SIMPLY SHENEKA
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🩷 Empowering women to realize their worth. Real, raw, and ready to elevate lives. 𝓝𝓮𝓮𝓭 𝓐𝓭𝓿𝓲𝓬𝓮? Click my link to book your 1:1 mentoring call.
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Men like this get the best version of a woman. Consistently.
When she has the slightest inconvenience thinking her world is over & you solve it with ease….
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The more you confidently turn down anything that doesn't meet your standards, the easier it becomes to prioritize yourself and stay true to what you really want. Saying 'no' to low-value situations actually empowers you to make choices that align with your own worth and ideals.
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Black women need to realize that in the black community any basic standard that you have will be critiqued because we are seen as undeserving.
Please stop getting on the internet and letting the world know what you require in relationships or goals you have…⬇️
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Stop telling men about your triggers and insecurities. You should hold the emotional side of yourself close to your heart until he proves himself to you and earns it. Men only value things they worked hard to get. Stop giving these men weapons to use against you.
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It's so sad that women will risk all they've worked for and accomplished on a loser man due to loneliness.
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Young ladies please please please stand firm in your values. Do not bend them for the sake of having someone to do life with.
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You must move in silence because it breeds jealously from other women.
If the goal is for you to land a wealthy man, you will not get far by having a bestie in your ear taking notes, or discouraging you from it because she's a pick me or jealous.
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Being with the wrong man makes you unattractive. This is my life theory. They are energy vampires and suck the life out of you.
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Sexual access is reserved for the male or males who have demonstrated good character and significant investment. There is no need to abide by an artificial 90 day timeline. You withhold sexµal access until you can safely assure the encounter will be to your tangible benefit.
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More women need to do whatever it takes to move up in life and get into better positions instead of staying where they are.
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Don’t involve yourself with men who rob you of your femininity.
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move in silence I beg of you all. The one who moves in silence always comes out on top and gets to the goal they aspire for themselves not everything needs to be shared.
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Any man that does not want to invest in you or go out of his way to impress and genuinely get to know you outside in the open is a man not worth knowing. Keep your standards high and your tolerance for bs low.
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Women like her will say anything against black women for a man to applaud them.
Equal rights and treatment of women has nothing to do with who chooses to pay for dinner.
And splitting bills with a man who cheats on you and led to you catching a case is beyond ignorant.
Cardi B says bills should be split 50/50 during convo with Wallo.
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You date/marry men on your level or above. Financial, empathy, values, commitment, morals, ethics, character...goals. If he mistreats others he will mistreat you. It is who he is.
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Black women's most urgent problem is that they need to adopt higher value systems and prioritize themselves, not that they need to choose better men.
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If a man isn't trying to actively impress you, then he just isn't into you like that. Men say a lot of things. Only a FOOL would believe them.
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Black women, invest more money into yourself, and traveling. Men all over the world desire us. I wouldn't tell you anything wrong.
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Love is something that develops when you feel safe, provided for, and guided.
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A man will always bring you to his level... that's either up or down.
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When a man who is already committed to another woman initiates contact, you should take a good, hard look at yourself and realize that he has no respect for you.
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Getting pregnant by a boyfriend is where most women mess up at. The bare minimum should be marriage and assets.
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Unless a woman is marrying UP, she gains nothing beneficial from marriage at all. Marriage was not created to benefit women at all unless they married someone of a completely different socioeconomic class than them.
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My father instilled in me that a man should never ask a woman for money.
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If a man isn't excited and super enthusiastic to be with you, you shouldn’t be interested.
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I don’t believe in pursuing men. If a man wants you he will come and get you.
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I know the truth might be intimidating to insecure women but the girls that want it bad enough are leveling up and getting exactly what they want.
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If you are beautiful, life will definitely be more easier for you. And if you are smart and strategic, and can actually capitalize and profit off your beauty, you will do well in life and have access to any man you desire, regardless of race.
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If your man is not spending on you, someone else is getting that money.
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Black women need to realize that in the black community any basic standard that you have will be critiqued because we are seen as undeserving. Please stop getting on the internet and letting the world know what you require in relationships or goals you have, move in silence.
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The highest honor you could give a man is a baby. Why give that to someone who hasn’t married you?
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Dating apps don't have quality men, psychology today even talked about that. Those men on those apps are socially akward, lazy, weird, just ugh!
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You don’t want a man with a scarcity mindset. If a guy has a need to run through as many attractive woman as possible, that should tell you he's insecure and immature. You desire a man who’s selective and who would make a good father.
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The men who are truly in your league are those who want a serious relationship with you. These men will do anything for you. They respect you, treat you well, and genuinely want to call you and take you out publicly. They proudly proclaim you as their girlfriend or wife. The men
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Date and vet multiple men until a man you like proposes. It is not difficult so let's stop making dating difficult. What you see is what you will get. Ladies stop super gluing yourselves to men like white on rice and playing wife. If he wants a wife then he needs a ring as well
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A lot of women are more interested in emotionally dumping on others or trauma bonding with women who keep making the same mistakes with men over and over. That’s why being held accountable triggers so many women so much.
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If women were smart, they would never date/marry a man unless he agreed to pay all bills and had the financial track record to successfully do so.
On the flip side, you would be a fool to be a SAHW/SAHM and not have a private reserve of cash or a cash generating side hustle.
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Date the marrying kind only. Dating is not supposed to be longterm. Leave these longterm situationships alone.
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Never date a man that’s comfortable watching you struggle.
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Women like summer walker continue to be disrespected & discarded by men because she doesn’t know her real value. After the first mistake, learn your lesson so that you don’t continue on a repetitive of cycle of shitty men.
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Honestly, when certain men overlook you, and pass you by, sometimes, in your quiet moments, just say “Thank you, God” even when you don’t understand. Sometimes, God can hide your value from certain people—and what we perceive to be a loss, is actually our greatest protection.
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If a man isn't taking initiative in the beginning of a relationship when he's supposed to be wooing you, then he won't take initiative during the rest of relationship when the passion is likely to fade.
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Men are not complicated.
So if you're wondering if he likes you, HE DOESN'T like you. If he did, you'd know it!
Focus on your own goals and enjoy your life. Stop centering men all the time! Romantic relationships should complement your life, not be the center of it.
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If you’re going to stay…spend his money. Use all his resources. Don’t let your “staying” be in vain. Drain that man. Mentally and financially. The End.
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@TheFineFeminine
This is why I tell women, especially black women to not share so much online, because so many women are haters, very envious and jealous.
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Get in the receiving and deserving energy. This, I'm telling you, is one of the essential SECRETS to seeing good things happen in your life, ladies.
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If he can’t plan a date, he can’t be a leader and head of household for his family.
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You guys have to realize there are just a lot of miserable women out there who are competing with other women constantly even when you’re completely unaware.
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I refuse to fraternize with ratchet people cause eventually their fuckery will enter your life.
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Normalize giving up on men who couldnt prove that they deserve a relationship.
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You gain your power back when you walk away at the first sign of disrespect and never look back. Don’t explain why. Just ghost him. No matter how much it hurts. And never ever look back.
He will never forget you. And it will hurt his ego forever.
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I’ve seen several women saying how they love to "spoil" their men.
My take: Masculine men aren't looking to be "spoiled". The feminine ones are.
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Too many women are trying to turn unwilling men into providers and too many men are trying to turn women into unwilling indentured servants.
Women need to find men who are not only providers, but ones who willingly do it well.
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Never date men below your level because it will never work out. Date men on your level and above. Yes I know 80% of women want to date the same 20% of men so many women will not date their counterpart.
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I wish that more women would become NUMB to being called "gold diggers" instead of accepting broke men to prove that they aren't. Men approach women assessing what they can get out of us and how they can benefit materially.
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If you dont hear from him in 5 days or you have to reach out to him before he will make any contact, he is not that interested.
Block and move on.
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People can’t change/ruin what they don’t know.
Most women are in the habit of oversharing, over-explaining, and constantly pleading a case for their decisions.
You don’t need anyone to know, approve of or co-sign your decisions.
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The faster you realize there is no “black community” the better off you will be.
Find/build your tribe and go from there.
Be best.
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If a man can't prove himself financially, than he doesn't need to be in your orbit.
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Marrying a man without a complete background, health and financial investigation is absolutely wild to me.
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Having sëx, catering to a man, and making his life easier is NOT a down payment to get a serious relationship. You can do all of that, but he doesn't owe you anything in return. He can use you and then walk away without a care.
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Listen, a man who loves you will want to elevate you, not drag you down. A true partnership is about mutual growth and respect. It's not about you bearing the brunt of struggles while he's off doing God knows what.
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This is why I advise against engaging in casual sex just for the sake of it. You might not realize the immense sacred energy you’re surrendering, and these men are aware of it; they exploit it. Take this example: there was a man who, without a job or a car, was intimate with
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Being too nice, agreeable, accommodating and permissive is bad in dating.
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Whenever some women see a woman getting spoiled, they want to know who their man is. Even if you found that mans social media he is not going to spoil you the same way.
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it's never your job to schedule, plan and arrange a date as a woman, especially if he approached you expressing interest.
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A man can hate your guts, want you to literally die, and they will still want to have sex with you.
Women who date men need to get this, please: sexual attention from men means nothing! There are ways to tell if they actually like you, but this is not one of them!
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Some men will make it seem like their money is the best you’ll ever get, but the fact of the matter is that there’s always better elsewhere, and you really shouldn’t force yourself into a situation you hate just because you’re in need of money or attention.
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My biggest piece of advice for everyone is to only date men who are going to enhance your life. Do not date men because you have feelings for them. Feelings will only complicate your life and distract you from your goals.
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Start with gratitude. Wake up every morning and think of a few things you are grateful for. When you create this momentum in your life, everything you want just unfolds, trust.
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Only take relationship advice from women that are in successful relationships and happy with themselves.
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Monogamy is for marriage. Unless a man expresses an explicit desire for marriage, with a timeline in mind, you should not be monogamous. Again, monogamy benefits men, not women.
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Spend time to educate yourself ladies. The more you know, the more you evolve. Knowledge is your most powerful weapon.
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"Good dick" is just an excuse so the women can make it seem like they're getting something out of it. They're staying out of low self esteem, fear of loneliness, etc.
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Invest in your personal growth and self-improvement. Learning new skills and setting goals can boost self-confidence.
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As a woman you've got to be assertive and strong in order to make it in this world. You don't have to smile and be sweet if you don't want to.
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When dating, have a full life of your own already, and go into any relationship with prospective men with the question: How can this man add value to me and my life?
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Remember that self-love, confidence, and self-respect are ongoing journeys. You are constantly evolving, and your relationship with yourself is the foundation for attracting a respectful partner.
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My biggest piece of advice for women is to only date/marry men who are going to enhance your life.
Y’all I’m about to tighten up and get serious about dating. Any advice?
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Imagine getting dolled up, leaving your home, driving through traffic to meet someone at an ice cream shop just to see if he deems you worthy of a proper date. Some people these days are so unserious.
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Marriage is only good when the man is a full provider and loves the woman that he's with dirty draws. Only then is marriage good and easier on the woman, kids or not.
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As you invest in your own growth and self-improvement, certain questions that once plagued you will naturally fade away. That's because you'll start recognizing your own unique talents, skills, and strengths.
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It’s extremely disgusting how nasty some black women are towards each other.
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if a woman has to tell him or show him to lead, he is not a leader.
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Any time a man starts being inconsistent with you, it’s because his money got funny, or more than likely there’s another woman in his life.
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Women are not motivated by money, it’s the security.
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Most confuse the word “top-tier” women only to be associated looks. Your only focus should be on yourself. Healing, elevating, and mastering SELF. This is the key to get what you want out of life & not just men. That’s a consolation prize.
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When a woman feels emotional safety, something amazing happens. She feels free to be her fullest self—loving, nurturing, creative, passionate, you name it. And trust me, that's the woman a man falls head over heels for, not some filtered version of herself.
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I have learned to keep my opinions to myself unless the other person knows me well enough to know that I mean no harm. Some people tend to equate honesty with a complete disregard of the other persons feelings which is why everything has gone so far left.
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Never believe what a man says only believe what he does.
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Some men give without being told, some men have to be told and honestly, you should prefer men that do things because it’s in them. Not because you had to beg or prod it out of him.
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A lot of women don’t want to entertain a man UNLESS they can add to her life significantly. If it’s not a significant upgrade to what she has going on, what is the point?
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A real MAN will never make you feel inadequate or like you owe him because you don’t contribute financially to the household. He takes pride in caring for you and even leveling you up in every way if need be.
I’m so tired of people saying a man will take advantage of you if he
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