To anyone who still professes that racism isn’t an issue in the cosplay community. It fucking is. This hobby is unwelcoming and unsafe for many.
We are FAILING black cosplayers. We need to do better.
Repeat after me: bisexual people in a relationship with a partner of a gender different from their own are STILL bisexual. Their bisexuality is not erased. Please stop contributing to the idea that a person’s sexuality is defined by the relationship they are in.
If I had known just ONE trans person as a kid... if I had seen just ONE trans person in media as a kid... it would have changed my life in ways I can’t fully express.
Trans kids exist. Trans kids need trans representation.
For when cons return: please no more legal names on con badges requirement.
It can violate confidentiality, put people at risk, deadname, misgender and not to mention completely guarantee that I won’t be wearing that badge no matter how many times I’m told to 🤷♂️
If you're a trans person at a con and you're worried about using the washroom alone know that I will go with u. If u need help asking the con for your deadname to not be used on your badge know that I will advocate for u. I'm sure many others share this commitment. We're with u!
Cosplay is NEVER more important than people's feelings.
Cosplay is NEVER more important than your physical/emotional well-being.
Cosplay is NEVER an excuse for excluding , degrading or offending others.
I was once told by a famous cosplayer that I haven't "earned" respect as a cosplayer because I've never entered/won the World Cosplay Summit. After being hurt by this and ruminating on it I've decided to disregard what this person said because EVERY cosplayer deserves respect.
It’s 2020 let’s stop calling boys “girls” or “ladies” as a way to insult them and realize that the practice of belittling men by calling them women is DEEPLY fucked and misogynistic
It’s
#TransDayOfVisibility
and, as a trans cosplayer, I wanted to reflect a bit on how cosplay community has been such a bastion of support for myself as well as countless others. I transitioned a decade ago, so much has improved, but we have so much more work to do 💪
How are there not rules disqualifying blackface/brownface entries from all cosplay contests. When individuals continue to choose to be racist we need the systems by which those people profit to step in.
Hello. I am SHIT at video games. I panic, I can’t aim, I have little patience for puzzles... but I LOVE them. I love story, exploration and immersion that only games can give. Shoutout to all my fellow gamers who suck and hate difficulty, but are gamers nonetheless ❤️
Things to do when you see a ship you don’t like:
✅Keep scrolling
✅Draw/write about the ship you prefer
✅Go for a walk
✅Make a playlist for your OTP
❌Harass people online
Joining the
#LGBTCosplay
tag! I’m Lucas (he/him pronouns) and I’m a man of trans experience. Cosplay helped me to be my authentic self when I transitioned almost 10 years ago. I want to support others to find affirmation, love and freedom through this hobby :)
Schrödinger's Cosplay: the state wherein you are too afraid to finish a cosplay because it’s all good now but you’re afraid your next steps will wreck it... the cosplay is both perfect and destroyed at the same time.
“They don’t make their own costumes” is NOT a way to invalidate a cosplayer or say they’re somehow unworthy. Make it or buy it, cosplay is cosplay and it’s what YOU define for yourself not what you impose on others.
Cosplay doesn’t invalidate a person’s trans-ness. It’s not an accident that there are many trans cosplayers, but the reason isn’t that cosplay influences ppl to be trans... it’s that cosplay provides a safe place to explore gender. Let’s gosh darn keep it that way.
Blackface/brownface isn’t accuracy. It’s racist. And it’s also a statement of selfishness. If you’re so self centered that you would choose to do something for a hobby that you know is hurtful that’s conceited and that’s fucked.
Gentle reminder that irl couples don’t have to cosplay characters who are shipped together/people can cosplay shipped character together without being a couple 👍
Out of surgery! The procedure went perfectly 😁 folks I’m so happy 😭😭 I’m having a hard believing. Just... over the moon 🥰.... but now to stop posting before I post something weird in my drugged up on pain killers self
My parents weren't supportive when I first came out. My mom came into my work and heard my voice after I was a few months on T and starting crying because she felt like she was "in a nightmare". I thought they wouldn't change... but then... little by little...
So in about 2.5 hours I’ll be heading into the biggest surgery of my transition. It’s taken a lot to get here... I was assessed for this procedure in 2012 and here we are! I’m excited, nervous and hope you guys can send me some good vibes, I’ll need them! 😊
#phalloplasty
today!
Please remember that not placing in a cosplay contest IN NO WAY means that your cosplay is bad. It often comes down to small details, number of techniques used, stage performance etc. and it’s also subjective (all art is!). People love your cosplay- trophy or not! ❤️
Things that happen when people cosplay the same character:
-cool twinzie selfies
-skits about time travel
-having someone who understand the pain of doing "___" for the costume
Things that don't happen:
-apocalypse
I love seeing photos/vids of people just goofing off and having fun in cosplay. Don’t call it cringe. It’s not cringe. There’s nothing cringey about enjoying yourself and showing your love for your fandom(s).
Here I am, a trans health professional and out trans man who will be presenting at a trans conference in a few hours getting ready in the men’s bathroom. I belong in all of these spaces. We belong anywhere and everywhere.
#transdayofvisibility
#ftm
#trans
#transgender
#transman
Hey newbie cosplayers! Never let anyone make you feel like you aren’t good enough to cosplay. If you want to cosplay then you ARE a cosplayer and I look forward to what you will teach me about cosplay and hope I can lend you some help as well!
Happy to share my birthday with Pride Month! 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
Lucas (he/him) and I’m a trans/bi cosplayer, trans advocate/educator, nerd.
Being out as bi is new for me and I’m really grateful for the space I have to navigate my identity in whatever way I need. Everyone deserves that 💖
Trans people have always existed and trans people will continue to exist regardless of any law you enact against us. We're resilient as hell. You can't legislate us away.
Can we re-frame people quitting cosplay because “they” can’t “handle” the pressure. If this community causes people to literally stress quit the issue is with the community NOT the individual’s ability to “cope” with awful things happening to them.
The expectation that you will recognize and say hi to everyone you know at a convention is wild... we’re ALL IN DISGUISE.
I have walked right past some of my good friends without knowing not because of any malicious reason but cause they were blue with full head prosthetics 🤷♂️
Dear fellow white cosplayers: we don’t get to decide what is and is not racist. We are told what is racist by POC folks and need to accept that and act in solidarity.
The kid on the left had it really rough. Unsupportive family, online threats/insults, surgery complications... the beginning is so hard. But the guy on the right? He made it through and believe me things are 100% better than I could have imagined 7 years ago
#ftm
#trans
“This stuff breaks families” BECAUSE of unsupportive parents. Let’s be clear. Children are not dolls that you have ownership over and can demand to dress, live and look a certain way to please you.
When I transitioned I was inundated with warnings that I would regret it. Well meaning folks sent me msgs and anons took bets on public sites about how long the “phase” would last. Almost 10 years later: zero regret, I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. Trust yourself 👏
Hey trans folks,
Your existence is resistance. Your existence is natural. Your existence is worthy of love. Your existence has a place everywhere. Your existence is glorious.
Keep existing. I love you.
Let's start holding "cosplay elitists" who believe you have to look exactly like the character to their own standard... cause literally nobody meets it. If you can only cosplay your own body type/race/gender/height etc then be prepared to show up to the con as... yourself
Claiming someone doesn’t “look” non-binary makes no sense... there’s no set group of ways that non-binary folks “look”.
Can we just all accept that someone’s gender is something you have to get to know about a person... not a snap assumption you can make at a glance?
So many replies from my last tweet made me realize that not recognizing/remembering others at cons is actually an accessibility conversation. We don’t all experience memory, hearing, eyesight and facial recognition the same.
Things like re-introductions are important!
I met
@JennaOliverVA
at a cosplay meetup, they were Yuna and I was Naruto. I saw them coming up the escalator at the train station and was instantly infatuated (I didn’t understand that at the time!). We danced around each other for 7 months till I asked them out with 💐❤️
Please don’t pressure cosplayers into sticking with a single character.
It’s really awesome that you like that cosplay of theirs and that you want to see more, but people have diverse interests and have a right to change up their cosplays/do new things!
I don’t know who needs to hear this but attending an event, no matter how important to you, that explicitly excludes queer/trans people is a huge fuck you to your queer/trans friends, followers and community members.
Allyship is standing with us, even when it’s inconvenient
It’s wild to think that watching anime nowadays is opening an app readily available on your PS4... remember when watching anime meant buying whatever $60 box sets they had at Virgin Records in the basement? That was a COMMITMENT.
I have amazing parents, but what I'm trying to get at is that they weren't always supportive... but they surprised me, they really did. They've come SO far. A family's first reaction may not be their final one 💖
Hilarious seeing all the "reviews" of The Witcher decrying it for being a Game of Thrones ripoff.
1. The Witcher book was released in '93, GoT book was released in '96
2. The Witcher game came out in 2007, 4 years before GoT TV show
2. GoT did NOT invent gritty fantasy genre
I’m less surprised that Mr. Ratburn is gay than I am that they’re still making new Arthur episodes. Childhood fav show doing a solid tho 👍 congrats to Mr. Ratburn!
I got this comment: “ You didn’t have top surgery. You don’t have scars.”
And at first I thought: bold of you to correct me on my medical history, please do go on.
But then I thought: but it makes sense that many folks wouldn’t be aware of the diversity of top surgery types.
This is what it looks like to leave the hospital with your new penis (it’s 90% guaze and supportive stuff XD it’s not actually that big!)
#phalloplasty
#ftm
#transgender
Please don’t say “men and trans men”. You can refer to the differences between those experiences by saying “cis men and trans men”. By implying that “men”, by default, refers to cis men you are othering trans men.
Same example applies to women.
Breonna Taylor was murdered by police. Today, she did not receive justice. Black folks are continuously robbed of justice, their lives, their livelihood and voice... this is white supremacy in action, and as white people we need to ACT against it.
14 years on testosterone
13 years post chest surgery
12 years post hysto
4 years post phalloplasty
Around now is my anniversary of staring my medical transition! But that wasn’t the beginning of my journey…
#trans
#transgender
#ftm
No, you are not representing inclusive cosplay if you take part in an event that has told trans people they cannot participate as their affirmed gender.
Allyship means standing up and sometimes stepping out even if that isn’t convenient for you.
Seeing people speculate about a cosplayer’s trans status in photo comments/forums etc. makes me so sick and angry. Do not do this. Do not do this even if you are trans yourself. Respect people’s right to privacy and know that outing a trans person is literally irreparable.
It’s
#TransWeekofAwareness
and I’m reflecting on the difference between these 2 photos— which I articulate as “authenticity”. The kid on the left is playing a part and the guy on the right just is and it’s that autonomy and freedom of self that defines being trans to me
#ftm
Fellow white folks: There is a difference between being uncomfortable and being unsafe. Consider your privilege, really consider it. Conversations about racism may be uncomfortable but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have them.
Here’s a
#TransDayOfVisibility
post from a trans man who, 10+ years into transition, is still discovering the different ways that masculinity can look. Gender affirming healthcare gave me the freedom to be me. Everyone deserves freedom. Everyone deserves the care they need.
The kind of biological essentialism bullshit that J.K. Rowling keeps spewing is not only incorrect but transphobic af. Gender and gendered experince are not confined to body parts... LISTEN TO TRANS PEOPLE
-got engaged to my love 🥰
-had 3 surgeries: chest, hysto and phalloplasty
-got my dream job working in trans health
-got in the best shape of my life
-travelled the world for cosplay ❤️
-found the best friend group ever 💕
-bought a condo
-cat children 😽
I’ve been at a point in my transition for a while where my very feminine dead name doesn’t out me... instead it causes strangers to say “I have not met a boy with this name!”.
So now my new goal is to single handedly turn my deadname into a unisex name 👍🏻 one person at a time
I’m excited!! Got my phalloplasty surgery date for September 26th 2019. So wonderfully soon! I’ll be spending about a month in Austin Texas for this, it’s gonna be an intense journey but one I feel fully prepared for now 💪
#ftm
#phalloplasty
I hate the argument that a kid can "turn trans" by hanging out with other trans youth... I hung out exclusively with cisgender people my entire life and guess what... didn't turn me cis! You can't "turn" someone cis or trans.
Studies show that the REAL danger is not allowing trans kids to identify as their felt gender. I’m really fucking sick of cis people claiming that transition is dangerous when it’s cis people MAKING it dengerous for trans people. Look at suicide rates. Look at murder rates.
I still can’t believe it. I keep looking down at my penis, (which turned SO WELL) just to make sure this isn’t a dream. I had pushed the possibility of getting Phalloplasty to the back of my mind cause it hadn’t been accessible for so long.
To say “I knew you were trans cause ____” or to dissect a trans person’s appearance/mannerisms etc. and how that compares to what they were assigned at birth is shitty. Please don’t speculate about whether someone is trans, not cool.
Can we please stop complimenting people but putting others down? I know many of us are used to it as a turn of phrase but “your ____ puts others to shame!” is kind of just... shitty/unnecessary? How about “your ____ is awesome!” or “I love how you did ____”
When I woke up after surgery I didn’t believe the nurse when she told me surgery was finished cause I felt almost zero pain.I don’t know if I just gave a very high pain tolerance but I’ve been super comfortable postop. Super thankful 😁😊
#Phalloplasty
My university has denied my request to use Lucas on my Masters parchment. I am academically and professionally known by Lucas and have been for over a decade.
I would hope to have the same right to confidentiality and pride in my achievements that cisgender students receive.