Me In 2021: Depressed. Extreme social anxiety. Zero game with women.
Me In 2024: Fulfilled. No self-doubt. Approached 1000+ women.
What changed?
I cured my social anxiety by doing 12 Exercises for 30 days.
And today, I share them with you.
Free for 48 hours.
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I guarantee if you learn this, she'll want to be your woman right on the first date.
This is how I transformed from shallow p***** artist to successful James Bonding Master with women:
This is Sadia Khan.
She is a Viral Relationship Coach - helping men & women find high-quality partners.
Some say she’s a fraud and a “men pleaser”.
Here are 5 of her Lessons that made me attract tons of high-quality women into my life (and will do the same for you):
When your girlfriend is mad, don’t:
• Try to fix her
• Be annoyed by her
• Think she is overreacting
Instead:
• Embrace her
• Wrestle with her
• Pick her up & spin her around
Practice love instead of trying to change her.
Most men will never learn TRUE Confidence.
Most will spend their lives being insecure, unfulfilled & unhappy.
Here are 5 little-known Traits that make you more confident than 99% of men🧵:
A Message to Overthinkers:
You overthink because you care too much about what other people think of you.
Instead, care about what you think about other people.
How To Be Happy As a Man:
• Never gossip
• Speak your truth
• Find your purpose
• Strengthen your body
• Protect your attention
• Make ambitious friends
What else would you add?
As a man, you should:
- Avoid porn
- Lift weights
- Chase your dreams
- Create a tribe of fellow men
- Start a family, raise strong kids
Strong men are needed. Now more than ever.
Self-Control is the
#1
Trait of a High-Value Man:
• Control what you eat
• Who you sleep with
• The people you hang out with.
A man who masters self-control becomes an unshakable being.
@Wizarab10
Finally someone who thinks the same.
My man, I wanna live for my true purpose and that's to serve my family in every aspect. To die for them if that is my purpose.
Nothing more rewarding in God's eyes than protecting your honor and dignity.
Fight for your honor.
Masculinity is not:
- Picking fights
- Self-Praise
- Rudeness
Masculinity is:
- Serving your family
- being humble but confident
- being respectful
True Masculinity is a gift to the world.
An attractive man has 3 Traits:
1. He's comfortable in his own skin.
2. He knows where he’s going.
3. He has fun while he’s going there.
Confidence. Meaning. Joy.
More than 70% men are unhappy.
They cannot find the joy in their lives, so they end up breaking up with their woman.
5 ways you can cultivate joy in your life:
How I went from insecure & zero game with women to a secure man who approached 1000+ women (my life story):
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When I was 13, I was:
‣ shy
‣ insecure
‣ intimidated by women
When I was 19, I had:
‣ 0 game with girls
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All your relationships end up in bad break-ups?
NOT ANYMORE (if you avoid this stupid mistake):
Imagine this scenario...
You go to dinner with your woman.
She craves your attention.
But you:
• scroll on Instagram
• check the scores of football matches
• are simply not
@yaygha
That's my father.
Kind, selfless and conflict-avoidant person.
Who was devalued and exploited by his friends, partner and even his family.
I admire your post bro.
You opened my eyes, thank you.
An integrated man has 2 sides:
1.Strong, masculine, doesn’t talk too much
2.Vulnerable, in touch with his feminine side, strong communication
The more you’re touch with your core the more integrated you’ll be.
7 Habits that make you unattractive:
1. Complaining
2. Overapologizing
3. Defensive behavior
4. Weak body language
5. Shallow conversations
6. Cannot admit mistakes
7. Cannot handle criticism
Fix those to become a social butterfly.
You’re insecure because you’re:
⁃ Stuck in your head
⁃ Worry about what people think of you
⁃ Worry about what to say next
You heal by:
⁃ Practicing Presence
⁃ Focusing on what you think of people
⁃ Breathe deeply & relax your body when you’re stuck.
How To Get ahead of 99% of men:
1. Eat Healthy
2. Go to the Gym
3. Start a Business
4. Find your clothing/hairstyle
5. Stop complaining & take responsibility
It never has been that easy.
"I shouldn't be feeling like this, this's unfair. Fu*k women!"
Again, it didn't go how you expected it, and you feel frustrated and pissed.
I felt the same brotha.
Tomorrow I'm releasing a thread on how to take care of resistances that pull you away from success with women.
This is Mark Manson.
He used to be a Popular Dating Coach.
Some say he’s arrogant and an “ex play-boy”.
Here are 8 Lessons from his book “Models: Attract Women Through Honesty” that made me attract high-quality women into my life (and will do the same for you):
My brothers and a bit of sisses showing me great support lately.
300 followers feels f*cking amazing.
Thank you everyone for spreading love with me.
I love you all, and let's continue growing together <3
Fake friends like you being fake.
Fake friends don’t like you being you.
Real friends don’t like you being fake.
Real friends like you being you.
Smart will understand.
In the last 2 days:
• I didn't post 3 p/day
• I didn't publish my newsletter
• I've been on a trip with my family
My sister is defending her thesis.
I regret nothing.
Be there for your loved ones.
Business will be there tomorrow too.
Masculinity is strong.
Masculinity is honest.
Masculinity is protecting.
Masculinity is courageous.
Masculinity is determination.
Masculinity is a shining light in the darkness.
Harsh Truth:
You're socially anxious because you're scamming people.
The moment you speak your truth & show your real face, you are free.
Once I put my mask off, I got rid of social anxiety.
Most men feel misunderstood, ignored and disrespected.
The cause - Poor communication skills.
Here are 5 simple Communication Strategies to make people pay attention to you🧵:
If you feel that you're not great enough:
• Start from your own depth
• List every single reason why you think you're not great (evoke the memories that might have impacted your feelings)
• Find mentors, friends, partners, those you can admire
• Copy their high-value
Treat women like shit & you attract women with low self-esteem & low self-respect.
Treat women with respect while being assertive and you'll attract women with high self-esteem & self-respect.
Socially Anxious? Struggling to date women?
I was the same 3 years ago.
Socially awkward & zero game.
So I paid $10k+ to learn from the best mentors - 3 years later, I cured my social anxiety and date beautiful women every week.
In 24 hours I’m giving everything I learned
How To Listen To Women:
⁃ Feel the words she's speaking
⁃ The emotions behind her voice
⁃ Watch her body language
Active Listening will make anyone fall in love with you.
You're accepted.
You're unconditionally loved.
You're whole and complete.
External world is lying to you.
If you feel unloved, let me tell you this:
• You're guided
• You're provided
• You're supported
• By your Creator
You have:
• Access to infinite possibilities
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How To Build Character:
• Do hard things
• Talk to strangers
• Embrace uncertainty
• Have tough conversations
• Step out of your comfort zone
There's no way around it.
As a high-value man you have to control:
• what you eat
• what you consume
• who you have sex with
• who you hang out with
A man who masters self-control becomes an unshakable being.
Confidence people take up space & are relaxed.
Anxious people shrink & are tense.
Quick Fix:
Open up your chest, stand wide with open arms & be present.
Every Man can be attractive.
Don’t Focus on Looks. Money. Status.
Focus On Confidence. Purpose. Joy.
If you’re not attractive, it’s your fault. Not Gods.
How To Overcome Your Fears:
1. Acknowledges your fears
2. Lean into your fears
3. Don’t hide them from people
4. Don’t hide from them from yourself
Fear is your compass – go where it leads you.
If you want to be more charismatic try this:
Watch the people you interact with 20% more attention than you normally would.
A new world will open up. Their world...
Me in 2022:
• Lonely
• Love-starved
• Beauty-obsessed
• Seeking validation
Me in 2024:
• Patient
• Cultivating connections
• Embracing natural romance
I’m offering men help to break free from internal barriers that hold them back in dating women,
DM me
The better you feel, the more open your body language will be.
And the more open your body language, the better you will feel.
So stand up straight with your shoulders back & watch your mind become more confident.
3 Simple Tips to make people respect you more:
1. Stop apologizing if you didn’t do anything wrong.
2. Stop overexplaining yourself.
3. Speak to everybody like you already know them.
Try these for 30 days & people's perception of you will change forever.
The Mindset of a High-Value Man:
◦ I don't make excuses
◦ I embrace hard times
◦ I'm vulnerable but not weak
◦ I share my truth even If I get hate
◦ I take full responsibility for my life
◦ I never expect anything from others
Accuntability. Courage. Honesty.
@guideforlovers
I rejected sex with my hairdresser. She is married woman, I said: "No no, you ain't gonna see that happening."
I'm glad that I was mature enough to avoid silly mistakes.
Women complain that men have become “wimps”
And I agree – Here are 3 Signs you might be weak:
1. Disconnected from your purpose
2. You inhibit your deepest truth
3. You’re afraid of the consequences of being authentic to your masculine core.
Are you weak or strong?