THIS is where I say , “ion owe you shit”. Especially not my saddness or sulking. People have a right to move on as quickly as their heart allows them too. Those who want you to be stuck on stupid over them, just be mad they cant control YOU
Actually...I disagree with “saving the youth from serious relationships before 25”. The heartbreak is inevitable , but you defly don’t wanna experience your first one when you’re 25+
It is really a different kind of feeling when you are dealing with someone who not only supports your dreams, but they’ll do almost anything to see you reach them, just off the strength of believing in you
I love every single thing I have right now. Love every single thing I’m aiming to obtain. I even see people, as blessings. Im grateful for it all —life itself, for sure
“That’s how I talk to everybody”
Well ... not only did you just tell me I’m not even worth you considering the adjustment , but that you also aren’t capable of putting yourself aside in a manner that actually makes you susceptible for positive change
Took me QUITE a while to not only understand that it was dumb , me putting myself on the backburner for someone else , but also that no one owes me anything to compensate for the dumb ass shit that comes with putting YOURSELF , last
Needed something different today
Tried my hand at making homemade honey, buttermilk biscuits.
Fried some buttermilk chicken breasts...drizzled honey on top
Infuzed it & made a chicken sammich 😋🤟🏽
Legit building with someone requires a LOT of honesty and layer shedding , & I swear a lot of people think they ready, but still be on childish ass shit.
The two don’t go
If you wanna fuck with me , fuck with ME. Get to know ME and what I need. Don’t be tryna give me what you want me to have or what YOU feel I need. Its gonna be a failure , every damn time
I wore a compression shirt today.
For the first time, ever in life.
In public.
To the gym. And felt fuckin GREAT about it—looked great as well. Even my damn stomach dawg.
I prayed for days like this ☺️😁
People have to realize things on their own time. You can literally be the best person in the world to/for someone, but like a message .. if they aren’t ready to receive you, everything will be rejected.
I like sitting back watching my boo create and knock out tasks. Chiming in when necessary or when asked to.
You do your thing ; Ima do mine .. we in the same space but giving each other space at the same time
Aint nothing more unnecessary and stressful than someone deliberately misconstruing and misinterpreting feelings and thoughts you have CLEARLY expressed , repeatedly
Dykes, I normally don’t do this but its time. Figured I needed to reel yall the fuck in for a dyke huddle.
Stop letting these fems bully you into giving their senseless, centsless ass your hard earned stacks.
My grandma passed and it literally felt like half of me was ripped away.
Then I reflected and understood just what it means for a person to be a vessel
And now I dead feel her with me, every second of each day.
Gained a spiritual ancestor & another angel
I wanna take my time. Im not rushing for a relationship with anyone — there are so many layers to people — I need to know WHO you are before I just decide to commit to the “you”
Grown adults know whats for them and whats not
Grown adults have a more keen eye for deal breakers and a low tolerance for overstepped boundaries & red flags
Grown people don’t waste time just for the sake of “3+ months of talking”
I’m just sayin
People spend 3+ months talking every day, building on a connection, learning each other etc
annnnnnnd have ONE disagreement
(not even an argument) and walk away smh
Grown adults lack the emotional “know how” to recover from basic relationship disagreements..
and it’s sad.