Good news and bad news. I now have my surgery date for vaginoplasty. Unfortunately, it’s a lot longer wait than I ever imagined. My vagina will arrive on May 12, 2025.
I have a job where I encounter a lot of tragedy and trauma. There is too much hate in this world. Please try to practice kindness any chance you get. Hugs.
So…I was invited to apply for a new job position. Before applying I told them Im transgender & wanted to know their policies and workplace culture. They assured me there wouldn’t be issues & so I interviewed for the position. I think it went well. We’ll see. I still present male
The photo on left was one year before I started female hormones. The one on right is now 8mo on HRT. My beard is getting thinner, lighter, more sparse. The hair on my head is getting thicker. My skin is getting softer. In another 8mo I wonder if I’ll just need to shave the beard.
1st indication I was trans🏳️⚧️? After coming out to my sister last year she told me when we were kids (4 or 5yo) our mom would put us in the bath together and I’d always tuck my wiener. My mom would tell me to stop but I’d tell her I didn’t like it & wanted to look like my sister😆
Trans 🏳️⚧️ Journey Update:
Being on HRT has changed the way I experience orgasms. Its been 4months since I last ejaculated semen. I was worried when my libido dropped initially. But after starting progesterone its rebounded. Yesterday I had my 1st triple orgasm. It was amazing.
GM fab people. Today Im answering a question I get asked lots. Whats my relationship status? Im in a longterm relationship with a bisexual man. Hes very supportive of the changes in my life. Im open about my posts & relationships Ive formed online. But hes a very private person.
Just had ultrasound done of my testicles and will find out soon if I need to have orchiectomy done before the vaginoplasty. I really hope not. Would rather have all done at the same time.
Trans 🏳️⚧️ Journey Update:
Now 8 months away from vaginoplasty. Haven’t allowed myself to think about it too much or get excited for it. Maybe will allow myself a few months out. Blocking it from my mind is a protective mechanism that allows me to function through the dysphoria.
@Bigdadd37421
Once upon a time there was a 28yo married dude who found himself in the hospital with a shattered leg after motorcycle accident. We’ll call him Doug. One night I went to check on Doug after giving pain meds and found him with his hand under the sheet. “Need any help Doug”, I
Dealing with a lot of dysphoria today. Some days you just can’t stand certain parts of your body. It can be suffocating. I have to remember that everything is a process and change takes time. Much love to y’all.
A love letter 2 my gender queer family:
Whether U R transgender, non-binary, gender variant, non-conforming, or just a goddamn gorgeous unicorn; know the love for U in the universe is greater than the hate. U R special. U have existed in 2 worlds & understand the energy of both
@Eunuchpig
Thank you. They have shrunk, but they were small to begin with. I do still get erections but I no longer cum. I just get really wet and then orgasm, but nothing comes out. Definitely a decrease in libido. I don’t need to get off every day. I would say I wanting sex about 50% less
@CaptainBobbyV
I assume 95% of the people reaching out to me are fake. But then there are a few who are the real deal. And I have actually made a couple real connections with others who are going through the same process as myself. And that’s pretty wonderful.
@Rhett695
Thank you. I know in the coming year there is a lot going on with my transition. So, if I am going to take a new job it is important for me to be transparent from the start.
@Eunuchpig
Other changes have been in my skin and hair. My skin has become really soft. My beard has become lighter and thinner. The hair on my head has become fuller (I’m also using finasteride/minoxidil topically). My body hair is thinner but I am also doing laser hair removal on my torso
@Pup19911
I have actually decided to proceed with vaginoplasty without gender transition. I would continue to identify non-binary, male presenting…only with a vagina.