Guys I’m sorry friendship is always going to be about making an effort, if you don’t want to make an effort then give up on your desire for friendship. It doesn’t make sense
Friends, I need a community favour please.
This young Black girl has been the target of a violent misogynoir attack online & I need us to show up in all her comments on her TikTok to surround her in love.
Her TikTok account;
Meh, I think even after you’ve told someone you don’t want a relationship - the moment you can see that they’re getting more invested than they should, responsibility still lies with you to step away
what is your most benign unpopular opinion? i don’t mean like “the earth is flat” type of unpopular opinion, i mean like “I think golden retrievers are annoying” unpopular opinion
A lot of women have an extremely unhealthy relationship with sex, they still see it as something you give to a man so their own pleasure isn’t prioritised
Molly Mae and Tommy breaking up is proof that everything you see on social media is what people want you to see. Happy relationships, success, etc. Don’t compare your bad days to someone’s good days 💗
There are deffo big systemic issues, but deep down, many people are just lazy. I never used to believe this but the more I discover, the more I am moving to this school of thought.
When they showed countries dropping the queen as head of state - pay attention to how Harry reacted. He quite literally said Meghan leaving was a missed opportunity for them to use her as a token figure to keep commonwealth countries subjugated looool very sinister actually
The issue with discourse around young girls ‘looking/acting older than they are’ is that you guys ALWAYS position them as perpetrators and not victims of a wider issue
Trying to explain misogyny to a lot of men is like trying to explain racism, they just don’t see it because they’re not on the receiving end. It’s really frustrating and sad.
what is your most benign unpopular opinion? i don’t mean like “the earth is flat” type of unpopular opinion, i mean like “I think golden retrievers are annoying” unpopular opinion
You guys will shame people for not having friends, shame them for making friends online, shame them for ‘oversharing’. When will it stop? Do you acc want people dead?
I think the idea that feminists don’t want love stems from misogynists once again. They believe that loneliness is a guaranteed result of feminism so if you’re outspoken that must be what you want lmao. Sorry to burst your bubble
Too many people can see a person falling in love with them and take the cowardly route of ‘well i told you I didn’t want xyz’ as an excuse to continue using that individual😂😂 you’re not blameless im afraid
what is your most benign unpopular opinion? i don’t mean like “the earth is flat” type of unpopular opinion, i mean like “I think golden retrievers are annoying” unpopular opinion
Gosh I can’t begin to imagine what all of this was like before we had the internet - do you know how many lies oppressors would’ve successfully gotten away with
People don't discuss how emotionally high maintenance women are. Forget the financials. The emotional side is a lot of work, in itself. The patience and empathy you have to have to maintain a woman's happiness and emotional stability is second to none.
A girl said she feels her beauty is capped wearing braids and girls went to post pictures and videos of themselves in braids under her tweet? Have you people totally lost the plot?
I hate this whole playing it cool, pretending not to like a person too much, so unnatural. It becomes a competition about who is the most unbothered. No thanks tell me you love me immediately
Asked for 700k. No business plan, didn’t know where the gym would be, wanted 100% ownership and now thinks she can ‘gotcha’ everyone meanwhile the gym is still in a folder. Okey dokey
A lot of people don’t want to admit that friendships are just placeholders for them until they find a romantic partner. It’s very evident in the way you guys discuss this stuff 🤣
I think people need to be honest about using their kids to make their own lives easier rather than acting like it’s a necessity in order for a child to learn responsibility
If a child has been living rent free for 18+ years they get a job and the parents’ circumstances haven’t changed then why are they actually paying rent??
Term of the day: ‘bootstrap mentality’
Seeing your individual successes as evidence of everyone else having that same capability but just not working hard enough to achieve it
Women should be wary of their friendships with cishet men. Quite often you’re expected to provide the emotional support that they don’t expect from their own male friends, and you end up being the crutch until they find a girlfriend and find no use for you anymore