@MatthewCoast
They do not even have "something", they have Nobody, since people like that are in fact Nobody for their families and for other people in general. I have know hundreds of them.
@elonmusk
What you are trying to find out right now is most complicated thing of all: the meaning and the structure of everything.
And now you can only do it by means of abstraction, as of course technology cannot cover every field of existence. And it probably never will.