Mizi Wahid
@mizi_wahid
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Author: The Art of Letting God, Call Upon Him, and You Are Loved - Entrepreneur, Investor, Public Speaker
Singapore
Joined August 2013
Mental note: .Not everybody who looks OK, IS OK. Your colleague who always dresses so neatly. Your neighbour who always greets you with a friendly smile. Your student who never misses class. Your child who never complains. Not everybody who looks OK, IS OK. Always be mindful.
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God listens. He listens to your prayers. When you confess that you've not been good, when you're humble enough to admit that you're struggling, and that you need help, He will bring you assistance, in ways that you never expect.
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Someone asked, “Ustaz, how do I get rid of envy & jealousy from my heart? I saw a friend getting something more than what I have, & I got mad. At one point, I wish what they had were taken away.”. In Arabic, there is a term for this called Hasad حسد. Continued. .
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SO WHAT if your friend got a car before you. So what if they got married much earlier before you. So what if they graduated a year sooner than you. So what if they found a job way ahead of you.
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Let's be real. Some of us are keeping ourselves busy simply to suppress some kinda sadness that's deep within. You overwork yourself on purpose. Because you think, the less time you have to think about what saddens you, the more "OK" you'll be. Right?.
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What hurts you most:. A. Realising you’re not as important to someone as you thought you were. B. Getting flashbacks from things you don’t wish to remember. C. Keeping a lot to yourself cos it’s difficult to find anyone who truly understands.
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When God makes you wait. 1. He wants you to develop patience amidst nothingness. 2. He wants you to be grateful for the blessings that are already there. 3. He wants you to appreciate the value of delayed gratification. 4. He wants you to trust in His goodness-no matter what 🤍.
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I know you're scared. But God has a plan for your life. There's no need to get anxious about tmrw's uncertainties. If you know you've prayed & done your best, then it's now time to surrender & rest. Release your fears, & simply trust. For His ways are the most perfect & just.
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I saw a post that said:. “Sometimes miracles.are just good people,.with kind hearts.”. So true 🤍🤍🤍.
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Go to sleep in peace tonight, knowing that God is already working on the things you have been worrying about. You’ve done your part. You’ve worked tirelessly. And now simply rely upon Him. Because He has it all under control.
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Healing takes time. There’s nothing wrong with you. Healing takes time. It’s only been a month (or two). Healing takes time. No need to rush my dear. There’s no pressure. It’s your life, your space, your time. You’re going to be fine.
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Small savings. Small investments. Small contributions to your loved ones. Little compliments. Little pardons. Little efforts to make someone’s day. Reduced sugar. More greens 🥬. 10-min workouts. 1-pg of Quran. 30 dzikrs. 2-rakaat prayers. Small steps can lead to big changes.
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“Ustaz, how do I heal my weak & broken heart 💔?”. 1. Don’t rush to get better. Take your time, & give yourself permission to grieve. 2. Surround yourself with positive ppl who value you & are supportive. 3. Find therapy. (Medical/Spiritual). 4. Learn to love yourself again.
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How do you say goodbye to someone when your heart still wants to hold on?. And when you finally find the strength to bid farewell, you realise that the hardest part rather is in learning how to live without that person. How long do we have to wait, before it all goes away?.
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To the tired, the exhausted, the worn-out souls, hang in there. God will replace your weariness and heaviness with joy and ease. Keep the faith. Seize each day as it comes. Whatever you do, don’t quit. You’ve got this.
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Never be overly worried about something before it has ever happened. Don't imagine it. Free your mind from the unseen matters that imprison you with fear. Stay calm and assured because everything is ultimately in Allah's knowledge.
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God answers prayers. Period. Just that it’s not always on your timeline. So don’t give Him your schedule expecting Him to meet your deadline. He answers when He knows it’s best for you. There’s a lot of learning & growth that can happen - while waiting ⏳.
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Tonight I ask. For anyone reading this; whose heart is troubled by an issue unresolved, an illness uncured, a debt unpaid, by promises unfulfilled, by grief that is unending. I ask that God bestows their anxious hearts with unyielding peace, calmness & spiritual confidence 💛.
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I hope you find the answers you’re looking for. I hope you find your purpose & live it every day. I hope you find joy in the simple things that life offers. I hope you find meaning in your closest/strongest relationships. I hope you’ll be happy for feeling blessed by God’s grace.
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Recommendation for those seizing Lailatul Qadr for the first time:. 1. Pray 2 rakaats sunnah.2. Read Allahumma innaKa ‘Afuwwun. 3. Read a few pgs of the Quran.4. Make Istighfar.5. Make Salutations to Prophet Muhammad PBUH.6. Make sincere du’a w a humble/hopeful heart.7. Do Dzikr.
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What is attractive?. Kindness is attractive.Being responsible is attractive.Effort is attractive.Being a good listener is attractive.Caring is attractive .Decisiveness is attractive.Patience is attractive.Taking initiative is attractive.& quiet confidence is attractive too.
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Ustaz how long should I continue praying for the same thing?. For as long as you need. And when you see no changes happening in your life, know that sometimes God is causing YOU to change from within - so that you can be fit to receive, what He is already willing to give.
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Even if your heart is filled with 1000 worries tonight, I ask God to send a generous flow of blessings your way. May the blessings come to you in the form of peace, calmness, assurance and confidence. I wish you an amazing week ahead 🤍.
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Never underestimate the power of a random compliment. To a stranger, it‘ll make their day. To your partner, it‘ll increase affection in your r’ship. To your child/student, it‘ll raise their self-esteem. Compliments don’t need to be excessive & exaggerated. Simple & honest works.
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Stop comparing yourself with others, it’s unhealthy. Especially when the only takeaways you get are:. Everyone’s better than me.I’m not enough.Nobody likes me.I’ll never be as good as they are. Be kinder to yourself. Only look at others to learn, improve, or be inspired ✨.
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When I'm late for a mtg and the parking is full, but then suddenly the car right in front of me leaves & makes way, I know that was You. When I was told that my chances were slim, that the other applicants were better. Yet I was the only 1 offered a contract? I know it was You.
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This Ramadan, know that you‘re not in competition against anyone else. Others may read the Quran better, frequent the mosque more often, have more to give in charity, or appear more pious than you are. Please know that the only competition you have, is who you were - yesterday.
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When your heart is uneasy, turn to الله. Take your wudhu’, & sit in contemplation, in silence. Perform sunnah prayer. Do it slowly, don’t rush. When done, close your eyes, raise your hands & raise your hopes for His Divine help; for inner-peace, & for ease to return once again.
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Never look down on any person's work or profession. Not every job is glamorous, and not everybody earns a large income from what they do. But we should always give props to anyone who makes themselves useful, dutiful, and in good service to others.
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If there’s only 1 du’a that you can read repeatedly this month; day & night, let it be this:. اللَّهمَّ إنَّك عفُوٌّ تُحبُّ العفوَ فاعْفُ عنِّي. Allahumma innaka ‘afuwwun tuhibbul-‘afwa fa’fu annee. Oh Allah you are forgiving, and you love forgiveness, so please forgive me 🤲🏻.
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Today, instead of focusing on what's wrong in your life, start thanking God for what's right. Instead of complaining on what you don't have, start thanking God for what you do have. Instead of dwelling on how far you've got to go, thank Him for how far he's already brought you. .
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To the ones reading this w a tired restless soul & an aching heart - remember God. For He is the source of all peace & tranquility. He is the instiller of calm amidst a never-ending storm. Friends, sometimes a breakdown needs to happen before a breakthrough comes. Stay in faith.
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Dear God, some of us need You right now. For we have smiled through silent pains, cried behind closed doors, and fought battles no one knew about except You. Please bring peace to our confusion, joy to our sadness, and hope in our hearts 🤍.
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A lot of single people think that marriage is the solution of loneliness. It’s not. The solution is on the inside. Filling your heart with something meaningful. Prophet Yusuf/Joseph (as) was single but contented. He went through a lot of trials but he didn’t give up.
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God’s timing is perfect 🤍. He loves us enough to be “late”. He loves us so much that blessings come early; “unexpectedly”, & “out of the blue”. When we find ourselves frustrated, keep the trust & keep the faith. Because every moment in the end will be 100% worth the wait.
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If everyone else around you seem to be progressing so quickly in their studies, careers, & r’ships-don’t simply wish you were moving just as fast. In your own life, use the time you have to ensure you’re aligned to the RIGHT goals. DIRECTION is so much more important than speed.
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Your future has more to offer than your past has to burden you. The reason you made it to this new day, despite the scars, despite the failures, despite the illness, is because God still has a plan for your life. Keep your head up high. And keep on believing, my friends 🤙.
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Tired. Some ppl wake up tired. Desiring to rest the whole day at work. Only to spend the entire night with eyes wide open. That’s a diff kind of tired. Your soul is tired. You do need a rest. But a diff kind of rest is required. Rest your mind from overthinking, let it go. .
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We’re all dealing w something we don’t talk about, don’t we?. I say, don’t be ashamed to reach out & ask for help. I know it’s not easy. But there is not shame in doing so. Also, since many of us are fighting battles privately; means that we should be kinder to 1 another, always.
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I pray for anyone who's experiencing great worry right now, on a matter that's overwhelming them mentally & emotionally, be granted peace in their hearts & minds. I know it gets to you when you're worried about something beyond your control. Surrender & keep your faith in Him 🤲.
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In relationships of any kind, some of us who have been hurt & disappointed may begin to find it hard to trust words that are promised to us. We may even doubt actions that are done for us. But if there’s one thing you should never doubt, it would be patterns. They tell - a lot.
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Are you scared?. Scared that you won’t pass your exams? Scared that you won’t ace the job interview? Scared that you won’t be financially stable or free in the future?. Here’s a note: everyone’s scared of something. Here’s a tip: Do your best anyway. It will pay off one day 🙂.
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God is never late ⏰ .His timing is forever perfect. Delays are presumed due to our limited knowledge, flawed further by our desires and assumptions. While God's wisdom and timing is always on point 👌.
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When we ask for something, the only answer we’re hoping to hear is, “yes.”. And when we hear a yes, the next thing we ask is, “when?”. And the only response we will accept is, “now”. My question to you today is, will you continue to trust God even when the answer is “wait?” ⏰.
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It’s not easy to get up on mornings when you’d rather not be up. It’s hard to get dressed on days you’re not feeling pretty. It’s hard to put up a smile with all the brokenness on the inside. It’s tough to pretend everything’s OK when you’re not. If you got up anyway, you win 🏅.
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One thing we can never deny in life is the amazing help we've gotten from friends who stayed with us thru tough times. They believed in us when we didn't believe in ourselves. They stood by us even when we did wrong & never gave up in our ability to bounce back.
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That job interview you didn’t nail. That person you admire who turned down your friendship. That marriage that didn’t last. That business which failed half way. It’s better to have tried, then forever being robbed off the certainty of knowing - how things could’ve turned out.
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Tahajjud cures all. Night prayers are an opportune time to be intimate with our Creator. And it is even more special in these final nights of Ramadan. May Allah accept our efforts to seek His pleasure, may He grant us healing, and may we attain Lailatul Qadr 🤲.
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We’re all simply trying aren’t we? Trying to be a good father, a good mother, a good spouse. Trying to be a good child to our parents. We’re trying & it’s not easy. We trip & fall sometimes. We mess up & don’t even meet our own expectations. May God help us for trying our best 😓.
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O Allah, please accept our fasting, our solat, our du'as, our zakat, our qiyam, our tilawah of the Quran, & our other ibadahs in this blessed month. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to meet with it again. We hope we have not disappointed you. Please forgive us if we did🤲.
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Be a blessing to others. Make short little du’as for random ppl around us. The cleaner at your workplace, the stranger who offered you a seat on the train, the driver who gave you way, & all of our brave frontliners making sacrifices for the nation.
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It takes a lot for a person to lose faith in love. It would’ve required them to have poured their hearts out for someone they thought was special. Or have had them investing many years of their life into a r’ship that ended up to nothing. So for them, how do they love again?.
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What is causing you to feel worried today?. Let it go. If you feel like you’ve not done enough, then do more - as best as you can. But if you feel like you’ve given your best, then surrender to God, and. Let it go. Trust that whatever’s written for you - will be yours 🤍.
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God has a perfect plan for your life. No matter how rough things are, or how tough things get - learn to trust in His flawless ways, and His perfect timing. And while waiting, know that your prayers can make a big difference. Pray. Wait. Trust.
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Have you ever gotten out of bed in the morning with a heavy chest? Feeling fatigued and unmotivated?. Well perhaps you are tired 😪. Tired of doing, doing, doing. Tired of thinking, stressing, & worrying. Here are some things you can try to help you get over this:.
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My friend, if a lot is on your mind, & if the new week is making you anxious, don’t be nervous. I pray that all your worries will disappear. May all your pain & suffering be healed. No matter how heavy the burden you’re carrying, I pray that you’ll have an AMAZING week ahead 🙌.
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How to wait patiently in God’s timing?. By giving your best every day. By being kind when you feel least like it. By maintaining the faith you had during prayer, even after prayer has long ended. By knowing with certainty that God is doing His work behind the scenes for you 💛.
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Allah heard every prayer. He notices every tear. He witnessed every injustice. He is aware of your heart’s suffering. Never despair of His love and mercy. No matter how hard things get. Stay above the waters, & breathe in hope. For His help is always near.
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Some doors didn’t open because they were not meant for you. And some people left because they represented only a single page 📄 & not an entire book from your life. Some opportunities evaded you because you needed to gain experience before receiving something better. #trustGod.
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Friends, just because you don't feel blessed right now, doesn't mean you're not blessed. Open your heart to the favours right in front of your eyes. Be grateful to God by treating the things and ppl you were blessed with right. Take care of your amanah & be grateful every day💛.
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One of the simplest yet most loving things we could do for a loved one, is to always remember them - in our prayers 🤲🏻. And when you meet those who are dear to you, ppl you greatly respect and admire, ask them for a tiny favour, to remember you in their prayers too 🤍.
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When God's plan is different than yours, learn to say:. "Dear God, You know what I want and desire. But You know what's best for me. No matter how it eventually works out, I trust You - and please help me to remain positive and faithful to You.".
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Some basic rules in life:. Always respect people. Always respect ppl’s time. Always respect ppl’s views. Always respect ppl’s preferences. Always respect ppl’s space. Always respect ppl’s reasons. They may not always make sense to you, because they’re not yours to begin with.
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Sometimes the people who appear the most happiest, are the ones fighting the most fiercest battles, unknown. When touched by the right words, song, or hug, in the right moments, you see them breaking down in a heartbeat. I've seen this far too often. Here's what I learned too:.
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What are your Quran goals for 2022?. To learn how to read? To refresh your skills? To memorise new chapters? To sign up for a class? To teach your kids? To learn and internalise its meanings? To reflect on your relationship with it and apply its teachings?.
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Don’t fall for sweet words. Fall instead for sweet, sincere, and loving efforts.
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“Anak derhaka”.“Rezki tak berkat”.“Nanti anak kau pun derhaka kat kau”. It hits different when the one you crave for approval and validation most keeps cursing you with their words. How do you cope?.
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To the unmarried singles feeling the weight of loneliness:. Remember, your worth isn’t defined by your relationship status. Embrace this time to grow, to learn, and love yourself. Real love, if destined, will find you in its perfect time.
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Crying.is.good.therapy.for.the.heart. When was the last time you cried?.
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Appreciate the people you have in your life. They may not be perfect. They may not be everything you imagined them to be, but they’re there; with you, for you, by your side. Through thick and thin. Good times & tough times. Some people, you just need to thank them - for staying.
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The life of this dunya is never going to be perfect. So the next time you see someone appearing happy, or blessed with something amazing in their life, instead of allowing ill feelings to develop in your heart, remind yourself one thing….
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Ppl often ask, what's the secret to keep going when passion dies, when you’re tired, and when you feel like giving up?. Me: Purpose . - the reason WHY you started, will keep you going all the way.
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Some of us are still grieving from something we lost a long time ago. And it’s OK. I believe everyone should grieve & heal at their own pace. I think part of the reason why we hold onto something from our past so tightly is because we fear something so great won’t happen twice.
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Goodbyes can be a hard. Understandably, it would be painful to accept a separation when it happens. But it may gradually turn out to be a blessing in the end. Perhaps, some things won’t work out for you as much as you want them to, because something better - is coming to you.
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Do it for God. Do it for the right reasons. For reasons you strongly believe in. Guided by your values, and the principles we have been given in our divine scripture and our Prophet’s tradition.
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Whenever I’m feeling down & depleted, I like to tell myself that- better days are coming. I can’t even guarantee if tmrw is coming, let alone if it’s gonna be better. But I do know that my Lord is the Most Gracious & Loving. I believe in better days because of my faith in Him.
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Tonight, if you're feeling like you can't handle your problems anymore, then these words are for you. You have made it this far because you are well-abled. You overcame similar hurdles before in the past. You will rise up to the challenges again. You are stronger than you think.
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Imagine being able to finally forgive the people who hurt you, who destroyed your hopes & dreams, who caused so much damage to your self-esteem. Imagine being able to set yourself free from these burdens of vengeance, hatred, and unforgiveness. Imagine embracing peace again 🤍.
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Some of you tonight may be dealing w a problem that you’re barely able to cope with. You can’t even see a way out. It’s tough to stay strong, & it is tempting to give up. But I believe that our Creator gave it to you - because He knows you’ve got the shoulders to carry it 🫂🖤.
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If you feel like you’ve been holding in a lot lately; suppressing all your emotions, I believe it's a good idea to give yourself some time to cry it out. Let the tears flow, my friend. Tears won’t rust your armour. And crying is how your heart speaks 💛.
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When you feel like you’re not enough, and you feel like giving up, when you feel worthless & left out, try to hang on for just another day. You don’t have to be strong. You just have to keep going - even on your weakest days. Ask God to help you get through another night 🤲.
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Your prayers are answered in ways you probably never even noticed. Ease in traffic, a stress-free day, delays that prevented you from an accident, etc. This is why we should never assume negatively towards our God. He responds in loving ways which you could’ve never anticipated.
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So you’ve been struggling to pray 5 times a day. But don’t let your few missed prayers every now and then give you the impression that there’s no way back for you. God’s love is greater than His wrath. Keep praying. Do the best you can. Whatever happens, NEVER STOP.
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Tonight my friends, do yourself a favour. Stop worrying about the things that are beyond your control. The economy, your job security, your business' longevity. Your exam results, the outcome of your health report, that 7th consecutive job interview. They're ALL beyond you.
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Preparations for a home-based Ramadan:. 1. Mental prep: Understand that a Ramadan w/o a mosque does not mean that you've completely lost your chance to enliven the spirit of what the month means. Home in fact is the foundation of where we "build Islam" in ourselves & our family.
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Why are we so hard on ourselves when we fail?. Is it because we were raised to despise failure? Or we were always made to feel like an outcast in the family when we do? Or is it the fear of being judged by society; that ppl who fail don't deserve respect, honour, & love?.
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Tonight, this msg goes out to all the individuals who have held themselves together quietly during the tough times. For those who kept going even when they really felt like quitting. No matter how broken or tired you may feel today, keep going. Better days will come إن شاء الله.
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Getting lost can be a beautiful experience sometimes. You see places you never would’ve seen. You meet people you never would’ve met. And you appreciate adventures that you never would’ve had. It’s scary, yes. But embrace the moment, & trust God to always bring you back safely🤍.
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No matter how many failures you’ve experienced, or rejections you’ve endured, or how many times you were told that you weren’t good enough, as long as you keep believing in your GIFT, then unexpected doors will fly open for you. God did not bring you here - to leave you here 💝.
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People often ask me, “How do I know if he’s the one? If she’s the one?”. And I always say, “You’ll know it when you see it.” 😉. But it’s true though. It is very likely that you’ll finally find “the one” when you’re not even looking. And fall in love when you’re not even trying.
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It’s tiring to always pretend to be OK. Especially when your problems are seriously affecting you, & eating you up on the inside. In order for you to get well, my friend,.you need to get real. God’s help comes to those who are honest with themselves. Today, remove that mask.
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So you’ve quit drinking now. So you’re dressed more modestly. So you can read the Quran fluently. So you don’t miss prayer anymore. Alhamdulillah. Much to be grateful for. But pls don’t go around looking at others thru eyes of judgement, just bcos they’re not where you are yet.
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You were created purposefully and perfectly the way God meant you to be. So don’t you dare give permission to those who make you feel less than good enough to affect you. Because you are not a mistake. You are not incomplete. You are a rare gem. You’re His masterpiece 💛.
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If you’re lonely. If you feel left out. If friends don’t ask you out. If family doesn’t talk to you. If colleagues don’t involve you. It’s not as bad as you may think. There is blessing in your alone times, to work on something much more important. Go work on YOU, for YOU.
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You’ve gone through a lot. Not many people are aware of the battle scars you keep private. But their knowledge is not critical right now. You endured, & you’ve survived. Tonight, make peace with your broken pieces ❤️🩹.
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Just because a person doesn’t show that they donated - doesn’t mean they never gave. Just because a person doesn’t “check-in” to the mosque - doesn’t mean they didn’t go. Just because a person is not seen at religious events - doesn’t mean they never learn.
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Your plans & dreams may not happen according to your timetable, but trust in God that He will bring them to you in the most perfect timing.
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