Being submissive in a gay relationship often has only a sexual connotation. Being submissive isn't just sexual. It goes so much further. Being submissive should encompass every aspect of your life - emotionally, physically, and spiritually. It's the gay submissive triad. (1/18)
If he wants you to wear something particular – you oblige. He wants to choose where to eat out – you oblige. He wants you to work out more or less – you oblige. Give him the satisfaction of controlling you. A true submissive knows that the man of the house knows best. (4/18)
As much as we would all like it, we cannot be sexual 24/7/365. To please a dom physically, outside of bed, the submissive must accept that they are essentially the property of their dom. The dom should consider the sub as his most valuable property. (7/18)
Instead, emotionally pleasing a man is giving him the satisfaction of being your dominant partner. That is genuinely what the dom wants – to feel dominant in his home. Submissive boys should allow their man to assert dominance however he wishes. (3/18)
He knows what is good for you and the household. A submissive boy understands and happily accepts that the dom is doing what is best for you and him. (5/18)
Physically being sub seems to be evident in gay culture. Subs are the bottoms. As subs, we enjoy receiving whatever the dom gives us sexually. However, where most subs fail is taking the physical aspect beyond the bed. (6/18)
The sub's role is to respect the dom's decisions and follow his guidance. A good, true dom will not lead the sub astray. We are subs because we are dependent on the dom. We must rely on him to guide us and provide for us. (13/18)
While I wish not to compare subs to dogs, the comparison can be made. As anyone can 'own' a dog, the dom can own the sub. Just as the owner chooses what the dog eats, where they go, and their daily routine, a dom controls a sub similarly. (9/18)
The gay submissive must not only please his man physically but also emotionally. A man does not need you to make him happy. A dom man does not need your emotional support or your opinion. (2/18)
A sub must make themselves available to the dom as he pleases. This means the dom can control your physical aspects at all times. A sub must be willing to accept that a dom controls their movement, social life, and physical aspects. (8/18)
Completing this triad ensures that you will continue to have a dom that provides, protects, and supports you. A healthy, gay dom-sub relationship is beautiful and rewarding. Reflect on yourself and your relationship, and think about what you can do to be a better sub. (18/18)
A dom must feel as though he has physical control over the sub. Doms, rightfully, can become easily jealous. Having that control over the sub allows the dom to spend more time providing for the sub rather than worrying about the sub's whereabouts. (10/18)
To finish off the gay triad, we must consider what the sub's role is in the spirituality aspect. This comes down to values, beliefs, morals, and likings. When the dom and sub match, this dimension can be most natural. (11/18)
This dimension can encompass anything from monogamy rules to religious rules to what can and can't be cooked for dinner. If the dom instructs or guides a sub, the sub must not protest or try to compromise. Doing so challenges the dom's authority. (14/18)
However, as no two people are ever perfectly alike, the sub must be willing to give way to the doms spirituality aspect. These can be considered the rules of the dom-sub dynamic. A dom sets the boundaries and morals of the relationship rules. (12/18)
The gay submissive triad encompasses a relationship's emotional, physical, and spiritual dimensions. In the perfect sub-dom relationship, the sub allows the dom to assert dominance in each dimension. (16/18)
Failure in just one of the dimensions will result in the relationship's downfall. This is because when a sub believes they still have control over one of these dimensions, they remove what makes the dom a dom. (17/18)
Thinking it’s time to upgrade the plugs. Any recommendations for a trainer set? Want to start working up to be stretched more than ever before (maybe FF). Need something a larger than a starter set and needs to be of good material that is comfortable to wear for hours at a time.
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