Reagan’s substitute teacher today said her shirt was inappropriate, and made her wear her coat all day. She wears this shirt almost weekly because she loves it, and it’s never been an issue.
UPDATE: I was FINALLY able to get in contact with the principal (I’ve been out of town for work, so I couldn’t show up) the principal said he had a convo with the sub, and told her there is nothing wrong with her shirt, and that what she did was wrong. Said she’d be apologizing.
Reagan’s substitute teacher today said her shirt was inappropriate, and made her wear her coat all day. She wears this shirt almost weekly because she loves it, and it’s never been an issue.
@frenszie
She’s literally never done that, and doesn’t know that’s how “it’s made to do”. You insinuating that my 8 year old is lying about being sexualized by a grown adult, shows there’s something going on in your head that should be looked into. And shoulders aren’t inappropriate.
@limitlessleila
It’s tight enough that it doesn’t do that. She also wears a bra in case something like that did happen. And she’s 8. She looks like a boy at this age.
@outofpocketcass
I have no explanation as to why it’s “inappropriate”. I have sent an email to the principal, and requested a sit down meeting with him.
He reassured Reagan that there is absolutely nothing wrong with her shirt, and that he would not have sent her home or forced her to wear a coat because of it. Apologized multiple times for not getting back ahold of me in a timely manner like he should have.
@JohnnyBlack_HS
Well it’s not a plunging neckline, see through, and doesn’t expose any body parts that are not appropriate. If her collarbones, and very little of her shoulder is inappropriate, the school should look into the sub.
He said if there’s ever a question about dress code- even from a regular teacher, not just a sub- that it is ultimately his or the assistant principal’s decision on whether or not something is against dress code. And there was nothing wrong with it.
@cauldronclique
@JohnnyBlack_HS
If they’re sexualizing my 8 year old based on collarbones, they need to be looked into. It’s also never been an issue prior to this, and she wears it almost weekly.
Jan Vs Now lmao
Feels like a lifetime between these photos tbh. This years been such a whirlwind but we made it through, discovered new parts of ourself, and nurtured parts we thought we’d lost. Still not quite where I want to be but better than I’ve been.
@hopium4cope
@on_bender
I will absolutely take a half hour of their time, or however much time it takes. An email has been sent, but I am 100% having a sit down meeting.
One of my coworkers delivered her baby at only 22 weeks gestation last week, and he unfortunately did not make it. Her and I are not close, but I want to do something for her. Does anyone have any ideas of something that might be good for her? TIA
My dad went off the road last night, and down a 15ft drop in his truck. Don’t know much of anything right now, but if you’re the praying type, please keep him in your prayers (if you’re not, in your thoughts)
Messaged a girl a screenshot of her bf in my messages, and repeatedly asking to snap and stuff. Told her I wanted to give her a heads up that he was being gross behind her back. She goes “he said that was his cousin. He has his login info.”
GIRL RUN 🥴🥴🥴
1 - Go to your own Facebook.
2 - Go to your 3rd oldest profile pic.
3 - Now go in your photos and pick the last selfie in your camera roll.
4 - Put them side by side and let's see the difference.
Oh lord 😭😂
@MDolinca189558
It is not loose enough that you could see anything. She also ALWAYS wears a bra with it, because I’m paranoid that because of the material it’ll pull down and show everything
@hopium4cope
@on_bender
I am doing it for my child. But thanks for your input. It was SUPER helpful. I’m sorry your children won’t have a parent to advocate for them, and be their voice until they are old enough.