Toni Roche-Simmons
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56 year old ts with a big mouth and very very opinionated! Sharing life with two wolfdogs. #IStandwithJKR
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I'm trans. I may present as a woman(badly most of the time!), but I am not nor ever will be a woman. Being a woman is more than just hormones and surgeries! And I am not deluded to think that I'd ever be a woman!.When I began my journey, the Dr at the clinic said to me.
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@jk_rowling As a trans woman I have never ever thought you as a transphobe. I understand where you are coming from and I say it is also erasing what it means to be trans if the militant trans activists get their way. I'm a trans woman. Not a biological woman. Trans. And no one has 1/2.
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Just to let you know that Zena has passed away. It was very sudden and she didn't suffer. She was my constant for over 9 years. She went everywhere with me. Just can't believe she's gone. Still expecting her to sit up and beg for her evening treats. My heart is broken
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I'm sick and tired of people telling me that my rights are being taken away! Most of them who say this aren't even trans!! .My rights are not being taken away. Nor are the rights of every other trans person.
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At just before 6pm this evening, my boy Simba passed away. He was my boy. He was my little man. My heart is shattered because I have lost my little man. Simba Simmons.Aug 2011 - Oct 2023. 😥😥😥😥
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@cmclymer They have a "choice" of either death, prison or transition!! Which would you pick? .And it's a loan they have to pay back. But because they cannot get proper jobs they usually end up doing sex work in order to survive and pay back the loan!! So please do researching before you.
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So today I was called a bigot because I stand with @jk_rowling ! Again lol.Also was told that every woman that follows me think I'm a predator or paediphile! Again lol.And was told that none of the women who follow me will want me in their spaces!, Again lol.
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Imagine how excited I am over this!! I'm in tears. Tears of joy! SQUEEEEE! .SQUEEEEE! Xx
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Why did no one listen to the concerns over Mermaids? .Why did prominent MPs turn a blind eye to Mermaids? .Why did well known actors ignore all the red flags? .1/17.
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I might be in trouble yet again lol. Because I told someone to give their head a wobble and read JK Rowling's essay and show exactly where she was being transphobic!! .Yes that old chestnut again! .If you think she's transphobic show me the exact words she used.
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Six weeks after that I had my surgery! No tears no second thoughts. Nothing! Still happy today!! 8 years on! Xx.
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@TheRealPocus @Joanne10904731 It's akin to a cultist behaviour. Telling people not to discuss the training with others. Cults do that. They tell the members not to discuss what's going on. Only talk about the "positive" points of being a part of the cult in order to get new members xx.
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@NadiaWhittomeMP Are there numbers of these trans people dying while waiting for healthcare? Shouldn't you have included the numbers in your tweet? .Or are you scaremongering again? .Just stop lying. It would be a tremendous change if an mp stopped lying!.
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So yet again it's being shown that I and other trans people who stand with women and not against them are "the wrong kind of trans"! .This time we've been called "a minority within the minority" when told to listen to us!!.
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@robintran04 You joke about masturbating to pictures of all your female friends and are shocked by the feedback? .What you showed society is that trans people are predators which turns society against us. I hope you are happy for proving society right!!.
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"You'll never" pass "as a woman you know"! Those were his exact words. I told him that I was doing this for me. ME. Not for anyone else. And then, because I didn't wear a dress and makeup every time I went to see him, he thought I wasn't ready for the surgery!! Exactly!.
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So, to stop any debate or arguments about transwomen needing to have a smear test, here is the proof.
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Woke up this morning with the news that the Taliban had been in touch with all the religious leaders in the country of Afghanistan and compile a list of unmarried girls from the age of 15 and any widows under the age of 45. So they could marry the Taliban!!.
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In the UK dialling 999 is for life threatening emergencies only. Not for, as some organizations such as Mermaids are telling trans people to dial if they're asked to leave a women only space. 999 is for life threatening emergencies.
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@GhawinRiver How is it I remember girls being known as tomboys? Could it be because it was before social media and online gaming where girls are forced to act a certain way? That now when girls are seen as not 'feminine' enough they're told they're trans?.
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@jk_rowling Oh my days! I only made a comment on JK Rowlings post to show her not all trans think she's transphobic! And the amount of warmth and lovely comments I've had in return is just amazing! I'm no one. I'm just me. Never thought one of my posts would garner so much warmth! Xx.
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Look at what I bought!.Didn't even have to ask for it. It as at tte entrance of a bookshop!.New reading material for me. Plus a seaside town in Devon isn't scared of having this book in public xx
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@jk_rowling I too stand with you. You were telling the truth. Using facts. And I apologise to all who have had such vitriol from the trans community. It was not done in my name not in the names of the trans people who I am friends with in twitter. We know the facts. We are not deluded.
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All day I've been reading (yet again!) that the LGBA is a "hate group" and "anti trans". And that they do not represent them. If a group or organisation doesn't represent you then find another group that does!.
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@jk_rowling @no1guncle You are an inspiration to women and children all over the world. You are an inspiration even to me! Because of the horrible messages you were getting from the so called trans and their allies I had to stand up and say that not all of us from the trans community think that.
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I want to say to all women on here that were born female and have grown into beautiful women, happy International Women's Day!.Remember you have a voice. Don't let anyone try to silence you. #InternationalWomensDay.🤗.
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So when I went to see him the next time I wore the shortest dress I could find and lots of makeup!! He said it was "duly noted". And 6 months later I had my pre op appointment in Brighton!.
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@RedMags60 We have every right we need in the UK. The "rights" they carp on about are issues. Issues that could very easily be remedied if they only stopped their bullying tactics for a minute or two! But the sound of "trans rights" sounds much better than "trans issues".
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Well, this beats all today. Apparently I'm part of a GC/anti trans movement!! . That's right. A transsexual being a part of an anti trans movement 😂😂. I'm also a TERF 😂😂. Xx.
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@NadiaWhittomeMP My advice would be to look into the numbers of who have died before transition and compare it to those AFTER transition. Especially within the first 7 years after transition. You might be very surprised with the outcome.
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Oh but pronouns, right? Opressed because of being trans, right? .Wrong. Pronouns don't matter to anyone apart from the narcissistic individuals who demand them. And opression is self induced because of the way they act towards the rest of society. Young girls and women in.
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@patrickharvie And I'd like to know what rights we don't have. I've asked this question for many months and am yeti to get an answer! So please answer me and tell me what rights I don't have. If it's the right to disregard the safety of women and girls so my fragility is catered for then I.
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Just watching the news on the BBC. The Taliban have stated that women will no longer hold positions of power!! .And so it begins. 😞.
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I have just finished reading this book. If you want to know exactly what's going on re trans then I would read this. Even if you don't agree with the author, it is a well written book that is in no way transphobic and doesn't erase our existence
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@robintran04 And it's down to transsexuals like myself to do damage limitations because of your disgusting annecdotes (won't call them jokes because they are not funny) .No wonder women don't want to share their spaces with us. And I don't blame them! We need our own spaces.
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@patrickharvie I don't want it. If it's the right for me to take over a space or work that was specific to women, you know, human female adults, then I don't want it. Nor do we need any of it. We, as trans people should carve our own paths in life and not force ourselves on others!! Do better!.
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People keep saying it's segregation to have our own spaces. But the disabled people have their own spaces! Are they segregated? No. They're not. They have spaces designed for them. So why not do the same thing for all under the trans umbrella. Instead of taking over women's!!.
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Let's get this straight. Women and girls are targeted and abused because of their SEX and not their gender. It's about time the powers that be stop pussyfooting around and call it's exactly what it is. It is violence against women and girls based on their sex.1/.
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@ThisEgg_ If it was geared towards adults only I don't think there would have been as much of an issue. But gearing adult content towards children is wrong. Children are children. Let them enjoy their childhoods without having hangups adults have about sex and sexuality.
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I have to post this. Yesterday I wrote a thread about my transition through the clinic. It was just a thread to let people know what it entailed. Little did I know it would blow up like it did! @DreyfusJames shared it with his followers and it went from there!.
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What is happening is the very few within the trans community who don't want to transition want to self id as women. Without any form of medical diagnosis of gender dysphoria at all. Nor do they want to transition!.
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So, according to Stonewall, lesbians are "sexual racists" for not wanting to date transwomen. Does this also mean that gay men are also sexual racists because they don't date women? Or women who don't date other women. Or men who don't date other men? 1/.
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@aoifemcl We already have rights! Those within the trans community are shouting about issues not rights. And you don't have the right to give away the rights of women in order to placate a minority within a minority group. But I'd like to know what rights you think we don't have!.
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@thenursemattie @Sianysianyboots @cassesque @LaraRixon @bindelj @PeterTatchell Has no one reported this individual to the RCN yet? If he's a student nurse he should not be anywhere near any vulnerable people at all. His attitude is dangerous.
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Afghanistan don't have that privilege. In fact they have no privilege at all. And they won't be allowed out of the house unless accompanied by either other women or walk behind their men. You think you're opressed? Not even close hunny!! Not even close. So shut up and look.
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I'm not stunning and brave. I'm not an activist. I'm not a strong voice in the middle of all this "us against them" battle that's going on. All I did was say that JK Rowling is not a transphobe and I agreed with her essay. Not brave. Not stunning. Just stating a fact. Xx.
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If it's about finance, why not change the men's spaces into gender inclusive spaces?.
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@jannejanne Don't stare at it! If you're offended by it don't stare nor even look without permission!! .That's what women and children are being told to do if they're offended!!.
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This is a long one!. People are coming out with "if a 13 year old can get contraceptive why can't they go on puberty blockers?". Let that sink in for a minute.
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Why not have women's spaces for women and have a gender space for the rest of the trans community? And anyone who believes gender is more important than sex can also use them.
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@TheLancet You have marginalized just over 51% of the world population for the minority within a minority group. It's not "being inclusive" . It's pandering to the silly narrative and also pandering to "feels"!! Only females of the human mammals have a cervix regardless of how they id!!.
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I never thought I'd be writing such a thread as this. Never in my life did I think there was a need to write such a thread. Over the weekend we saw a post about an individual dressed up as a rainbow monkey with holes cut out where the nipples were, arse hanging out and.
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@catseesXX So the children has their back! A 5 year old and a 7 year old has their back! It's not up to your children to have your back. As a parent (in this case a father) it's up to you to have their backs. Children are not there to "validate", your feelings!! They're children.
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@Serena_Partrick My admiration of you and women like you, grows stronger every time I read something like this. And I want to apologise for the way you are made to feel because of men. They say "not all men" , but how are you to know who are the good ones and who are not?.
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@PennyRed @ElizaPetch @redney71 It's akin to flashing! .No transsexual who suffers from gender dysphoria would ever do that. Why? Because they hate that part of their body. Even seeing it in the mirror is bad enough let alone walk around women's changing room with children there, like this individual did.
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One of my friends told me I was being controversial!! .Since when has it been controversial to ask for our own spaces? Instead of taking over women's spaces? .Xx.
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@Andreia_O_Nobre And this is why women need to keep their spaces without males walking in. That poor family. Poor children without a mother now. Xx.
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farther than the end of your nose and learn what true opression really is. And leave your pronouns at the door. Because there are worse things in the world.
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How the heck did that happen??? .Nearly 4000 followers! .I turn my back and boom!😃.Honestly I thank you for your follow. It's a humbling experience that I have so many following me. Again thank you.(And do you know you're following the wrong kind of trans?😂) .Xx.
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@jk_rowling And for what it's worth, this trans woman has so much respect for you. Not only in how you worked so hard to get to where you are today, but also to stand up to the trans community who are trying to erase womanhood and everything that goes with it. Thank you. Xx.
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Latest tweet to carry on from last night's thread. According to one individual, I am a token trans to all my friends and followers! I see no issues with that at all. As long as they know that not all trans want to take away women's sex based spaces then it's fine.
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@FredaJones666 @RedMags60 I have nothing seen any rights I have that women want to take away. Nor have I seen anyone trying to "erase"us and put us back in the closet! .There's so many things women are supposed to be doing to make my life harder. But I've yet to see any of it.
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Russell T Davies said that taking the "T", away from the LGB community is "a kill" to the trans community. This was about the LGB Alliance and RTD said that the group is basically transphobic!! I didn't bother to listen to his speech because it had nothing to do with Dr Who,😂.
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@UN_Women @NikkieTutorials No we're not!! .We are not 4 times more likely to experience violence. The trans community is 4 times more likely to incite violence towards women in my humble opinion!! . Even name calling has been flagged up as violent crimes towards us. Your figure's are conflated by that!.
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@MhairiHunter My experiences do NOT matter more than women's. For you to say that the comment that mattered the most was from a trans woman who was raped is a kick in the face of all the women who are survivors of rape and sexual assault. No one person's experiences should trump the.
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I've been finding it very difficult over the last couple of days. First Simba passed away and now Zena. Both gone under six months of each other.
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@Serena_Partrick Didn't the mother say she was putting estrogen in Jazz's food at one point? That poor child went through it because of the mother. Xx.
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@HomoLittlest Methinks that "male privilege" and "trans privilege" have finally surfaced. And shown it's one and the same thing.If they incited violence towards any other groups of people or animals they would have been crucified and arrested on the spot for hate speech.
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@PennyRed @ElizaPetch @redney71 It's wrong on so many levels. Children should never be in a situation like this. Nor women either. So it's okay for tens of women to feel uncomfortable so that one individual who says they're trans without proof and definitely no surgery don't have their egos dented?.
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Yesterday's protest wasn't about us. It was about women. Human adult females. Biological women. Also the ones who identify as non binary or are trans men. Biologically female. Not trans women. Not biological males. Women. Yet again the trans community see fit to.
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Just got off the phone with my step sister. Her father found my mother dead on the kitchen floor yesterday morning. She was 78 years old.
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@TinyWriterLaura @avamanonn @TwelveDaisies @blablafishcakes @GaryLineker @OnjaliRauf Are you a woman Laura? If you are, what makes YOU a woman? .I'm a post op transsexual who has taken oestrogen for over a decade. And guess what? I'm still male. No amount of hormones will change me to a female.
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There will be a day when we will all look back at all this gender identity nonsense and see how much damage it has done between the trans community and women. One day we will see the futility of pandering to these identities in order to look "inclusive". The companies,.
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@GhawinRiver Even lesbians who like to have short hair and wear jeans and shirts are now being told they're really trans but we're too scared to transition! From the trans community! .Is it this you're talking about?.
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That sounded very preachy and cheesy but this is how I feel. I'm no one. I'm just me. But the women out there who are in 2021 still fighting for their rights! They need our support and voice to help make theirs even louder!.Again thank you so much for the love you have sent me xx.
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Only gone and gotten myself 90% on my first assessment of my diploma in Psychology! Get on! .So bloody pleased with myself 😂😂. Next step towards my diploma. Xx.
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This is what is annoying them! They're butthurt because they cannot fill in a simple form online to say they're now women!! .I'm a transsexual and I don't have a GRC. Because I don't feel I need one.
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Sad to read that Sinead O'Connor's son Shane has been found dead. No matter what you think of her and her religious views, nothing can take away that pain of losing a child. If anyone is in need of help there are many organisations such as The Samaritan's that will listen.
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@ThisEgg_ Let's children ask their parents questions about sex. It's not up to total strangers cavorting on stage naked in front of them. It's one thing to tell children it's okay to love their bodies. But it's another thing doing it your way.
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Some from the trans community really do think so highly of themselves!.They said that LGB people were transphobic for not dating trans people and to "relearn their genital preference". Now they are saying the same about straight men!!.
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I came on here to say that I passed my exam on Diploma in Psychology. The lowest % to pass was 80. I got 95%.Just wanted to share my good news.
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@DawnButlerBrent Liz Truss. I will never trust an organisation that prohibits freedom of expression. Over the last few years Stonewall has thrown away so many advocates in order to follow the money. They care nothing about us anymore. Only where the money's coming from. And that's from the neo.
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Is it silly of me to still feel overwhelmed that I got a comment from JK Rowling? Still can't believe it! .(And yes I did take a screenshot of it 😃😂) .I know I'm not the only one she's tweeted to, but she's the creator of Harry Potter!! 😍.
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My followers has passed 3400!! .SQUEEEEE! .I'm still overwhelmed that I have so many followers! .I'm an old transsexual who has a mouth like a sewer. And the filter is irreparable 😃.Oh and I have to inform you that you are following the "wrong kind of trans"!! 😂.
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I really can't believe that I'm tweeting this. Apologies if anyone gets upset by these tweets but I have to say something about it. Yet again today someone has tweeted that people who don't see trans women as women, apparently don't see black women as women! Yep. It happened.
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Sick and tired of it all. Either put up or shut up! .And let me know what rights I don't have!! .Either put up or shut up. (I won't hold my breath).
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So. Today I've learnt that if you call an organisation a "hate group" and wants to "eliminate trans people from society" try to prove it by sharing a link to their declaration that is about preserving the rights of women based on sex and not by gender,.
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@RealMattLucas The LGB Alliance is for the LGB community. Being trans is not a sexuality. I'm very disappointed in you Matt. Very disappointed. The LGB Alliance is there for the LGB community. How many trans groups are there just for trans people? Many more than there is for the lgb.
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@jannejanne This isn't harming any trans people. If it is then there has to believe questions asked as to if they're really trans that they think words are harmful!!.There's a definite mental health issue if anyone thinks this is harmful. Therapy is the answer then. Plenty of therapy.
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@somadsomoody Women will always need protecting. They are seen as"fair game" by men. Especially if they are vulnerable women and girls. Too many predators out there to take advantage of any easy way to get to their victims. Why do you think most predators won't attack in brightly lit areas?.
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Yesterday I posted a small video on TikTok with the words "women don't owe you anything".This is in answer to the disgusting comments I've seen on social media regarding that individual from Plymouth Devon who had a fight with his mother, killed her and 4 other people.
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@liamteer @jk_rowling You are welcome. And I must say that majority of trans believe the same as I do but are too scared to say anything in case they offend anyone! You can't live your life that way! I'm a huge trannie and that's all there is lol. And I'm proud to be one. HUGE trannie lol xx.
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My safety and rights as a trans woman is NOT nor ever will be more important than the safety and rights of women. The amount of times I have been told that if we had our own spaces we would be open to attacks from men! Yet they don't care that this is the same for women!.
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Riddle me this. How can someone retire from men's weightlifting in 2013 then begin transition a couple of years ago and is now back as a female weightlifter? . Shouldn't it be when you retire from any kind of sport from athletics to contact sport to strength, you stay retired?.
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I'm getting ready to have my lungs checked out so I have more important things to sort out than all this pathetic ideology. (This was written without any form of 'be nice to people' meds. And no form of sugary confection).
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Also, if the trans community insist that sex is not important, why get upset over being misgendered? .Hmmm? .Xx.
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Thank you for following me. My name is Toni and I'm a loud mouthed self opinionated transsexual who just can't shut up. Not even when eating cake!! So be ready to brush off cake crumbs when I get going! 😃😂.And I'm honoured to have you follow me. Thank you xx.
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The GRC was originally put in place to help transsexuals who had or were transitioning to have their id the same as they presented themselves when going for job interviews. Today all is needed is that one tells prospective employers one is trans and they will believe one.
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@peterjukes @cassiemonoo What? .Ummm no. We change our physiology not biology!! Doing whatever to our bodies doesn't change your biology! Are you serious? .I've got piercings, tattoos and had genital surgery. Yet I'm still biologically male!! Including getting tests for illnesses only males can have!.
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