@BDTRELILBROTHER
I always felt like forgiveness is a privilege. Some shit people do is just unforgivable but that does not have to hold me back from moving on.
@JaylaWayla__
@BDTRELILBROTHER
I grew up with a Christian background where you are forced to forgive others for harming you but after leaving religion altogether, I realized how much more harmful the concept of forcing yourself to forgive someone else is vs healing yourself from the offense. If I CHOOSE
Incorporating swimming (really walking in the pool vigorously ๐คฃ) has been a game changer in my fitness journey!!! Iโm excited to incorporate new activities into my routine. And now teaching myself basic yoga Iโm sooo proud of my journey ๐ฅน๐ซถ๐พ
My little naive heart is trained to believe the best about people and I never assume that people will lie, finesse or have hidden agendas because Iโm not wired that way.
But life/work is teaching me to not expect myself out of others.
@JaylaWayla__
@BDTRELILBROTHER
I feel this 1000%!! Iโve endured ppl being straight trash and evil to me with no remorse and I have to spend the rest of my life forgiving them for what they donโt feel sorry for on top of trying to heal myself?? No thanks lol itโs too much of a burden!
Oh nothing. Just sitting in the living room of my new home that my man literally handed me the keys too โบ๏ธhe wanted to prevent me from being homeless due to my messy divorce so he stepped in and did an honorable thing to provide a HOME for myself and children. ๐ฅน
@OkSoMik
Itโs because religious people tend to be very egotistical and delusional to believe that they are somehow so special over other groups of people that despite their often nasty and malicious ways, they are above reproach so they are always โfavored โ or โblessedโ. Itโs sick
Put on my church clothes and gave my best voice at my big brotherโs home going service today because I know he wouldnโt have wanted it any other way than for us to celebrate him at CHURCH lol! I canโt believe he is gone!! RIH Steve๐๏ธ๐ฅน๐ฅน
And another thing! ๐Iโm not going back and forth with anyone who doesnโt occupy the seat they critique so hard in.
Get a man then come chat with me about building โบ๏ธ
Itโs just crazy to me that something as pure as believing and trusting that people have good intentions is not a common practice so you have to kind of approach situations and people with caution and skepticism.
And even more that I have to really guard the purity of my heart.
I love and value friendship but donโt need it at this age and stage of my life. I gave too much energy to bad friendships who took advantage or we just grew apart but now Iโm investing in me, my family, lover and the few friends I CHOOSE to engage with. Life is more peaceful โบ๏ธ
But itโs okay in the end because sometimes people help us see what we deserve even if they couldnโt give it. People can only give at the capacity they are able to give. Take the lesson and move on with an open heart โค๏ธ
You never know the love that youโve been missing out on until you leave that relationship, and enter a new relationship where your partner is pouring into you and loving on you in ways that youโve never imagined โ thatโs when you realize that the old love wasnโt even love at all.
I want any woman to experience that level of love, protection, care & provision & to know that men who will help build you up and provide for you without needing anything in return from you DO exist & you deserve to experience selfless love.
As for me?
Guess I got lucky ๐ฅฐ
I donโt think Iโve ever been devalued in any other relationship like I have in female friendships. Itโs saddening but a harsh reality Iโve finally accepted.
Idk..with my 2nd man who has no kids and they love it over here w/my 2 kids. Both wanted to have their first child w/me bc they like the qualities they saw in me as a woman and future mother of their children. One told me the treatment is better over here with the BMโs lol sooโฆ
one day someone is going to come into your life & cherish you for everything that you are. the way you speak, the way you eat, the way your stomach folds when you sit, even the way you laugh at little things. Everybody has a soulmate, just breathe & be patient my loves
We canโt even feign ignorance with this because she confesses to just wanting to be married so much that she knew exactly what she was dealing with but CHOSE to turn a blind eye. Life is too precious to be this irresponsible and careless with it.
#whotfdidimarry
@Ceasars_Palace9
Sooo effing true lol divorcing a man because of similar reasons. This damn fool used to park all the way in the back of big department stores and tell me if he has to walk, so did I . Mind you, heโd purposely pass up parking spots closer to the door just to make it difficult ๐คฆ๐พโโ๏ธ
i love women with intimidating auras bc most of them are really sweet/genuine if you have to the courage to talk to them lol idk why quiet confidence scares ppl so much i'm always intrigued by those with energy like that
โIf I told my side of the story (with receipts) I'm PRETTYYYY SUREEEEEE y'all would look at a few people differently. However, Iโm perfectly fine with my side not being told. We donโt destroy images over here and I could never destroy your character to make me look better. Cause
I actually do think theyโre better than me because they have the degree and I donโt but I encounter the ones who think theyโre better than me because of it but I spell better, am smarter and in a few instances have gotten better pay than them and that right there gets them hot ๐ญ
The way my boyfriend and I love and care for each other is so refreshing and precious to me. Itโs equal and balanced.
Something I didnโt believe existed.
Why ET havenโt fought any of the big steppers though?? She deflected the fight
with Tesekhi talking about her feelings was hurt, fought Smiley and bullied Tee. Throwing drinks but not hands at anybody REAL tough thoโฆ AW!
#BaddiesEast
Donโt fight me but a man can be loud and even posting you all over his sm and STILL dog you behind your back. Stop thinking that shit like this means anything. What matters is if those in his INNER circle and/or family know about you. xx
Listen. Idgaf if that Ngga be there every night, damn near living in yo skin. IF HE AINT LOUD BOUT YOU PLEASE DONT EVEN WHISPER ABOUT NO NIGGA! Nggas love to play single everywhere else & will have 100 btches stalking you.. Donโt over play no parts!