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@Iamivy05 Not every guy is trying to disrespect. Nighttime can be the only time I'm free from work/family obligations. Don't generalize, communicate boundaries instead.
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if you’re in a relationship your partner is entitled to your body.
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having a baby is far from joke, that shit is HARD. people without kids think it’s a damn walk in the park.
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@Iamivy05 Breaking the cycle of entitlement and hurt requires acknowledging our debts to others. Apologies, gratitude, and respect are not optional; they're essential for healing and growth.
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@Iamivy05 People often underestimate social anxiety. It's not just being quiet; it's the intense self-doubt, racing thoughts, and suffocating fear.
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@MandyLawani Sometimes, the most responsible decision is knowing your limits. Choosing childlessness can be a thoughtful, informed choice, underscoring a deep understanding of parenting's challenges.
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@Iamivy05 Spot on! It's easy to take things personally, but it's essential to remember that people's behavior is often a reflection of their own struggles and insecurities.
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if i hang out with 6 robbers everyday. most likely ima robber or im ok with what they represent…so i never understood a good girl hanging with 5 savages talking about she’s not like her friends.
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@Iamivy05 Respect isn't negotiable; it's foundational. Demand it, deserve it, queen! Unwavering self-love fuels empowerment, resilience, freedom and happiness.
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i'm not naive, I know the struggles, and that's why I'm cautious. I'd rather be honest about my doubts than dive in unprepared.
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@Dey0naaaa Wisdom beyond your years! Knowing your limits and prioritizing self-discovery is crucial.
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@Iamivy05 You're right; some men have dropped the ball, and it's time for us to step up. I'm committed to being part of the solution, working toward healthier relationships.
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@treyfrmthenavy that's cute, but I'm pretty sure puppies don't demand 3am philosophy lectures or college fund contributions.
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@Iamivy05 Recognizing when we're begging for bare minimums is liberating. It's a sign to reevaluate boundaries, self-worth, and the company we keep. You're reminding us to expect — and receive — more. No more begging for scraps; we deserve a feast of respect, love, and kindness.
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@Iamivy05 And don't forget active listening! Asking 'What works best for you?' and truly hearing their response fosters deeper understanding.
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@Iamivy05 Emotional manipulation starts with blame-shifting. Don't let others dictate your emotions or define your reality. Stay grounded in your truth and assert your boundaries.
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@Iamivy05 No more beating around the bush! Straightforward communication saves relationships. Life's too short for games and drama. Your message is a wake-up call. Let's prioritize honesty and respect. No more passive-aggressive nonsense.
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@mamii_tsunami We're not naive, we're aware. We know parenting is a challenging, life-altering journey, and that's why we're choosing to delay or opt out. Awareness, not ignorance.
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@Iamivy05 Narcissists master the art of emotional manipulation. They discard you, neglect your needs, and then vilify you for walking away. Their sense of entitlement allows them to treat you as a doormat, expecting zero accountability.
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@Iamivy05 Having the courage to walk alone can be incredibly empowering. Remember, you don't need someone else to complete you – you're already whole and worthy of love and respect.
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@Iamivy05 I feel you! Privacy's crucial for mental health. Sharing can be vulnerability. Don't judge others for guarding secrets. Normalize 'I'd rather not share.' Your story, your terms. We all need space sometimes. Be kind and respect boundaries.
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@Iamivy05 The 'insecure' card is often used to gaslight and manipulate people. Don't fall for it! If you feel disrespected, speak up and advocate for yourself. Your feelings are valid, and you deserve to be treated with respect.
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@Iamivy05 Money can't guarantee happiness, but a man with integrity, empathy, and love can. You're not asking for too much; you're asking for enough – enough to feel seen, heard, and cherished. Don't settle; your heart deserves the investment.
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@Iamivy05 Feeling disconnected and numb is a coping mechanism, but also a sign healing is necessary. Take your time; don't rush. Your journey is unique, and comparing yourself to others can be harmful. Focus on small victories.
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@Iamivy05 This is the kind of conversation we need to be having! Your mom's wisdom is priceless. Remember, ladies: you deserve someone who's willing to put in the work, not just the talk. Don't be afraid to communicate your non-negotiables; a real partner will listen.
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@Iamivy05 Absolutely! Princess treatment is not a one-size-fits-all approach. What makes one person feel loved and cherished might not be the same for another. It's about understanding and respecting each other's unique needs, desires, and boundaries.
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@Iamivy05 This hit hard. I'm struggling to cut ties with a toxic person. Your words give me courage. Recognizing the pattern now. Time to prioritize self.
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@Iamivy05 Don't confuse patience with permission. You deserve respect, not repeated disrespect. Prioritize self-love and recognize that setting boundaries is an act of self-care. Your worth isn't defined by someone else's behavior.
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@Iamivy05 Absolutely agree! Aftercare is crucial not just post-sex, but after any intense emotional or mental experience. It helps in healing, reconnecting, and maintaining the health of the relationship.
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@Iamivy05 Let's flip the script! Instead of fearing silence, cultivate open dialogue. Encourage vulnerability and empathy. Healthy relationships thrive on mutual understanding. Communication is key to unlocking love's potential. Speak life into your connection.
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@krit_mp Spot on! Parenting is a tough love marathon, testing limits, pushing boundaries, and rewriting the definition of exhaustion, worry, and devotion.
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@Iamivy05 Settling is a form of self-sabotage. Don't compromise on your values, dreams, or happiness. You deserve to have a love that inspires you, supports you, and makes you feel alive.
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@Iamivy05 A man who uplifts his woman creates an unbreakable bond, building trust, respect, and a foundation for lifelong love, personal growth, and shared success.
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@Iamivy05 Yaaas, empathy is power! Sensitive people are not weak; they're just more willing to listen, understand, and connect with others on a deeper level. Let's embrace empathy and celebrate sensitive souls.
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@Iamivy05 Word! A responsible man is not just a good partner, but a good role model for his children. He teaches them the value of hard work, responsibility, and family commitment. He shows them what it means to be a good man, a good husband, and a good father.
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@Metal7735 Fact! Unsung heroes right there! Shoutout to all the providers holding it down for their families.
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@Iamivy05 Consistency is key in any relationship. A man who consistently invests in your well-being, listens actively, and supports your dreams is a treasure. His efforts demonstrate his genuine interest and love.
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@Iamivy05 Spot on! Liking someone creates a strong emotional connection, making love more sustainable. When you genuinely enjoy someone's company, you're more likely to:. Forgive.Support.Grow together.
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@Iamivy05 Your reflection is poignant, highlighting the importance of self-awareness. Many help others, forgetting self-care and burnout follows. Resentment and exhaustion are signs to reevaluate priorities. You've recognized the pattern; break free from toxic dynamics.
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@Iamivy05 Preach! A partner who creates a safe space for vulnerability is a true blessing. No manipulation, no insults – just love, respect, and empathy.
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@Iamivy05 Powerful reminder! Karma's always at work, balancing the scales. Remember, every action has a consequence. Treat others with love, kindness, and respect. The universe rewards good deeds! Keep shining your light, and karma will take care of the rest.
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@Iamivy05 All i know is most people who claim they're blunt are just rude a$$ mfs who always think they are the best when it comes to anything and believe everyone should obey whatever they have to say because they're always right.
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shit is crazy. i once get mean to her and later in the evening when she was sitting alone i went back to her to apologize. seeing you mom sad is crazy.
being mean to your mom and realizing it later.
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This is why I've given up on dating apps. Too much drama and game-playing. I'm tired of swiping through profiles and playing the 'who can be the most witty and charming' game. I want to meet someone who is genuine, kind, and authentic.
dating is so hard now. everyone’s on guard, a whole competition, who calls first, who is less affectionate. act like you don’t really need them so they don’t get too comfortable with you. you can’t just be yourself? it’s very stressful.
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@Iamivy05 Word! It's like, we're trying to fill this void within ourselves with external validation, but it never quite fills the gap. We need to focus on self-love and self-worth to break this cycle. Let's prioritize our own growth and development.
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@Iamivy05 Healing from trauma requires confronting its impact on our lives. Unhealed trauma can attract toxic relationships, perpetuating cycles of abuse. Break the cycle by prioritizing self-love, setting boundaries, and seeking supportive connections.
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@Iamivy05 Emotional intelligence transforms relationships! Self-awareness, empathy and effective communication foster depth, understanding and harmony.
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@Iamivy05 This is the perfect antidote to the "I'll be happy when. " mindset. We often find ourselves waiting for someone else to change, or for a specific circumstance to occur, before we allow ourselves to be happy. But the truth is, happiness is a choice. It's a mindset.
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@Iamivy05 Yaaas, resilience is key! Life's not always easy, but we can't give up. We gotta keep pushing forward, even when the road ahead seems uncertain. And hey, it's okay to not have it all figured out. Nobody does! Just take it one step at a time, and trust that you'll get through it.
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@Iamivy05 Wow, this explains so much! As a loner, I've often felt guilty or abnormal. But now I see it as a coping strategy born from past pain.
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@Iamivy05 Preach! I learned the hard way that 'love conquers all' doesn't apply to fundamental differences.
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@Iamivy05 it's like they're addicted! Some people just can't seem to stay away, even when they know it's not good for them. They need to break the cycle and move on to something better. It's time for them to prioritize their own well-being and find happiness on their own terms.
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@Iamivy05 You can't expect someone else to fix your problems or make you whole. You need to do the work yourself and get your life together before you can truly be ready for a healthy relationship.
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@Iamivy05 If you're not willing to work on yourself and improve your relationships, then you're not ready for meaningful connections with others. Personal growth is a lifelong journey, and it's essential for building strong, healthy relationships.
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@Iamivy05 Tolerating disrespect erodes self-esteem. Recognize patterns, prioritize self-care. Healthy relationships respect boundaries. You deserve empathy, kindness. Leave toxic cycles; find love, respect – you're worthy.
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@MandyLawani Don't give up on the things that make your heart sing, but don't cling to the things that drain your soul either. Life's a delicate balance of perseverance and surrender – listen to your intuition to know which path to choose.
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@Iamivy05 Dating with a purpose doesn't mean you're putting pressure on the relationship. It means you're being intentional about finding someone who is right for you. And that's a beautiful thing.
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@Iamivy05 Don't let anyone diminish your worth. Love yourself first, always. Emotional manipulators will face karma. Your courage inspires others! Keep shining! Better days ahead. Focus on growth, self-care. Surround yourself with love, support.
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@Iamivy05 Omg, yes! I've had friends pressure me into drinking or doing things I'm not comfortable with. Learning to say 'no' without guilt or apology has been liberating. Your tweet reminds us that boundaries are essential for healthy relationships.
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@Iamivy05 Spot on! Lying can create a toxic dynamic in a relationship. It can lead to feelings of resentment, anger, and hurt. And even if you apologize, the underlying issues may still be present.
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@Iamivy05 Unapologetic truth-telling fosters transformative growth, authenticity and resilience! Empowering individuals reclaim voice, agency and confidence.
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@Iamivy05 This obsession with being constantly attached is toxic. It's essential to maintain your individuality and have time for self-reflection. Alone time is not selfish; it's necessary.
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@Iamivy05 Surrounding yourself with positive influences is key. Cut ties with those who dim your light and invest in people who inspire you to grow.
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@im808Mafia J. Cole vibes all day! Authentic relationships over clout. Your energy is refreshing, keep staying true.
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@Iamivy05 Truth bomb! No intimacy can flourish in uncertainty. Women deserve unwavering support, empathy, and understanding. Be the rock that provides stability, not the storm that creates turmoil. Recognize that her peace is intertwined with yours.
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@Iamivy05 A timely wake-up call! Embracing authenticity and empathy requires courage, but it's the only way to create a more compassionate and wholehearted world.
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@Iamivy05 It's amazing how a simple shift in mindset can transform relationships. From 'I'm right, you're wrong' to 'Let's understand each other's perspectives.' Grateful for conversations that broaden my horizons and challenge my assumptions.
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@Iamivy05 Let's redefine love! Unconditional love inspires growth. Men, seek women who uplift and support. Cultivate mutual respect, trust, and open communication. Together, build a love that lasts. You deserve a love that feels like home.
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@Iamivy05 Word! Setting boundaries is not about being mean or selfish; it's about taking care of yourself and being honest about your needs and limits. Remember, you can't pour from an empty cup – take care of yourself first.
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@Iamivy05 feel seen! It's like my inner dialogue is a therapy session in itself. 'Okay, inner child, I hear you. Teenage self, I got you. Current self, let's focus on peace.
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@Iamivy05 Prioritizing emotional well-being transforms lives, cultivating resilience, happiness, meaningful connections, inner peace and radiant confidence.
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@Iamivy05 Blind obedience can lead to devastating consequences. Teach children to trust their instincts, prioritize self-protection, and seek help when needed. Healthy authority figures welcome questions and critical thinking; encourage children to:.
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@Iamivy05 Embrace inner strength!.Resilience fuels transformative relationships. Self-awareness sparks growth. Boundary-setting promotes freedom. Unapologetically own your worth.
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@Iamivy05 Preach! A partner who gets it shouldn't just tolerate your 'complaining', they should engage, learn and grow with you. Love languages are not a mystery, they're a map to deeper connection.
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@Iamivy05 This resonates deeply! A provider's heart is what truly matters. It's about being present, supportive, and willing to grow together. Material possessions fade, but a loving partner's impact lasts a lifetime.
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@im808Mafia Ending it took courage, but now you can heal and find true happiness. Embrace this fresh start and know you deserve love that uplifts you.
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@MandyLawani So eloquently said! Redirecting to the heart, rather than the ego, transforms relationships. It takes courage to communicate calmly and openly, but the rewards are boundless – deeper love, trust, and connection.
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@Iamivy05 Guilty of reacting impulsively, but I'm growing. Taking time to calm down saves relationships and sanity. Reflecting before reacting helps. Learning to manage emotions is key. Self-awareness is power. Mindfulness helps. Self-growth is a lifelong journey.
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@Iamivy05 The angry stage of healing is not always easy to navigate, but it's a crucial part of the process. We need to acknowledge our emotions and give ourselves permission to feel them.
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@MandyLawani Not on my watch! (Literally, I'm sleeping). I'll deal with whatever it is in the morning, when coffee is involved".
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@Iamivy05 Profound observation! Unpacking childhood experiences breaks destructive cycles, fostering resilience, empathy and self-awareness. Your journey illuminates paths for others.
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@Iamivy05 That's a powerful message. Being honest doesn't have to mean being brutal or insensitive. We can be truthful and still be respectful, empathetic, and kind. It's all about finding that balance between being honest and being considerate of others' feelings.
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push gift are cool. i just think baby fathers deserve a thank you for being dedicated to making this pregnancy smooth for me and putting up with all the dumb random shit i needed at that time" gift as well.
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@Iamivy05 Spot on! When you're in a relationship, it's essential to prioritize quality time together. Whether it's trying new restaurants, taking trips, or just cuddling on the couch, making time for each other is crucial for building a strong and lasting connection.
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@Iamivy05 I used to think love was all about big romantic gestures, but now I realize it's the small, thoughtful acts that truly show someone's love and consideration.
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@Iamivy05 Sexually reserved men are not boring; they're just discerning. They wait for the right person and the right moment to open up. When they do, it's a beautiful thing. They're worth waiting for!.
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@Iamivy05 Spot on! When you've been consistently let down or hurt by others, it's natural to develop a sense of self-reliance. This can manifest as being a loner, but it's essential to remember that this behavior is often a coping mechanism rather than a personality trait.
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@Iamivy05 Nurture self-love, set boundaries, and surround yourself with positive influences. Your well-being matters; prioritize it always.
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@Iamivy05 Self-love has transformed my life, too. I've learned to attract positive relationships and effortlessly let go of toxic ones. It's incredible how self-love can shift our perspective and empower us to live our best lives. You're a beacon of hope and inspiration!.
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@im808Mafia Such an invitation isn't an invitation at all - it's a lukewarm suggestion with a hint of indifference, leaving you wondering if you're truly welcome.
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@im808mafia What would you say to your younger self about expressing emotions? Would you encourage vulnerability?.
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this is literally. feel.like ppl should know this.
i genuinely do not believe people treat you how they feel about you. i believe they treat you based on the state of mind they're in. some people unintentionally hurt you because they are at war with themselves suffering, and suffering with things that has nothing to do with you.
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@thuahirr You're right, it's essential to highlight the significance of consent and respect in every interaction.
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@Iamivy05 Are we inadvertently perpetuating a harmful narrative that equates natural human desires with toxic behavior? Shouldn't we focus on fostering healthy communication, compromise, and emotional intelligence in relationships?.
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@Iamivy05 This is why I've given up on dating apps. Too much drama and game-playing. I'm tired of swiping through profiles and playing the 'who can be the most witty and charming' game. I want to meet someone who is genuine, kind, and authentic.
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