ppl fail to realize if you want sb to show up for you it has to be reciprocated. i can’t afford to give out what im not receiving any more it’s DRAINING asf!
I’m that strong friend, yet I’m the weakest. I always break my back for people, but damn I’m going through storms DAILY with no kind of reassurance from anybody.
i do not believe you need to be 100% healed to be in a beautiful relationship. you do, however, need to be aware of your scars,your pain, your triggers. you need a high level of mindfulness and willingness to work through the shadows that relationships bring towards the surface