I love when we as trans men say "back then I was hyper femme" and then its just a picture of someone with an awkward bob, neutral lipstick and doc martens
Me flirting with cis men: you have great energy and a beautiful smile, would you like to grab a coffee sometime? 🥰
Me flirting with trans mascs: what are you and your biceps up to these days? sucked any cock recently? 🥵
When I inject HRT I do it myself intramuscularly during a beat drop; then massage the injection site, and finally dance in the mirror for half an hour to increase blood flow and appreciate my body
I’m always saying this! Toxic masculinity and patriarchy is what we should openly hate: something literally all genders are capable of embodying. Men can actually be amazing people capable of incredible humanity and are also victims of patriarchy
If you don’t understand why the general hatred of manhood delays/stops trans men from coming out, I don’t know what to tell you.
Accuse me of all you want, I’m just doing my best to help out trans men like myself who struggle(d) with coming out.
I think I've landed on not getting bottom surgery for the foreseeable future and I feel relatively chill about it and okay with my body! But also it sucks to know that if it wasn't literally 10´s of thousands of dollars I'd get it and I'd get it swiftly!
@graceelavery
Really needed to read this today, in a different field but being trans at work feels like such a loosing game and the anger is real. I'm so sorry you're also going through it. Sending warmth
@Peteyville
I would say my only exception is trans men! I personally love it but some people have a different context. Exception aside this is absolutely a golden rule
Trans masc bottoms, trans femme tops, muscle gays, fancy non binary people who work in culture, and gay men in their 60´s who wear funky women's glasses
@ShiriEisner
@JohannesTEvans
The bi men who realized they weren’t gay but bi because of Gillian Anderson also deserve some appreciation in the meme 🫠🪩💅🏻
@anthoknees
I cannot stress this enough- you need like three episodes to get into it! Also if you have any triggers lmk and I can let you know if there are any in the show (it’s super intense)
The way I said “Hola Barbie” to every trans girl I know tonight and the way all of them replied “Hi Ken!” and then we kissed each other on the lips. This really is OUR moment
@ThatBoyYouLike
I think the closest I’ve got is images of queer trans men in media like Eliot Fletcher in Shameless (YIKES @ that show) and Garcia in Tales of the City (actually pretty phenomenal and nuanced). That said nothing has captured the non binary experience & I’ve never seen t4t love :(
@TranyeWest
I got two hands holding something/each other about solidarity between trans men/mascs and trans women/femmes that has a subtle nod with the color lines. That said, I also share your take about symbols and colors
(Also peep my wife looking like a sim in the background lol)
@demon_bussy
After so many years on T I’m read as a femme with facial hair when I’m dressed more femininely and let me tell you the way even trans people treat me has changed.
People ask me how I got connected in Barcelona and I tell them I found a gay bar I liked, went frequently and ordered the same thing (gin tonic or sparking water) and asked people for a lighter when I smoked
Third places don't just magically appear — people make them appear by repeatedly going to to the same place over and over again and meeting people who also like going to that place — until eventually you can just go by yourself and know you have friends there.
Hard launching my new tattoo; which is both body masculinization in its placement and size and also inspired by my favorite architectural feature - wrought iron :))
Is there like some kind of organized group for gay trans men? If so I need in!! Give me the discord, the WhatsApp group, idk I’m feeling joyful but solitary in my identity
No this is what I mean when I say I'm ex-poly 😂 I want us both going to dark rooms, having lovers overseas, and getting ours but I don't want to read the ethical slut ever again
Seven Daddies: A Night of Sitges Dark Rooms
Three Twinks: A Day of Techno
Eight Transexuals: An Evening of Brooklyn Kink Party
Ten Men (& Chlamydia): An Hour of Gay Sauna
I want to know if there is literally any trans person who feels welcomed / safe by declarations of FLINTA ONLY or ANYONE BUT CIS MEN spaces. The amount of ick I get is insurmountable
This is some of the stupidest shit I’ve seen in quite some time. Those clothes will need 77 rinse cycles to get rid of all that soap.
(Tik Tok: AllyLovesLife/allenayhurtado)
I am finally finally finally done with the egg harvesting process - IUD back in business; testosterone concretely in my body the way I need it; I am no longer bleeding all over my packer on a period sent from hell!! My number one goal this week is to eat ass and get fucked hard!!
I’m an event producer now I guess! concept developed by me and one of my best friends 6 months ago to have a horny fancy wine party in Barcelona. We sold out :,)
me flirting with trans femmes: I saw a blade of grass bend slightly in the wind and it reminded me of the way you move your hands. I hope the world is being kind with you you today <3 Wine soon? I'll hold the door for you
Me flirting with cis men: you have great energy and a beautiful smile, would you like to grab a coffee sometime? 🥰
Me flirting with trans mascs: what are you and your biceps up to these days? sucked any cock recently? 🥵
Woah okay it didn’t hit me until 3:09 am, but I’m so grateful I “get to be” trans. 7 years ago me could have never dreamed this was posible. Really grateful
@transguyenergy
Congratulations on doing it well!! I still feel connected to my femininity in a gay man kind of way, and now it actually makes sense :)
After living with a trans girl as she transitioned and as I retired from my years as a non binary trans masc I woke up and realized we essentially swapped half of our wardrobes
photo of me outside this summer (f*ggot beach renaissance painting) + photo of me outside this summer (the day my nipples were out all day at work & no one told me & I didn’t realize till I had a cig & saw my reflection in the window)
I use this website for three reasons: transsexuals, to prove my allure to one lover who lives on a different continent, and because I can say faggot <3
Guy on the subway waves at me shows me his phone screen which is his Grindr profile and then points at me. Bold recipe but I’m old school, cruise me IRL!
The first things I bought for the new apartment:
1. second hand vacuum specialized in pet hair
2. 130€ of natural wine from Eastern Europe
3. 50cm disco ball from a club that was closing
Forgive me father for I have sinned. I have accidentallyish had a masc4masc experience with a circuit gay who works in finance. I have learned much about their ways, but in doing so I have tarnished the flesh. I must repent!