I bought my first car yesterday, at 26 years old. Always relied on rides and public transportation. I do not have parents who could afford to purchase me a car, help with payments or decent enough credit to cosign. I was patient and waited until God could deliver. And He did.
@Trellmanning
@ITSNINARIVERA
They were in shock, it was very silent in the room for a while. The therapist suggested one on one time with each of us after each session. I think the goal of that was to allow me a safe space because the therapist recognized in that moment that I wasn’t allowed to feel at home.
Thank you all for your support. It’s very hard to not compare yourself to others and feel like you’re behind in life. I’m thankful for my friends/sorors/frat bros that gave me rides when I needed it and didn’t make me feel like an inconvenience.
@ITSNINARIVERA
My father suggested once that my mom and I attend family therapy to work out the tension between us. The therapist suggested to me that I journal. My mother laughed in the therapist’s face and said “that would require privacy, children don’t get that in my house”.
I only hang out with blue and white because other organizations literally treat me and my sisters like we’re bottom tier Greeks. It literally will kill other D9 members to say something nice about the Zetas.
PG-13 broke the internet and changed my life forever. Thankful to my prophytes, my neos, my brothers, my DP and ADP, and the five Finer women who wanted more for black women.
January 16th, 1920 my 5 pearls made it so you have to be a Zeta in order to consider yourself a Finer Woman.
Happy Founder’s Day to my sorors and my sorors only 💙
@bdpaultaylor
@ChanceOverrated
I don’t even understand how these women are so surprised. NO ONE is consistent with someone or something they don’t like lol
@kktyson
@ShepardHeff
Sally Sue is late every day and no one notices. But the ONE time that you’re ever late, the entire office is about to put out a search party for you.
@Get_It_D
@Labrezeiana
Nigga don’t work, don’t clean, don’t cook, but want coochie. You come home from a long day at work and not only has he not cleaned up when he was home ALL DAY, but you come home and don’t have a hot meal waiting for you??? How does one get horny in those conditions???
Two years ago today I lost my boyfriend to suicide. I still cry, it still hurts, I still miss him. But the overwhelming sadness is overpowered by all of the good memories, all of the great times he and I had together while he was on this earth. Long Live Karreim.
@CoachBree_23
@jiggyjayy2
Women be telling me stories and I be wanting to interject, like sis please skip to the part when you realized this person had no respect for you or even LIKED you and you moved on?Cause sis I can’t listen to this anymore, im very concerned.
@kendaddy90
@90sbutchqueen
@lisgoldqn
@manisclown
Ironically, most of the tea she had on people revealed that they all were terrible people themselves!! Ali was spilling tea on the adults sleeping w children, having affairs, wedlock babies, covering up murders, etc. I was shocked at how much saving the adults needed sometimes fr
Happy Founders’ Day to the men of Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity, inc. There were times when I needed a stern talking to, a hug, some blu juice, advice, or all of the above from my bros and they gave me that. Shoutout to the Lovers’ Stroll. Literally love y’all to pieces 💙🤍🤧
@thefader
It doesn’t matter that he’s not convicted. He actually had a unregistered gun in the car, loaded & concealed AND he’s a black man. So nah he might not get locked up for felony assault but he‘ll be locked up for a gun charge. Whether it’s for the gun or shooting Meg, he going away
@o_keilani
My friend and I both took AP Bio in high school and she cried to our teacher about getting a B and not an A because she really wanted to get into Yale. This mf said “oh honey take the B, Yale is far fetched.” My friend was so heart broken and didn’t even bother applying that year
@champagnekeke
@ayytalliya
Girl did you SEE WHEN PRINCETON CONFIRMED OUR FANFIC DREAMS. He been reading our fanfic on the low when he was in MB the whole time 😭
@_ZeUsXxX_
@_Nineteen96
@TotalFutbolz
@RegularBlack_
@eazystatic45
Because she thought it was going to be good and then it was AWFUL and didn’t wanna hurt his feelings. So she put in zero effort on purpose and rode it out until he finished. Not me tho, I don’t let niggas finish. If it’s bad, get off of me and get out.
Other psychologists telling black/brown people how to think and feel. like we’re psychologists I thought it’d be clear to you and several decades of empirical research that obviously discrimination is impactful down to the generations (past, present, and future).
I feel so bad for Megan Thee Stallion. Like even I wish I could press the reset button for her. From her fake ass friends, fake ass label, getting shot to not having any parents. Like how do you cope with that?
@indikota
Thank you like just fucking eat small amounts at a time and wait 30min to an hour for it to metabolize. Edibles were not meant to be eaten all at once.
@JaeMajette
Thank youuuuu. I don’t understand why people expect men to just sit there and get they ass beat. No one should be hitting anyone. PERIOD. END OF STORY.
@mluuna2
@heavenbrat
My boyfriend more so rubs the fro in a petting motion and if my hair was detangled moments before, he can run his fingers through it. But get you a guy who doesn’t mind getting his finger stuck and a lil coconut oil on his fingers.
@nicklenation428
@ITSNINARIVERA
Thank you Soror 🫶🏾 My diary was read many times before we did family therapy, which created the tension at home, and as a result I still struggle to find healthy ways to express myself but I recently found the courage to start journaling for the first time since I was a kid.
Bringing this back because in the comments of
@watchtheyard
most recent instagram post of blue and white, you’ll see members of 1911, 1913, and 1908 being VERY NASTY!!
I only hang out with blue and white because other organizations literally treat me and my sisters like we’re bottom tier Greeks. It literally will kill other D9 members to say something nice about the Zetas.
@Scandalous49
@rellBRODIE
Yes!!! And Coffee by Miguel. Coffee in the morning made more sense and sounded better in comparison to f*cking in the morning.
@Brooke_city
@ITSNINARIVERA
We started having one-on-one time following each session and they did end up explaining the harm in reading my diary and not allowing me privacy. I remember that my mother agreed to letting me crack my bedroom door but still drew the line at refraining from reading my diary.
@trillmagnolia
Hey let’s all make a pact to pass information such as this on to our children so our children dont grow up to be like us, out here getting hurt because no one ever taught us actual lessons.
Today I did the dishes, cleaned the kitchen, swept and mopped the whole apartment, cleaned the bathroom, did the laundry, took out my braids, washed my hair, and cooked dinner.
@gymgirllex
@Fatal116
If y’all would date someone longer than a month or two before you commit to a relationship, you will actually get to know the real them over time and get to decide if they live a lifestyle you can accept. The solution is right there.
@RaeMercuri
@meergottii
My great grandma always said the first few months of dating, you’re getting to know that person’s representative and if you take your time, most people get comfortable after a while and you get to see who they are when they’re angry, disagree, upset, etc.
Happy Founder’s Day to the hardest working fraternity, the most humble & genuine of D9, my brothers of the Phi Beta Sigma fraternity, incorporated 💙 Words cannot express how grateful I am to have brothers cause it must be boring to not be blue and white 😂
@BLVCKMATTERS
She kept her surgery a secret for a good reason... They dogged her out for getting her boobs done. Jaelah Majette gets so much crap for getting surgery then getting pregnant because she’s ruining her “perfect body”. If I had that much clout I wouldn’t wanna tell anyone either
It’s officially been a month since I graduated. Sleeping, gardening, writing, and making music every day was fun for a while but alrighty imma quit sitting on my ass and get a job 😂
@theestallion
A young woman had a traumatizing experience and y’all want her to “stop bringing it up”?! Do y’all treat your friends/family like that? Y’all be telling them to get over it and stop bringing it up? No empathy at all? Who raised y’all because they failed.
One of the things I’ve learned from retail is that in real life most people don’t read and when they do, they struggle to comprehend what they’ve read.
@jjazzme_2
@Trellmanning
@ITSNINARIVERA
Sis, I’m so sorry they should NOT have been repeating what you shared to ANYBODY unless you posed a danger to yourself or others. Don’t give up on getting comfortable with your emotions and learning how to express yourself in a healthy way. It can change your life 🫶🏾
Five years ago today was me and Karreim’s first date. As I fall into a new romance, I’d like to reflect on my grief journey and healing process after losing my long term boyfriend to suicide.