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i’m really not a fan of a man sleeping over at my place…kodwa ke - wine, flowers, food, imali ya-gesi namanzi, his own toiletries, ipipi elimnandi, insipho yok’washa izitsha, i-gas ye-heater ne-globe lase-bathroom!
transparency (in communication), being taken care of, thoughtfulness, buying/sending me flowers, affection, being prioritised (quality time), loyalty, kisses and cuddles.
@QueenBellefleur
@Melusi_MD
Grooming is the predatory act of maneuvering another individual into a position that makes them more isolated, dependent, likely to trust, and more vulnerable to abusive behavior. The goal is to prepare the other person for abuse (for example sexual or financial) at a later time.
sbwl for God’s grace to locate and takula me esxukwini, and offer me a permanent contract of employment on the spot; with a salary offer that’s double/triple what i’m earning currently. 🕯🙏🏾
not being wished a “happy birthday” by someone close to me, makes me feel unloved/not important; and ngikuthatha ngenhliziyo nje ngempela.
someone didn’t wish me same last week and i texted them “angisak’khulumisi” the following day. only to learn that they…
guuuuuuuuys 😂😂😂😂😂 waze wangang’hlonipha umfana ona-47! ung’sukelile ek’seni wathi let’s go for a coffee date, updates towards midday ukuthi he’d be here in an hour…gwiqiqi sekune-emergency yespani eStanger and he needs to rush there, axolise axolise axolise and then…
@yuhskuntt
some don’t communicate the end of a friendship but it becomes clear. as much as reading between the lines is daunting, but i detach when there’s a shift in energy and that works for me ♥️
…had a miscarriage two days prior. i have been feeling like shit since and need to accept that a day is just a day, there are bigger fish to fry for everyone else and it doesn’t mean that i matter any less. ♥️
@hlovo_
romance to her is getting flowers. so as much as her boyfriend does something waaaaay above buying flowers, yena she feels loved a bit more when she receives flowers. and until she’s loved in a way she feels loved, she won’t completely appreciate any other gesture. 🤷🏽♀️
“a person with mental illness can be surrounded by all the love & care in the world & still succumb because it is, after all, illness.” -
@MoanerLeaser
sisi!!! listen, i can’t recall how many times i’ve cried tears of gratitude from such help.
“which tampons do you use?” - TEARS!
“what’s your meter number?” - TEARS!
“ngiphekile, woza sizodla” - TEARS!
“ngicoshe lapha nalapha mzala” - TEARS!
being sent money - TEARS!!!
During some of the most difficult times in my life, it was practical gestures of help & kindness from friends that held me together, not well wishes or prayers, actual help. I’m not saying prayer doesn’t work, it just doesn’t go alone when a person is in desperate need of R50.
The will of God will never take you,
Where the grace of God cannot keep you.
Where the arms of God cannot support you,
Where the riches of God cannot supply your needs,
Where the power of God cannot endow you.
@Palesa_Dwaba
from the 1st screenshot nje, mina i didn’t find the mother funny at all. ungicasulile nje…i want to fight her!!! lapho uthi she’s accepted ukuthi uLuyanda is lesbian but her chats/words are very phobic. the dramatics of calling omalume? continuing to dig and finding lubs? bible?
i wish this for every woman who suffers from period pains. to have someone who’ll show up and do something kind/to put a smile on your face (without us asking). it really makes so much difference. ♥️
@Saso_DT
ubone nini ukuthi it’s “highly inappropriate”? sekukhuluma abantu? i mean, surely you saw and read the flyer before iphumele emphakathini? no?
it doesn’t “bother” me, i’ve never been umuntu we-skeem/squad…i do, however, sometimes crave girl trips/lunches when i see others post about them but i just smile and move on. akung’qwashisi.
kungene umholo ufice kusakhona owenyanga edlule? Lord i’m grateful, i do not take it for granted that all my financial needs are met. i lack nothing. 🙏🏾