If somebody went through something traumatic, (man or woman) and they choose to tell their story, I would NEVER shame them or blame them for what happened to them!
@GoodGirlzClub
She was 15...she was definitely lame af for that but that was 10 years ago. She might still be racist now or she might be a completely different person, who knows but if we were all judged by the things we did 10 years ago, we'd all be canceled.