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just another chaotic, overly opinionated, queer, non-monogamous, Black, they/them | 33

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@tomboicarti
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4 years
“Celeb first dance wedding songs” Idk why (but I know why) this is absolutely sending me 😩😂😭😅
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@tomboicarti
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5 months
Lol wait
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@EbynieLaShay
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5 months
me and my trans masc boifriends 😌
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
It’s so fascinating to me that Tia just... looks Blacker 😅
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@tomboicarti
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1 year
She might’ve said yes or whatever 💍
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@tomboicarti
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5 months
Despite everything I’m still proud of this
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@itsesha17
Ig @Eshabandz
5 months
Let’s normalize fems proposing to studs 💯👏🏽💍❤️
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
For the record, I love Journey as much as the next Gleek. Just let the joke be funny 😂
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@BADBICTHB I love Nickleback
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@tomboicarti
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12 days
I think everyone can agree that it’s never boring
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@4lilce
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what it’s like dating u ?
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@tomboicarti
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5 months
My anger is just my sad’s bodyguard.
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5 months
Do you get angry when someone hurts your feelings or do you get sad?
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
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@tomboicarti
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13 days
@TheBaddestMitch Finding out Alfalfa is a transphobe and a racist in 2024 was not on my bingo card. I literally just watched this movie 4 days ago 😭
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@tomboicarti
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1 year
@0pvlent Holy fuck. I was literally today’s years old. Why??????
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@lostblackboy Reason 298,767,553,985 to remember that all these folks we admire are human and fallible. Idolizing and deifying “thought leaders” stunts our own growth. Also, damn this is terrible news 😫
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@tomboicarti
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5 years
@zionchildren @AriLennox That’s actually exactly what it means. You can’t “disagree” with who someone inherently is and claim to respect them. That’s like someone saying I don’t agree with blackness.. how??
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@tomboicarti
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3 years
My Best Day ✨
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@tomboicarti
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1 year
@ceewilldotcom It’s somehow so much worse 😭
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@tomboicarti
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12 days
@_benjvmins_ It’s a reclaimed slur. Some folks identify as dykes and yes, only niggas can be studs lol.
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@lostblackboy A dope read in this same vein.
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@tomboicarti
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2 years
@BandBigD @Seattle_Cali95 @Malibubarbarian Drake is 1000% one of them. There have been credible rumors about him for years.
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@tomboicarti
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6 months
@crissles Lol yall don’t realize that some people love yall like yall love Beyoncé. It’s me. I’m some people. 😂
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@tomboicarti
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5 years
@steeefaany_ @slaylongloveyou @guneezzz Y’all gotta stop posting these on social media where predators can see them. It defeats the purpose of the code.
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@tomboicarti
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1 year
@ChefWaites No, their reputation is so bad that the original restaurant that they used to be associated with parted ways with them 😭
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@tomboicarti
dykette
4 years
Please help my friend @KaeisGoode get their gender affirming surgeries!
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Kae Goode
4 years
I’m still raising funds for gender affirming surgeries. I’m $200 away from my halfway mark please continue sharing and supporting ♥️ Cash app : $ohkaegoode #BlackTransCrowdFund
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@beejangles And youth worship at the detriment of honoring aging is gross and weird and needs to stop.
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
I noticed y’all didn’t believe @DaShaunLH when they said this was happening so here you go.
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@_thoughtsbyHER @Bossip @evelynvwoodsen It’s too much going on for y’all to be this petty @Bossip . Now y’all on the list 🙄
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@KeishaBottoms Girl, this is just insult to injury. Don’t you DARE use Audre Lordes words while doing the bidding of the oppressor.
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@tomboicarti
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5 years
@AriLennox @rheTAUric Their name is Risse! We just got engaged this spring. They’re literally the kindest human 💜✨
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@tomboicarti
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2 years
I had an abortion because I wanted to and that is a good enough reason.
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4 years
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@tomboicarti
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5 months
@_benjvmins_ I literally audibly gasped, paused, and had to reorient myself. I was like “not the hoochie godmother. She would never” 😅😂
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@_JustBeingMeme Niggas just refuse to accept that it’s not okay to cross boundaries and fly past consent. It’s clear she is physically withholding consent. It’s not funny and it’s not cute.
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@thepericopapi Damn, I wish I had something witty to say but this is honestly just disgusting. Like, how dare you? Who tf do you think you are? And better yet, who would you even be without the south? Please.
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@tomboicarti
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1 year
I’ve waited my whole life to be this gay 💚✨
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@tomboicarti
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5 months
“Post a short video of yourself”
@zvvzhe
messy ass girl.
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“Post a short video of yourself”
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@JamalDeanG @DaShaunLH @KeishaBottoms A better version of this photo 🖤✨
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@tomboicarti
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4 months
@KidFury This fucking picture 😭
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@tomboicarti
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1 year
@pierrefleury_ Anything you buy with it is free.
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@harper_shonda Exactly 😅. But listen, if she likes it then I love it. Wish her husband wasn’t racist but I’m wishing her all the best lol.
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@angryblkhoemo Even as a kid watching this episode I was SO upset by the way they treated her.
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@tomboicarti
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1 year
Okay not to spam y’all but look 😭 I LOVE a theme. I LOVE Atlanta. I LOVE being Black and Queer.
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@tomboicarti
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5 months
@Dreadful4Tymes Wow. Bring back shame.
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
Real internalized anti-Black, respectability politic, manipulative, bitch ass behavior if you ask me.
@oranicuhh
CHIKA 🧚🏾‍♂️
4 years
Also, something about Cand(i)ace calling her white husband to say she’s embarrassed, not about HER OWN actions, but to be involved with such “ghetto”/“hoodrat” behavior doesn’t sit right in my spirit.
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
Feeling delightfully heauxful 💦🖤✨
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@Marshaeej_ Someone who perpetuates colorism. In this case, you.
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1 year
👽🛸
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@tomboicarti
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1 year
I’m a theys them.
Not a mean girl, not a girl’s girl, but a secret third thing.
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4 years
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@Dreadful4Tymes What time zone are you in? Because where I am it’s 10:19 am
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@tomboicarti
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4 months
My meta is so stinking cute 🥰
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1 year
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@lifeofa_g01
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How did you dress to the last wedding you attended?
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
And more importantly, what did it do for us? Cause folks are here still getting killed, still being pushed out of their neighborhoods, still houseless while the cops throw away what little they have so we can front as a clean and just city.
@blkwomenradical
Black Women Radicals
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Keisha Lance Bottoms—what did that crying and yelling at protestors do for you?
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
How it started How it’s going
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
Bettering yourself purely out of spite works sometimes 😅😭
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@tomboicarti
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5 years
@FyneWest @outmagazine @IndyaMoore They are one of the most desirable people on the planet, and you are — a troll. It’s abundantly clear who’s winning.
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@LetsGoDucks96 @KeishaBottoms You know she has failed to prosecute police officers in Atl who murdered civilians, failed to create and enforce policies that protect natives of Atl aiding in gentrification that pushes out vulnerable populations, failed to prioritize aid and shelter for homeless folks etc etc
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@tomboicarti
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11 months
Who convinced everyone it was cool to be mean?
@_benjvmins_
❤️‍🔥 G A W D ❤️‍🔥
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yall be tryna make fun of people for having empathy and i personally think that’s crazy.
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@tomboicarti
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1 year
I’m a whore.
@iamvinicius_snr
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1 year
Benefits of dating you?
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@tomboicarti
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5 months
@TheBaddestMitch Mel I thought you were an ally 😭😭😭
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@ya_fav_mess @iTerryTommy Omg Girl on Fire is the absolute worst
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2 months
@williamvercetti I would literally melt.
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@tomboicarti
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1 year
Best Black pride weekend EVER! Thank you @_altatl 😮‍💨✨
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@jiggyjayy2 @_benjvmins_ Definitely not a good time to use the phrase “and on a good day”
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4 years
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@tomboicarti
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1 year
I felt pretty ☺️
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@TreforTre
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1 year
post a random pic of you
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@jatella No nutrients? The math ain’t mathin’. They wouldn’t even have the energy to open their eyes after a couple weeks.
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@gokublackqueen @payne0928 @AustinBA5 @tatumpatrice10 @lesleebalboa Lmaooo not he immediately proved the point that you can’t trust white people
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@tomboicarti
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12 days
@FEXUALSEELING Strongly considering making this my Twitter name lmao
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@tomboicarti
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1 year
My look yesterday was inspired the INCREDIBLE @KekePalmer who did it first in 2017 I wanna be like her when I grow up 🤗
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@tomboicarti
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1 year
Training to be able to lift pretty gxrls (and bois) 💪🏽
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4 years
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@tomboicarti
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5 months
Left the app for a bit & come back to all this 😂 Few things: I have separate partnerships w/ these 2 people we all happen to also get along Polyam takes a lot of self & relational work Y’all should find me on TT cause I wanna do more poly stuff 🫶🏽
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@Azteccccccc @_benjvmins_ How about encouraging grown ass people to do with the money you give them as they see fit?
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
And phone calls, and flyers, and door knocks... At the grocery store, while walking my dogs, on every social media platform 🥲
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
Y’all, look at my family 🥺❤️✨
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@tomboicarti
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1 year
Cunt is my favorite word and now I have Beyoncé songs to sing it to 😊
@RenaissanceWT
RENAISSANCE World Tour
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Evolution
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@LuckVauthier @ShaiTheHippie_ @liteskinfriend @EmorytheMemory @mieljpg You can be “wild about men” and also love women yet stay closeted due to queerphobia. Lots of bisexual people are closeted due to bi/queerphobia.
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@tomboicarti
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4 months
@xocvbox It was okay right up until this image assaulted my eyes
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@tomboicarti
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4 months
Honestly, I’m non-monogamous because taking care of me is a group project
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
Today is my 30th birthday - I will be tweeting about it all day. 🥳
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@crissles BEFORE taxes and operating costs.
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@tomboicarti
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2 years
A truly dark moment in cinematic history 😭
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@tomboicarti
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5 months
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@DesComms
✨Deshavious✨
5 months
No cheating. Post your last selfie.
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@tomboicarti
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1 year
Cause why not 😂
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@thotscholar It’s literally changes their neuropathways. It literally is the start of an insecure attachment. Your baby LITERALLY feels unsafe. These poor babies 😓
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
I am in this photo and I do not like it.
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
@jatella Okay but like, I also don’t believe them lol. Like how?
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@tomboicarti
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5 years
@AriLennox You’re a literal angel and my fiancé @rheTAUric is literally your biggest fan. They aren’t as active on Twitter but they want you to know how much they love and appreciate you! And of course I do too!!
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1 year
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
Please know that if FKA Twigs of Jhene Aiko had been shot the response would have been COMPLETELY different. Colorism is more than just, can someone snag a man.. it determines who is deemed worthy of protection, who gets resources, who gets compassion etc. This shit is sick.
@MinaLioness
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4 years
Megan is getting the “Serena Williams” hyper masculine treatment, Black women get when they’re not small, lighter in complexion and dainty.
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@bombmerica
yoshi bomb 😘
1 year
I wanna see y’all with NO FILTER!!! Like not even the Paris filter
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@tomboicarti
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1 year
Here’s the thing— do what works for you and your partner. My love and I have discussed for months how we want to propose to EACH OTHER and joked about who would get there first. I’ll do anything to put a smile on her face and getting on one knee is the least of it.
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@tomboicarti
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2 years
This is a real thing and I wish people would stop viewing it as a personal moral failing. Trauma rewires your brain. It takes a lot of work and intention to change those pathways.
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I think my brain prefers stress over boredom which honestly explains a lot.
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@tomboicarti
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2 years
Texting babe like “hope you have fun on your date” meanwhile 😭😭😭
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@tomboicarti
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4 years
Some man responded to this tweet trying to justify the beating they gave this woman. FUCK YOU if you think any Black trans woman deserves this kind of treatment. Come over here on that bullshit you will be blocked and shamed cause I don’t play that shit.
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