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mom of teens and a toddler. lover of Halloween & creepy things. 🐝 she/her happily partnered 💜 fight for human rights #freepalestine 🇵🇸
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I asked my divorce attorney for the final invoice I owed her.
3404 dollars and change
Well, I told her I’d start to like making payments and this is what this woman sent me. I cried.
I would have never gotten through that divorce without her. She helped save me. 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
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PROUD MOM MOMENT: my soon to be 14 yr old is killing it in school & is just all around a great kid BUT lately I’ve been letting him go to the park w friends after school until dark & then goes to my friends until I can get him after work. Unprompted he updates me 1/3
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on his whereabouts/who he’s with and what he plans to do next. He makes sure he’s at my friends prior to dark & is handling teen freedom really well! I’m just so proud of the man he’s becoming. He knows my anxiety about him being out after dark and makes sure to call me 2/3
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Right before it starts to get dark to tell me who he’s with and that he’s heading to my friends etc. like I’m just blown away at how well he’s respecting our rules and doing it unprompted & being so open and honest about things that may transpire. I love this for us 3/3
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Wow didn’t expect this lol
I love our solo thurs/fri drives home. We’ve got about 35 minutes of just us time. We play the music low and just talk about whatever comes out of his mouth.
When teens aren’t fearful they tell you all the things & you’re able to guide them better.
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Wow I did not expect to wake up to this! She really was such a kick ass lawyer and provided me w a sliding payment scale, which made her semi-affordable. I’m currently in school for criminal justice. I plan on being a lawyer and do things exactly like this.
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Years later he still makes videos about me on tiktok and has some dig at me in his bio, but I am free. I am in love with the life I have created and found in these past years. I am lucky to have had her and am lucky to have escaped. Thank you everyone for all the love. 🫶🏻
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I’ve decided to attempt to try and make some TikTok’s about parenting, leaving my abuser, daddy issues and anything else I feel like just babbling about. I don’t have any up now but plan to within a week or so. Follow me on TikTok if you’d be so kind @ leynaloons
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Not even a day ago my abuser (left 2021) posted a 4 minute video about how I’m a horrible mom & he can’t wait for the kids to hate me. I know he’s projecting & don’t let it get to me but getting all this love and praise about a positive while he gets 0 likes on hit hate is karma
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@lithiumgardenia
He’s never given me a reason not to trust him and makes sure I am informed on what he’s going etc. he’s open and honest with me about everything and knows I won’t punish him for being truthful. We will just have discussions about safety and what not.
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I believe this is my karma for the way I handled my divorce. He trashed me online via Twitter, tiktok, Facebook and YouTube the entire time. Filed for his cat back before the kids, just did anything he could to be an ass. & throughout the whole thing I just sent him love &light
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@mistervvs_
She’s no longer privately practicing otherwise I would. She’s now working for the state and aspires to become a judge.
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telling my husband I need some help with the kids ON THE WEEKENDS and asking him to pick up after himself and i get BLOCKED! we are married, have two kids, a car and apartment but he blocked me because I was telling him I needed help lmao MEN ARE FUCKING TRASH THE WHOLE LOT OF EM
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“Gentle parenting” is legit just treating your kid like a whole ass person and not thinking of them as less than you. JUST EXPLAIN SHIT!
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@tinaaabean_
She’s such an amazing person. Her story and my past is the reason I want to be a lawyer.
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Working as a mom is work itself You gotta find a sitter you trust, bring the child/ren, pack bags, crying goodbyes, the anxiety on the way to and at work and then rush back to get your babies… never mind actually having to work & then just put that on repeat! Being a mom is hard
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I attempted to leave my abuser 7 times.
I didn’t leave because I mustered up the strength somehow. I left because he tried to attack me while I was breastfeeding. I had to throw my baby on to the floor away from me so he wouldn’t hurt her in the process of getting to me 1/7
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Well, I can finally announce it. It’s official. We bought a house! I never thought I’d be able to own a house, never mind this year! Merry Christmas to us!
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@Eli_and_mybros
I love that. My goal is to have this kind of trust and communication so when difficult teen experiences come up. I don’t want him to ever have to hide part of himself or his life from me. I want to be able to properly help him through anything and everything. That’s my baby.
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Ya know what I think about often… the 1st time my abuser strangled me unconscious, I called my first ex husband (hadn’t talked in years) @ 3 am crying, saying I locked myself in the bathroom & what had happened & this mofo was like addy? & showed up before the damn cops1/?
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Just hit my TEN YEAR MARK!!!
Three days before New Years my mama looked at me and said, “I don’t know what you’re doing but if you don’t stop I’m taking custody of k”! Three days later I quit heroin cold turkey. Im so thankful that I made it out! Miss those that didn’t. 🫶🏻
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I am not okay. Last night bee ray (
@fliplus2
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@dayseeker
show like we had planned. She was so excited I miss her
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DO NOT POST OTHER PEOPLES CHILDREN WITHOUT THEIR CONSENT. WTF.
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Please do not comment or message him etc. that was not my intention, I’d just liked the disparaging videos about me to not exist anymore 🫶🏻 I appreciate you all.
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Just worry about giving your children a good childhood. Don’t worry about the people that never ask about them, never see them, never show interest in them. They don’t matter but your children do.
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THE TEENAGERS HAVE THEIR OWN FLOOR WITH A BATHROOM, 2 BEDROOMS, A LIVING ROOM & A DECK.
Well, I can finally announce it. It’s official. We bought a house! I never thought I’d be able to own a house, never mind this year! Merry Christmas to us!
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I always dreamt of being a mom like miss honey from Matilda. Nothing but happiness and love for my babies & I’ve finally accomplished it. Singing and dancing the morning away with my daughter. I’m so grateful.
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@tywysogesddirym
That’s my goal. I just wanna be a safe space for him and anyone else that needs one. So many teens are controlled instead of trusted and respected.
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I threw a birthday party for Joe and he stopped after cake to thank me and ask me to marry him :) we are officially engaged!
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When blueys mom said “sometimes moms just need twenty minutes” I felt that
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Y’all ragging on all the frozen food but teenagers exist. I’m not cooking my teens 2628 meals a fucking day dude. They can grab something frozen for second and third dinner after I already cooked.
What’s the first thing that comes to mind when you see this refrigerator 😂
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Now years later, he’s sober & back to being one of my best friends & a great dad. Does whatever he can for his son & us. I’m so lucky to have him in my life again. We have been best friends since I was 12 (except the 7 or so years he was battling his demons). 3/3
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This girl I went to hs with was at a bday party today. Vaccines came up and she said, “I don’t give my kids the covid or flu vaccine because it has a tiny bit of Alzheimer’s & autism in it and over time that will build up in their bodies”. What? 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
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You’re laughing? A handful of billionaires paid $250k to go to the bottom of the ocean in a tin can maneuvered by a PS2 controller so they could look at the graves of people too poor to escape the Titanic on a screen in like 40p and you’re laughing?
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Being a boy mom is expensive. I just had to buy a dozen roses & chocolates for his girlfriend at school 🥰
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@gabariskufilan
@maharaj_nisha
I was six when I was first abused. Idk how my clothes had anything to do with it.
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He hadn’t been a part of his kids life due to his drug issues in forever & we never talked… but when I called & said I needed him he was there no questions asked. He’s always been there even when he was an absent father (paying child support, sending extra when possible) etc 2/?
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He had attacked me multiple times prior. He had strangled me unconscious twice, elbowed me in the face, pushed me through a glass door and much more. Not to mention the mental abuse I went through daily. But fuck with my kids? Show disregard for their well-being? Fuck you im 2/7
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Today a year ago my “husband” was already a six pack deep. Today, I just made breakfast for my kids, got an awesome squish and will be setting out to see my mother for the day. Looking back I’m so glad I’m sober. I’m so glad I left. I’m so glad we are safe.
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That I did. Not even three years later & I’ve met the love of my life, am thriving in school & own a home with my wonderful extended family. I couldn’t be happier with my life and how it turned out. I’m so lucky I left when I did. I’m so lucky I even made it out alive 4/7
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So everyone’s house is trashed? Let’s all take a deep breath and remember our houses are a mess because we have family and money to provide them with nice things. Now do a dab and do the dishes.
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I knew that day I left that I’d never return. That was the final straw. I’m so glad I left. I’m so glad I stayed away. It was so scary. Being alone for the first time in almost a decade. Having no money, no supports within driving distance But I managed to do it & I’m so happy3/7
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Not me crying at bluey when the mom is told by a friend that has 8 kids that she’s doing a great job. To all my mamas out there. Y’all are doing an amazing job… even on the days it feels like you aren’t.
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I got my Pete Davison after having to deal with a Kayne and it’s fucking awesome.
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@lithiumgardenia
I’m so sorry that you weren’t trusted and respected as your own capable person as a teen.
My mom was amazing but didn’t make it easy to talk/ask questions etc. so I wanted to make sure he never felt like he couldn’t talk to me about something. I just want him safe.
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FYI I WILL NEVER LEAVE OR RUN AWAY W/O MY MOTHER KNOWING. I WILL NEVER LEAVE MY CHILDREN.
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I guess the point of this is to show others that it can take what seems like forever to break that cycle of abuse but once you walk away for the last time well, that my friend is when life gets beautiful. It will hurt like hell for a while but not as bad as the constant abuse 5/7
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@TycunaTV
Wow thank you so very much. I’m overwhelmed with the kindness I’ve received lately.
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@secondacctwhit
Ummm RO isn’t this a violation? Good job protecting yourself and kids and leaving.
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You’ll never make someone change that doesn’t want to change. You’ll never make someone care when they don’t. Not everyone can love and handle life the way you can & that’s okay. Cut the cord and let them be. You’ll be better off not holding that anger and sadness in your heart.
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In 38 days I will hit a decade of being clean off heroin! I’m so proud of myself for making it out of that dark place.
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I was 12 years old when I started my period… did that make me an adult? Yikes. Someone put this guy on a list.
@logosaetos
@orchi_man
@AngelaBelcamino
@kirtipatelmd
@MattWalshBlog
If she menstruates, she's an adult. Kids don't menstruate.
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WE SIGNED A DIVORCE AGREEMENT TODAY!!! IM FINALLY FREE!!!
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Four babies lost their mama and I cannot wrap my head around it. You were so loved sweetheart. So very loved. My heart is broken for your babies.
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Can anyone else hear bubbles in a can of soda or the humming of appliances? Why can I hear a million sounds?
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Kaiden said he needed Valentine’s Day stuff for this girl. This boy melts my heart. He got her 12 roses, a box of chocolates and then was like ”oh yeah and she mentioned her Lip gloss was getting low can we get her some” like yes boy pay attention to that little stuff. 1/2
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I’m so tired of coming home to my house trashed when the sitter watches my kids. I don’t expect it to be immaculate but it should be as clean as I left it. Ugh I know my kids are safe with her but I just came back home to raspberries smooshed into my white fucking carpet. SMH
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I love when people bitch about their significant other and someone’s like “I would leave so fast”, like really Karen, you would throw away a whole ass family because a bad day or take on something. Sounds mature 🤷🏼♀️
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I was going to attempt to get my story out there in chronological order but unfortunately due to the trauma that’s damn near impossible, so when something pops into my mind I’ll be sharing. Again, if he wanted to be talked about in a better light he should have acted accordingly7
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MY BOYFRIEND GOT ME A MAGIC WAND FOR CHRISTMAS!!!!! He understood the assignment 🥵🥵🥵🥵
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When you block him on everything so he messages you on life360… thanks for reminding me I forgot to turn my location off.
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So after my ex-husband told me he’s got no clothes or warm clothes for that matter, I felt freaking horrible. I had no idea or I would have been thrifting for him. Between cyber Monday deals and my friend thirfting two little bags of clothes he will be set and all for about 200
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I’m allowed to be angry at my trauma. I’m allowed to be angry about my triggers. I’m allowed to be angry. I’m trying to heal but don’t act like it’s out of line for me to be angry. My feelings are valid, your opinion on my trauma isn’t.
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Going to start using my private again since my ex is a stalker. Interact with this post if you wanna be added.
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I am safe. I got a restraining order. It’s been served and he is out of the household AND they gave me full custody of Persephone. We go to court on 10/22. Please do not say anything to him, do not comment on his page etc as I don’t want him to try to use that as me violating.
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I never thought I’d be able to say that my partner and my first ex husband (Kaiden’s dad) would be the best of friends but here we are! It makes me so happy that they have quickly became besties. It makes life so simple and easy. We are so lucky to have such a big loving family.
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My inbox is always ALWAYS open & I will do my best to find you resources in your area. There’s hope. You will make it out one day and one day you’ll heal and life will be beautiful again. I promise. 6/7
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Oof your god tried to kill you because you said he wasn’t real. Not a god I’d want to worship tbh.
Just yesterday I finally made the decision to say god isn’t real …. I let it come out my mouth 3 times yesterday. Not even a hour later I was hit by a older man that passed out & had a heart attack while driving . I could have died but I didn’t . That was my sign from god
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Drove 30 minutes to the girl that I’m talking to‘s work to bring her stuff for lunch and make her feel special and now I’m driving from there an hour to my partner‘s work to do the same for him. So worth it to see their smiles when I randomly show up.
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My step-sister posted this… my stepbrother has been missing for over a year. He’s known to live in off the land and bounce around the country but he usually checks in with his kids & hasn’t since 12/2019! Please share this. His name is Jason and he’s an artist. PLEASE SHARE!!
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Girls who dipped their fingers into candle wax are into bdsm now.
😘
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As long as I’ll live I will NEVER EVER change my avi here. That was my avi when she was still with us so it remains.
Idk if it’s healthy but I still have our conversation pinned and sometimes when my ex pisses me off I re-read her rants about him. I can still hear her voice.
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I hate a “could never be me” bitch, like yes, yes it could be. Usually you don’t know until it’s too late. No one grows up wanting to be in an abusive relationship.
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I cannot wait for my mom’ wedding! We are going to look so cute!!!
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Why do men try to get out of child support or lower payments? Like cool, you wanna screw your kid out of resources out of spite for me… fuck off. Men will do 0% of the emotional or mental work of raising kids and think you should they should pay the minimum?!? Sir, odd “flex”.
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6 months he hasn’t seen her and today he finally filed for visitation. Once he realized I wasn’t coming back and he has no power over me, now all of a sudden he wants to see his kid. 🙄
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just a reminder
you’re allowed to talk about what they did to you, and how it hurt you.
and it doesn’t matter how they feel about you talking about it
because if they wanted people to think they were nicer, they should’ve been nicer.
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@RosaBuono
I cried like a baby. That just made me able to make sure my kids have a wonderful Christmas! I still plan on paying her in full once I start practicing.
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Please know I don’t believe in god at all so when you give credit to him for MY hard work it’s pretty fucking insulting. I know you mean well but not everyone believes in your god. Why is it everyone must respect your god but you don’t have to respect atheists or satanists?
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I couldn’t just sit here & not say something. We are allowed contact pertaining to the children, so this isn’t against the rules. I doubt he will even open it because he’s been ignoring me since I stood up for myself. But my baby is hurting & it’s fucked up.
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“I’m not into girls with colored hair” 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 and I’m not into men with opinions.
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When the mom with eight kids tells blueys mom she’s doing great… yeah I cry every time
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I don’t understand how any mother can claim to be a good one while feeding their child formula… real moms exclusively feed their children strawberries and cream dr. pepper smh
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This man just sent me 52 dollars towards what I paid… the karma you put out will come back to you 🫶🏻 thank you so very much for your kindness.
@messydepressy6
hi if you drop your venmo I’d be happy to share in the cost of what you sent her
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Not my mom just texting saying her and my step-dad are planning on upgrading almost ALL their furniture & getting new tvs… so we can have everything.
My mom’s stuff is so nice & stuff I can’t afford rn or the foreseeable future. I’m so fucking thankful. Holy shit.
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They found my abuser not guilty on all charges. That changes nothing about today. I am proud of myself for my strength to testify against him. I know my truth and I don’t care wtf anyone else thinks.
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Decided to post one picture of her because how could I not.
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Do I need this couch for my new house or do I need this couch for my new house?
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Of closed. And my credit score just went up 29 points because they accepted my claim and now both cards are off of my credit report. Like 3k that I just don’t have to pay back. I love this for me.
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Today marks six months away from my abuser. Six months to heal. Six months of laughter and love. Six months of being free.
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I still can’t believe he asked me to be his wife! 🥳🎊🫶🏻🥲
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