Raised on the world’s biggest island born in Ngunnawal land raised on Kaurna land Australia living in Miramichi Canada. Advocate for my son Chester who has C.P
Extremely rough night. Chester had episodes of oxygen dropping & not coming back up.
Despite that, getting his pump fixed is critical he just left us for OR. He will be returning to ICU after surgery.
Thank you for your continued support & prayers
#MightyChester
Chester has finally turned the corner. Breathing is less laboured, temp near normal, seizures have reduced dramatically and his smile is back😊. We will still be in hospital for a few more days. I don’t think I’ve ever been so scared for him in all my life.
#MightyChester
I must have aged 10 years in the last few days but my research has shown that if you hold someone as close to your heart as possible and love them with everything in you two can be comfortable in a hospital bed even if the sheets are wet with tears.
#MightyChester
No real change with Chester. Still on oxygen, difficultly breathing, fever and increased seizures. The stress and worry is unbelievable we will see what today brings mentally exhausted.
Well that was a long 5 1/2 hours. The surgery went smoothly the coming weeks and months will show us how successful it is. Hopefully it will see Chester being able to use both his arms and legs more despite his quadriplegia.
#MightyChester
Finally home after a week in hospital with hMPV, he's finally recovering. Dr said his immune system will be low so no school this week
Thank you for all the prayers, well wishes and kindness. We really appreciate it
#MightyChester
Absolutely everyday I have snuggle with Chester. Now that he has his iv’s out there was no stopping me from climbing in that hospital bed. I haven’t had a snuggle for 13 days!
#MightyChester
Our beautiful Chester’s surgery was a success he is on the road of recovery. It’s been an exhausting 9 days so far with tears shed. One of the ways we deal with stress is to laugh lots & tell stories to all the wonderful amazing people we meet. We are blessed.
#MightyChester
Chester’s diagnosed with a nasty virus (can’t remember the name) it comes with a fever, nasty cough, mucus build up which is always a danger for him to clear.
He is in hospital on oxygen as his levels kept dropping without it. We will see what today brings.
We’ve lowered Chester’s seizure medication dose and as a result we have a more interactive bright eyed boy and so far no changes in seizure activity.
#MightyChester
I came home with Chester from pre-school to this!😁 Despite the rain firemen who are volunteering their time on days off to build a wheelchair ramp for Chester have started work. I’m so full of gratitude & speechless. Miramichi is amazing.
#MightyChester
#MiramichiCommunity
Chester is in surgery the long wait begins. As the doctors went through the long list of risks associated with this surgery some of which I can’t think about I ask myself is this the right thing to do. When there are no other options what is a parent to do. My heart is breaking.
We have a very sick little boy on our hands and have had to go to emergency. Fever peaked just over 40 difficulty breathing and increased seizures. Waiting to see what’s going on.
I nearly shut down my Twitter account a few days ago due to some comments made about me & Chester I let it bother me when I shouldn’t have. Yesterday was Chester’s birthday we have come a long way my little hero.
#MightyChester
Today our boy is 7! 7 years of loving, 7 years of him teaching us.
If hearts were made out of gold, his would be solid 24k :) This was my Aunt & Uncles main reason for coming to Canada to be here for Chester’s birthday 🥰
#MightyChester
I cant be more than 20 mins from Chester’s school. It’s not uncommon to get a call that he is crying uncontrollably. If it’s from spasm pain, feeding tube pain, seizures etc… I don’t know. One things for certain in 5 mins of dad holding him at home he almost always drifts asleep
Today we became proud owners of a "new to us" wheelchair van - The Mighty Mobile! As Chester keeps growing, getting him in out of the car was getting too hard.
A big thank you to Sherry Theriault & our community who came together to help with the cost.
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#MightyChester
Chester continues to improve, still needs a little oxygen, & getting his baclofen dose level takes time.
Every day he's more awake come on Chester!😊
#tabanaba
#MightyChester
Not long after closing my Twitter account this happened to me (see attached). Also quite a few people have encouraged me to open it again due to awareness I was creating with Chester’s disability so here we are.
Update: Chester has had a rough few days with oxygen levels & not really waking up since surgery Friday. We were really concerned with how long it's taking for him to wake up.
Yesterday he had awake times as the day wore on but a lot of pain.
#MightyChester
I was Blessed to have a son with Cerebral Palsy.
Why? I could have lost him.
I’m Blessed to advocate for his accessibility & other human rights.
Why? Everyone benefits.
I am Blessed to be able to give my life to Chester living his life.
Why? Christ gave his life for me.
It’s so much easier to get Chester in and out of the house with the new deck and ramp. So what better way for a tired boy to fall asleep on a warm day than on his dads lap outside enjoying the breeze and the birds.
#MightyChester
#Miramichi
#NewBrunswick
That’s a wrap Chester has graduated pre-school. As well as learning lots I believe he taught a lot. He taught people empathy & understanding.
Sometimes the people that have a big impact on our lives don’t walk through the door they roll through.
#MightyChester
#CerebralPalsy
Best compliment from Chester’s E.A & bus driver when they dropped him off “He is the sweetest little boy full of smiles & giggles everyday, always well dressed & handsome”. I know some people feel pity for us but I feel pride. Things could be so much worse.
#MightyChester
A few weeks ago our neighbour saw me out the front with a tape measure & asked me what I was doing. “I have to make a ramp & deck level with the front door this summer Chester I getting too heavy” I Said. This is what happened!
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Friday was supposed to be Chester’s 100 days of school but it was a snow day. Monday was a public holiday so the big day is today got this shirt made for him by a friend 😊.
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Chester has been ill for a few weeks then suffered relentless seizures on Friday & was taken to Miramichi hospital. Taken to ICU in Moncton by ambulance then airlifted to Halifax. Without going into details he is awaiting surgery. It’s frightening & heartbreaking
#MightyChester
Finally home took a long time having to stop to inject medicine twice, keep him hydrated & fed through the tube in his belly. Mum sat in the back most of the way. Here’s hoping for a uneventful night. Thank you for all the prayers & well wishes I’m one worried dad.
#MightyChester
After hard work & lugging we are now part of the rural community of Napan N.B. We now have a specifically designed wheelchair house with wide doorways, no stairs, wet bathroom, ceiling lift to get Chester in & out of bed. We are blessed.
#MightyChester
In Australia if a friend will not take cash for helping with some odd jobs the acceptable form of payment is a case of beer. Is this a acceptable form of payment in Canada?
#beer
With reduced seizure medication Chester is more interactive & playing xylophone as I’m listening to music while painting. Hitting the keys & laughing. I like to share the small wins as we don’t have many.
#MighyChester
Big sister is home and Chester is feeling very thankful! It took him a few minutes but he got his arms around her neck then smiles and giggles ensued. We are so blessed and thankful for our girls and our little man 🥰 Happy Thanksgiving!
#Thanksgiving
Merry Christmas! I won’t be on social media much over the break so blessings to each & everyone of you. At Christmas we are reminded of hope, peace & love which can be found through God. The family are not big for photos on social media so here’s something from Chester & me. Xo
Today Chester turns 5! It’s also his big brother Sam’s birthday who turns 26! The phone has been running hot with video calls from Australia wishing Chester a happy birthday. So it’s happy birthday to both my wonderful lads today Chester & Sam😊.
Mighty Chester is a uncle & our house grew by one with baby Cora! We are excited to see her grow & be a compassionate, loving,caring person. Chester has taken us all on a journey of understanding and compassion. They will have a special bond
#MightyChester
I’ve never felt more accepted. The firemen who made our ramp visited. Everyone was a bit emotional then they said “Daz you really are one of us your family is our family.” It's a feeling of love, support & "you are never alone".
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#MightyChester
I’m a Grandaz again!
Evelyn gave birth to Cora Anne 3.67kg 1:40am 22nd February. Both mum & baby are doing well. Congratulations Evelyn & Marcus we are proud of you both.
On this day 11 years ago we were all packed ready to leave our beautiful home in South Australia to start a new life in New Brunswick Canada. We sold everything except what was in all those bags.
#neversaynever
We did a detour on our way home from Halifax to pick up Boston Terrier Gino-Valentino. He was born with a cleft palate & had a shakey start. He requires a bit more love than the average puppy but we aren't new to special needs😊. A special puppy for a special boy
#MightyChester
The face of a tired but happy man. After weeks of packing then unpacking moving house, now painting the new house while cooking & caring for a special needs child. I find out my aunt & uncle my eldest daughter in Australia are coming to visit in the coming weeks😁.
#happy
Yesterday we received Chesters P-Pod chair! We couldn't be more excited he fits in it so well and it supports his whole body.
This means so much to us to see him sitting so comfortably and straight! He's so excited to be in it!
#inspiredbydrive
#ppod
#MightyChester
Happy 4th birthday Chester! You have changed our world, you have made us better people, taught us about resilience & strength. I am so proud you are our boy. You are so loved ❤💙❤💙
#MightyChester
#thewiggles
Chester is recovering well after surgery and had a great time chillin at his friend Jessa's. Back to the IWK in Halifax this week for checkups. He managed to sit up supporting himself in the chair for nearly a hour.
#summervibes
#MightyChester
A reminder as we move into the busy time of year disability car parks are for people with disabilities. It’s not always about the close location but the extra space needed to get equipment out (as you can see). Your “I was only 5 min” excuse is unacceptable don’t be a asshole.
Little did Chester know that when I got him ready for school that I would be up there a little later going through his vision software on the computer with staff. I snuck up & whispered “Chester dads here.”his squeal of delight & grin from ear to ear melted my heart❤️
In the wee hours of the morning we had some very precious cargo arrive from Australia ! Hannah & Ari are here my heart just might burst! Grandaz now has 2 grand-babies in the house and the feeling of love and joy is almost overwhelming.
Chester has had a rough weekend. Fever & chesty cough. So far he's been able to fight this virus on his own. Hopefully it's short lived.
In the meantime, it's lots of snuggles today a few hand kisses from Gino. Every mighty hero needs a sidekick :)
#MightyChester
It’s nearly impossible for two parents to work with a disabled child. Endless medical appointments are one thing, but also calls from the school for early pick up due to various reasons are regular. Makes it hard for parents of disabled children as there are so many expenses.
Happy birthday to my beautiful wife Cheryl. We had tickets to a Christmas dinner & concert last year then caught Covid and couldn’t go. We were asked if we wanted to go this year & excitedly said yes😊.
Just like that Chester has started Grade 2 in a new school, his cousin Brad is his new teacher😊.
We've been greeted with love, and enthusiasm!
#MightyChester
Chester’s first day at school today. It didn’t go anywhere near as good as I was expecting all the extra stimulation exhausted him and he was home in bed by 11:30 and slept for 2 1/2 hours. He was hysterical & difficult to calm. It may be a slow process.
Chester has many struggles with his cerebral palsy but the pure joy he shows sitting with his dog Gino watching The Wiggles, Peppa Pig, Ben & Holly remind me to not worry too much about the future even though at times it’s extremely hard.
#MightyChester
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#community
After consideration we have decided to stay in New Brunswick. I wanted to move back home but reality is it’s too expensive. We considered Halifax but we have no support there. We have purchased land 15 min from Miramichi overlooking the river to build a wheelchair friendly house.
Chester’s seizures have been relentless lately, his sleep has been poor, he hasn’t been opening his eyes much. The doctor made some adjustments to his medication and he has his eyes open again looking around and more engaged. Hoping the side effects aren’t too bad.
#MightyChester
Well they adjusted the medication being delivered into Chester’s spine to help with the muscle spasticity that cerebral palsy causes. He is a lot more relaxed and happy and ready to jam with
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Setback yesterday afternoon. Chester started throwing up in pain he was taken to emergency & it seems he is leaking spinal fluid from surgery. Scar tissue will build & stop this in about a week. Until then keeping him laying down helps the pain a long drive home.
#MightyChester
I find since Being Chester’s main carer I cry a awful lot… not breakdown snotty type cries but when things touch my heart I swear something always flies in my eye and I have to wipe tears away... I don’t know if this is a good or bad thing as I always feel braced for bad news.
A rough couple of weeks with everyone sick & missed out on Christmas events we had planned. So when we seen Santa today in Fredericton with no line-up, we seized the opportunity. Chester liked him. He was more intent on listening to Santa than smiling!
#MightyChester
Well Chester’s fireman themed birthday was a hit! Our friends from the Miramichi fire brigade even paid a visit much to the delight of the kids. Then Miramichi’s finest turned up and arrested dad for as Evelyn said “Being too hot!”😂.
#MightyChester
It’s superhero day at school!! Batman is a superhero who doesn’t have superpowers he uses the strength, endurance & smarts he has to overcome. Something Chester does every minute of every day but we don’t hide who Chester is we want the world to see him win!
#MightyChester
Chester had his first day at pre-school today. I'm excited for him, he gave his teacher a big smile he did really well. Chatham daycare at NBCC was the only preschool we could find wheelchair accessible. Happy we found a spot for him!
#MightyChester
Today Chester and myself went swimming with a few of the wonderful therapists from Stan Cassidy Fredericton who were in Miramichi for the day. We had a wonderful time😊.
#MightyChester
Today is Fancy Schmancy Day at school so Chester is dressed to the hilt. Because after all “Every girls crazy about a sharp dressed man.”
#MightyChester
#SharpDressedMan
#zztop
Everyday when Chester gets home the first thing I do (besides a big hug & kiss) is to check the communication book on how his day was. The comments are getting better & better with each passing day❤️
#MightyChester
Chester’s last day at pre-school he is finishing a few days early as he is being admitted to hospital in Moncton for the next couple of days for a extensive EEG. He is still having seizures especially at night affecting sleep. I’m sure his last day will be grand😊
#MightyChester
After five years, trying to find someone, numerous people pulling out after meeting Chester I have 3 hours of respite care today!
Most people have someone who will occasionally care for their Children because of Chester’s CP until today there has been no one.
#MightyChester
A boy a few years older than Chester with similar struggles passed away. Breathing issues, pneumonia, seizures can change things quickly & are at the back of my mind. My heart breaks for the family this will be on my mind for weeks I cried & hugged Chester extra hard this morning
Another extremely difficult night with Chester up since 2am.
I thought of a Bible verse “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.”
I feel like i live this everyday. I am Laying down my life physically & mentally raising Chester.
#love