I can't judge anyone who drinks.
I'd be the biggest hypocrite.
I drank daily for 20 years, overdid it a lot.
Hurt people. Jeopardized jobs. Was unhealthy.
Stopping and staying stopped has allowed space and time to see my addiction for what it is.
It was so difficult to
Hitting 11 years sober today. One third of my adult life.
Quitting drinking allowed me to learn much. And I’m still learning!
Best thing about being sober this long is having so many friends who have never seen me drunk!
Freedom. Integrity. Progress.
12/17/12
Anthony Bourdain said: "Eat at a local restaurant tonight. Get the cream sauce. Have a cold pint at 4 o’clock in a mostly empty bar. Go somewhere you’ve never been. Listen to someone you think may have nothing in common with you. Order the steak rare. Eat an oyster. Have a
I remember this guy. This is me. 2009/2010-ish. Great job, making decent money, but inside I was crumbling. I was recently divorced, drinking constantly, anxious, constantly seeking acceptance, little direction.
I finally stopped drinking in December of 2012. I'd quit a million
When I got divorced in 2008, it was the beginning of a dark time for me. Professionally, I kind of had it going on. I had the afternoon drive slot on a big radio station. I wouldn’t say I was rich, but I was making good money - and promptly squandering all of it away on
When I got divorced in 2008, it was the beginning of a dark time for me. Professionally, I kind of had it going on. I had the afternoon drive slot on a big radio station. I wouldn’t say I was rich, but I was making good money - and promptly squandering all of it away on
What's happened to me over years of not drinking is I've become a nondrinker. I don't worry about it. I'm not scared. I don't need to check in with anyone. I can go to a happy hour. I can go on vacation. I can go anywhere and do anything I want.
I know a lot of what I enjoy in
I’m not a big day counter, but I’m two weeks away from celebrating three years cigarette-free and I just can’t believe it. I’m so proud of this accomplishment and change in my life. I seriously never, ever thought I would be able to quit.
This has led to so many other
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@ZubyMusic
has created a fellowship/community of countless thousands around the world, encouraging each other to be better, healthier, freer people, as well as discuss important ideas openly.
Look, going alcohol-free is awesome. Losing the weight. feeling better, saving money, happier, all that is great.
You know what's hard? Emotional sobriety.
Shit hitting the fan in life and the old me would be en route to the liquor store. But I'm not doing that anymore. I'm
I used to wake up with all kinds of regret and anxiety the Tuesday after the long weekend.
Not anymore.
I didn’t poison myself with alcohol all weekend. I used some of my time to prepare for the week ahead.
Life really is better sober for me. Sometimes I wish I’d figured
Maybe there are people who can not drink for a long period of time, then have one, and not drink again for a long time. I know for a fact I'm not one of those people. One drink for me and I'm off to the races. Having one is simply not an option - now or ever.
#RecoveryPosse
@ML_Philosophy
Step away from the situation and don't act on any initial emotions. Look at what happened from as many angles as you can, quickly analyze, and begin planning the next move.
“I will continue to vote Republican until every pro-lockdown Democrat is out of office. I will continue to vote Republican until every pro-perversion Democrat is out of office.” -
@wrong_speak
I wish I could say there’s some simple, explainable way to do it but there isn’t. Quitting drinking is not black and white. I knew deep down for a long time that it was holding me back. You see, alcohol is insidious that way. It caused cognitive dissonance in me. I knew I should
@ZubyMusic
Let’s not forget the question is among the most basic conversation starters. When people strike up conversation with strangers, regardless of environment, this is surely asked, and asked with natural curiosity and respect.
@ZubyMusic
Coming up on 10 years sober. Sobriety doesn't guarentee anything, but it's brought back much dignity, self-respect, as well as physical and mental health!
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@ZubyMusic
: "What you do and the way you behave and the way you treat people says infinitely more about you than what you claim to believe and what words you're thowing out there."
I follow a lot of newly sober people on twitter and have recently seen a few people who are back at Day 1 again. I have been there. I had a few years twice and ended up drinking again. I've quit so many times in my mind in the morning only to end up at the liquor store or bar
@elonmusk
Good luck on this! Substantially reducing sugar, bread, and candy/chocolate has relieved many problems for me including painful arthritis in my hands. I have lost 35 lbs since the first of the year, too.
The term “real alcoholic” is arrogant. It minimizes the experience of others. It can also plant seeds of “I’m not that bad” in some minds, which may prevent them from ever seeking help.
Semantics matter.
This isn’t a competition.
#RecoveryPosse
#SoberOctober
Another brilliant piece from
@wrong_speak
. "I want no association with this version of the Democratic Party. Today, I’m an independent who has no choice but to vote Republican until the stench in the Democratic Party subsides."
Went to the bar (open bar, btw) at the company party last night. Got two soda waters with lime, brought them over to another agent in our office who doesn’t drink.
Cheers! He loved the gesture and the moment.
We had a great time at the party. Talked to tons of our great
@WrittenN0tes
@HumbleFlow
Humility; Even when someone is a giant in their industry, if they acknowledge their peers and team, recognize how much they have to be grateful for, and display a desire to improve, I respect that a lot.
I learned so much about alcohol I didn't know listening to this episode. There's information in this you simply cannot un-know. It reinforced my sobriety. It's one of the most valuable presentations I've ever listened to. via
@hubermanlab
At dinner tonight, server brought a glass of wine for each of us at the table for my father-in-law’s birthday.
Know what I did?
I said thank you.
Yup. Didn’t refuse it. Just said thanks, waited til he walked off and politely moved it away for my father-in-law to have if he
If you're concerned about someone's drinking, the worst thing you could do is shame or threaten them.
I needed some tough love, but not humiliation.
#RecoveryPosse
#soberlife
I didn't quit drinking to beat myself up constantly. I quit to live a better life, to be happy, to have purpose.
If you're working through stuff, work through it, but don't stay stuck. There's so much happiness waiting for me when I get out of my head!
#RecoveryPosse
@ML_Philosophy
Like any other day, it’s a day to make money. It’s the Super Bowl for florists, jewelers, greeting card, makers, high-end, chocolate, manufactures, and restaurants.
If you’re criticizing people, telling them they’re not doing sobriety properly, I can’t follow or interact with you.
I take
#RecoveryPosse
seriously and treat others with respect.
Many paths, friends. Many paths.
Sober Christmas No. 11 for me. Weird emotions/memories can surface anytime but they always hit different over Christmas.
Just know it gets easier. I promise. It does.
#RecoveryPosse
#sobriety
Periodically, I do get a craving for a cigarette. How do get over it? I think... F*ck you, tobacco.
F*ck you for getting me addicted.
F*ck you for ruining my health.
F*ck you for making my clothes smell.
F*ck you for taking so much of my money.
This helps my craving end
@TheConquerMM
I think one has to do their due diligence when choosing any kind of education; traditional or other. Education, like anything, is commodified and sold, so it’s buyer beware.
@BarbraO72381401
Wisdom is permitted a sense of humor, Barbara. Don’t discard what you don’t fully understand. You’ll have a laugh at this one, I promise.
Some guys on here really struggling of late. First holidays without lost loved ones. Recent divorces. Job loss. Addiction. Estranged family. Etc.
I'm praying for my brothers - ALL of US. DMs are open if you need an ear.
Got a buddy celebrating 9 years sober today. He’s not so active on twitter, but I want him to know how proud I am of him. He’s a good man, great father. Lucky to know him!
#RecoveryPosse
The 4th was days ago but had I been a drinker a long binge would have started nearly a week ago and would still be going today.
Worst thing about my drinking was all the time I wasted. So many opportunities, friendships, relationships, etc flat out evaded me solely because of
@ZubyMusic
And when you’re heading off to these school already spoiled and misguided by middle and high school woke indoctrination, you’re on a road to moral and spiritual emptiness in addition to being in a large financial hole.
@ZubyMusic
Absolutely love this. This is what social media can do for good. People sharing progress and inspiring others with their stories, overcoming struggles along the way.
When I first quit drinking I needed distractions. I was in shock. My number one pass time, drinking, was gone.
Gradually, I formed new routines, found other activities, started to be interested in other things.
It gets better!
#RecoveryPosse
Happy Anniversary to us. 4 years. One year before our wedding I was released from the hospital after having emergency brain surgery for a subdural hemotoma. She said yes despite the big divot in my head! Lucky to be alive.
If I could offer anyone anything as they head into a sober life, it would be to keep your eyes fixed on the future.
I’ve spend too much time thinking about my past. I was encouraged to do so in the method I used to quit drinking. Found myself pulled into struggle simply because
I drank for years thinking it was my medicine. I needed it and deserved it, and that it helped me relax.
It took a long, long time for me to realize it was actually the source of most of my problems.
@Positive_Call
Quitting drinking was the best thing I've ever done for myself. I was in a dark place. Drinking was keeping me there. It hasn't all been easy since, but I'll never go back to the way it was.
#soberlife
#RecoveryPosse
isn’t a competition. It’s community.
The validity of one’s sobriety doesn’t hinge on how often they post or how many followers they have.
Simplify your life
Gain control over your time
Face your fears
Expand your point of views
Abandon harmful habits
Do more with your days
via
@dailystoic
The infighting in the sober/alcoholfree world is such a bad look. Imagine wanting help, coming to this conversation and seeing a bunch of people arguing instead of supporting one another. It's sad. We need to do better.
#RecoveryPosse
Summers 2021 + 2023.
The motivation to get serious about diet/fitness didn’t come until this year.
It’s not just about not drinking for me. It’s become about up-ending old patterns and behaviors that have kept me stuck and unhappy.
#fitness
#weightloss
#sobriety
Today marks three years without cigarettes!
I love life without it. I’m glad I made this change. I’ve given myself a chance to live better and healthier.
A local brewery was giving out hot chocolate at the Polar Plunge yesterday along with coupons for a free beer at their brewery nearby.
I took one to take a picture of it and share this thought. I smiled when I saw these free beer cards. I really did. I remembered how obsessed I
@ZubyMusic
Zuby, I am truly sorry to hear this. It is off how people’s paths cross and how we change. It has zero to do with you. Stay strong as Christ tells us to.