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Something happened in my home recently. We hired someone for a domestic position, and everything appeared to be going well.
A few weeks into the role,
my daughter came to me and said, ‘Mummy, I don’t want this person in our home. I don’t like this person’
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In my daughter’s case, she sensed the behaviour as predatory, it made her feel unsafe and she called it out to us.
Listen to your children please!
I also pray that God gives us the wisdom and strength to shoulder the responsibility of parenting, Amen.
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So we let the person go.
I’m struggling again and it’s HARD! but the decision was a no brainer.
Why am I sharing this?
Having worked with many survivors of childhood sexual abuse, I hear this phrase quite often ‘I told my parents but they didn’t believe me/listen to me’
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I was amazed that she took time to notice a pattern of behavior and then took action.
Even though it was difficult to let the person go, as her parents, our responsibility to prioritize our child's safety and security was most important.
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Perhaps the decision was also hard for the parents, perhaps they didn’t understand the child’s complaint, BUT as parents it is IMPORTANT to LISTEN to our children.
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My husband and I asked her why she felt so strongly about this person and she said, ‘I noticed when I’m around this person alone, they call me Baby, but when other people are there, they call me by my name without adding Baby’
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Probe further, if you don’t understand their objection. And most importantly, take the required action to protect your child.
We also can’t ignore the level of awareness positive sexuality education gives a child.
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Now, my daughter is generally fond of people. For her to express dislike (in this case, a strong dislike) towards someone was a huge red flag.
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Huge sigh 😞. The position that person came to assume had been a major source of stress for me since the early days of my marriage.
Just when we made the decision to hire someone and I was starting to experience some much-needed relief, this happened. It wasn’t easy! 😩
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Your husband shouldn’t always meet you fully clothed when he gets home.
Sometimes, meet him at the door in your lingerie or better still, in a nice silk robe with nothing underneath.
Men too, oil your body and greet us with your n
@ked
chest and nice (clean) boxers or better
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A few years ago, I became friends with a guy, and we would chat about my work. He was fascinated by the fact that I was a sex therapist, and he would always comment on that.
Gradually, he went from that to paying me compliments all the time.
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The Birthday Girl!!! God has been AMAZING to me! The Olawunmi I am today, is an Olawunmi I once dreamt of. I know the Olawunmi of tomorrow will far exceed my wildest dreams. I am BLESSED! Happy birthday to ME
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One of the reasons I got married to my husband was because I had daddy issues. 😃
Granted, it’s an odd thing to admit. But I’m a believer in sharing life lessons I have learnt.
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It's my birthday today!
Happy birthday to me 🎉🥰💃🎂
I really am grateful for my life and one thing I have committed to doing this year is to CELEBRATE EVERY WIN.
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Its not lack of LOVE but lack of FRIENDSHIP that makes unhappy marriages
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There are so many misconceptions about orgasms that most people get hung up on.
Today, we are sharing 4 truths about orgasms.
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Your wife can be a woman of faith, the mother of your children and still want you to f*ck the sh*t out of her.
Being spiritual and highly sexual are not mutually exclusive.
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Today is ORGASM DAY!!!
This is just a tip of the iceberg when it comes to your pleasure as a woman!
Explore your pleasure
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It's my birthday today, and I am grateful to God for the mother of all blessings; life🙏
May this year bring me closer to fulfilling my purpose on earth.
Happy birthday to me💃💃
#birthdaygirl
#grateful
#yoursextherapist
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Since then, I have kept men at arm’s length. I relate to men well; throughout my life, I’ve always had more male than female friends, but that experience taught me how to relate to men without letting them get close.
No one is above temptation.
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When it comes to S£x, I’m both a giver and receiver.
I enjoy pleasing my man, I’m curious, open, I love to explore what feels good for him and I love to create new experiences.
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If you are someone who loves and is quite vocal about sex, I'm sure you've received comments like 'You are bad, You are spoilt, You are corrupt etc.
Some jokingly and some seriously. I'm here to tell you that it's absolutely normal to love and desire Sex.
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I asked my husband to tell me what he loves about my body. And after many years of marriage, there were some things he said for the first time!
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I had my first boyfriend at 15, and my mom insisted I bring him home.
One thing I loved about my relationship with my mom growing up was that when it came to relationships, she made me put them out in the open.
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Here are some ways we can work together.
To book a session, click the link below 👇🏾
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PS: We changed the spelling of some words due to Twitter censoring
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I once had a client who was so distraught about the fact that she cheated on her husband 3 times.
She kept mentioning it over and over. Shame and self disgust were written all over her. She even called herself names!
I thought to myself, ‘This must be bad’
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Small gist. One hot afternoon, I was at home with my husband.
I had a deadline to meet so I was working on my laptop….. but I couldn’t concentrate.
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“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking.
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About a year or two ago, I was worried about how to raise my children to walk with God.
I had a lot of things vying for my attention and I found it difficult to create the balance I felt was necessary to help them walk in faith.
I was constantly castigating myself about this.
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This is what Sex education for a child is. Empowering them to KNOW and CHOOSE right from wrong even when you are not there.
Sex education for your kids won't 'spoil' them!
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Female pleasure hotspots 😍
Ladies, what's your hotspot?
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4/5 .... or you just want to make your Sex life much better, book a session with me today by sending an email to ‘info
@olawunmiesan
.com’
You can book a session as an intending couple to learn how to prepare for great Sex In Marriage.
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A good person doesn't automatically make a good spouse!
Marriage requires 2 people who are WILLING & COMMITTED to making their marriage work.
You can be a good person and still have a bad marriage... and yes, you could be the one responsible for making the marriage bad!
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Throughout my extensive experience working as a Sex therapist and Coach, I have observed a common misconception among women when it comes to Sex.
Many women think there's one way to be sexual, so they relentlessly try to live up to the ‘ideal image’ they have created in their
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In a society where side chicks and side cocks have been normalized, let me remind you that ADULTERY IS BAD!
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A good person doesn’t automatically make a good spouse!
Marriage requires 2 people who are WILLING & COMMITTED to making their marriage work. You can be a good person and still have a bad marriage... and yes, you could be the one responsible for making the marriage bad!
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When my daughter was 6, she decided to stop going to her regular salon because of the type of programs they put on.
In her words. "They play programs that are not meant for kids''.
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Asking for help does not mean that we are weak or incompetent. It usually indicates an advanced level of honesty and intelligence…
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Here are some ways we can work together.
To book a session, send an email to info
@olawunmiesan
.com
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5/5 Rather than saying “I don’t enjoy how you suck my cock” say “I like when you take me in your mouth. I really enjoy when you suck me gently. It feels more enjoyable than hard sucking”
So there! I hope this helps someone.
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Let the wife make the husband glad to come home, and let him make her sorry to see him leave …..Martin Luther
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Happy marriages begin when we marry the ones we love, and they blossom when we love the ones we marry
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Those who compare themselves against others are not wise. Find what works for your marriage and “do it!”
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I spoke at the MacSalve Sickle cell advocacy foundation on prevention as the most reliable solution for reducing sickle cell births
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Rules for a happy marriage:
1. Never both be angry at the same time.
2. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.
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-When a man marries a woman, they become one--the trouble starts when they try to decide which one
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Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his wife
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The beauty of marriage is not always seen from the very beginning…but rather as love grows and develops over time
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Another interesting question I answered on The Honest Bunch Podcast.
You can watch the full episode on Glitch Africa’s YouTube channel.
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I can’t overemphasize empathy, guys!! You can never understand how your partner feels if you don’t weigh it on a similar scale.
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I think I've been watching too many action movies. I was driving, and I noticed that the car behind me was making every turn I made, so I thought the car was tailing me.
I drove into the estate, and the car followed. Then I thought, 'What would Denzel Washington, Liam Neeson, or
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Let’s talk about Vaginismus today.
This condition is more common than you think it is.
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Two of the most important things in my relationship are Play and Authentic Self expression.
If we didn't have this, even with the best S
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in the world, I'd still have felt shortchanged.
I had an ex who made me suppress this part of myself. I thank God everyday that he is an
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My daughter knows how to delay gratification; my son, not so much.
So I came up with the 24-hour rule that says when you receive anything from anyone, you have to wait 24 hours before eating or using it.
Last night, I gave my kids a snack that was given to me, and my son said,
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I had this conversation with Mr E
Me: Babe, shaved p*ssy or hairy p*ssy?
Mr E: Shaved is good, but I'm okay either way
Me: So you like when I wax?
Mr E: Yes
Me: Have you ever waxed any hairs?
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If you are thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never have enough
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Give up on fear.Give up on anger.Give up on every emotion that doesn’t enhance your life. Never give up on love.It’s always worth the fight
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You didn’t learn how to play an instrument well in one night. It will take time to learn how to “make music” with your spouse too…
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To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness
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The beauty of marriage is not always seen from the very beginning…but rather as love grows and develops over time
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Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.
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Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate
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Friendship in marriage is the spark that lights an everlasting flame
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A successful marriage isn’t the union of two perfect people but of two imperfect people who have learned the value of forgiveness and grace.
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To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness.
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Sex is more than the physical. Your mind, emotions, mental state, beliefs and attitudes impact sex more than anything.
Focusing solely on the physical aspect is the reason people get stuck when there are problems.
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Couples who communicate effectively enjoy better sex.
Here’s why:
Good communication aids:
- Better understanding
- Improved emotional connection
- Reduced anxiety and performance pressure
- Mutual satisfaction
All of which contribute to a more fulfilling and enjoyable
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A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ come together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences
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This is how you should pray for your man going forward 😄😄😄
Video credit - thatchickangel via Instagram
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We can never have extraordinary relationships with our spouses when we are settling for an ordinary relationship with God
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They say it takes a village to raise a child, but the truth is that it takes a lot of solid, stable marriages to create a village
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Different ways a penis/vulva can be shaped. There is no shame in looking different.
Everybody is beautiful. (Swipe to see the different ways a vulva can look). I know some people will say 'Monday Morning for God's sake ' 😀😀 I just wanted to remind you that YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL.
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The beauty of marriage is not always seen from the very beginning…but rather as love grows and develops over time
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Ladies, you cannot afford to go into marriage blindly.
Love is good but beyond love, it is important that you open your eyes to patterns of behaviour, character, personal values, history etc.
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A great spouse loves you exactly the way you are. An extraordinary spouse helps you grow; inspires you to be, do and give your very best.
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Knowing that men inherently are motivated by respect, women are motivated by love, we must focus on the traits that lift up our other halves
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For a marriage to have any chance, you should learn to overlook some things.
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My godmother walks in to my office reception and starts to pray and rejoice.
In her excitement, she hadn't really noticed what was on her right....
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If you have been putting efforts into your marriage without seeing results. Don't give up!
A rock isn't broken with the 1st or the 10th strike, but the more you hit it, the weaker it gets till it gives way.
Keep putting in the efforts. Soon, they will give way to solutions.
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The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together
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A great spouse loves you exactly as you are. An extraordinary spouse helps you grow; inspires you to be, do and give your very best
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To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness
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What's the most underrated s3x position for you?
We asked the above question on our Instagram story, and here are some of the responses we received.
Feel free to add yours in the comments.
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