ALWAYS SHOOT YOUR SHOT. I am talking about varsity applications, bursaries, scholarships, internships, jobs, promotions, tenders, business concepts, always shoot your shot. Something will land.
Admitting that I’m struggling or need help is nearly impossible for me. I feel like it’s emasculating, if I do. Even if it’s not related to money. I struggle to depend on someone else be it in romantic, familial or platonic relationships. I would so much rather suffer in silence.
No one should be entitled to someone else’s earnings, I do believe setting a firm boundary in that regard is necessary but let’s also refrain from calling the less fortunate, “lazy” not every “poor” person is lazy. That’s quite ignorant of her and very demeaning.
As a South African you cannot afford to have NO political stance. We do not have the privilege and luxury to be unaware of state affairs. We need to be politically inclined.
The kids aren't the mess.. the man is. He isn't boyfriend or husband material. No one wants to marry a man with a high mileage in any case. He's a playground not a man to build a home with.
You are disrespectful.
Calling someone's kids a mess simply because it's not your preference is a sign of disrespect.
There are decent and mature ways of addressing issues.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you preferring a guy without a "mess" but you don't have to
Last year I set a goal that I will have my first car no later than March 2023. Previous Sunday I prayed that God acknowledges my efforts and grants me my heart’s desire. Monday this week he blessed me with a car.🥹🥰
This guy once invited me. We were watching tv, he stood up & went to the kitchen, he was quiet for a while. I asked him what’s he doing. He said, “I’m eating hawu.” Bro he ate & finished the food. He didn’t even offer me water.😭😭😭😭😭 couldn’t he eat at least before I came ke?