Reason to “repeat” with a provider:
• no need to do awkward icebreakers
• you know each other’s body better so you can have an amazing time
• you may have some inside jokes
• you already know what to expect
• you get to see a familiar face
• booking is usually easier
I find the constant ‘60 mins date’ client bashing very exhausting. For some, that’s all they can afford. They might have saved up for weeks just to see you.
They get on your Twitter page and see you almost despise them for only booking 1h. That sucks!
I am saying this in the meanest way possible. Don’t discuss safety measures, screening processes, safe hotels and whatnot on a platform full of clients. It’s not safe for you, it’s not safe for us 🫶🏾
Being a provider is so much more than meeting men and getting paid. We have to be a content creator, a web designer, a secretary, a marketer, a model, a copywriter, deal with beauty upkeeps, small business finances and more.
Someone cancelled on me last minute today, literally 2 mins before our appointment. When I went back home to let the babysitter go, she said: No keep your money, you were gone for less than an hour.
I paid what I owed her anyways but 🥹❤️
Someone needs to book me for an outcall so that I can have a good excuse to get out of my house with a long coat and nothing under or some cute lingerie 👠
Change your Ub3r name to a male sounding name, change the photo to a sport car or a man holding a fish. When the driver comes, just say that your boyfriend/husband sent you a Ub3r.
If we had met on t*nder, we would plan our date ahead of time right? Why would it be different for a date with a provider?
Planning ahead is so important even more so if you have special requests.
P.S: I f_ck on the first date
Not everyone in this industry will follow the same path, be able to charge the same rates and have the same kind of clients.
What you can do though is treat everyone with respect and acknowledge that you might have a privilege that others don’t have.
My date cancelled on me last minute and since I live about 1h away from my incall 🙃 I’ve decided I’ll use this day to have a little self care day.
P.S: if you don’t like deposits, blame men like him
“You get paid x for 1h, that’s way more than minimum wage”
I’m actually not even making minimum wage if we count in all the hours that I need to put on the marketing, managing and planning of this brand. I’m working extremely hard to make it look this easy.
I am the perfect mistress because I won’t fall in love with you, won’t ask you to leave your wife for me, won’t call you at any hours of the night, won’t show up unannounced at your workplace.
You’re paying for my time but also for that peace of mind.
Can we just let people charge whatever they want?
I have men coming to see me and telling me they had to save money to see me. They could very much go see someone for 1/3 of what they gave me.
The people that really want to see you, will. Focus on yourself/your bag.
I don’t care whose feelings I’m hurting with this tweet. If you’re actively looking for a 18-19 year old to date/have s•x with, you’re a predator.
Your only limit at this point is the person being legal, if a 16 year old was considered an adult, you’d probably date them too.
Sometimes I think about clients I haven’t seen in a long time, I can’t message them to ask because I wouldn’t want my text message to be seen by their partner or friends.
I just keep wondering and hoping they’re doing ok 💘
Dear black women,
You are allowed to demand respect. You deserve to be spoiled and treated well. You don’t have to be the “strong independent black woman” if you don’t want to. Your skin is beautiful, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. I am sending you love 🤎🤎
“But you’re skinny, it shouldn’t be too hard to make money.”
Correct but before I am skinny, I am black and sadly being black in this industry often puts you in unpleasant situations. Receiving racist hate mails instead of proper booking requests isn’t uncommon.
My morning was quite rough. I feel unsafe due to someone's actions. The only positive is that I don't live at or anywhere near my incall location.
When we say this job can be stressing, we mean it.
With all due respect, DO NOT email me to tell me I’m pretty. DO NOT email me to tell me you will contact me to book later. DO NOT email me to tell me you like my Twitter.
My email address if for BOOKINGS and GIFT CARDS only.
Thank you!
“What’s on your menu” is probably the question I hate the most in this industry. Did you think you were walking into your local diner?
Don’t get me wrong, it’s fair to know what the person is offering but we can drop the “menu” speech.