How many calories should you eat every day to reach your fitness goals faster? What about your “macros”? What types of food should you eat? Take my free 60-second diet quiz and find out:
Sometimes you should say no to the ice cream and feel proud, and sometimes you should say yes and feel satisfied. There are no universal dietary rights or wrongs, only circumstances and compatibilities. Your judgment counts.
“Finish every day and be done with it. You have done what you could; some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day.”
—Ralph Waldo Emerson
You know you're getting good at this fitness stuff when you eat well and exercise often because of how it makes you feel rather than how much validation it gets you from others.
Too many older people think only of money when asked what's required to live life on their own terms. Their first answer should be "physical strength," especially if they're older.
"Instead of feeling that you lost the day after a bad morning, reframe each day as 4 quarters:
1. Morning
2. Midday
3. Afternoon
4. Evening
If you blow one quarter, just get back on track for the next one. Fail small, not big."
–Gretchen Rubin
My favorite cauliflower pizza recipe:
1. Blend a pile of cauliflower and steam.
2. Mix with mozzarella, Parmesan, oregano, salt, garlic powder, and 2 eggs.
3. Spread into a cirlce on a baking sheet.
4. Feed into the garbage disposal and order real pizza.
Whether you ate a bag instead of a bite, ordered a cheeseburger instead of a chicken breast, or drank a barrel instead of a bottle, you're not a bad person. Or a sad sack. Or anything other than someone who ate some food or drank some drink.
Just because someone lost a bunch or weight or built a bunch of muscle, it doesn't mean they're qualified to be a trainer or coach. Some of the worst fitness advice is peddled by some of the fittest people.
As a general rule, try to resolve health problems naturally before you resort to pharmaceuticals. A healthy lifestyle can heal many a thing that ails you.
You're at a birthday party. There's cake and pizza. You don't know how many calories they have. You eat them anyway. You look the same the next day. The end.
Diet is the primary tool for controlling body fatness.
Strength training is the one for gaining muscle and strength.
Cardio the one for enhancing metabolism.
And all three together produce optimal physical and mental health and well-being.
You know you're getting good at this fitness stuff when you start to appreciate how much better your body is feeling and functioning just as much as how much better it's looking.
The absolute best muscle building supplements THEY don't want you to know about: carbs, calorie surplus, losing your abs, progressive overload, getting stronger, enjoying your workouts, deloading, training periodization, extra sleep, realistic expectations.
Remember that no matter how productive and polished someone seems, they're still in a perpetual state of getting their shit together. Just like the rest of us.
“One day, you’re 17 and you’re planning for someday. And then quietly, without you ever really noticing, someday is today. And then someday is yesterday. And this is your life.”
–John Green
A simple life hack: Don't make important decisions when you're angry, depressed, fearful, etc. They're always distorted and defective. Instead, have some fun first because nothing supports sound thinking like joy and enthusiasm.
There's no shame in admitting that at least 50% of the reason you exercise is that your life feels a little out of order when you stop going to the gym.
A highly underrated beauty tip: Get enough sleep.
Research shows that just two nights of bad sleep can make us look less attractive to strangers and just two or three nights of good sleep can markedly improve attractiveness.
You might be programmed if you believed that people walking on beaches were contributing to the Covid crisis but people protesting George Floyd's death weren't.
Water drinking 101:
1. Drink a little when you're thirsty.
2. Drink a little when you're hunger (it might be thirst).
3. Drink a little more when you sweat a lot.
4. Drink a little more when your pee is a darker shade of yellow.