Two questions I ask myself daily:
โDoes this serve my greater purpose?โ
โDoes this align with the life I want to live?โ
If the answer is no, reevaluate.
Idk who needs to hear this but choose a partner thatโs good for YOU.
Not good for your parents, not good for your image, not good for your bank account. Someone who makes your life emotionally fulfilling.
I had people telling me I wouldnโt last in my current job because it was too harsh for me and im too much of girly girl to do it.
Here I am 5 years later, made top 3 in the city and youngest employed by my department. ๐
10 y/o little boy : โYou have a boyfriend Shellyโ?
Me: yes (paque no jodiera)
Him: โwhy you dont leave him?โ
Me: โcuz then he criesโ
Him: โthen thatโs why you should leave him, Im not a cry baby like himโ
Me: ๐ณ
The longer you stay single the picker you become when looking for a partner because you get comfortable with your loneliness, donโt have to worry if someone is cheating on you or who theyโre with.
The peace of mind that comes with being single is priceless.