My mother is trying to negotiate to have me to show up at her house for Christmas dressed as a man.
Last year I didn’t get invited.
Now I wish I didn’t get invited this year.
Fuck my life.
A lot of trans people join Twitter because we have nowhere else to go to meet other trans people, share experiences, and grow.
We need each other and we support each other handedly.
Trans twitter is a community that shares love and support, not toxicity and drama.
I posted about how everyone told me I’d be the ugliest woman ever and I’d never attract anyone.
That I didn’t really care if they were right or wrong because I’m in love with myself, the way I look, and with who I attract.
I’m happy now and I was happy then too.🥹🖤
I felt so hurt and ugly last night. These holidays haven’t been easy.
So I therapeutically put myself together, went out for dinner and then hung out at my favourite drag bar watching my friend perform and had fun.
Looking good is the secret sauce for feeling good 🖤
Christmas time is difficult for a lot of trans people.
Many do not spend it with their family at all, and some of us who do are repeatedly misgendered by them which can trigger dysphoria.
Please a reminder to myself and everyone else that it is them, not you. That is all.
I never transitioned to pass—I don’t—I transitioned to live authentically and be the real me.
To proudly stand up for who I am and have a chance at the things I was void of: happiness, success, and love.
1.5 years later I am both happy and successful. I guess 2/3 ain’t bad!
I love getting dolled up and feeling like an pretty Amazonian Goddess.
My size may clock me, but it also empowers me.
I live for being the big and tall redheaded girl everyone thinks is a drag queen. It’s the ultimate compliment, like being called a rockstar.
#NewProfilePic
I have an actual real date tonight with a guy who is taking me out to public places.
It is so unbelievable that someone is man enough to do this, and not pressuring me to just skip it all and have discrete sex.
My mind is looking for every excuse for this not to be real.
Please don’t negatively judge this pic of me in a very rushed full face—using $150 worth of “cis girl foundation” aka primers and CC+ cream—before my date last night.
It went well!!! I hope lol 🤞
It was seriously validating to me last night to have the people—who first taught me makeup, tucking, wig care, gave me this sweater, and ultimately mothered me into womanhood—tell me that I look great. 🖤
“Bruh” and “bro” are not gender neutral terms.
“Bruh” and “bro” are not gender neutral terms.
“Bruh” and “bro” are not gender neutral terms.
“Bruh” and “bro” are not gender neutral terms.
“Bruh” and “bro” are not gender neutral terms.
“Bruh” and “bro” are not gender neutral
When I first transitioned I didn’t think that I’d be pretty or “girl” enough to make friends or meet guys.
I just wanted to be true to myself. And I fought for that.
But now I’m so thankful for all my friends n fam who’ve been there for me and made me so happy 🖤 I love you all
Last Friday I went out like this and someone who should have known better said,
“Oh I didn’t realize you were transitioning I just thought you were in drag.”
Thanks.
Love it when guys on Tinder ask me if I'm packing something "extra special" lol
like ya m8 I'm packing years of unresolved abandonment and trust issues from repetitive trauma... o wait you meant my dick
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My Genital Reconstruction Surgery (GRS) with Dr. Marci Bowers is scheduled for Feb 7, 2023.
Apparently the surgery will likely be 1-2 years earlier with the cancellation list.