Efe Johnson
@theefejohnson
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I have tasted death, I do not fear it. What I fear is dying without exhausting myself. I must die a finished man.
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The last thing on my list of things I wanted to do before turning 25 was to speak at the United Nations. It is exactly a month to my 25th birthday today, and I just crossed it off. Look. At. My. God. ❤️
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Men, please when you go out everyday:. 1. Don't rape women.2. Don't kill women.3. Don't kidnap women.4. Don't hit women . How careful can women be in a world that is unsafe for them? How careful?.
Please Women as you go out everyday, .Take along with you these following items:. 1. Pepper spray. 2. Pen or pocket knife. 3. A hammer. 4. Try to learn a martial arts/boxing skill please.
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Girl to Girl: Please ensure that the lifechanging decisions you make are YOURS and are informed. Whether it's marriage, childbearing, or furthering your education. Question EVERY important decision and be sure they are fully YOURS, not society, relation, or culture-influenced.
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The older I grow as a woman, the more I'm learning to consider the concept of marriage as a strategic decision rather than a solely emotional one.
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The way my chest tightens when I'm not in a good place with a person I love. Lol. Such a softie.
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Schools shouldn't teach this. Parents don't teach this. Churches shy away from topics like this. So where exactly do we expect the girls to learn from? Menstruation is not a hush-hush topic. It shouldn't be. 👍.
POV: when you take your job VERY serious. is this Good or bad? Views?
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Two comforting truths:. 1. You have not met all the people who are going to love you. 2. Love given is never wasted.
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“Strict Babes” are really just soft Babes who had to learn to protect themselves.
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Even in your godly relationship, please talk about sex.
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Falied to be a mysterious babe this year. We go again in 2024 🙏.
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I worry too much for someone whom God has NEVER failed.
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"If you're hanging on by a thread, it better be the hem of His garment." . Phew.
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Here's another week to remind you to open your mouth. Send that cold email. Ask for help. Shoot that shot. Try again. If you don't ask, the answer will always be NO.
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I love how prayer makes you feel so light, yet so loaded at the same time. I can't explain it but it's so beautiful.
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My baby sister spent weeks crocheting this poncho as a gift for me, and I'm going to cherish it for a long, long while. 🥹❤️
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Let there be: . Places you don’t go. Words you don’t say. Things you don’t do. Substances you don’t take. Have principles. It is what saves men.
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I've noticed from recent interactions that' I'm becoming a lot more strict and I actually like it. Sweet AND strict is a necessary combo for the sanity of soft babes.
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We grossly underestimate how much effort and discipline it takes to succeed.
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My own hot take on this matter is that your partner has a role to play in determining how their family accepts/treats you. Long before they even meet you.
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I love that in the Bible, there’s wisdom for every season. Marriage? Pain? Mental health? Finances? Friendships? Career? There’s always something. The Bible is a complete book; It’s like a practical life manual, I want to learn to sit a lot more with it. I think we all should.
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Heard a stranger at the airport telling her mum on a call that she hadn't sorted accommodation yet, but once she gets to Lagos, she knows God will work it out. Me: Reboot camp?.Her: Yes!.Me: You can stay in my hotel. I'm not even a CCI member, but I won't leave a girl stranded.
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My toxic trait is that I require an unusual dose of solitude and silence often to exist as a fully functioning human.
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Three things I remind myself of often:. 1. Nobody is coming to save you. 2. Nobody owes you anything. 3. Your life is your business.
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I know I sound like a broken record, but Maverick city music songs really do feel like a big hug from God ❤️.
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To the one who cried so much this year, you covered your mouth so no one would hear. You had your life fall apart & heart, break into a million pieces. May the outstretched arm of God envelope you. I pray God gives you reasons to laugh in 2024. It’s not over. I LOVE YOU!❤️.
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I really like the concept of sleep. Temporary escapism.
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Fun fact: World Menstrual Hygiene Day is marked on the 28th because it's symbolic to the average 28-day menstrual cycle.
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God said, "Hold my cup." . New role(s). New apartment. New city. New Church. New friends. New mindset. New levels. New countries. And I know He's not even done with me yet. I'm grateful for the LEAP. What a wonderful year!. 🥹🙌🏾.
My sister: I need new clothes. Me: I need a new life. Seriously in need of a drastic change in my life this year. A complete overhaul.
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Dear Christian Brother, You’re an adult now. While we understand (and love) that you are not of this world, you are very much IN it. And “it” is governed by principles. Christianity is not and can no longer be a cover for mediocrity. This is a plea.
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A simple "Holyspirit help me" and I found the airpods I'd been looking for since yesterday. "Oh what peace we often forfeit, oh what needless pain we bear" 🫠.
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"I was born with something inside me that refuses to settle for average. I don't know what it is, but I'm glad I have it.". YES.
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Life has taught me to never be afraid of trying again. I will always try again. And again. Again. And pick myself up. And try again. And try one more time. It's just who I've become.
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My suicidal adolescent self would not believe we made it to 25 sane, healthy, happy. This age is such a testimony. The Lord has been good and kind to me. Thankful.
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I've heard Babes say their man doesn't have to be facially fine as long as he ticks other boxes, but I can't relate, please. Na collabo 👍.
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That pregnancy announcement video made me cry but hearing everyone saying “I told you”, stood out for me. It’s so important to be surrounded by people who can carry you, when you can barely lift yourself. We’re not meant to do life alone.
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How do I explain making more in two weeks than my entire life combined in the second half of this same year?. Alot can happen in two months. It doesn't take God anything to switch things up. Stay believing, guys!.
Year of financial breakthrough remain only two months. Oluwa saanu wa.
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My baby sister won both the Abuja and Lagos poetry slams, then represented Nigeria at the world championship in Brazil, and became a finalist. A star. My blood for real 💫
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Tweeting because I didn't run mad when the wedding was called off barely two months to the set date, the day I was to start my final exams, the week I was to launch my academy, which was also the week of my birthday last year. God has kept me. 🙃.
“Tweeting because life didn’t end when” Twitter Edition:.
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Until you experience the mercy of God, you'll keep priding in skill, talent, or possessions. Mercy overrides these things. Mercy is humbling.
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Forgiveness in my books doesn't necessarily equate reconciliation or access.
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My most consistent advice when it comes to accessing opportunities is to apply. At least apply first. Don't reject yourself before you even try. It's a numbers game, and you truly never know.
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A guy who is trying to woo my sister had a heart attack and he mailed her his ECG sheet from the hospital with a note that read "I'm offering you my withering heart" and you dare tell me romance is DEAD? (For context, she's a poet) Phewww.
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I had Lawrence Oyor's "Favour" on repeat on my way home, and a good email dropped just before I got home. It was just such a perfect moment. I giggled like a little child.
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Women like NOI have my highest admiration. May I know them, May I also be.
Today, it is with humility and a great sense of honour that I thank each and every one of the 166 WTO members for the consensus they achieved in supporting my reappointment! Thank you for the wonderful words of recognition and support. I don’t take this lightly. I also want to
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You know how I kept saying a lot can still happen before the year ends? Looks like it was a note to self! I just won a 5+ million grant to advance SRHR education through XariAfrica. 🙌🏾.
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One trick I've picked up as an intorvert in an extroverted world is dressing very well to high-level events. I'm less likely to do the "networking" or approach people first, but when I look gorgeous, people always walk up to me to start a conversation. Always.
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If you're coming from trauma, dysfunction, or survival, you literally have to consciously rewire your brain if you're ever going to live a happy and fulfilled life. We don't talk about this enough, and it's so crazy.
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I’ve drank so much from wells of excellence that I never want to do anything mediocre in my life again. There's more. There's always so much more.
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Gotta give it to Hilda Baci, though. "When you let your light shine, you give others the permission to do the same.".
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Showered, oiled, perfumed. The cavemen on speaker. Wine in one hand. PJs on. Soft socks on feet. Cheeseballs in a bowl. Solitude, peace, and quiet. Life is good. God is good.
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I’ve realized I can’t work for money alone. I’ve tried to, but it just doesn’t work for me. My work needs to have meaning; some sort of impact. Anything else just feels empty.
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Just as someone is saying I can't do my masters abroad if I wanted to marry them, another will be helping map out scholarship applications and guiding me to save some dollars for tuition if scholarships don't work out. May we not marry the weapon fashioned against us. 🙏.
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"Forget not His benefits" is so real because, boy, do we forget how good the Lord has been!.
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It's actually quite impossible for me to be small. Ever. I've been predestined for greatness, I just have to keep playing my part.
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1. Your dreams are valid. Decide on the life you want and go for it. 2. Your choice of a life partner can make or mar you,it really is that important. 3. Date before committing. 4. Create a fine balance between investing in and treating yourself. You need both. 5. Make money.
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Happy menstrual hygiene day to the girls with short cycles hence two periods a month, long periods of up to 7 days month, the heavy flow girlies, women with PMS and PCOS, and Babes who get tired of it all, but still push through month after month.
Happy Menstrual Health Day to all the girls who go into the toilet at work to writhe in pain only to come out and work like everything is okay. You’re remarkable and should be extremely proud of yourself for soldiering through each month.
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"So will I" is definitely one of the most beautiful songs ever written. Chills. Everytime.
“And as You speak, a hundred billion creatures catch Your breath. ”.
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Same. I'm not settling for love. If not for anything else, the mere fact that I know I literally give my all when I love someone is enough. I MUST meet my match.
I’m a sucker for love. I loveeeeee love.
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One prayer I think people should take seriously if they'll commit to a relationship long-term is the prayer for healing, not just from past experiences but from preconceived notions, and Twitter takes. Because alot of you absorb the opinions of mad people on this app unknowingly.
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As you're praying to meet the right person, also pray that by the time you meet them, you wouldn't have become the wrong person due to past hurt, trauma, and mistakes 🙏.
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God cannot mismanage my life. God knows exactly what He's doing with my life.
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I've often said that one of Nigeria's biggest problems is a lack of consequence for actions. I think this applies to humanity in general. People need to know that there are repercussions for their actions, big or small.
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We gave our kids in church the best children’s day gift today. The baptism of the HolySpirit with the evidence of speaking in tongues! 🔥.
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"There are decades where nothing happens and weeks where decades happen.". Indeed.
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I pray you find your tribe and you're reminded every day that we are not meant to do life alone.
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Stop dating emotionally unavailable people. They will enter a relationship with you and leave you inside. Not only will you be unhappy, you will question your worth and sanity. Value yourself, love. You deserve so much more.
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Need to be hugged for hours, by someone physically bigger than me. A bear hug. The type that swallows you and your pain.
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You can literally feel it in your bones when it's time to step into a new season. Everything in and around you just screams, "Come up hither.".
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I wish teenagers just wouldn’t date till they’re ready and grown enough to be married. It’s never ever worth it.
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Being raised overprotected seems cute until you're a reclusive adult who struggles to interact with the real world and can't handle basic life pressures unless it's cognitive.
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If you have siblings in the university, please encourage them to join international organizations like Enactus and Global shapers,or volunteer for something meaningful. This is what helped me and many others in my circle. These are the things that give you an edge after school.
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I'm the biggest lover girl I know, and I always will be. I hope nothing changes that. I also know it's wisdom to consult more than just emotions alone. Feelings make for a very fickle foundation for a lifelong partnership.
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I love you, you love me. Beautiful. Now, what are we doing? Where are we heading? How are we ensuring this partnership won't ruin both our lives and destinies? What is the plan? When,where, what, how?. Two are better than one means we must be better together than we were apart.
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Out of four weeks in a month, one is for PMS, one for the actual period, and one for ovulation. Women only get about one week of rest, monthly. It’s not easy.
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This made me cry. My Baby sister’s audition for De9jaspirit sent chills down my spine. The piece. The delivery. The look. The audacity. What a star! . Her face when Mr. Sid told her to stop? Absolutely shattered my heart! 🥹.I am so proud of you, My global poet. We all are.
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I think the best way to navigate adult friendships and relationships is to accept that we're only meant to experience people, not own them. Outcomes will always be beyond our control, and that's okay. Enjoy while it lasts. Those we call "ours" are never really ours to keep.
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l've been crying since I woke up, man. Seven years. Seven freaking years.
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You're letting shame/fear hold you back because you don't want to look foolish exploring different businesses/passions, switching jobs/courses, or figuring out what you want out of life, but that’s what youth is for. Process IS messy. Throw shame away and build your life.
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If you know a young Christian aged 18-22 interested in being a TV presenter at TBN, please send them to me.
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Salvation is instant, transformation is not. Give people grace.
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As someone who travels the world on fully funded opportunities, here's one trick to get them sent to you every day for free! . I don't gatekeep, neither should you. Please share with someone.
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Man. I’m in such a rollercoaster of emotions. She didn’t have to, but she went ahead and did. SHE DID IT! A QUEEN! This has touched me in many ways. #100hrs #Hildabacicookathon
100 hours in! . I cannot imagine the mental and emotional grit required to achieve a feat like this. I hope you soon realize the importance of what you’ve Just done, Hilda Baci! Thank you @hildabacicooks .#100hrs #Hildabaccicookathon.
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You'll be working 5 x 4= 20 .Meanwhile, God is playing 4 + 4 + -2 x -5 + 2= 20. God math>>>>>.His ways are not our ways at alllll.
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One thing HC will do is give you a chance to unleash all the moves you've been saving and practising in your head.
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I deeply honor women who excel in Faith, Family and Finances. The Awoshikas’ and the Alakijas’. If they could, I can and I will. Everybody can getat, respectfully.
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I once dated someone who told me I couldn't attend a church but became a member of that church immediately we split. I'm dissecting with my therapist, and you don't realise how crazy some things are until after. Again, women with a purpose need to stay away from insecure men .
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Chocolates and flowers are great but you can also pay for professional certification for a woman in your life if it'llhelp her up that ladder. That's one way to inspire inclusion.
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Let there be: . Places you don’t go. Words you don’t say. Things you don’t do. Substances you don’t take. Have principles. It is what saves men.
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Taking my time with this marriage thing because I’ve resolved that I will not give my children a childhood they will eventually spend their adulthood healing from.
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I see the confusion. "Schools shouldn't teach this" should have been in quotation marks just like this. It's a reiteration of what folks say, not a statement in itself. (But I mean, come on. Work with me here!).
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Sometimes, you have to sit with the fact that you were rejected because you have not yet become the person for that opportunity at that time, and that's okay. Get back to work.
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Your truth is not THE truth. My final post on this. We had three major agreements before we started dating . 1. Hyphenation of surname .2. Doing my masters abroad.3. Waiting for at least a year to have kids. 🧵.
MY TRUTH ( from EMMANUEL AKPE) on the allegation of marriage scamming. “1. I dated Efe Johnson from November 2022 to October 2023. We did not agree on some foundational marriage issues. It's been 8 months after we parted ways and she blocked me since then. I can't see her.
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I am of the opinion that it takes more of courage than money, to get married.
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God bless this man. There's still alot of work to be done but he's diligently carrying the weight of Nigeria's health problems on his shoulders and boy! Is it heavy.
If you see someone having a seizure or, convulsion. This is what you do. Please RT to help educate someone. CPR video will be released tomorrow morning. Share. Or just save. You might need it one day.
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There is nothing you'll find on your journey that God did not already see ahead of time. JIREH: Providence beyond provision.
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