I started Healthy Gamer with the sneaking suspicion we could be doing more for youth mental health. Being recognized by
@APApsychiatric
at the
#APAAM23
is an honor. AOE forever 💚
overheard today:
"I don't think of suicide as a sickness or failing of that person. It's the world that's sick. The world is failing. That someone otherwise brilliant with so much to give was broken by the world around them."
First, goosebumps. Then, anger. Now, action.
I'll say it. This takes balls. From top to bottom, to roll something out like this takes a lot of people championing the right thing for the right reasons. And, huge balls.
As part of our growing efforts to support communities on Discord, we're very proud to partner with Crisis Text Line, which provides volunteer Crisis Counselors available 24/7 to help you or a friend through any mental health crisis.
Learn more on the blog:
Let me stop you right there. You are doing a disservice to people who take responsibility for their mental health. We have to stop pathologizing evil in the name of mental health. Understand it, yes, quietly.
But call it what it is.
Evil.
And get it the fuck away from kids.
Having a moment. There is so much positivity in this world, and it's so cool to see it come together in the
@HealthyGamerGG
community. I wish the "grown-ups" could see how we settle our differences and come together to make big things happen.
At the time, the world was upside down and it felt inappropriate to celebrate this honor. Today, as I process our biggest month yet at
@HealthyGamerGG
, I'm profoundly thankful to everyone who has stood behind me. <3
I wanted to share a little good news amidst the heartbreak over the past weeks. These weeks have solidified my belief that when systems fail us, we must mobilize to make things right. The system I have chosen to address is mental health and how it is failing young people.
We are putting together mental health resources for our Ukrainian and Russian community at HG. If you know of something, please drop in the replies. In the meantime, we'll do what we do best - serve the underserved with inclusive, accessible resources. 💙💛
Normally on the stream, we try to help people.
Today, we help Dr. K's hair.
But also we're still trying to help people. Going to be talking about how to take care of yourself, therapy, and more at 12 PM CT.
"Healthy Gamer" was actually supposed to be a book.
We couldn't get an agent to take this seriously in 2019, so
@dr_alokkanojia
started streaming.
As a result this book is better!
So much more evidence, more immersion into the lives of gamers, and more empathy as a parent.
I don’t post often, and this felt like an important milestone to share.
Thread 👇
(tldr: degen gamer becomes psychiatrist, writes a book for parents, is available for preorder)
Even before the pandemic, a teen mental health crisis was emerging. According to a 2019 CDC report, nearly 1 in 5 high school students surveyed said they had “seriously considered killing” themselves.
The origin story for Healthy Gamer is up on
@CNNBusiness
by
@Shannon_Liao
.
This is a humbling moment for us, because your support has done so much good for so many. We won't let y'all down. <3
Today,
@HealthyGamerGG
resources are live in 135 countries.
A single stream was able to fundraise >$500K for Turkey.
Our world will be so different in 10 years. Young leaders will take over and fix this mess created by generations of unaccountability and greed.
So dang proud of our coaching team
@HealthyGamerGG
Healthy Gamer Coaching has driven up to a 26% decrease in anxiety and up to a 40% increase in a sense of control over your life. We're doubling capacity in November.
Y'all.
We're doing this.
It is time! Healthy Gamer Coaching is LIVE!
Work with a Healthy Gamer Coach (trained by Dr. K) to tackle issues like video game addiction, motivation, relationships, and more.
Grab a spot, they’re going fast!
100 MILLION Mental health journeys started from Healthy Gamer content. Yes! You read that right!
That's the power of AOE healing💚
The 2022 Healthy Gamer Impact Report is live!
👇👇👇
Terrorism: “the unlawful use of force and violence against persons or property to intimidate or coerce a government, the civilian population, or any segment thereof, in furtherance of political or social objectives” (28 C.F.R. Section 0.85).
I’m either exhausted because of my outrage or outraged by how how exhausting these last 12 months have been. Enough. Young people need to get to work and take over. Out with the old.
Never in my life did I think I would be a "global leader". In the grand scheme of things, I'm really not. Yet, we have clients in 110 countries and 17 territories. Global events are something I have to think about constantly:
- Currency
- Scope
- Cultural literacy
Every week, I’m more proud than the last. Of the team
@HealthyGamerGG
, of my man
@dr_alokkanojia
, and of this incredible community. Can’t wait to see this heal happen.
Y'all. Starting next Friday, we will be able to help 1,200+ people through Healthy Gamer Coaching!
Waitlist is open, add your name to work with a coach personally trained by Dr. K.
S/o to everyone who has supported. Y'all are making it possible. <3
Thank you
@Surgeon_General
for highlighting the unique and dire mental health crisis young people are going through. Mental health is fundamentally a labor problem, and I’m so proud of the
@HealthyGamerGG
team for our impact. Agree that business and policy need to come together.
I’m going to continue in the spirit of friendship. We shouldn’t go through this life so disconnected from each other. Win or lose, I will be here if you need me and do my part in helping people in their pursuit of happiness. Despite our flaws, I love this country.
If GoFundMe campaigns to cover medical bills wasn’t bad enough, now it’s crowdsourcing where to get an ICU bed. When do we admit it’s broken and blow the whole thing up?
Mods, coaches, streamers, Discorders, viewers, LSFers, anyone who has reached out and said “this is the best thing on the Internet” or thought their act of kindness on the internet could turn someone’s life around, this is for you.
Cheers 🥂
#aoehealing
Small acts of kindness and generosity is sometimes all we can do. If you can do more, please do. Think about your voice, your talent, and your network. What can you do to make the world a little bit better today?
Just had a conversation with a CEO who leads a company with a $1B market cap. He founded the company 5 years ago and still checks the Twitter DM's himself. At a time when leaders are so unaccountable to their constituencies, this blows me away.
Spent the afternoon meeting with people for our first group coaching sessions. More convinced than ever that
@HealthyGamerGG
is the way mental health should be.
If you want to know why the state of mental health is so bad, just follow the money.
Government grants, nope.
Venture capital, yes.
Result: "Users" on apps not care.
Join me,
@pokimanelol
,
@hasanthehun
, & more on Twitch TONIGHT as we help folks make a voting plan at and officially declare orange sus on Among Us 🍊
Tune in 9pm tonight at
Here’s a peak into all that it takes to create a single module for Dr. K’s Guide.
First and foremost, we look to our audience to see what you guys are struggling with, and how we can even begin to conceptualize those topics. (🧵 1/10)
.
@HealthyGamerGG
has joined forces with
@EvilGeniuses
to support its Dota 2 team.
As a result, the platform's Co-founder and President, Dr. Alok Kanojia, will act as the team's Mindset and Performance coach for The International 10.
Read:
I'm often counseled to be *aware* and *notice* my emotions. This is what anger feels like:
- Ears get warm
- Head starts pounding loudly
- Eyes start blurring
- Breathing slows dramatically
- Eyes get hot
At which point, step away from the keyboard.
My team at
@HealthyGamerGG
is fired up to fight for young people on all fronts.
Research
Advocacy
Services
Education
Community
Training
Industry Partnerships
Policy
Can’t wait to announce all we’re up to. 💚💚💚
Wild few weeks. Thank you so much to everyone who cares enough to offer your opinion on how we can do things better. I'm always listening, and our team is always looking for ways to build more of what you want in the way you want it. xx KK
My husband is at the most prestigious psychiatric conference in the world championing the mental health needs of young people. I started a nonprofit to further advance this mission. I’m doubling the capacity of our mental health coaching service.
In my culture, we always remember our gurus. Thank you for the knowledge, the support, and the faith in me. It's made a world of difference in me, and now I and the Healthy Gamer team (about 20 of us!) are going to make a difference in the world. 🙏🏽
I’ll go:
- you don’t need venture funding
- stay true to your mission, and your mental will follow
- your team is everything
- if you’re in it for the money, you are more likely to fail (and waste a LOT of money in the process)
- there is true joy in creating something
What no-one tells you about starting a startup:
- You most likely won't make life changing money
- Your mental health is always at risk
- You don't need to create the next Facebook
- You'll fail forward
- You are constantly getting rejected
- It's a beautiful ride
Every aspect of your life shouldn't feel like a struggle. Even if it is. We should be empowering people to tackle life's many challenges not just with tools and "how-tos", but with mindset.
In the
@HealthyGamerGG
beta, we trained 12 coaches to work with clients for 8 weeks. The beta clients showed a decrease in qualities of depression (18.7%), anxiety (15.5%), and negative effects of gaming (18.92%). They also showed had an increase (34.2%) in a sense of purpose.
And kudos to
@CrisisTextLine
of course! I love seeing y'all come more into where the conversations are happening to make it easier for people to access that support.
2 - More labor diversity and better incentives.
I’ve said this a thousand times and will say it again. Mental health is a labor problem. We need more entry level support in the form of coaching and peers. They are affordable and effective.
3 - Reallocate mental health funding to young people as a whole instead of niche communities. Mental health is getting worse in urban and rural areas. White and people of color. Affluent and poor. Quit studying subgroups and look at the big picture.
And yet it’s never enough. How do you support a generation left so utterly strapped for any meaningful, relevant…anything? What mental health service could possibly help a generation that practices active shooter drills?
Every time I interview someone now, I think “is this what the future of mental health needs”? Passion, yes. Smart, yes. Fearless, yes. Excited to take the
@HealthyGamerGG
team to Austin next week for our first all-company retreat 💚
God be with those 15 families. I feel like mankind has utterly and totally failed them. And yet, maybe tomorrow, we’ll find the wherewithal to try and try again.
We hit 800K subs on YouTube today so we decided to let you in on Dr K’s real hair care secret…
But for real, TYSM for the support <3 1M Healthy Gamers soon.
We honestly thought we wouldn't raise more than a few thousand for our coaching program. The fact that we raised $11,693.48 today alone is incredible.
Thank you to everyone who contributed to the fundraiser. We're really gonna make the Healthy Gamer coaching a reality.
1 - More subclinical solutions
Why are we willing to wait for things to get this bad before we do anything? We need education and community around mental health that is ENGAGING. Hopeful. Fun.
A physician colleague's insurance will not cover her anti-nausea medicine (Zofran/ondansetron) for her CHEMO. It is $280.40 cash for 30 pills at Walgreen's. I logged into a physician/hospital medical supply company and can buy 30 pills for $3.30. That's an 8500% markup. 1/
We are now in live pre-release with 3,000+ potential clients who have been on a waitlist since as far back as October 2019. During May, we raised $100K+ from over 800 people through Twitch donations to create this coaching platform.
Healthy Gamer Coaching release is tomorrow!
22 coaches who trained with Dr. K for 10 weeks will be ready to help you build the life you want. Starting at just $24 (yep!) per week.
First dibs go to people who have signed up here 👇
2019: Mental health is stigmatizing, we need awareness!
2020: Pandemic. We are AWARE.
2021: Mental health crisis! Insurers add benefits under immense pressure (and windfall profits).
2022: Youth mental health crisis!
See what we did there? We never fail to fail young people.