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Product (UX/UI) Designer & Full Stack Developer • BSc Computer Science 👩🏾‍🎓 • Building @StudioAlafia • 💌 hello @desolaalafia .com

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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
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“sTaY aT yOuR pArEntS hOusE tO saVe MoNeY” there’s no privacy or peace here I can’t do this anymore😭
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@DesolaAlafia
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I had a 17 year old come to me saying he doesn’t think he can date cos he’s not financially stable and able to afford the right lifestyle? Guys you are KIDS
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@DesolaAlafia
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My mum bought a saxophone. I completely understand why all the other fish treated Squidward the way they did
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@DesolaAlafia
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4 years
Emotional abuse ruins your view on new relationships. You’re constantly trying to protect yourself from threats that don’t even exist.
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@DesolaAlafia
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4 years
I like soft, patient & kind men. All that aggressive masculine energy isn't for me.
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@DesolaAlafia
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Working at a good company really shifts your view on 9-5 vs being self employed
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@DesolaAlafia
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Setting a crazy goal and actually reaching it changes the way you view the world. Anything is possible.
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@DesolaAlafia
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2 years
Gen Z decided that they weren’t gonna have heart attacks at 50 from work related stress and the older generations are mad about it
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@DesolaAlafia
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3 years
I find it so distasteful when people use other peoples tragedies to highlight “how blessed they are”.
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@DesolaAlafia
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4 years
YouTube was initially meant to be a video dating app, it didn’t work out & they changed strategies and now YouTube is one of the biggest video sharing platforms to date. Failure can really open doors for success to come through
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@DesolaAlafia
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2 years
As much as I want to be a luxury lifestyle babe rn, theres a LOT of financial responsibilities and milestones I want to hit first.
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@DesolaAlafia
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2 years
Nobody is asking the right questions, what do you guys do for work that you can spend £8k on drinks
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@DesolaAlafia
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2 years
They’re soaking everything up that they’re seeing online
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@DesolaAlafia
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2 years
Having a partner that cares about my goals and actively supports them is a non negotiable for me. None of this “ohh okay that’s cool” business
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@DesolaAlafia
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1 year
The way this UK treats graduates, you’d think you’re being punished for going to uni😭
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@DesolaAlafia
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4 years
This week I saw a woman charge £3k for a website design she built in a day that has 3 pages and doesn’t translate to mobile. My imposter syndrome has left my body.
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@DesolaAlafia
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Budgeting and saving is great but I’ve come the conclusion that reckless spending is in my DNA so the only thing I can do is work harder so I can earn more
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
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- yes I love my parents & I’m close with them - yes I can afford bills - yes I already have savings for a house Pls I didn’t ask for financial advice in my DMs😩 My dad told me to wash plates at 7am and I ran to twitter 😭😭
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@DesolaAlafia
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2 years
You guys talk about Tech like it’s a get rich quick scheme it’s so odd.
@haroldsphinx
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2 years
That whole “Tech money” facade is about to disappear right before our eyes.
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@DesolaAlafia
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4 years
Last year, Hermes had a turnover of £749.5 million, and despite consistent disappointment, people still use them. But it’s the 19 year old black girl by herself packaging orders whilst studying that is publicly ripped to shreds. I don’t like it.
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@DesolaAlafia
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5 years
Who’s we? My God is greater
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@DesolaAlafia
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10 months
Life comes at you so fast so if you’re wise, don’t mock people’s situations or think you’re above them.
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@DesolaAlafia
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4 years
Heartbreak is so dramatic & funny to look back on, you actually feel like you’ll never see happiness again 😭😭
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@DesolaAlafia
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4 months
Just got back from my first solo trip and the girlies were right. Solo travel is amazing!
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@DesolaAlafia
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4 years
Social media has put so much unneeded stress on young people "making it" by a certain age. There is literally no time limit to success.
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@DesolaAlafia
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3 years
The people that can work 9-5 and then work on their own business from 6-10 are superhuman 😭
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@DesolaAlafia
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6 months
I did this and it worked, but I had to let go of my human rights for a while 😭😭😭
@flynanced
Cinneah of Flynanced
6 months
if you're a corporate girlie who wants to jump a level and pay, it's time for you to start targeting smaller, startup companies where you can get a more senior title and upskill more quickly.
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@DesolaAlafia
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3 years
I do not know how people have the strength to go through all these dates & talking stages.
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@DesolaAlafia
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2 years
You guys are really dragging this out so read this thread cos I’m not explaining myself 👍🏾
@sxeb17
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2 years
notice how he didn’t say any girl turned him down it’s just that he *FEELS* they will probably from watching pick up gurus that youtube algorithm shoves down everyone’s throat yet the quotes are blaming grown women
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
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I’m just a 24 year old teenager trying to balance my career, going to the gym, up-skilling, finding time to socialise with friends, supporting my family, growing in Christ and building my business.
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@DesolaAlafia
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@King_Ed12 I wasn’t shaming anybody? I was given that advice and the advice doesn’t work for me, that’s all I was saying
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@DesolaAlafia
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Saving is important and wise but I don’t think life is just for saving saving saving and not enjoying anything.
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@DesolaAlafia
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Staying at home & saving until you’re financially stable enough to get your own place is a wise decision. It’s nothing to feel shame about & it’s weird that ppl debate over it so much.
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@DesolaAlafia
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Being patient and trusting the process can be so difficult, especially when it feels like nothing is happening
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@DesolaAlafia
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2 months
For me: Lifting weights x5 a week 10,000 steps a day (minimum) Pilates x4 a week Yoga x2 a week Swimming once a week Boxing once a week Feels absolutely amazing for my mental health too!
@alondramaren
alondra
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i go to the gym 5x a week, walk 3 miles daily, one cycling class a week, and pilates 3x a month… like i am committed to being sexy
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@DesolaAlafia
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2 years
I forget some of you are engaged in criminal activity nvm😭
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@DesolaAlafia
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2 years
I feel like every day we are being told what to do with our twenties, it’s information overload at this point
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@DesolaAlafia
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4 years
You are so incredibly lucky if the only thing this pandemic has done is “annoy” you or “ruin your fun”
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@DesolaAlafia
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The #LoveIsBlindUK weddings went EXACTLY how I wanted them to. Bring on the reunion!!!!
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@DesolaAlafia
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You work so hard and then they move the goalpost. Again.
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@DesolaAlafia
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3 years
I love when people dig up old tweets of them talking to themselves about what they want, and then repost it with them in the present having achieved it. 🥺🥺
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@DesolaAlafia
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@sxeb17 Yes! The tweet got too out of control for me to care to respond or defend anything, but he was literally just opening up about his concerns. He hasn’t even spoken to the girl, it’s just a school crush, he just doesn’t know how to navigate dating yet that’s it😭😭😭
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@DesolaAlafia
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2 years
My mum sees my twitter so if you see this I love you mama❤️😭
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
4 years
#DailyUI Day 1/100: So today I made a super simple login & register page using JavaScript, HTML & JSS ⌨️ #100DaysofCode #100DaysofDesign
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@DesolaAlafia
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If my husband is on £120k I pray he uses wisdom and never talks like this
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@DesolaAlafia
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2 years
To the hundredth person that wants to remind me that he plays the clarinet:
@_tmakaveli
as told by laia
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everyone in the comments bringing up the fact that squidward played the clarinet …
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@DesolaAlafia
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6 years
Someone deffo hurt Dani deeply in the past. This isn't coming from nowhere. #loveisland
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@DesolaAlafia
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1 year
I love remote work and I can’t imagine life without it. My commute is 20 seconds between my bed and my desk.
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@DesolaAlafia
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I really respect the girls that still believe in finding love. I, however, am exhausted and have planned out my life as the fun rich aunty
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@DesolaAlafia
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1 year
Because when we talk about it, especially on social media, people try to ruin it for others & call their workplaces to complain.
@PHREN0L0GY
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I wish British people were more open about their salaries to allow other people to better negotiate their contracts but everyone is all hush hush
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
2 years
Anyways I just graduated this week 🥳and I’m a Web Developer & Designer so follow me or HMU for any pieces or websites xx
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Desola Alafia
1 year
I could write a whole dissertation on how social media has inflated peoples egos and created a delusional sense of self importance
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Desola Alafia
2 years
Cos this isn’t even tech money pls
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@DesolaAlafia
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@melreylaw I’m happy she’s occupying herself sha, im gonna try and make her go to lessons Outside of our home cos 😭
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
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I’m 22 and I look crazy trying every business venture and jumping at new opportunities all the time but better now than later 👍🏾
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@DesolaAlafia
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2 years
Every update that has come out about this “period of mourning” has made me look at this country differently.
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London rail companies allow mourners who miss the last train to sleep overnight in spare trains 🚉 [THREAD] 🧵
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@DesolaAlafia
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You can literally feel it when you’re entering a new chapter of your life. It’s uncomfortable and exciting at the same time
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@DesolaAlafia
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3 years
UX/UI Design isn’t just about design? The research, interviews, testing and generally understanding the users etc is just as important if not more
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@DesolaAlafia
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Second solo trip of the year done! Loved Santorini 🇬🇷☀️
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@DesolaAlafia
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Ending a relationship because you aren’t equally yoked to each other is painful but necessary
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@DesolaAlafia
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2 years
Half the “advice” I see on Twitter will either keep you single or broke in real life
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@DesolaAlafia
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4 years
It’s sad watching innocent & good people go through horrible situations and coming out completely different. Literally robbed of their happiness and you can see it so clearly.
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
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Heartbreak & depression made me explore my talents more and now my bank account smiles back at me x
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@DesolaAlafia
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4 years
There’s barely any girls in tech, let alone black girls & that’s why I love meeting other girls like me
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@DesolaAlafia
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3 years
Overestimating how much a guy likes you is why so many girls get hoodwinked and heartbroken
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
3 years
Like with the astroworld festival, maybe it’s not the time to say “wow coming back home is such an underrated blessing ❤️❤️🙏🙏” do you hear yourself?
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@DesolaAlafia
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You gain nothing from being shy
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TL, What advice would you give your younger self?
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@DesolaAlafia
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My biggest prayer aside from success is for peace. You can have the dream life people would kill for, but without peace you cannot truly enjoy anything.
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
1 year
Sorry I’m not a stingy babe but the price increases these days are ridiculous. Things are doubling in price and the quality is decreasing??
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@DesolaAlafia
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@afrotechbabe Fr!! It’s hard to complain really🤣😭
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
3 years
You can be grateful and acknowledge your blessings without using other peoples tragedies as a baseline for your gratitude?
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@DesolaAlafia
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1 year
@hyperotsadoc Same! I’m really grateful for it too, and you’re absolutely right. Everything has its pros and cons and everyone’s lifestyle preferences are different too!
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@DesolaAlafia
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This is the BEST feeling in the world.
@t0nit0ne
TONI TONE
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Getting exactly what you wanted after people said your expectations are unrealistic >>>>>>>
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@DesolaAlafia
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100%!!! I worked on my portfolio for 5 months, kept challenging myself and applied for 110+ jobs. It all pays off one day🤞🏾
@Anifowobi
Babatunde
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People who have made it in this tech might not have known when it’d happen but they just didn’t stop improving. Your breakthrough may be just around the corner. Don't give up now. You've come too far to quit.
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
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And with COVID: “Wow everyone’s losing loved ones and dying but we’re still here, what a blessing🙏🙏🙏🌈🌈🌈❤️❤️” shut up?
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
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There’s a babe that makes £4,000 a day for a 5 page website. Lord, change my story!😩
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
2 years
I hate when you’re angry with a guy and they start trying to make you laugh😭😭
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
2 months
Some of the most qualified and decorated professionals I know just tweet about what they had for breakfast. You’re allowed a personality outside of work. Hope that helps😭
@Ivy_Elebesunu
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“I’m into marketing” “I’m a Data Analyst” Proceeds to find their socials And all I can see is rants🫠 How do you expect me to take you seriously?
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
2 years
And if you’re a UX UI designer, programmer or just interest in tech, I’m a tech page so follow me 🥰xx
@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
4 years
#DailyUI Day 1/100: So today I made a super simple login & register page using JavaScript, HTML & JSS ⌨️ #100DaysofCode #100DaysofDesign
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1 year
God needs to open my future husband’s eyes to collect me I’m so tired
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@DesolaAlafia
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4 years
If things go wrong, of course you are entitled to make a complaint. My point here is publicly ripping small black owned businesses to shreds (whilst telling everyone that it’s black owned to add fuel to the fire) is the problem.
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@DesolaAlafia
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4 years
Biblically accurate angels look really scary 😭
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@DesolaAlafia
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2 years
Travelling around the world with the love of your life sounds so fun
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
2 years
“The worst they can say is no” is the best piece of advice I’ve ever received. It changes your outlook & perspective on a lot of things
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@DesolaAlafia
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2 years
This was in response to a 30yr old podcaster saying Gen Z don’t have resilience at work but apparently not all Millennials agree with that, my bad!😭 Love that for all of us xx
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
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A lot of ppl hit that stage where they’re obsessed with self help/development but once you get used to it and the novelty wears off it’s just you and discipline. It’s not glamorous or motivational. Sometimes it’s just repeating the same thing everyday
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
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After 5 long years, I’ve finally graduated as a Bachelor of Computer Science 🥰🎓✨ #Classof2022
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@DesolaAlafia
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2 years
No longer waiting for the “right time” or a special occasion to do/use nice things.
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@DesolaAlafia
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4 years
Bruh 😭
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
1 year
@ladidaix I hope you get it too, you’ve got this!! It took me months of prayers, God will pull through!! 🙌❤️
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@DesolaAlafia
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The day you stop caring about looking like a “beg” by UK standards is the day you’ll be set free
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
8 months
Getting quite obsessed with prioritising wellness whilst growing in my career & business. Burnout is not cute and stress literally kills.
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
1 year
I’ve been running away from starting a YouTube channel for so long but I’ve finally posted my first video on: ✅ UX/UI Design ✅ Programming ✅ Productivity ✅ Getting into Tech! 🥳👩🏾‍💻 Watch Here 🔗:
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
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15,626 brush strokes later ✍️ Concept YT video animation for Miss R Fabulous by me🙋🏾‍♀️ IG: @designsbydesola
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
5 years
I really refused to believe this until I saw with my own eyes of Getty Images. Lord have mercy 😭😭😭
@niajanelle__
Nia
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Don’t be fooled by instagram.
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@DesolaAlafia
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Using other people’s misfortune to state why you should be grateful or feel better about yourself is always weird idc
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@DesolaAlafia
Desola Alafia
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@jennasworldview @abbieadjoa_ It’s really weird. And some ppl LOVEEE seeing negative tech news bc they throw in the “I knew it was a scam” comments like tech hasn’t been around for decades 💀😭
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