@bomniacc yes, and there’s always some shame that comes with divorce & as a woman, i know that a lot of women would want to make the marriage work. kesian tau. we all deserve to be loved fully by someone who is attracted to us.

@glxzelily for me the issue is clear as day & pretty straightforward tp ramai betul yg main mental gymnastics. tak larat nak balas sorang2 so biar je la diorang. and no worried i know you’re equally as frustrated as me haha

either way i can sympathise bcs it’s a tough spot to be in, and i pray that whatever tough decisions need to be made, Allah will reward berkali ganda. and back to my original point, i don’t think you can change who you’re attracted to, and don’t use women as a tool.

@clddayss @maryjnhollnd i rasa dia bodoh sebenarnya 😭 bodoh tapi degil nak menyampuk org lain tgh berbincang. i can open a topic on cheating but lain hari la. org tgh berbincang psl gay men aniaya org perempuan ni. yihhhh.

@Hazimraykal i tak rasa i menghukum but okay… takpe, as long as your patient is happy, good for him. i just hope the wife is just as happy and loved for who she is, not just a tool for a twisted agenda. if the wife is in the know & consent to it, who am i to say anything 🤷🏻‍♀️

@Hazimraykal @funnygirlw kalau hati hanya tertarik kpd lelaki, dia takkan selera nak bersama dgn isteri dia. semua wanita berhak mendapat pasangan yg sexually and emotionally attracted to her. if you aren’t both & you still marry her - that’s a penganiayaan. she deserves a man who loves her wholly.

@heriiicane you can find love in many different places. if you think that not being married make you suffer, then think about the woman you’re subjecting a loveless marriage to. jadi suami kena beri nafkah zahir & batin. tak bagi, dosa yg jauh lebih besar. bukan lps kahwin terus lepas ye.

@rznchh i agree. having to choose between your love for God & your love for another human being. nampak petty to others, but sakitnya jiwa tu dia je yg tahu.

@bomniacc yeah, but my tweet mainly focuses on gay men who marry women simply to use them as their beard. nafkah batin the wife ditinggalkan. i can’t stand this kind of selfish act.

@Fahizrulnizah sama je babe. toksahlah dok aniaya org. nak kata happy, tak happy. dosa kering je dapat nanti.

@maryjnhollnd @clddayss dahlah masuk conversation org tak bagi salam, lps tu melalut doakan benda pelik2 kat org. nak jadi troll pun at least pergilah beli bluetick, ada juga duit masuk. ni biadap tak tentu hala, dosa kering je dapat.

@RejuvenaSiti if the woman thinks she can change him, then it’s her game. i personally can’t do it, but some women may have the mental strength and belief to be in that kind of marriage. as long as she knows what she’s getting herself into, then it’s up to her.

@mimieasnh if he can’t decide to marry, tell him to think about the woman. apa dosa perempuan tu kt dia sampai dia kena kahwin dgn lelaki yg tak sayang dia? sometimes in life, our choices affect others. suruh dia fikir tentang org lain for sec.

@lovecoklatsusu kalau masih suka lelaki, jgnlah seksa batin isteri. i faham dugaan ni besar, tp i also believe that Allah beri dugaan besar sbb Allah nk send you straight to Heaven. pilih Allah before everything else, inshaallah syurga tempat kita.

@SpokenTruthM personally i tak pernah dgr but my tweet applies to lesbians too. no one deserves to be in a loveless marriage in which their partner is not sexually attracted to them bcs of their gender.

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