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If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, The Hotline is available 24/7/365.
✔️CALL: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
✔️TTY: 1-800-787-3224
✔️CHAT:
✔️TEXT: "START" to 88788
Free and confidential for anyone in the U.S. or the U.S. territories.
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If you are experiencing relationship abuse, or if you're concerned about your friend's relationship, you are not alone. Our Advocates are here for you, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year.
CALL: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
CHAT:
it may be surprising to you to learn that i was in an emotionally and physically abusive relationship. it was hard for me to process too, during and after i never thought something like this would happen to me.
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@jackieaina
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story so others can be aware of the red flags! ❤️
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Home is not a safe place for everyone. If you’re in an abusive relationship, staying home because of
#SocialDistancing
during
#COVID_19
can be a stressful situation. Read more from
@HuffPost
:
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Abuse can happen to anyone at any time. If you need help, you can reach us by calling 1-800-799-SAFE (7233), or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY) or chat by going to .
#TheHotline
#DV
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Tommi is an intimate partner violence survivor who bravely shared her story with us. If you are a victim or survivor of domestic violence, there is help available for you, 24/7/365. Learn more at .
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@babyappalachian
We've been tagged in this & don't want to ignore. We understand that this is not easy. We do have some resources on our site, but the Stalking Resource Center is more appropriate. They have info like Stalking Safety Planning (there is a Helpline, as well):
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As shelter-in-place orders are being lifted across the country, it is a critical time for a survivor to reach out for help. Advocates are here to listen by calling 1-800-799-7233, 1-800-787-3224 TTY, or chat online at . You are not alone!
#DV
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📆 October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Join us this
#DVAM2023
to promote healthy relationships, education on what abuse is, & more. This year’s theme is “Heal, Hold, Center.” What do you want to learn this
#DVAM
?
#DVAM2023
#HealHoldCenter
#EndDV
#RelationshipAbuse
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Leaving an abusive relationship isn’t as easy as simply walking away. No matter the circumstances, survivors deserve to be supported and empowered in the choices they choose to make.
Learn why people stay & how you can support survivors in their decision:
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While on your journey of healing from trauma and abuse, remember to be gentle with yourself. A great deal of trauma survivors suffer from toxic shame and self-blame. The abuse that happened to you is not your fault. Be kind to yourself. ❤
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You deserve a healthy relationship.
If you have questions about your relationship, or about a loved one's relationship, we're here to listen.
Free. Confidential. 24/7.
Call 1-800-799-7233
Chat at
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We're proud to have collaborated with
@netflix
to ensure that viewers of
#MAIDNetflix
get the resources they need. If you have questions after watching Maid, visit for resources and information. You are not alone.
#DVAM
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For any victims and survivors who need support, we are here for you, 24/7. We’ve taken precautions to keep staff safe. Call 1-800-799-7233, or if you’re unable to speak safely, you can log onto or text LOVEIS to 22522.
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Speaking out against abuse isn’t always a readily available option for people experiencing relationship abuse.
If you're a survivor, we support you and are here for you whenever you feel like you want to talk — no matter when you decide to do so.
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.
@KtRayJones
, CEO of
@NDVH
speaks with
@Buzzfeed
about how "more than half of mass shooters have histories of violence against women."
Today, take a moment to read this important article: "Nearly 10 Years Apart, Attacks On Women Have Eerie Similarities"
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Serena Williams told
@CBSNews
"I had no idea what financial abuse was. When I read that 99% of domestic violence cases do involve financial abuse, I feel like that was a really, really high number, and it's shocking.” Read more:
#FinancialAbuse
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We know that more than 4.5 million American women have been threatened w/ a gun by an intimate partner. New York has officially closed this “boyfriend loophole,” which allowed intimate dating partners to legally own firearms. More from
@TeenVogue
:
#IPV
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.
@BreneBrown
joins
@jimmyfallon
on
#FallonAtHome
— an enormous thank you to Brené for choosing The Hotline. 💜
@FallonTonight
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#1Thing
we use in our advocacy is the Power & Control Wheel.
#DomesticViolence
is defined as a pattern of behaviors used by one partner to maintain power and control over another in an intimate
#relationship
. To find out more click here:
#DVAM2018
#endDV
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.
@SenFeinstein
just introduced the companion to the bipartisan VAWA bill that passed the House in April. Survivors need this updated
#VAWA4ALL
with critical enhancements!
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For people experiencing relationship abuse,
#COVID19
has exacerbated the stress, isolation, and financial strain that can compromise a survivor’s safety.
Explore our special report on relationship abuse during the first 60 days of the COVID-19 pandemic:
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Abuse is about power & control, which can be hard to recognize at times. Possessive or controlling behaviors can look different depending on the situation but there are common signs that are red flags for abuse. Recognize the signs:
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Gaslighting – what is it?
It is basically a form of emotional abuse that causes a victim to question their own feelings, thoughts, instincts, and sanity, which give the abusive partner power and control. Learn more:
#DV
#Gaslighting
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On February 21, 1996, the National Domestic Violence Hotline answered its very first call.
This significant milestone in our history is not a celebration. But the courage of survivors is something to celebrate.
Read our full statement at
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: “You’re crazy - that never happened.”
If this sounds familiar to you, you may be experiencing gaslighting. Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse that causes victims to question their own feelings, instincts, and sanity. Read more signs of gaslighting:
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If you suffer from
#PTSD
, there are some ways to help minimize the effects:
Accept that your feelings are valid.
Be kind to yourself. You’re doing your best.
Practice self-care. You are worth it.
Seek additional help when you need it.
#TraumaAwarenessMonth
#Trauma
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Today, we announced a $100,000 donation from
@gabbsfoundation
for our $2 million Hope Can’t Wait emergency campaign to expand The Hotline’s capacity to support survivors. Read more here:
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As shelter-at-home orders are lifted, sexual assault and domestic violence survivors are seeking help in record numbers. Our Advocates are here for you, 24/7/365. Call 1-800-799-7233, or 1-800-787-3224 TTY text LOVEIS to 1-866-331-9474, or chat online.
#ISeeYou
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On December 30th, The Hotline answered our 6 millionth contact. Since 1996, we have kept our lines open 24/7 for anyone who needs us—and six million have connected with our advocates to receive support, connection to resources and hope for a safer future.
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When people see someone experience abuse it can be overwhelming. People often wonder if they should call the police or not. It's important to check in with the person to see what they are comfortable with. Learn more:
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Join us for “The Call.” Presented by
@AllstateFDN
, this short film honors the 6.4 million people served by The Hotline. The event will also feature a panel discussion about
#DV
in film & media.
Get tickets for Austin, TX:
#TheCallFilm
#EndDV
#DVinFilm
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If you think someone may be experiencing
#DV
, reach out and keep that vital line of support open. If you want to speak with an Advocate, call 1-800-799-7233, text LOVEIS to 22522, or chat online at . Learn more at
#Listeningfromhome
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#Domesticviolence
does not discriminate. Here at The Hotline, we use the Power & Control Wheel to describe most accurately what occurs in an
#abusiverelationship
. Read more here:
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This
#NewYear2023
, if you or someone you love needs help, we are here 24/7/365.
✔️CALL: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
✔️TTY: 1-800-787-3224
✔️CHAT:
✔️TEXT: "START" to 88788
Free and confidential for anyone in the U.S. or the U.S. territories.
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Coming Soon!
@suzeormanshow
, author,
#WomenAndMoney
,
@NDVH
,
@AvonInsider
and Avon Foundation for Women partner for video series focused on
#financialabuse
. See the
#WomenBreakingFree
: Stories of Strength from Survivors of
#DomesticViolence
trailer:
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Abuse doesn't always look like
#abuse
. If you have concerns about a relationship, the National Domestic Violence Hotline provides free and confidential support. Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) 24/7, or chat online at .
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Did you see tonight's episode of
#TheRookie
? We work with partners like
@ABCNetwork
when
#domesticviolence
is depicted to help viewers get support. It can be hard to watch
#DV
on TV, so we’re here with these self-care tips:
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Tina Turner's death touches us deeply. Each abusive situation is unique, but Tina's story resonates with many
#DV
survivors-power & control, financial abuse, & raising children. Tina, you were a true hero who sparked survivors' courage with your story and music. We will miss you.
Tina Turner leaves a long legacy of her work and talent. These are some of the defining moments from her multi-decade career.
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"House Republicans Urge
@SpeakerRyan
To Reauthorize Violence Against Women Act Before It Expires" via
@HuffPost
@lannadelgrey
#VAWA4all
#VAWA18
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“You’re crazy – that never happened.”
“Are you sure? You tend to have a bad memory.”
“It’s all in your head.”
If any of these sound familiar, you may be experiencing gaslighting.
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A lot may have changed in the last few weeks, but our support for survivors has not. We will be here for you every step of the way.
Call: 1-800-799-7233
TTY: 1-800-787-3224
Chat: Online at
Para información en Español visita la página “En Español.”
#DV
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What happened at the U.S. Capitol is appalling & fueled by hate & white supremacy. As an anti-racist organization, we condemn these violent actions today, which no doubt will have an impact on survivors. For survivors of domestic violence needing support, we are here for you 24/7
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Many partners who choose to abuse may seem absolutely perfect on the surface as if they are the perfect partner in the early stages of a relationship.
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Today, we commemorate the National Domestic Violence Hotline’s 25th anniversary in Washington, D.C, against the backdrop of the Capitol.
Want to learn more about The Hotline? Visit
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Happy Holidays! At The Hotline, we know that the holidays are not a happy time for everyone. We want to remind you that our lines are open 24/7 if you or someone you know needs support. Call The Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or chat with an advocate at .
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What are the warning signs of abuse? Your partner may:
🚩 Check your phone or social media without your permission
🚩 Constantly put you down
🚩 Tell you what to do
🚩 Have an explosive temper
#DVAM2019
#TheHotline
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If your partner:
💔 Makes you feel like you owe them sex;
💔 Continues to pressure you after you say no;
💔 Makes you feel threatened or afraid of what might happen if you say no;
Then you may be experiencing sexual coercion. Learn more:
#SAAM
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At the start of a new relationship, it’s not easy to tell if it will become abusive. Many abusive people appear like ideal partners in the early stages of a relationship. Warning signs don’t always appear overnight and may emerge as the relationship grows
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#WomensHistoryMonth
is a great time to think about the women who have helped us along the way and those who we’ve supported. Our
#MondayMotivation
? To continue that legacy. How about you?
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Starting today, when people in the U.S. search for domestic violence info on Google, they will see a box at the top of the search results displaying the contact information for The Hotline – with direct access to our phone and chat services. Learn more:
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Every relationship is different, and domestic violence doesn't always look the same. One form of abuse that may go unnoticed is emotional or verbal abuse.
If any of these signs seem familiar, contact an Advocate today.
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Emotional/Verbal abuse is just as damaging as physical abuse, but it doesn’t leave a physical scar. If your partner calls you names, blames you, gaslights you, or accuses you constantly, then you may be in a verbally abusive relationship. We say
#NOMOREVerbalAbuse
@NOMOREorg
@NRCDV
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A commonly overlooked form of abuse is emotional abuse. If your partner calls you names, threatens you, blames you, or gaslights you, then you may be experiencing emotional abuse. Just remember: there is help, you are not alone.
#NationalSuicidePreventionMonth
#Abuse
#DV
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At the start of a new relationship, it’s not always easy to tell if it will later become abusive. In fact, many abusive people appear like ideal partners in the early stages of a relationship.
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Home isn’t always a safe place. COVID-19 has created unique situations for survivors & their
#families
, as some navigate being in close proximity to their abuser.
Making a gift to The Hotline will help us continue to provide one essential thing –hope.
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Thank you to
@soledadobrien
for leading the discussion on "O.J. Simpson: The Lost Confession?", as well as all of the panelists for contributing. We appreciate
@FOXTV
for speaking to domestic violence, airing our PSA & involving the
#DV
community in this discussion.
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“I don’t know what’s real anymore…”
Gaslighting is when your emotions, words, and experiences are twisted and used against, causing you to question your reality. Read more about gaslighting in our new blog:
#Gaslighting
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“Why don’t they just leave?”
People who have never been abused often wonder why a person wouldn’t just leave an
#abusiverelationship
. They don’t understand that leaving can be more complicated than it seems. Learn more:
#endDV
#domesticviolence
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Many people hear the word “abuse” and only think about physical violence. While physical abuse is a type of abuse, it is not the only type.
Emotional abuse is something that 95% of our contacts experienced in their relationship.
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We envision a world where all relationships are positive, healthy, and free from violence.
If you or someone you know needs help, our advocates are ready to speak with you at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) and 1-800-787-3224 (TTY).
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Verbal abuse is NOT OKAY. Check out the tools & resources for ending verbal abuse in all its forms, because verbal abuse IS
#domesticviolence
. Learn more:
#NOMOREVerbalAbuse
@NOMOREorg
@NRCDV
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We want to believe the excuses a partner makes when they’re treating us badly. We care for them, and sometimes the justifications sound really good because we’re looking for anything to help make sense of how our partner is acting towards us.
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During this time of
#selfisolation
and
#socialdistancing
, we need to look out for each other. If you hear a neighbor experiencing
#DV
, reach out to us at 1-800-799-7233, or chat online at anytime at .
@NoMoreorg
#listeningfromhome
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Abuse is never okay & often comes from a desire to control an intimate partner. Remember that you deserve a healthy, loving, and respectful relationship—no matter what. Learn why people abuse & how to get support if you're experiencing relationship abuse:
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Self-care is a simple concept, yet for many of us, it can be incredibly difficult in practice. It is especially challenging for victims and survivors of abuse, who are often made to feel like they are not worthy of love or care.
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Trying to understand intimate partner violence can be challenging. Abuse is complicated, confusing, and it can be hard to find a clear answer about what it looks like.
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Eight people were shot to death in Atlanta-area massage parlors yesterday, six of whom were Asian women.
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If you have concerns about what’s happening in your relationship, contact us. We’re here to listen and support you! Chat online: or call: 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE). We are here for you 24/7/365.
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You are not alone. Call 1-800-799-7233(SAFE) or chat online at We are here for you 24/7/365.
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A common type of
#emotionalabuse
that may go unnoticed is gaslighting. It’s when your emotions, words, & experiences are twisted/ used against you causing you to question your own reality. Learn how you can stay safe if you think
#gaslighting
is occurring
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Relationship abuse is so much more than physical abuse. It can be emotional or financial, sexual, and digital. To end the harm of relationship abuse we must understand what it is and identify the warning signs.
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“It’s a privilege to continue to support the important work of the National Domestic Violence Hotline, whose advocates I’ve had an opportunity to meet & hear from directly.” -
@pamfoundation
We are so grateful to Pamela for her continued support. ♥️
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Digital abuse, like all other forms of abuse, is an attempt by an abuser to control a partner’s actions. As part of a healthy relationship, we recommend that partners create a digital contract that outlines what is and is not acceptable behavior
#online
.
#DigitalAbuse
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#WearPurpleDay
is a day to raise awareness on social media about domestic violence by all wearing one unified color. Join us in showing survivors that they are not alone!
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You are not alone. Call 1-800-799-7233 (1-800-787-3224 TTY for Deaf/hard of hearing) // Chat online at 7am-2am CT
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Domestic violence is more than just physical violence. Multiple forms of abuse are usually present at the same time in abusive situations, so it’s essential to understand how these behaviors interact so you know what to look for.
There are five types of abuse. Learn more ⬇️
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What is gaslighting?
You may have heard this term before, but what is it, and where does it come from? This term comes from the 1938 stage play Gas Light, and it’s a form of emotional abuse. Learn more on our blog:
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Why do we need to reauthorize the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA)? Let us count the 473929 ways. We’re here on Capitol Hill this morning for the Senate Judiciary hearing on VAWA. Follow along by using this hashtag:
#VAWAreauth
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Self-care can be a positive thing for everyone, including people who have experienced some form of trauma. Journaling is one of the most popular self-care activities our Advocates recommend. What self-care method is your favorite?
#SelfcareSunday
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