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Joined April 2009
Viewing men as inherently evil and unfixable becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. We donāt believe that they can be better so we donāt hold them to the same standards. This idea is throwing away little boys without even trying to raise a better future.
The thing about women not wanting a son is so real and valid because sadly no amount of had home teaching and sacrifice is a match for socialization and patriarchy. Like really might just hate women (and you) when its all said and done.
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Why yāall donāt be excited to be nice.
Can't wait to ask my son āwho's this ugly girl on my couchā.
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@AsiaChloeBrown Usher v BeyoncƩ is really the only reasonable suggestion. Usher has no male peers on his level.
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Yāall be beefing with literal babies and think yāall in the right?.
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@shaTIRED @thekrissychula They view us as entertainment and believe everything we do is up for grabs.
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I saw this linguist on TikTok talking about how all words associated with marginalized groups have a process of going from positive/neutral to negative/slur because the societal view of the group is negative so all words specific to them turn negative.
Any phrase that is used to praise black women will eventually become a slur in the mouths of those who hate black women, and that is a lot more people than you might think- especially because those numbers include bw who hate bw.
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@AsToldByKenya Zendaya getting roles doesnāt open up space for other types of Black girls to get roles. It just normalizes using biracial women as Black womenās representation.
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@AsToldByKenya Itās really naive to think just because zendaya auditions for white/race neutral roles that once sheās casted the project doesnāt use her as the token POC ei euphoria. They view themselves as diverse because zendaya and Alexa but have no people dark than a paper bag on their show.
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@ken_knee_666 Socialization is changeable because people are changeable. My only point is the future doesnāt have to look like the past. We are in control of that.
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@perchpercin30s @sunsetsmalum @itsmadimay Yāall donāt think itās weird to make jokes like this about small children? Like misogyny aside, itās not creepy to you to think about a little girl in that way?.
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@la_ROCA__ I can read. I just disagree that nothing can be done. Sorry for being optimistic.
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@britshaniece Because people are going to spend their money however they please and she canāt control that. The smarter move is what she did because she pushed the brand to make a donation to the cause. That actively helps people on the ground in a way boycotting fashion nova would not have.
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Also putting the pictures next to BeyoncĆ© and being like āsee look she grew out of looking like her dad with the more ethnic featuresā and the comments about her hair now. itās not saying what you think itās saying.
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@Platinum_bri @itskeyon @tayfromsouth And who do you think is paying the government officals to enact laws to keep the poor poor and funnel tax payer money back into rich peopleās pockets?.
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@AsiaChloeBrown Grownish is not good. They never gave Zoey a personality on Blackish so she no foundation to draw from and her characterization is all over the place. Thereās too much focus on her relationships. They hardly mention school + so many things that just donāt make sense plot wise.
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@JamilahLemieux I asked my mom if she thought about us being able to get jobs when she named us. (I love my name.I was just curious.) She said she wasnāt thinking about no white people when she named us and she just picked names she thought were beautiful.
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@billiskykobina Did you intervene? Did you help him get to safety? Or are you just using this story as a way to down play and both sides violence against women? Because I never said or implied men canāt be or arenāt abused.
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That olay body wash is the truth. And ever since Jackie talked about it I canāt find it in the store anymore.
PART TWO: my favorite drugstore skincare and makeup from cvs . sincerely,.me :p a licensed esthetician & makeup artist
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@tamarantulla 100% agree. There are social influences that will have an impact on how your child behaves. We as a community and society need to raise boys better. You canāt do that with idea that theyāre going to grow into an āevil manā mindset tho.
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@DeeLaSheeArt My post was about children. Children are a marginalized group. Children are hurt by parents who have negative attitudes towards them regardless of gender.
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@AsToldByKenya && The Nanny! Fran was supposed to be working class and was wearing head to toe designer every episode.
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This what I said! All of a sudden everybody mentally stable š¤Ø.
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@LifeoftheHvet @WhyLAx20 Child stars do not get paid that much and Skai was not the lead on her show. She is most likely not a millionaire. Halle is probably made a million dollars but I doubt sheās liquid anywhere near that. Keke is the only one I agree with.
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@AsToldByKenya a lot of these show runners think if youāre not telling a āBlackā story then Black people arenāt needed. Itās the white supremacist idea of whiteness as default & everything else as other. The show is about teens not race & if you bring a visably Black girl in you make it racial.
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@Chasteriia I was speaking about male children. Grown men are responsible for their own behavior. There are ways we can hold them accountable that we donāt though and lot of that is because we donāt believe they can be better so we have low expectations for āgood menā.
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@AsToldByKenya Blue a Capricorn they probably both in that house giving everybody hell šš.
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When giving me a tour and we saw a Black baby a white lady at my job unprovoked told me that Black babies be afraid of her because āthey think Iām a social worker coming to take them away from their mommyā mind you all the baby did was wave.
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@DeeLaSheeArt The men boys grow into is under our control. If you donāt believe good men can exist that bleeds into how you raise boys.
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Please leave my good sis Hayley out of this narrative. Black people love Paramore. šš.
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@crissles Fabulous music is wack so niggas really just going up for him off the strength of misogyny. You hate to see it.
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@xox_meleah_xox You may wanna try HCL acid supplement and digestive enzymes for your issues. I was having similar problems and adding those was a game changer.
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@CartierCriminal And when did homophobia start? Last week? Do you even know what LGBT people deal with globally? The us Supreme Court just said decided a week ago you can no longer be fired for being gay/trans! Also, Black LGBT people are still Black. They deal with both racism and homophobia.
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@StormLegend37 @perchpercin30s @sunsetsmalum @itsmadimay Lol I got what he meant. Still a weird projection.
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I want to fight this tweet.
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@JustRose17 @NikkiLimo It absolutely speaks to their character that they saw thousands of Black people marching and mourning another lost of life and thought the murder of a child was good fodder for jokes. It shows a disgusting lack of empathy and care for Black people.
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@JamilahLemieux My family is all in on ethic names. Grandkids include Iesha, Kiara, Tiana(me), Shaniqua, Khazyra, Trevon, Taeja, Khylil, and Taliyah.
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Men are so delusional and unserious. You and Tom Brady do not have the same type of problems.
Tom Bradyās wife divorcing him cuz he wants to play football. Im never getting married, I aināt giving up basketball lol š.
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@BrookeObie @WrittenByHanna @netflix I just did I video about Black girl representation in childrenās shows and of all the shows with any Black girl representation only like 3 of them were brown skin/dark skin. Where Are All the Black Girls in Children's Media?
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@theferocity āHe aināt mine I just let him eat me out from time to time.ā I say this randomly all day long.
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@ise_tan45 @HercPuppigan @slaveslop @yeahdorien @BrandonMH1 @WowAubrie @Rachellemmma If people in the targeted group are saying itās offensive, you canāt decide itās not. Why not just listen to the offended party instead of gaslighting people to protect some stranger kids whoās intentions youāve already said you donāt know.
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You can see it with any word associated with a marginalized group like Negro used to just mean black, mistress was the feminine version of mister, etc they were neutral words that have taken on a more negative connotation over time. He explained it better but it was interesting.
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Why can yāall understand toxic control over womenās bodyās when it comes to abortion bans but not when it comes to online bullying of young women who CHOOSE to have babies??? Itās not your business or choice what these women do with their bodies!!!!!!.
When a young woman gets pregnant unexpectedly I absolutely treat it like a funeral. Because it is. She need to know if she never understood it, that a part of her is about to die so this baby can live. I donāt care how harsh it sound. That gentle shit do not be working.
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@jiggyjayy2 āInherently evilā was being dramatic I thought that was obvious. Point was just feeling negatively about having boy children because of the actions of adult men isnāt fair to the boys and locks them into predetermined lower expectations.
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@AsToldByKenya I was listening to Licorice the other day and a single tear fell from my eye as I thought, āwhy couldnāt she just shut the fuck up and make music?ā šš.
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@RideOrDie636 @AsToldByKenya Push for the hiring of dark skin women in any project sheās in. Recommend dark skin girls for roles she doesnāt take. Produce projects staring/including dark skin girls.
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@TMoneyFrmDaM Oh, I kink shame! But I wasnāt just then just asking a question. Point being thereās a difference between attraction to more than one gender and desire for group sex or even desire to see your partner engage in sex acts with someone else. Every one isnāt into that.
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@MercedesMantis @NikkiLimo Are you dumb? How is making jokes about a murdered teen in any way okay to do? There is no context in which that doesnāt cause harm. The intent was to make a joke about a murdered teen. They thought dead Black people are funny! Whatās not clicking??.
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@14linesinapoem The whole video I was like, āsurely this is a joke and they are about to tell them they switched it with lemonadeā but they never did ā¹ļø.
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Flipping between this and 106&Party . yeah . the good ole daysš„ŗ.
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@simonefiasco_ People volunteer all they business on this website and Iāve never understood it. Twitter is not a safe space. Itās actually the most dangerous space. š.
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Ok because Everything is Love was good yāall just hate Jay Z. (I do too but I canāt make the music not bop.).
Y'all keep saying no Jay Z on the album but can you mention a bad JayoncƩ collab? Exactly.
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Itās literally our tax money?? If you donāt know how government programs work just say that!.
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@CokeBottleNisha @darkestlove_E @LIBGyal You donāt have to bootlick for billionaires I promise. There is no ethical way to be a billionaire. Hoarding that much money is immoral.
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@AsToldByKenya I say this all the time š if I come in the relationship with no kids, Iām leave with no kids š¤·š¾āāļø.
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@AmeriKraut The funniest part to me is she IDs as Black/Afro-Latinx in Black spaces but excludes her herself from blackness when itās time to play victim.
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@DeeLaSheeArt I donāt think weāll agree on this. My point is just an optimistic view of what is possible.
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@distinctly_Kara I am speaking solely about male children. But who gives a fuck tho. Bad men donāt deserve access to community simply for existing. You donāt have to feel obligated to entertain men you feel are beneath you.
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āMarriage is sex workā only makes sense in the context that sex is something you do for your husband and not because you enjoy it. Most women, I would assume, are not solely having sex with their husband for financial stability.
That āmarriage is sex workā argument really pisses me off. If yall wanna sell your box, sell it bro. But please stop blurring the lines with fuckery because you have never seen a successful marriage in your lifetime. Everyday women are getting harder to defend.
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@Chasteriia Iām not saying transform them. Iām saying hold men to the same standard you hold women in your life. If theyāre causing harm and refusing to change, remove them. Bad men donāt deserve access to community. They either do the work or be lonely.
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@FinanceFancy @thatssosolana @Platinum_bri @itskeyon @tayfromsouth Thatās the point? No one should be hoarding that much money. 1 billion dollars is more than a person would ever need in 10 lifetimes and people like Jeff bezo have 100 billion. No one should be allowed to keep that much money and not contribute substantially to society.
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@AsiaChloeBrown Lmao I saw. Itās so obvious to me I figured most people would suggest her. Idk what the obsession with JT is about. I guess because the battles have been so gendered thus far.
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@ToonrificTariq People feel so self important that if they donāt like something they think everyone else should hate it too. Weirdos.
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@IBN_HD @ItsFeelingsBob @noname People canāt buy food with āgameā. Billionaires are money hoarders and Black capitalists arenāt better than white capitalists. Itās all immoral.
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Me googling everyday if Promising Young Woman has been released on digital yet and seeing no update. @PromisingFilm
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@moonlighttsouls The part thatās pissing me off the most is that itās not even funny. Like the joke is just that heās in blackface and nothing else. He got millions of subscribers off these lazy ass racist ājokesā.
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@AsToldByKenya And most people who say that donāt even be smart. They just distance themselves from AAVE and think theyāre better than people who donāt.
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@NoEmmeG The current theory is act 1 music act 2 visuals and act 3 is some live element maybe a tour. I think thatās more realistic than 3 full albums.
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@FireinFreetown @FeralPeafowl Itās 100% about treating pregnancy as a punishment and way to maintain control over women.
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@Kang72 @seth66268093 @ehschubegan @spobellove @markwby @rachsyme I say āOh my god. Iām totally buggināā minimum 10 times a day.
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@AsToldByKenya Itās the way I would kill for a adaptation of any of Sharon Draperās books.
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@xox_meleah_xox Same! Iāve had anemia and acid reflux for years and just figured out it was because my stomach wasnāt producing enough stomach acid to digest my food completely. The hcl acid supplements helps my stomach produce more acid and the enzymes help break down food. It helped so much!.
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@barbyravenclaw To All the Boys I Loved Before. Itās a perfect teen romance movie. I watch it anytime I just want to feel happy.
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@AsToldByKenya Quiet as itās kept heavy handed nuance-less feminist critique ruined media in general.
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@KaiLoveYou97 Yeah. I wanted to like it but the writers clearly donāt know what they want the show to be. I think biggest problem is Zoeyās characterization. She needs focus. (You can also tell thereās no college aged people talking to the writers because some of the dialogue is so dated.).
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@imi_desalis Why not fight to end poverty instead of shaming poor people for wanting to have the same life experiences everyone else has. Saying poor people shouldnāt have children is eugenics. just btw.
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@AsToldByKenya Yup. I moved from NJ to S.C. in middle school and got picked on because my accent āsounded whiteā and after a month it stopped being new and people moved on. If people hate you for ābeing smartā or āsounding whiteā, youāre probably being an asshole about it. Look inward.
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That article made it worse for me š¬. The way they film her is problematic especially because the character is supposed to be 16. This last episode was so many close up shots of her gyrating naked for no real reason. Itās very weird. Itās just her character too.
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@NoEmmeG This is my baby sister for real. She has a million friends and she hate all of them š Her birthday is this weekend and she donāt wanna do nothing with nobody.
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Itās like saying cooking dinner for your family is restaurant work. Yes, the act may be similar but the context and expectations are completely different.
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