i'm so much more attracted to dicks when i remember that they're attached to men who need love and attention and care, especially when they're being vulnerable and sharing themselves with us online
@dbyrnwalll
long walks with a podcast/audiobook/music/phonecall to keep your mind busy
also had success putting a stationary bike in front of the playstation and making a rule that i could play as much video game as i wanted as long as i was pedaling