@REFUSERADIO
@akleyyz
They often don’t realize that so many ppl don’t understand typing quirks BECAUSE of their disability. Calling people ableist for having a disability is just ironic
“Estrogen is what makes a woman a woman”
“A man having higher levels of estrogen does not make him a woman”
???? They’re contradicting themselves every other statement 😭😭
@AsterShock
Ok I mostly agree but saying that certain slurs can’t be reclaimable because they aren’t widely reclaimed already is?? Not correct? /nm
Like obviously it isn’t reclamation if you use it as an insult but that doesn’t mean it can never be reclaimed, imo.
I seriously don't understand how fully transitioned trans people who insist theyre biologically their natal sex. You transitioned at like 15, your sexual anatomy fully matches your gender, yet you still insist this. Are chromosomes the only thing you care about? 😭😭
This shit is so gross 💀 how do these ppl feel about lesbians who’ve experienced comphet? Or about women who’ve been sexually abused by men? Like wow imagine defining women by the sex they’ve had, not misogynistic at all! Totally great feminism!
@ThatOldCoyote
@Dozingdahlias
Interesting. You claim that every trans person will later regret their transition, and when they *don’t* you make the weird, specific, and personal assumption that they’re old and “losing their mind”… when you know practically nothing about their personal life.
The idea that gender is purely a social construct is transphobic because, putting aside that it's simply incorrect, it implies that so is dysphoria-- and that you can just "unlearn" it. 1/2
Saying that transmedicalism conforms to “cis standards” is kinda silly because since when was being dysphoric or transitioning a cis standard? Being non-dysphoric, presenting as your natural sex, and not wanting to transition at all are the cis standards 💀
@smoltittynerdgf
Also, defining women by their interactions with men seems more misogynistic than anything else.
Not to mention that attraction is completely involuntary and not a political statement. You can like men and be completely separated from them in every sense.
Yeah oof using trans women of color being murdered as an excuse to not discuss other forms of transphobia is just kind of gross.
“There are bigger issues” doesn’t excuse transphobia even if it’s less significant. U can care about both extreme issues and mild issues.
If someone is struggling w dysphoria or cant transition and you respond like “You don’t need to transition, ur valid no matter what 🥺”
That’s completely besides the point!! Transition isn’t for self-validation!!
Exactly since it can help children recognize signs of danger and what to do about it. People who say stuff like "they're too young to hear about such things!" need to stfu because THEYRE the targets, and they're the ones who would benefit from knowing how to protect themselves.
@RODEOWOLVES
This!!! I'd also add to this that even if it IS an 18+ space, that doesn't mean everyone is automatically comfortable with it. We should encourage sexual expression in spaces where there is a *guarantee* that everybody consents to seeing it.
My honest opinion is that specific terms to describe different experiences w multi-gender attraction r fine, but they all fall under the bisexual orientation and considering them to be wholly separate things restricts the meaning of bisexuality to something static or binary.
Xenogender users proving that they think gender is a choice and treating it like some kind of competition
“You have the opportunity to make something unique and personal to you 🥺”
Uhhh no I don’t 💀
Btw it doesn't matter what your actual gender is or if you consider yourself "transmasc" for being NB, trying to mimic top surgery scars and misrepresenting them as the chainsaw slashes of a surgeon's horribly botched attempt at top so fucking disrespectful.
Fun fact being pan isn't "more inclusive" than being bi. Bi people don't always have to have a gender preference. Bi people can like non-binary people. Stop defining pansexual with biphobic definitions.
While I’m not strongly against it, asking people’s pronouns can cause a lot of distress for closeted trans people. If you ask them their pronouns, they’re put in a situation where they either have to misgender themself or out themself when they aren’t ready, or it’s unsafe.
Autism IS a disorder. Autism affects me negatively. Disorder isn’t a dirty word the same way disabled isn’t a dirty word— it’s simply realistic. I have sensory overloads, meltdowns, and RSD, and having those experiences validated as disordered is good!
Random internet people deciding that bisexual actually means one specific thing and that every other bisexual experience is some vague microlabel instead will never not piss me off
I’m actually so fucking sick of other trans people assuming some of us hold our opinions solely for cis approval because we don’t fit into the mainstream norm
No, no, this is a huge misconception. When people say "self-diagnosing helped me get a diagnosis", they're usually talking about SPECULATION. Understanding that something is wrong and wanting to get it checked is not the same as outright claiming you definitely have said thing!!
Transmedicalism is so misrepresented by the inclus community. The first definition of transmedicalism I heard was that it was the belief that you are only trans if you medically transition. That is far from the truth--
The kids in question are 16+ year olds who've had years of therapy and medical verification. It's a pain to actually get treatment. Trust me, it isn't just being handed out for the hell of it.
@LuvBisexuals
This is the reason I avoid every self-identified pansexual I see unless they specify that it isn’t something along the lines of “because it liberates me from the constraints of gross yucky bisexuality 😍😍”
Can you stop treating religion like it’s not just a belief?? Nobody’s belief system is entitled to respect and religious beliefs have no evidence. Like yeah I’m against all religions— I’m also against flat-earth theory and the giant flying spaghetti monster lmao
If you’re anti-theist you have to be able to accept that you’re also antisemitic, islamophobic, anti-pagan, anti-sikh, and every other -phobic or anti- of every theistic religion.
Being anti-theist makes you all of those things by default. That’s literally what anti-theism is.
@scrotesonfire
Being trans literally just doesnt even exist anymore their definition. It's just whatever the fuck you want it to be. Do they have any clue how much this hurts genuine trans people??
@gianttriop
They say it's transphobic for trans people to call themselves transsexual, and then turn around and call lgbt ppl queer even after they've expressed multiple times that they're uncomfortable with it 💀
It confuses me so much why some ppl get butthurt when others don’t want to be called queer??
Like I get it if someone’s saying NOBODY can use queer but someone will just be like “hey don’t call me queer, thanks” and they’ll get super defensive and insult them?? Why?? 😭
If you have top surgery, are on T, use he/him pronouns, and are totally happy with that but STILL think you’re a woman.. you might be in some pretty bad denial
“I will always be happy in my identity cuz no dysphoria!”
Fucking yikes. Literally implying that dysphoric people can’t be happy in who they are. Stop acting like you understand trans people— you aren’t dysphoric, you don’t understand how it feels to go on that journey.
@KaninCotton
good ! i will always be happy in all my identities cuz no dysphoria !!
{also u seem to tweet every hour from a quick glance at ur profile along with ur fast reply so its funny u call me chronically online. its sad that ur 23 and act like this,, go outside and ima pray for u omE}
Diagnosis is a privilege but self diagnosis does nothing to help you.
You can recognize your symptoms and suspect what you might have, but saying you know for certain does nothing to help besides making you feel like you belong and can speak for a community you may not belong to
what a shitty thing to say to a trans person. yeah trans people aren't cis, duh, but that doesn't mean trans men can NEVER live as cis ppl. there are plenty of trans ppl who go about their daily lives being perceived as cis and have cis bodies. that may not be the goal of EVERY
YIKES. If u gotta make up some obscure label with ridiculous mental gymnastics to justify claiming the term lesbian while liking men-- there's a problem.
You're bi. Just say you're bi.
For the love of god lying to medical professionals is dangerous especially when ur being prescribed medication. If ur doctor refuses to give you medication just because you’re non-binary or a GNC trans person and no other reason, it means they’re a shitty doctor.
since the transmeds are on the warpath let me remind all trans people:
LIE TO YOUR DOCTORS
tell them you were born in the wrong body and are insane with grief and the only thing that can help is HRT
that's what they want to hear
that's a "real" trans person to them
@GodlessSnowshoe
"uwu transmeds bad!"
*immediately goes to dox someone's family, sends death threats, talks about enjoying mutilating people just because they disagree with them*
What a very mature and healthy response to being disagreed with.
Ppl who respond to dysphoric people like “just learn to accept yourself!” give off the same energy as ppl who tell depressed people to “just look on the bright side”
Should we not call you human either because it “lumps you in with your oppressors”? Like wow sorry that sharing one basic trait with straight people hurts your feelings.
Reminder that pronouns aren’t forms of gender expression and their entire purpose is to replace nouns and (depending on the language) indicate broad demographics like gender.
They aren’t personalized on the same level names are, and shouldn’t be.
This is medical appropriation. It's just as horrible as something like buying a wheelchair for the aesthetic of it even though you have absolutely zero need for it. Tattooing a fucking scar on yourself to express a medical experience you do not have is blatant appropriation.
Okay hi. I know I’m a transmed and have a lot of transmed mutuals, but if you’re gonna be blatantly gross and call duosex dysphoria a novelty or a fetish, you can fuck right off. I tolerate civil NB skepticism especially due to the lack of research but I draw a line there.
Some tucutes are insufferable because they agree that gender expression is not gender, and then they go and act like gender is just a vibe and that it can be literally anything and that it’s nothing more than a form of self expression and not an inherent part of who you are lmao
Being autistic and seeing so many people using their autism as an excuse to do NOTHING about Palestine pisses me off. “I have low empathy!” You don’t have to have empathy to understand that something WRONG is happening and DO something about it.
gay men love calling g themselves girls or dolls or saying they have vag or calling themselves women but as soon as a lesbain calls themselves boys or men we have to have a whole lecture from butchphobes and im sick
the terms "transmasc" and "transfem" make no sense because how is your gender expression at all related to the fact that your trans
I realize that transmasc doesn't actually mean "masculine trans persom" but just refers to afab trans people for some reason
So being trans is essentially meaningless to you people.
Gender goes deeper than surface-level feelings based on gender roles.
It’s rooted in your brain, it’s how you’re born, and you can’t decide it or change it based on a passing feeling.
This is blatant fuel for transphobia.
@spyritsolz
so close ! to be trans,, all u need to do is identify as any gender than the one u were assigned,, hell u can even be trans and cis ! its all what u want :3
Queer is a slur. That doesn't mean you can't reclaim it for yourself, but it also doesn't mean you can call every lgbt person you see it- especially members of the community who grew up being called queer as an insult and may be uncomfortable with it.
I cannot take people who say that dysphoria is just internalized transphobia & that transition is conforming to “cis standards” seriously
Like no, I can’t poof my dysphoria away because dysphoria isn’t based on an expectation or internalized belief. It’s a medical condition.
ppl need to realize that there’s a difference between blaire white transmedicalism and “I just want healthcare and medical recognition” transmedicalism 😭
To y’all going “Ew! Pregnancy comes from sex! Hide it!”
…
You do realize that by existing, you’re a glaring reminder to everyone that your parents had sexual intercourse? By sharing your age & bday, you’re giving people a rough idea of when ur parents fucked… 👎👎👎👎
Btw gatekeeping is not an inherently bad thing. It’s neutral. It entirely depends on what you’re gatekeeping and from what. Using “you’re a gatekeeper!” as an argument against someone isn’t good enough, you need to explain WHY that specific gatekeeping is a bad thing.
There’s a difference between going to ur doctor and saying “hey I might have this can you help me” and going to the internet and openly claiming you have a complex condition without a shred of medical support in front of thousands of people
Things I’d currently be undiagnosed for without self-dx:
1. Eating disorder
2. Autism
3. ADHD
4. Bowel prolapse
5. No testosterone
6. Immune suppression
All of these, I had to go to the dr and tell them to investigate.
Okey, it's time to talk about this.
I am a cis straight man. I am a male. I understand that I do not suffer from misogyny. I understand that I will never be able to truly understand womens struggles.
But my hope is that I can tackle this subject from a unique perspective.
🧵
Y’all act like you’re progressive until it comes to appropriating other people’s conditions, and then it’s totally fine and dandy to be disrespectful as fuck to people with these actual medical experiences 💀
that person who got top surgery tattoos isn't even cis but imo it wouldn't matter if they were. cis people should do hrt and get bottom surgery if they want to
Yeah like this expression is fine but when you see the same thing representing trans men / enben over and over and over again it’s kind of exhausting. It feels like there’s a huge anti-masculinity problem within the LGBT community. Every trans person is represented as feminine.
sorry to put this specific artist on blast but i needed an example. why do ppl insist on only ever portraying trans men like this. most of the trans men i know do not do this ugly uwu wannabe punk look
Actually I’m allowed to have a problem with things that things have no evidence. Why is it okay to shit on scientology, flat-earth theory, jehovah’s witnesses, etc., but not other religious beliefs? Unfounded beliefs are not entitled to respect <3
Funny how you only people ONLY describe transitional surgeries this way.
Literally ANY surgery is gonna look bloody, scary and gross. Your feelings about how gross it looks does not negate the medical reality of being trans and transition.
@0Bloopbloop3
For most of the world, that trans people are even real in the first place. For the trans community and online spaces, that dysphoria is a core aspect of being trans and that xenogenders aren't real.
Dysphoria is a valid medical condition. And no, that doesn't mean trans = suffering or any of those bs transmed stereotypes. But it is medical and it is very real.