Chidinma
@Chidinmaxworld
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A Princess cut from marble.
Feminist Coven
Joined September 2012
Y’all parents are really trying. Costume day at my twin brothers school, my mum wore them regularly matching outfits and said “tell them you’re Psqure” 😭😭.
Career day at my baby’s school and he showed up like this❤️❤️
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See how this man is effortlessly funny without being a sexist, misogynist foool or cosplaying as a woman.
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When I found my current apartment, the agent called the owner and told her I was an unmarried woman. The owner (a woman 😁) told him, “And so what?”. Up femco!.
It’s like we are mad in Nigeria. My younger sister tried to rent a house in Lagos and the following things were what the Landlord said. 1. I can’t rent my house to a single lady because it’s different kinds of men that you will be bringing over. 2. Who will I now be discussing.
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I honestly want Nigerian woman to aspire to live independently before they get married (for those who wanna get married). Even it’s for a year, even if it’s a self con apartment, even with roomies. Just move out of your parents house. Put it in a list of things you wanna do.
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For people that think a thug/hoodlum is something you just wake up and become.
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So he got me a Spotify bracelet, when I scan, it takes me directly to a playlist with all my favorite one direction songs 🥺🥺
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Please somebody should go to my (ex) school and buy my painting project, I won't gain anything from it but I don't want it to rot there either Biko RT till someone contacts the fine and applied arts department of University of Benin. 😥😥
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Personally as long as I will potentially carry kids for 9 months in my body, I’ve covered my own portion of the 50/50.
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This looks like joke but men never respect things that lots of women like. Music, movies, art. If lots of women gravitate towards it, it cannot be never be considered “genius” to men. For them, It’s almost a sin to like it. It is why Beyoncé will never be enough in their eyes.
Women ruined this album. Too many of them made it their life's goal to hype it up at every given opportunity keep posting screenshots of songs on the album until liking it almost became effeminate. Had to cut ties at that point.
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Life is already hard alone, if the point of marriage isn’t to partner with someone who lightens the load & vice versa. What really is the point??? If “marriage is hard” why are we upholding an institution that makes humans more miserable than they were alone.
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My sisters wore dresses they already had and I think she bought these 200 naira tiaras and said “you, tell them you’re Cinderella, you, tell them you’re Snow White”. My mom >>.
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Love is easy. Everyday I wake, I choose my partner, no amount of money, seduction & manipulation will sway me. If he decides to be swayed that’s on him. I refuse to be in a situation where every waking day I’m fighting for you not to be snatched, trying to outdo other women. No.
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Never met a woman who only eats fresh food. That’s how you know men who request it just wanna oppress you. They don’t like you. Run.
Initially my hubby didn’t like foods stored in the freezer 😮 He said he wanted fresh food like you cook today and everyday🙃😭. We had to have a conference meeting and afterwards he adjusted to freezer food. This is actually a topic to discuss before you say I do✅.
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Finally done with my project defense. Thank you university of Benin(ekehuan campus) for wasting my time. This should've been done last year but whatever 😪😪😪
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If you think because you’re skinny or physically fit you can go 4 straight day’s cooking nonstop without previously testing and training your body’s ability to resist sleep and tiredness, I have a land to sell you in Lekki.
if hilda baci were overweight she wouldn't last 12 hours on her feet . escalate this tweet, label me fatphobic, i literally don't care. said what tf i said💅.
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A guy sent me a porn picture of a couple having sex and I got sooo annoyed because this was somebody I was supposed to do business with. The fool proceeded to tell me I was overreacting and he just wanted to test my emotional intelligence and I failed. I can’t make this shit up.
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My brother’s middle name is Jesus is Love and Power. It’s abbreviated as JILP 💀.
Wildest thing I learnt today is burna’s sister Nissi’s full name being Jehovah-Nissi. 😭.
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Guys say this & then complain to girls about how their uni roommates finish their groundnut & food, spray their perfumes without asking, use their pots and plates without washing. The difference is that girls enforce boundaries. Y’all eat shit silently & think you’re different.
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I don’t think y’all understand how bad women have it in this country. My mum went to give bowls of soup to a woman who put to bed 2 days earlier and saw her washing a pile of clothes. 2 days! They literally left it for her to come back from child birth and wash it.
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“Imagine if the world stereotyped Nigerian women as prostitutess”. Y’all already call us Ashewo everyday.
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Even the quality of a girls education exists to give us access to “higher quality” men. Once you graduate people start talking about marriage, no talks about what you wanna do with the degree. To escape this is to literally rebel aggressively against the system.
Under patriarchy, every woman is groomed. For marriage and the male gaze. We underestimate the damage that telling little girls things like, “Is this what you’ll do in your husband’s house?” or “What if your future husband doesn’t like it?” does to the women they’ll become.
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Somebody is selling 11 of my works on an NFT platform. Jesus hold me down. I’m literally shaking. Wtfffff!.
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Unpopular Opinion: This “glorious” “all loving” personality that ppl ascribe to mothers is unhealthy. It is why society will never extend them the same grace it gives fathers in certain situations. It disregards her personhood, a full human being with the ability to make mistakes.
Nobody cares that much. Only person that will truly put you ahead of their own self is your mother.
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@ishidaokwu @AdaOhafia Who told y’all women need protection???, every excuse is because y’all want to protect women, sotay your protection reach gizzard! Habaaa.
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My painting was stolen from my studio today. They think I'm the type of Nigerian that would "let God take control". Let me just find that painting in the future, I'll sue them for all they've got in this life. The way I'll come at them won't be funny.
O jewa ke eng ?.
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If Nigerian husbands/fathers be having special spoons and plates separate from the one everyone uses, even water then Idk why y’all are shocked by this.
This is quite common with Nigerian couples, lmao why are you surprised? Infact I personally know people who fly while their wives and children take god is good motors. Its like you people don't know what the real Nigerian marriages are like o.
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Peter Obi changed us, he touched us all with his passion for dignity of labour, integrity and zeal! He walked the talk! He made the youths believe in Nigeria again but the system failed us! .Okwute! O ga di gi nma!.
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Women always have to be the prayerful ones because their husbands are usually the weapons fashioned against Christian marriages.
Many ladies are not qualified to be wives even at 28 – Clergyman Mike Bamiloye says
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At the very root of men’s attachment to food and being served food, you’ll find that it’s more about the act of subservience than the food itself. Demanding you (a woman) cook everyday is just a daily reaffirmation of your subservience to that man.
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That’s why Nigeria is like this. Men’s solution has gotten us this far. We’re really thankful for the solution of men.
I wonder why men are so programmed to solution.
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This conversation on consent/sleeping over at a man’s house is why they don’t be allowing/prioritizing y’all men in homeless shelters. You corrupt everything with your filth. Look at y’all fighting for your right to assault women in their sleep.
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@MisterStrange01 @ulxma @pastelhellcat A person sexually abused another person. What is the purpose of you knowing the gender of the perpetrator or the victim??.
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Men will post pictures of Ronaldo in his Jersey as the best footballer in the world, they never use the ones where he’s wearing calvin klein underwear but cannot understand why it’s weird to post hilda in a bikini while talking about her WORLD RECORD.
Someone will repost a picture you people posted with your hands that became internet property. azin dem no hack una phone leak am o. You posted and got all the “Puurr”. Same pic resurfaces and it becomes ‘offensive’ ? . My, oh, my, we certainly all know what we’re doing!.
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These men built an army of men based off their collective disregard for women and their humanity. If the blatant misogyny & constant disrespect for women didn’t do it for you immediately then hell is too cool for people like you.
I genuinely feel betrayed by the brothers, supporting them for all these months just to find out it’s all a scam.
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Point is men will sexually harass you and try to make it seem like they were joking and you’re overreacting. YOU ARE NOT!! When they tell you it’s a joke tell them to explain the joke to you cause you didn’t get it.
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100 level uniben I wore a skirt that was just above my knees to ring road. This male with a cane dragged me around shops forcing me to buy trousers. The bus driver that pleaded on my behalf asked for my number & when I said no he said “This is why I don’t help women”. I was 16 o.
The security man slapped her because her dress is too short. This reportedly happened in UNIBEN
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A young girl went to visit her brother and the guys in the hostel collectively conspired to get her high and rape her. Just 1 guy, JUST ONE! sent her away. Not all men but definitely A LOT of men.
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All I can say without crying is that period poverty is real and I don’t want any woman to ever experience it. EVER! For something that you have no control over, sanitary products should be free.
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None of these clocks work. Currently showing at the Marianne Boesky Gallery, New York.
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1) Is there no salvation for that woman or is your misogyny stronger than God’s grace?. 2) God is love so why are y’all always looking forward to people’s (especially women’s) downfall?. 3) Why do you want to use imagination to wound yourself??. These are the questions.
You stopped coming to church because you don't want to be corrected for cohabiting with man abi?.Don't worry, a day will come that he will hear the gospel of Jesus Christ and give his life to Christ. Then break up with you because he needs to focus on Jesus. Dey play!😒.
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Paid rent for my first apartment ever yesterday. I’m so exciteddd? What’s living alone like?.
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Details of my newest piece titled Nkem, will you wither or bloom?
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Nigerian kids really grew up feeling like they had to labour their way into being deserving of their parents love & provision. As a child you are ENTITLED to that love & provision. You do not need to work for it. Be grateful for it, reciprocate that love but it is your RIGHT.
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I hate when people find success & call out people for not believing in them or trolling a company that rejected you for reaching out to you now that you’re better. You were probably not that good before tbh and those rejections made you put in the work to be better.
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Yes! It is why widows are almost never eager to remarry. They know it doesn’t serve them and can get away with not being shamed for it. Lots of women are desperate because of the shame attached to being a certain age & unmarried.
Men are actually the ones that are most desperate for marriage.
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Nigerian men will lay down their lives to defend abusers/rapists while pilling up on/slut shaming victims. Your misogynistic reputation is spreading like wild fire. The world is watching your consistent foolishness & a bad name spreads faster that a good one.
I will keep fighting this "A nigga from Lagos, Nigeria has never been right about anything", because when the image sticks, they will paint us all with broad strokes. It was only recently that people stopped asking if I was a Yahoo boy once I introduced myself as 🇳🇬an. I'm tired.
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The quality of life you have access to as a woman with a mind of her own is limitless. You just have to reject shame first. Decenter men and you open yourself up to better friendships, quality relationships and you don’t settle.
If you talk to the average Nigerian woman, you will notice many do not have a mind of their own. They’ve been socialized like that.
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The way we’ve normalized thinking that women w STDs definitely “hoe” around. It literally takes one person to give you that shit but y’all will act like it accumulates by sleeping with multiple people. So much stigma surrounding STDs, people are even ashamed to get tested.
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Tiwa Savage, Niniola and Yemi Alade have really suffered. Women who have been grinding in this male dominated industry for years! Women who walked so these new girlies could run! These are the women you’re trying to erase????.
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4 different shades cause I’m bad like that 👉🏾👈🏾
Quote with your favorite pink pieces of art I need to see em.
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My theory: Parents often enforce things mostly w abuse, they don’t guide/teach kids, so morals never fully stick, kids just pretend their way around it. Parents themselves are amoral & care more about raising kids who look like they’re good rather that being actual good kids.
Nigerians don’t have morals. Not the religious or “home training” type(we have those) but the kind that makes society work. We don’t have that. Integrity, valuing honest labour, honesty, ethics, fairness etc and it shows in the decisions we make on a personal and national level.
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@fortlagos @PrincessMaaxine @ozzyetomi According to your tweet men are better right?? That’s why they dominate. Why don’t they do the bulk of the cooking when it’s unpaid??.
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🥹❤️❤️❤️❤️.
I just found this artist “Chidinma Nnoli” on Pinterest. Her artwork is so entrancing and beautiful, wow 🌷
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Graduation- once a year. Inter-house sports -once a year. Open day- 3 times a year. Even boarding school visiting days are one Sunday a month but it’s still mom’s showing up.
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We know your stories. We know the boys that are broke, the ones always borrow shoes, beg for food & don’t bathe well. If y’all live in harmony & peace how do we know all these gist??.
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@PassportBros Please come to Nigeria, they’re looking for men like you to use for rituals. Please come.
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I am not in a competition. I am comfortable in our love, I lack nothing. The moment you start fighting for a partner, you are in a hostile environment. Leave.
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This culture exists because it is assumed that a man who has made the decision to marry you is doing you a favour by “choosing you” so you’re supposed to prove that you’re worthy of that favour. It’s disgusting really and kinda misogynistic.
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Trad + white wedding = Ate. 😌
How did you dress to the last wedding you attended?.
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@just_lawson__ Do you know it’s possible to evaluate something before speaking and giving a response? Do you also know it’s also possible not to respond at all?.
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One of the bests. Gotta push myself harder this year. Wanderlust 2021
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My pinned tweet/most popular tweet about these paintings, was deleted (by God knows who), I had to change my password and everything. Please make this go viral. RT RT RT #UnitedAfricanCreatives.#WeAreNigerianCreatives #FridayFeeling #Epilogo19 #FridayMotivation
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@realestReese @simsimmaaz Should gay people reserve the right to be offended and shocked if hetero people approach them? . Finding it offensive is means you find being gay offensive in general and that’s still premium homophobia 🥴🥴🥴.
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You will do 50/50 with a man and still be the one to carry that child for 9 months and go through a life threatening situation to deliver a whole human being. Mba!.
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@ssc_zhith The only thing weird about it is the person posting it and making it look “romantic” & “sexual”. These are two kids talking, They don’t understand physical boundaries yet. They probably talk and touch their parents and siblings like that.
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You should do a docuseries on the rise of Nigerian male incels & misogynists & how the justice systems don’t protect Nigerian women from male violence if you care about saving the world, instead of trying to capitalize off a story that WOMEN have already done.
WHO WANTS TO COLLABORATE ON A DOCUSERIES ABOUT THIS ISSUE? . I’m already getting questions from people who would like to support. To bring this to life, we’ll need….A videographer.Editor.Writer.Social media amplification (influencers, help us). And funds for logistics.
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I will not rest, because male comedians who “joke” about sexism, misogyny and sexual abuse while cosplaying as women will forever be foools.
Because that's his own brand of comedy. Rest.
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Exploring how to fuse emotionalism into my backgrounds with warm colours, swirls and textures in relation to the figures. Oil on Canvas.30*36inches.2019.P.S my paintings are for sale so send a dm.
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@chidythegod @wolfofnewstreet Mehn an album is called “a body of work” for a reason. It’s a story, there’s a flow like that flow between let her go and sorry on East Atlanta love letter. It’s called a “project”. You can’t write chapter 1 on the sound of rain and chapter 2 will now be about Amala.
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