As a Dom there should be no desire to have a sub unless you are planning to improve their life in one way or another,I have no desire for you to submit to me unless I can find a way to elevate you.
More Black men need to start coming out to sexual health,wellness and exploration events,every time I go to one it’s 95% Black women,which I ain’t mad at but but I’d love to see more BlackMen there as well.