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six years in love with my darling, my angel butch <3
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“mean lesbians” make the world go round… there is no safe lesbian space without outspoken lesbians, bold lesbians, brave lesbians! they could never make me hate you
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my elder lesbian therapist fervently believes that this is a positive aspect of lesbian community, and that when people are capable of platonic relationships with past romantic/sexual partners it means they see their partners both past/present and potential as whole people!
I’m going to say this while holding ur hand ….u can’t be friends w ur ex or situationship and no it won’t work🙏
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when i first experienced lesbian intimacy it was so intense that it caused me to have mildly psychotic religious/spiritual delusions actually
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“my butch” “my femme” literally the equivalent of “my girlfriend/boyfriend/partner/wife/husband” for butchfemme lesbians. it is a very meaningful endearment, that communicates and affirms a couples connection on a subcultural identity level… enough of this.
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obsessed with the two couples on the dance floor at the dyke ball right now, two elderly butches grinding on each other and a femme4butch couple that have been making out for the last ten minutes like they haven’t seen each other in a thousand years
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i do not go a day in which i am not frustrated with the pervasive nature of the male gaze, there is no way in which to “subvert femininity in a femme lesbian way” in which i can feasibly escape it, in which anyone can escape it. men don’t give a crap whether i am wearing my
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whatever happened to giving individual-specific compliments mindful of what is gender affirming to a person so that they know you view them as a human being and not a monolith… but sure
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butch best friend started thrashing about on my couch, slapping my thigh, gasping for air, giggling and snorting hysterically (with lust) all because i showed them this photo of alison bechdel
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walking out of the cinemas for love lies bleeding to the jingle of dozens of carabiners…
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crying on the train i just witnessed a butchfemme couple saying farewell to each other on the platform and the femme had children with her, and one of the kids (her daughter presumably) had their haircut just like her butch
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just shut down a conversation in my gender studies class about butch/femme being heteronormative and i think the fems here hate me now 🫶🏻
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when i was only a tiny lesbian at 18, i was kicked out of home during pride month and it was my butch and their family, and our found queer family that saved me from complete homelessness and helped me to escape living in domestic violence. yippee the power of butch/femme love!!
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at a lesbian event with my butch, ask them to tighten my bra straps… they go to unclasp it??? SO close to losing my dignity in front of every butch in my city
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i think it’s so important to take your butch/femme 101 from locals because i think if i read any of this twitter “discourse” to butch or femme elders i’ve met irl they would tell me i was being ridiculous sweetie, and have a deep and meaningful with me about how we need more real
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“my femme” from my butch yes, but we need to talk about how good and affirming it feels for community to acknowledge you as butch or femme…… when older, graying butches in lesbian spaces refer to me as femme i want to melt, they just get it
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was in the shower with my butch last night and they asked me “do you call (your best friend) handsome?” and i was like “yes, obviously” and a little nervy because they can get jealous but their answer was just “oh good, i hope they know it” :))))))
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having long nails as a high-femme is so important to me and i wish other sapphics would understand that it is to PROHIBIT me from committing or being coerced into sex acts that make me start dissociating in extreme discomfort, and they are very useful flagging tools and also hot
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everyday is butch appreciation day for a femme like me, but what a good day to share it 💖
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undressing for bed and my butch started physically tearing up and crying because of how “lovely” and “beautiful” i am, i think they might like me
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butch/femme is not an archaic remnant of the 1940s bar scene but a community rich in history that lives on in the consciousness of the lesbian working class.
surviving, expanding, persistent, alive and well.
stop treating modern butch/femmes as complete revivalists.
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it used to make me feel bad as a femme, to be approached by men, as if i wasn’t doing my job, not being subversive enough… conforming to the male gaze. that shit is not real, men will consume anything whether it is meant for them or not.
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it’s butch appreciation day and y’all are fighting about whether or not trans men can identify lesbians, as if it’s anyones business… have you appreciated a butch today?
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tweeted “my girlfriend read this and got so hard they passed out” and got blocked… real lesbians and queer women secure in their identity will understand the appeal of “selfish” pillow princesses (i’ll spell it out for you: hot), even if it’s not their personal preference.
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little outfit in a camp, off-putting, feminine to the point of being grotesque way! fuck, men don’t care that my girlfriend is butch. everything is consumable, everything is a fetish, for every man we disgust we are another’s manic pixie dream girl or sexual fantasy.
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i don’t know about ‘lesbian voice’, but i did go straight clubbing once in first year with a group of daddy’s money bisexuals and they all told me i have ‘lesbian face’ …they weren’t really nice girls so i still don’t know how i was meant to take that
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i think we should be even worse about it
i think we fucked up by punishing men for mansplaining to us . it's like .. . their love language?? and actually really sweet ????
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high femme nails to match my gown and my butches dagger for the medieval faire 🗡️
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platonic and domestic lesbian intimacy like borrowing your friends boxers in the heat of summer and cleaning their sharehouse bedroom… platonic and domestic lesbian intimacy like when a loved one comes over to watch me fold laundry and do my makeup in the morning as we drink tea
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i don’t trust any of you talking down to lesbians about how they find love, beauty, healing, god or whatever in their experiences of lesbian intimacy, sex or relationships… let us have it
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racist and exclusionist butches keep leslie feinberg out of their mouths challenge: impossible
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“that girl keeps that lesbian like a dog” meanwhile my angel is attaching THEMSELF by the carabiner to the leash holding stations in the street. looking all pleased about it too.
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i think oscar wilde would love to rest enshrouded in proof that he has been adored, (especially by queer people, women or not) for decades and decades after his tragic death.
oscar wilde was homosexual i doubt he would have wanted your lips on his tomb
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to my CORE i do not believe in butch/femme revival, i believe in butch/femme persistence. whether or not we are being depicted in media, whether or not it is trendy, butch/femme communities have existed in their own spaces.
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coming out as femme4butch4butch unethical monogamy, hope you all understand i am doing my bit to solve the high-femme shortage
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the femme screamed “BYE LOVER” and all the kids were waving as the train door closed, i love love
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i think butch lesbians deserve emotional and financial compensation the way gay men will be on their ASS in a lesbian club
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my girlfriend just said to me “i know you love butch whimpering, but have you ever thought about butch groaning while eating your cooking?” … i have
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sick of people trying so desperately to separate themselves from “those gays” like they aren’t just,, slightly older. LOOK in the mirror, GET some saline for that infected piercing, demeaning teenagers who wear pride t-shirts should not be a top priority
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in the real world there are beautiful trans elders who id simultaneously as femme lesbians and bears, and the most ancient grey haired butches you have ever seen literally worship at their feet, so… urging younger queers to give up on rationalising the identities of strangers
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thinking thinking about how lesbians are inherently masculinised by straight women, and often likened to men, viewed as predatory etc. but i don’t know a SINGLE lesbian who hasn’t been preyed upon by a straight woman (or multiple), even a friend (usually a friend)
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i am confident being femme, i have surpassed feeling invisible due to my “conformity” in the eyes of cishet people, there is no VALIDATION in being recognised as queer by them, only othering and endangerment. spend one day on a butches arm and watch out for the stares they get.
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my butch isn’t even necessarily stone they just have dsyphoria, a preference and love me a lot, certain twitter users (who hate high femmes) will never understand our deep deep compatibility but also what it means to commit to another person
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i just caught up on the news of the recent targeted attack and murder of the lesbian couple, fang xiaoton and liu jixi, i am going to link the post for those who haven’t seen it yet. my heart is completely broken, and with everybody else grieving.
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‘don’t call me a lipstick lesbian’ exert from ‘the femme mystique’ anthology (1995)
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today my art professor asked to take a photo of my outfit mid consultation on my project (on lesbian gender expression, experiences of love, faith and religion) and said to me “i just think the way you dress really tells your story” … a femme moment?
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to the cishets there is nothing scarier than a lesbian that will not coddle them, nothing could be more admirable than that and more beautiful to me!!!
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obviously as a femme i think it is normal to have a dating preference for or even exclusive attraction to butches, but sometimes the way femmes express their desire on this app concern me. like got it that you want a butch partner… what else do you desire in a person?
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having the vilest night, note please don’t invite queer people to your family house parties if your bigot family is going to verbally assault and threaten them and make them feel more an unwelcome… i am sober but one of my friends has alcohol poisoning and i am so afraid
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normalise girls who are angelic still having a deeply autistic stare…
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swear those “masc with a fem personality” “soft masc” manifestation notebook freaks are just deeply insecure in their own sexuality/gender presentation and would feel too threatened in their own femininity/lesbianism at the thought of dating another fem or hyper-gnc person
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and what a good job you do at your lesbian-specific expression of gender!
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if she’s your girl why is she prostrate on her knees in front of me singing hymns and muttering exaltations? why is she tenderly holding my hair? why is my blood in her mouth?
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my major work, “altarpiece” (2024).
a triptych in oil, exploring my relationship to divinity, femme and butch identity as something sacred, and painting as an act of reverence and worship. all inspired by pre-raphaelite depictions of myth and intimacy.
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the doctors loved my outfit
wearing my “uterus belt” (minus all the glass beading to resemble blood) to my endometriosis ultrasound, thought it would cheer me up to awaken one of my contemporary wearable art pieces, forgot i was leaving my progressive queer neighbourhood... the price of serving cunt.
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a butch said “i am really enjoying polishing this sword” i said oh i am sure
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the sentiment that stone bottoms/pillow princesses can’t be, or are somehow proportionally less traumatised than stone tops is something that never ceases to shock me, it’s so ignorant. never-mind the trauma that comes with being alienated WITHIN lesbian community.
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@lobotomydyke
they were just talking about us like we were a big issue in the lesbian community and i was like ??? 🙋🏼♀️ you mean a niche historical subculture largely made up of gnc and trans folk that has been consistently pushed out from lesbian supposedly “feminist” spaces since the 70s ???
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yeah i would agree, best part of life is probably the love…….
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op thinks they predate lesbian subcultural identities, delusional i fear
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theodore von holst, ‘the fairy lovers’ 1840 — they are so femme4butch to me
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i am so wary of the term ‘monosexual’ as a self identifier, when lesbian spaces have historically fostered an environment of gender queering… it feels like using that term is just another way cis lesbians are trying to seperate themselves from what they view as deviant
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my butches tattoo dedicated to us is… close
the wolf butch x bunny femme stereotype has always been chefs kiss
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i am calling for the acknowledgment of lesbians with game and wit and charm… lesbians who are full of love and fiercely pursue it
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this is kind of morbid so content warning for that…
but confession: when i went to clean my mothers grave for the first time, i took a pink ribbon from one of the funeral arrangements we were throwing out. and i wear it sometimes… it is actually a prized possession of mine.
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also like, if you’ve never interacted with butchfemme lesbians in real life, you could at least read a pdf thats floating around or listen to us here or mind your business….
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every time another lesbian goes by he/she pronouns, an angel gets their wings
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dyke ball (2023)
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love community because why did i just confess my fertility anxieties to a butch and they offer to artificially inseminate me, that is so beautiful ♥️
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love to tell my butch that ‘it’s ok, i think short butches are hot!’ when i wear heels so they do that thing when they fix their posture, stand taller and step forward… you know the thing
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in the same way modern butch fashion references the working class style of butches decades past, i think it’s worth noting the impact of lesbian sex workers in the mid-century on the aesthetics/flagging techniques of modern high femmes.
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