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Life is simple.
Love the right people vigorously.
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@CatholicCharm
I imagine this happens more than we know and I made sure my newborn was with us at all times
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@jakeshieldsajj
I do have to say he seems more concerned about his busted lip than her horrific trauma. I just can’t fathom... She’s probably scared to death she’s caught some disease let alone the psychological anguish.
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Marry a girl who looks great without makeup, smiles often for no reason, can face any problem with grace & gladly lets you have the last word.
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@FellMentKE
People often make up the most delusional stories to have an excuse to be angry and miserable.
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Ladies what’s stopping us from walking like this 😍
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My mother was 21 when she married my very handsome, healthy, charming and successful father who was 56 years old.
If you find this odd or creepy, you shouldn’t be anywhere near my timeline.
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13 Red flags to look for in women 🧵
1. Entitled. Highly individualistic, avoids commitment, disloyal.
2. Pushy, controlling, plays victim, runs hot + cold
3. Poor discipline with: finances, health, fitness, grooming
4. Dirty + disorganized residence
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This Italian guy illuminates how American individualism works against our society’s welfare ⬇️
🔗
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In a marriage, expectations to:
• have regular sex
• be treated with respect
• be considered in decisions
• be a top priority
• have some time to yourself
• protect, provide for, feed, clean and keep a house nurtured
• be treated with kindness
• not be bullied
• take
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13 Red flags in MEN‼️
1. He won’t take charge, passive, indecisive + insecure (poor leadership)
2. He’s too agreeable, puts you on a pedestal, seeks your approval (Nice Guy)
3. He lack’s emotional intelligence, detached, can’t control emotions, poor communicator (immature)
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So now that the cat’s out of the bag, let me just say…
I didn’t want to be a first time mom on the eve of my 45th birthday (in August next year). Making me 65 when my son will be 20, but here we are.
It is NOT ideal to be this old starting out a family, especially as a
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Younger women date older men because they like their maturity, confidence, life experience and accomplishments.
So why is it bad for older men to date younger women because they like their inexperience, radiance, vulnerability and deference?
Make it make sense.
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Men who do what they want are more attractive than men who do what you want them to do.
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Not desperately needing a partner is the only way to find one worthy of wanting for the rest of your life.
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If a woman isn’t coachable she’s not ready for a relationship with a healthy masculine man.
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Your children are not your father’s children, they’re your husband’s children, they should have his last name.
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Here are 15 things I did to fix my hormones & get pregnant (with my first child) at 44:
1) I stopped drinking caffeine completely and reduced alcohol to a few glasses a month (there are some beneficial properties of alcohol for those with low sex hormones but only in moderation
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Imagine telling someone, “I like you fat, sick & damaged. Don’t change for anyone.”
And meaning it...
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Welcome Luca Demori!
6 lbs 10 oz
20 inches
Born Sunday 6/2/24
Full head of black hair
It was a scary start but we managed to get through the induction, L&D in 24 hours without an emergency cesarean thank goodness!
We are all healthy and safe 🩵
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No matter how much a woman ever loved a man or what they’ve endured together — if she’s convinced he’s incapable of meeting her needs & she knows she can take care of her needs better on her own & he’s the obstacle to her survival — it’s over. Sentimentality flies out the window.
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The more casually they have sex, the less love they actually have in their life.
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Being kind to people with poor
health and disabilities is a virtue,
but condoning the lifestyles that
lead to them and glorifying the
results, is foolish.
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13 Relationship Red Pills:
1. Unhealthy people are everywhere. If you put lust & emotional attachment over establishing a healthy, shared lifestyle you’ll likely perish.
2. You’re not looking to be completed, you’re looking to be complemented with a compatible partner.
Cont…
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Marry a man who thinks you’re beautiful without makeup, makes you smile for no reason, faces any problem with competence & confidence and has the kind of robust word you can trust & respect to lead you through forever together.
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5 things a Man needs from his Woman:
1. Respect + Loyalty
2. Physical Intimacy + Affection
3. Trust + Acceptance
4. Her Femininity + Warmth
5. Admiration + Appreciation
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The Ideal Man is 80% badass + 20% sweetheart 💕
While the Ideal Woman is 80% sweetheart + 20% badass 😎
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Men, when healthy, are the energy regulators + women, when healthy, are the energy infusers.
The caveat is: a man’s responsibility in the relationship is two-fold.
When his energy’s off, her energy dysregulates, she becomes insecure.
When her energy is off, he must compensate.
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She lost interest in you because you stopped taking care of yourself, prioritizing your mission & you let the obstacles kill your inspiration to build, grow & conquer.
You became a project she had to solve, an extra burden, not a leader for her to respect, believe in & support.
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Fertility Tip
#6
I’ve gained 12 lbs in a year or so.
It’s been hard to accept this change as I was heavily focused on being lean & fit for so long & I hit my peak in 2020. But I had to switch everything up & work against my comfort zone to assist my fertility.
Left: 138 lbs
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A woman who respectfully loves & lusts for her husband has zero problem cooking, cleaning & taking care of household affairs for them. She also wants to have his babies… a woman who doesn’t genuinely feel rewarded by these things is a fraud.
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This woman did a brilliant rendition of RayGun’s performance and reminds us that:
“If you —a person with no training—can do it, it’s not Olympic level.”
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If you want a healthy husband and a happy marriage, you better leave feminism behind, sis.
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Ladies stop fasting until late afternoon to mimic your boyfriend’s meal plan. Our bodies don’t work the same way. And if you want to have kids in a year or two, now’s the time to stop prioritizing fat loss & start prioritizing balancing your hormones, gut health, etc.
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A woman with a kind heart, stunning natural beauty & sound judgment is the ultimate unicorn.
They’re rare, but the do exist.
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@TheEcho13
“Despite pleas for women to start having children again, women don’t want to have children with men who don’t value them, so they’re not.” This sounds like a good move 👍🏼
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Not needing a partner is the only way to find one worthy of joining with.
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Bring back feminine sway 😍
This is an exaggerated walk for the runway, but we need to inject a little more sensuality into our gait ladies.
No more tom boy shuffle, got it!
Notice how it makes you feel 🥰
And stay situationally aware of course, you may get some unwanted
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The female equivalent of jacked and tan is “happy & sweet.”
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Even if a woman doesn’t work to pay the bills, she still needs leisure time to stay healthy & feminine. She cannot be doing all the housework & childcare by herself. If her husband isn’t able or willing to contribute effort to give her the reprieve she needs from
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15 Qualities that make a high value man husband material
A thread🧵
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Find a beautiful woman on the inside and out who is ready to put you and your relationship first over her petty personal fancies.
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Women should bake something delicious for the household at least once a week.
Not only does it raise house morale, contribute to feelings of nourishment and comfort for all, but it also provides a de-stressing and confidence boosting experience for the baker too.
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If you’re struggling with guilt over poor choices in the past, read this aloud whenever you need to:
“I’m a good person who was acting below my standards to get what I thought I wanted but wasn’t good for me. I know better now. From here on out, I will honor my best self.”
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Marry a man who thinks you're beautiful without makeup, makes you smile for no reason and faces any problem with competence, confidence, consistency & conviction — so that you can admire, trust & respect him to lead you through life forever.
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If a man preferring younger, healthier women is misogynistic then a woman wanting a rich, tall, fit man is misandry.
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Femininity not Feminism ⬇️
If you’re a single woman, make this your passion. You’ll be preparing for marriage, integrating your masculine & feminine energy, refining your aesthetic, etiquette & social networking skills & enjoying the heck out of your life as best you can before
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Rejections are merely “proof of incompatibility.” No reason to stress them, receive them with dignity.
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The masculine urge to save a beautiful, but unstable woman from herself is parallel only to the feminine urge to change a sexy bad boy into a respectable man.
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All an integrated woman wants is to be claimed by a worthy man, worry less about survival, work less on securing an income, have time to take care of herself, her house, her loved ones and focus on generating value in the world by creating a better next generation.
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If you want to verify a man’s genuine interest, delay sex; and if you want to verify a woman’s genuine interest, delay marriage and family. The moral of the story is: Vet thoroughly for shared genuine interest and robust compatibility. Anything less is too risky.
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Why is she single? 🤤
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Nothing to do?
Feeling sad — siesta at the park
Feeling frustrated — lift weights
Feeling bored — go for a long walk in your hood
Feeling uninspired — go to a museum
Feeling lonely — volunteer work
Feeling unlovable — go to a place of worship
Feeling lost — go to a library
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28 weeks today and into the third trimester 🥳 12 weeks to go!
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@tishray
@omnivoyance
This idea is what I’m trying to fix: too many people bulldozing their way into r-ships to be accepted for their dysfunctions and not enough people taking accountability for their flaws. Stabilize yourself *before* you get into a relationship, grow exponentially in relationship.
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15 Qualities that make a high value woman, wife material 💍
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You want an intelligent wife not only because IQ is largely genetic, but the more intelligent you are the more you need intellectual intimacy/chemistry with her. You’re not looking for HIGH IQ, you’re looking for someone who values what you have to offer. Someone who “gets you.”
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11. Holds extreme ideology with little tolerance or capacity for nuance
12. Poor sense of self, poor boundaries, poor self awareness
13. Doesn’t want kids (with you)
👉🏽Men, avoid these
#redflags
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Modern women are polyamorous when single, but monogamous enough to lock down a gullible man to meet her basic needs until her hypergamous entitlement finds someone better to latch on to.
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Find a woman who works out + takes proper care of herself, not just for vanity’s sake, but to ensure the vitality of your future children + marital bed.
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“Their women” sure, their wife not so much…
Confident, secure masculine men want their wife to represent them with her adoration, loyalty, beauty & elegance. They do not want to parade her around like a spectacle to be lusted after.
all masculine and high test men LOVE to allow their women to dress up as slutty as legally possible when they go out.
it signals to other men exactly what they are missing, and what they can not achieve.
dinner, bars, galas, family events, funerals and plays,
the nip slip
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@Cernovich
My Dad was 66 when I was born. I wouldn’t trade a younger father than him. He was my hero and a legend. Quality of father/relationship > years with him.
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A man who can hold his frame during emotional discomfort is sexy as hell.
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Married or coupled women/men have no business seeking out new single opposite sex friends. You can be social and friendly with opposite sex acquaintances but nurturing a 1-1 intimate friendship with a single person of the opposite sex is contraindicated to preserving & honoring
“Men and women can’t be friends” is an antisocial meme created by losers
A friendship is people who communicate, trust, and support one another. So you’re saying only people of the same sex can communicate, trust, and support one another. Anything else must be sexual and
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The little romantic things:
Going to the grocery store.
Reading simultaneously.
Cuddling on the couch.
Stealing kisses in the hallway.
Grabbing their ass eagerly.
Forehead kisses without words.
Holding hands on a walk.
Texting I miss you.
Waking up slowly together.
Welcoming
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Remember, when you’re functioning at a certain level most people won’t understand you. Either try to speak at their level or accept they won’t see things with the same vision you do.
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I’m starting to realize that the people I get along with best are Christians. Does this mean I have to start going to church again? 😎
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How to be popular in 2021:
— virtue signal
— simp
— sexually exploit yourself
— advocate for acceptance of the bad habits of others
— be a fickle hypocrite
— be an abrasive harpy & secretly hate your life
— fight for intrusive laws to stop what you fear the most: accountability
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“Marry a man that loves you more” is some of the worst advice you can give to women.
This encourages them to settle for less and double down on avoidant attachment.
It’s a lie older or jaded, wounded women tell others (even if well intended) to avoid the heartache they had
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5. “Dates around” to avoid being alone/bored
6. Lacks family values, integrity, self respect with no healthy role models
7. Lacks accountability/humility, shifts blame or makes excuses. Can’t admit to being wrong, apologize, self correct.
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Funny how feminism glorifies masculinity in women and vilifies masculinity in men. Should seem obvious to anyone that they have it backwards.
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8. Unable to regulate her emotions, easily triggered, gets disrespectful/malicious when angry or in conflict
9. Married to career
10. Lacks feminine qualities like class, grace, elegance, empathy, patience, joy, playfulness + vulnerability
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Only have sex with a man whom you want to father your children. Birth control took away this common sense, take it back.
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If you’re struggling with guilt over poor choices in the past, I want you to read this aloud to yourself daily:
“I’m a good person who was acting below my standards to get what I thought I wanted but wasn’t good for me. From now on I’ll treat myself better to receive better.”
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Stop telling women to date multiple people at one time! There’s a reason we have an innate cringe to this idea.
We know it’s flat out counterintuitive.
Our bodies, heart + brain are meant for ONE man. We get overloaded with emotions, anxiety + confuse our eggs, otherwise.
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Left to right:
1. September 2020 (age 41) before trying to conceive (TTC) at 14% body fat, less than 140 lbs & infertile
2. Circa 22-23’ (age 43) after gaining 15 lbs (155) & getting healthy & fertile
3. Mother’s Day 24’ full term pregnant (age 44) at 184 lbs
4.
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Distancing yourself from unstable people who continue to accuse you of bullshit projections they can’t deal with themselves is self care.
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I hate to see women let themselves go after they land a man & lock in a family.
Happiness isn’t about the bells & whistles, but you have to make an effort to keep your husband enthusiastic about you as well & vice versa.
Don’t get complacent & don’t take each other for granted.
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I used to be gluten and dairy intolerant until I started eating real dairy and breads. It’s the North American mass produced diet most people are allergic to because it’s toxic ☠️
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“Feminine women need to be around masculine energy just as masculine men need to be around feminine energy. It's not about sex, it's the energetic harmony they create together when they are in flow.”
(August 2018)
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Hate to break it to you, but women don’t want sex as much as you think they do.
It’s not SEX per se that they desire. It’s the validation they get from being desired for sex, which they seek.
Think of it this way, it’s testosterone that leads to the drive for the physical act
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Ladies you should really try deep cleaning the house in daisy dukes and braless in a crop top. Works wonders for your mood.
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Why you should NOT pursue opposite sex friends if you’re coupled.
⬇️
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People tend to remember the last things you did and said to them not the best things you did or said to them. So make sure you leave things off the best you can, every single time.
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A jarring reality check for most women in their 30s, but at least she is aware now (at 33) and doing something about it.
You can still have kids —god willing— with low AMH but you do have to be proactive & make some significant changes as well as prioritize your fertility.
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Emotional intelligence isn’t some warm & fuzzy spiritual entertainment buzz word, it’s powerful, tactical insight you can apply skillfully to connect with people to get the best from them.
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Sympathy: I feel badly for you
Empathy: I can relate to your experience
Compassion: I want to help you through your difficulty for nothing in return
Kindness: Being considerate + friendly despite your differences
Don’t discount the power of just one of them at the right time.
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A wounded man loses his cool when offended by words that weren’t said, but which indirectly spoke to his internalized shame.
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A mentor who needs all the credit for your success isn’t a mentor at all, they’re a boss who doesn’t pay you.
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A marriage isn’t meant to be two halves becoming a whole.
You’re meant to be two complete & healthy people merging together like drops of water into a bigger & better form.
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Be the woman your mother always wished she was but could never measure up to.
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It’s harder to commit to a person in your 20s because you don’t realize how rare it is to find someone good for you whom you adore.
Unfortunately many lose out to a false assumption that shots at a good life are abundant. The older you get the less naïve you are about this.
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Women feel just as rewarded by cooking, baking + cleaning as men feel from constructing + engineering stuff with their bare hands.
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If you’ve experienced trauma early in life you’ve likely relied on defense mechanisms to get you through the chaos you lived.
If you don’t intentionally confront them honestly & understand why you needed those coping skills, they will keep your peace of mind out of reach.
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Women need significantly more emotional self regulation time than men because our moods are more fluid than theirs & our systems are different. We have 11x less testosterone for one & men can tolerate a lot more stress; women have higher levels of cortisol in response to stress.
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It’s essential for men to learn emotional regulation, aka stoicism, but most don’t see it this way.
Stoicism is masculine emotional intelligence. It’s not “not feeling emotions.” It’s controlling the behavior derivative from your emotions, but you are aware of them, feel them &
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“The one” you should commit to (get vulnerable and take the leap of faith with) is the one who regulates your nervous system, not the one who destabilizes you.
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Love doesn’t have to be perfect, it just has to be honest…
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Guys will invite a woman out way too quickly if she’s hot. What they need to do is determine if she’s worth it first. She’s gotta earn it.
A hot girl can make you annoyed af, look bad in public with trashy behavior or even pose a liability if you don’t qualify her first.
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Be the rare woman, seek the rare man.
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