst a majority of Nigerian men are sexually attracted to women, I’m increasingly convinced it’s a small minority that actually like women.
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That's your problem. The solution is, you lot who have issues with marital customs, should avoid getting married. Or better yet, marry one another and save us the noise on oppression.
I dislike this concept of putting Mrs after Doctor . Like Dr. (Mrs) . It's annoying to me 😆.
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Men like myself "thrive" 'cause men like you exist. The natural order of life. Keep playing your role brother💪🏾.
You see these kinds of babes, and you instantly realize you can’t bag every girl in this world.
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I hope she doesn't believe this lie. An average-sized untrained dude has a better chance of walking away from that fight. Don't let those female action movie characters fool you. Skills can never make up for brute strength and power.
If you run into her in the forest, I pity the man AND the bear.
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I have always found that line of thought absurd and ludicrous. You live under my roof, feed off my provision in every sense of the word, but you are "nurturing me"?. One of the many idiotic statements modern women have parroted long enough till it stuck, and no one questioned it.
Those saying women are designed to nurture (men) need to look up what 'nurture' means. To nurture basically means to care for something or someone (feed, protect etc) so it develops or flourishes. So if men are 'designed' to provide for women, women are not 'designed' to.
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The average female mind is a perverted land of sexual fantasies. Virgin or not, it doesn't matter. The differences lie in their expressions. The shameless ones openly express it with reckless abandon. Others choose one man to be their partner in this "perversion".
Fifty shades of grey should outrageously. Men didn't buy that shitt, women did and every sexual experience was done to a woman in that fantasy. You see?.
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A girl who clubs can't be my girl. I don't move with ratchet women.
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If I walk into Canoon store, ask for the Galaxy Tab S9 Ultra, and they say "not available". Wouldn't it be foolishness to wait for it, when there are hundreds of stores with it in stock?. Women are funny. The world doesn't start and stop with the hole between your legs.
“So you stopped talking to me because I didn’t want to have sex with you”. YES. Your answer is very valid. No be by force.
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This is a boldfaced lie. Never met a man who lost interest 'cause a woman expressed interest first. He never liked you in the first place. 'Cause why would any sane man lose interest in a woman he finds attractive already, on the premise that she expressed her feelings first?.
@bhkingmike The thing is so many men will lose interest if the girl says they like them first so we don’t do it 😭.
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Ani ori gbogboyin ti daru seh. "No benefit to dating down". "I can't settle for less". Says the person that is down. From the mouth of the idiot someone is settling for. Eyin ashiere eniyan wonyii.
As a Woman, there is no benefit of dating down . Thats it that’s all.
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It is the truth. Feminine essence is chaos just as much as it is grace and virtue. There is a reason stoicism and calmness are masculine traits rather than feminine. It is also for this same reason, men are expected to be magnanimous and chivalrous in their dealings with women.
“To liken a woman to peace for a man is to liken a child to peace for a parent. Just as any parent would laugh at the idea of their child being a source of peace, no matter how much they love them, the same is true of any sober man's evaluation of woman” . What do ya’ll think.
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And then there was Jacque. Frequently topped both classes, participated in & won math quizzes, and also simultaneously won essay writing competitions & debates. Some folks really do it all.
In secondary school you were either very good in Math or very good in English, no one was ever both.
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You and your comrades should just suck your wives' dicks, and leave the rest us of alone. No one is fighting with you lot.
Cooking: woman/wife.Cleaning: woman/wife.Errands: woman/wife.Tending to kids: woman/wife.Laundry: woman/wife . Then what are you useful for aside being a sperm donor and paying bills?.
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The way Nigerian men romanticize subservience in marriage astounds me. These negroes actually get erections from their wives bossing them around, and "instructing" them.
One of the perks of monogamy for blue pilled idealists. They llllllove it!😂.
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Nothing we haven't said time and time again. Why argue when you can wait? They always end up shooting themselves in the foot. They consume SMUT all day, then complain men dominate the world. These swines think "he pushed me to wall and ripped my gown" will make them leaders.
Was saying this yesterday with @JacquetheCount and we were spot on. These "nerd reader" hoes claiming 2 million books a year are signaling posturers & it's all erotica novels where their sexual depraved fantasies comes to life. Tired of being right again & again.
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"Top 1% of women" is a funny concept. A concept subtly rooted in gynocentric philosophies. Trust the average modern man to lack the mental fortitude, to see through such obvious female nonsense.
There's no such thing as 'Top 1% of women' because women are ranked primarily on beauty & beauty is subjective. Plus, pretty women are commonplace. Campuses alone have thousands of women prettier than your celebrity crush but you won't see anyone there more successful than 2face.
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The average man fails to understand that the best of women are still women. Predisposed to the proclivities of female nature, however by virtue of having masculine fathers who kept the female nature of their mothers in check, they turn out to be fairly better than their comrades.
Timeless piece for the "good women" hunters.
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At least 6 out of every 10 Nigerian women are "prostitutes". This is me being generous. The average Nigerian woman sees relationships as a poverty alleviation scheme. Nothing more. And what does she have to offer in exchange for your finances? Her vagina. Definition of sex work.
We're too poor. 7/10 babes you meet here are in insane survival mode coupled with inflated egos while looking for a way to break out of poverty without having to break much sweat. So if you can't do transfer?? Clear! 😂😂.
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A man within his own right says he doesn't believe in God, and you a so-called "believer" begins to wish him evil, and that God should "punish" him. It's quite hilarious, because if you truly understood the God you serve, you would know the one thing he doesn't do is force.
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30%? More like 10%. These stupid broads have no clue what the world would look like if men were actually hunting them down. Only modern women think they can exterminate men. Very stupid lot.
If just 30% of men become as demonic as twitter women paint all men to be, all women will seize to exist.
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Another day to remind you folks how you called @Bqmbulu a mad man. "Better to empower 100 men than empower 1000 women.". That mad man's words keep aging like fine wine.
Immediately a male artiste blows, he's looking for other people to put on that path and create a business. From TuFace to Shallipoppi. I cannot think of one female artiste that had even attempted to replicate this and be successful at it. They need to do better.
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Why do you think "marry first" is the generic response by the average married man, when you question his apparent idiotic marital approach?. These wimps realize down the line they have been deceived, and merely throw in the towel like the wusses that they are.
Big psyop of the highest order, men have been brainwashed into thinking egalitarian principles are practical in inter gender dynamics which covertly means they must simp more for a woman to earn her loyalty. Where does it all end? 2-3 years into marriage she dictates tempo.
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