@f8the
your trauma isn’t always the blame & the anxiety you experience may be means for protection from red flags based on your experience- that’s natural and normal. ask yourself is this response irrational/your “trust issues” or is this person untrustworthy from what they’ve shown you
I’ll go through a phase where I’m working super hard and then out of nowhere lose all motivation and withdrawal from all responsibilities and also feel shitty about it... what’s that called?