I think stressing over a man is pointless. The choices they make are completely out of your control & their behaviour has nothing to do with you. All you can do is pray that God allows the right partner into your life & drag anyone who doesn’t care for you properly out.
If a man really cares about you, you won’t have to ask him to call you. You won’t have to ask him to see you, take you out, or even text you. You won’t have to ask him for anything because he’ll do it without you having to ask.
I’ve noticed I don’t have an issue communicating. My issue is people’s responses . It’s the lack of accountability and the one-sided perceptions that I cannot tolerate.
Nobody can ever gaslight me into thinking I’m a bad person, I have my ways and I have my days but I’m solid and my love is real and genuine every step of the way.
That toxic shit will have your skin ugly, body out of shape, attitude messed up, spirit not lifted, faith broken, vision blurry and you in your feelings. Ain’t shit like being at peace and happy.
This year has really tested my faith, my mental health, my finances, & my heart. Yet through it all I’m still standing. I thank God for helping me get through tough times & he didn’t allow them to go through me.
I hate being yelled at or spoken to harshly. Even if you’re trying to correct me, I really would intake what you’re saying better if you come at me with a better tone.
Took myself out the mix, getting my life together, learning to keep things private. Just trying to accept some situations for what they are. Staying in my lane not bothering anyone. In hopes of no one bothering me. Literally just protecting my peace. ❤️
Heavy on the “Thank you God” not just for materialistic things but for always making a way for me. Keeping my head above water and, for always counting me in when everyone counted me out. ❤️
My biggest flex is that nobody ever knows what’s really going on in my life. Where I am, who I’m with, or my next move, unless I make it known. Therefore anything anyone says is an assumption. Privacy is my luxury. Privacy is my peace.
You really gotta be strong enough to know who you are because you will run into a lot of people throughout this lifetime that will try to label you everything you are not. The minute you get caught trying to convince other people. you’ve already given them too much power.