My boy’s gf is about to be a doctor. All he does is play video games & move from job to job, still partying & shit. He said he wants to propose, I told him he’s useless & beneath her & it would be her biggest mistake
Since this tweet got a little attention, l’ll proceed to remind you:
- EVERY single Black Life Matters
- Equality & Justice > politics
- Read books, read books, read books
- You have one life, so follow your heart
1. I’m a very direct person, especially if I care for you
2. I support whatever their decision is
3. I have to be honest for her sake
4. I am known for being almost too logical
so if it’s love, it’ll prosper no matter what
Smh there’s a lot of negativity coming from the guys (saying I want his girl, etc); in my circle, we grew up showing tough love & keeping it real always...we try to be good men
Bro, a woman is not a come up, real men know that. If he wanted to throw hands, that’s always on the table. And I didn’t name the kid, so miss me. Some of y’all are weird & disrespectful.
Shit, women right about us, we parisitic af huh. We been cool 15yrs + we laughed about it & kept drinking cus he knows Im right. I dont know/hang/speak w/ his girl. Jealous? I’m the one passing his resume around, spotting my homie when he short
Every immigrant kid is born w/ emotional debt. Maybe not debt, more like a vow. A vow to save your family, to be more, to lead the ones who birthed you into a better future; so the child becomes the parent early
Pressure like that makes diamonds though
Let me tell you something: not having emotional trauma, not dealing with deep insecurity or depression is true wealth
I know “money is the motive” but trust me, you are rich if you’re free from those
Building your future will make you feel lonely at times. Morals will have you feeling inadequate...or bored with yourself; that’s the price you pay for being an endangered species, so fuck it
Random life hack: when you interview with a company, interview them. Ask tough questions & test them. You’re an asset & I promise they want someone who’s good really bad.
You’re that person. Act like it.
Nothing can prepare you for a girl that can make you laugh
They turn you into a giggling idiot & your game out the window; cheeks hurting, eyes saying “I like you soooo much”
People are scared to ask for a raise, to ask for better sex, or even ask for what they clearly deserve
Naturally, nobody more unfulfilled than a shy & insecure person
I feel like when you love a woman forreal you support/teach her to be strong ...whether she’s with you or not
True love is selfless & doesn’t power trip
I’m laid back. I like trusting my girl fully...she’ll have access to every part of me. Because of that if she wanted to hurt me she could — in a deep way. Bc of that I can’t date just anyone.
Quality women will change your behavior. Losing them as a friend or lover will fuck with you...if you have a healthy brain, you’ll know you have to move different.
Everything dope about being Dominican came from Africa. Spain brought nothing but death & weakness to my island. Btw, I was born on the island...it’s my island.
Don’t ever shy away form sympathy ...don’t ever feel bad for feeling. We’re all connected & life is so hard that when a public loss reminds us of our mortality, shit...we will feel something, it’s sad, it hurts
Real love should scare you. You should feel weird, anxious & excited because your wanting, no, your longing could disappear forever. It’s like waiting to hit the lotto & every number they call out belongs to you.
Being poor is very expensive; I’m being literal. The numbers are wild ..late fees, interest rates, work flexibility, etc...even payday loans & check cashing store oppress you
Living alone & being independent from an early age makes you so grateful for any gesture that makes your life easier. Somebody will pick up a little trash for you & you be like: wow, my day’s been made ..Jesus, blessings
Lol
I like giving women power from the jump...my money, attention & details will give her the freedom to be herself...& I need to know who she really is before I invest my life in her
I feel like when a woman doesn’t know you & you’re courting her, you HAVE to spend. If money is an issue for you,
don’t court women. Work on you & come back later.
Before women cheat they give you like 20-30 signs they’re unhappy. They give you instruction on how to fix it & probably curved mad people while feeling unhappy
Cheating is the sum of a lot things
Most Dominicans are dummies, raised by dummies who only work in the states but mentally live & breathe Dominican island affairs
Shout out to this generation, especially the women, who sayfuck you to their own family over race & gender roles
No one:
Me: unpopular opinion...romantic gestures will put your young ass in debt. Most partners, I mean the good ones, should care about how you’re doing financially ...& should discourage a dumb i love you flex
Idc how much you love me, how affectionate & thoughtful you are..how good you fuck me, how special you are to me...don’t ever disrespect me.
You’ll never see me again. I’d rather suffer alone than endure any of it.
Certain women feel comfortable around chivalry...it’s not new nor unusual to them; they don’t think we assuming pussy’s on the menu with those gestures, they’re aware that’s what they deserve...its a different energy
I only see weakness in people who live for material shit...truly. I could be wrong but idc...to me, theres nothing more valuable than compassion, intellect & love.
I’ve spent much of my adult life looking for happiness life hacks. And almost every stone I turn reveals that being selfish—initially— is completely necessary.
I don’t love hard, I don’t love crazy...my type of love is calm
I dont ever sleep if you’re up sick...I’ll pick up your clothes from the floor & laugh at your friends’ bad jokes...I’ll breathe before I react & I’ll defend every interest & passion in you
When you’re young, emotionally intense women can seem daunting or intimidating—rightfully so— but I think when you get older you understand that nothing really great is timid, or idle lol
Love is easy...it happens randomly & it’s effortless. It’s the other shit that’s hard...bad habits, secrets, character flaws etc they all destroy & bruise love...heartbreak is in details